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Non Physical Attributes

October 18 2018

Off the back of XantheaHunters forum topic on ‘What’s your type’ where it was asked what makes your head turn I was thinking about those non physical attributes that a person. lol The ones that make us feel good or turned on or aroused or wanting to rip our clothes off.... Attraction starts with physical but then needs some more substance behind it I believe to really get to the bottom of base raw sexual desire and intensity .... This may be a bit trickier I’m not sure but be interesting to see what non physical attributes set people apart. For me, making me laugh is a great start... so a sense of humour is always appreciated - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    that ask things and listens about yourself and partner ,showing genuine interest instead of at every chance ,talking about themselves and themselves some more someone who makes you feel at ease and doesn’t correct you or over think every word you say , making you nervous and on edge about everything mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Of déjà vu.... *fart* Maybe it was just gas... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I love banter and if someone can make me laugh they will get my attention 😊

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Is sexy ... Not the bordering cocky arrogant heads up own ass confidence but the subtle confidence that wins you over without realising you’ve been flirted with and have been won over til it’s too late - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You’re right - a contributor to a conversation that doesn’t need to have the limelight on them all the time .. people who don’t do the look at me all the time... people who give to others as much as they want to get from others.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    When I receive a text or flirt I always read the bio and look at their pic..... goes without saying guys..... pics are a minimum those who don’t have an image... probably shouldn’t be here! I am aroused by images, confidence, humour, creativity and the way a person writes.... that’s a big turn on for me! I do believe some people could do so much better here with good creative images.... it’s called marketing! We are all marketing whether we like to think it or not and current images are the bomb! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Bazingal' I love banter and if someone can make me laugh they will get my attention 😊 Re. Sense of humour? I love and value it too but do you ever think that if someone makes you laugh too much it can venture into a more of a friend zone type thing? What do others think? Its difficult to pin point the exact qualities but these are a few I value. Someone who is quite open and not guarded about his emotion or thoughts. So he doesn't feel afraid to say what he feels. Someone with a curiosity about life. Usually these type of people stimulate me mentally and make me see things in a different way. Thats attractive and a turn on, especially when combined with a certain cheekiness. I like a man that will tease me . Having said that I have ripped the clothes off a man who hardly said anything to me because he looked and smelt nice so.....maybe its a time and place thing. Or pheromones.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Omg that can’t control the way your body reacts to someone is an amazing thing.. With regards to humour being too much and verging on moving into the friend zone I think it depends on the context of the humour and on what we as individuals respond to. Laughter can break the ice, establish comfort, elicit a normal human day to day response which can help alleviate nerves and assist in relaxing nerves. A constant joker on the other hand who only has humour to rely on probably won’t get very far in the I want to get you naked stakes... however it is all dependent on what we as individuals seek and need at that particular point in time. Ooh and smell... love a good smelling man.... and woman... and ones that if you are meeting have put some thought into what they are wearing. Not necessarily to dress to impress me but to dress to make themselves feel good and sexy - because that vibe comes across loud and clear... if you feel sexy and confident you show sexy and confident to others... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    comedian ,used to be my permant residency ,fine line between being funny likeable and the funny guy who always makes you feel conftable who always makes you laugh ,who makes a great freind ,nope sorry, i want to fuck you more than make you laugh but it’s my best skill that just creeps out of the bloody box no matter how much i try to kerb it ,,ummm sorry ladies , don’t misinterpret my intention of making you laugh ,honestly i want to make you laugh so we can have ,sex god damn it ,lol mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Bazingal, If a woman smiles at me THAT way, I will be STANDING at attention let me tell you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Redmustang, Losing control makes a man: a. Nervous and b. Triggers the hunting and devour instinct

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  • egr2please69

    egr2please69

    7 years ago

    I look for ladies who have that kind of smile that has you thinking i want to know more. Its that door opener to a conversation that flows so easily, It engages my brain and unless i stop myself could go on and on. Its the same kind of feeling i get with ladies who actually realise who they are but are also aware of who they are around. They stand tall without being up themselves or over the top, not the look at me look at me types, qualities i appreciate in anyone really. Like others have said, must have a sense of humour and be able to laugh at themselves. The heart of gold, heart on my sleeve type of open ladies as that's who i try to be myself. To me these things are a big start towards wanting to find out more about a lady and see how it develops 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Well he’d best learn to get over his nerves and handle a fiery passionate women who doesn’t hold back - the devouring will depend on his hunting skills 😉 only a good hunter gets to enjoy the spoils of their hunt - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • usrightnow_Again

    usrightnow_Again

    7 years ago

    Oh, well there you go. Just posted in that other thread and covered maybe a little of that too. Good tandem thread. For me, a woman who is Intelligent, interesting and capable of well rounded conversation. Able to discuss anything, music, film, news, politics, (did I say that out loud?), history, whatever. I like it when women are open, honest, as I will be too, both being honest and vulnerable tends to lead to deeper discussion. A sense of humour, someone who understands sarcasm and laughs at my self-deprecating evaluations. Someone calm, quiet perhaps, although the latter certainly doesn't describe the delightful Mrs. urn. .A quiet confidence too. Intuitive. Kind. If I think of more, I'll pop back in. Mr. urn. .

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  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    Respectful Accountable Curious Comfortable in their own skin Open to different ideas and people Not afraid of expressing thoughts and emotions Honest Can laugh with me, and at me 😁 Self aware

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That can keep their emotions on an fwb level. You think it's hard finding a unicorn?Nah, they are easy to find Men are so much easier to please if you can avoid stepping in their bullshit. Nice to see you back Anti

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And I like my man with his bravery, his brain, and his heart as we wonder down our yellow brick road of life. Peachy

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Chat. Conversation that is free flowing, interesting funny, cheeky without being rude or desperate.Open and honest that gives the other an insight. The kind where you look at the time and say....Wow, have we been talking for this long.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A healthy ego.... Because with an in check ego, the possibilities are endless to the banter, the crass, the inappropriate etc.... It even helps to soothe insecurity.... Everything else to me is superficial.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    A sapiosexual... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Anyone who can laugh at themselves & give as good as they get, leaves an impression. A bit of fiery honesty, or passion with a cheeky side is just right 👌 - Posted from rhpmobile

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