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Nude beach ediquet
March 07 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
I go to a nude beach to enjoy the sun sand and water. Not to be picked up.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Ummmm, neither. I like the nude beach to relax in the sun amd enjoy the beach and freedom, not to be hit on.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Most people go to the beach to relax and wind down. From my point of view, if a man did that to me, it would depend on a few things. 1. If I liked what I saw and if I wanted to chat with him further, I would give a wink, smile or something back. However, it does not mean I am there for their entertainment. I'm there for me. 2. If their behaviour was like a thirsty beast or creepy in any way, its a no way! 3. As for leaving your number, it is kinda pushy, especially if they didn't ask for it. Wait till they ask. 4. I have been followed up to my vehicle from the beach and had a man be persistent in engaging conversation with me. I noticed he had been watching and circulating me all day. It got to the point where I had to say to him, "I am not interested, now please give me my privacy and piss off". I made sure I was loud enough that others in the car park could hear me. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have been a nudist for a long time and being nude at a nudist area was all about just that. Being sexual was frowned on and not what being at a nudist area was about. I see on RHP many comments like the above and worse, about wanting to be dogging and sexual acts and see why nudists often thought of as weird. I agree with the girls Just because you enjoy the sun and being nude has nothing to do with you wanting sex or to be hit on. Stop destroying nudism.
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Nude beaches are Not places to wank, stalk, harass, attempt to pick up and generally behave in a lewd sexual manner. Sadly the meerkats that frequent nude beaches think that it is acceptable. OP, why did you go to a nude beach ? What were you hoping to gain ? A suntan or a blowjob ?
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Assumptions And just because a couple are at a nude beach does not mean that they are swingers nor that they are open to picking up a guy. Do you walk over to a couple in a bar / restaurant / supermarket / clothed beach and try to pick them up? Why should things be any different at a nude beach. Does nudity / naturism = invitation to engage in lewd & promiscuous sexual acts ? Most genuine naturists will say NO !!
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beachlovers76
7 years ago
We go to the beach to relax and forget about life for a while.So sick of all the guys surrounding us and trying to get in on the action (even when there is none).Please just be respectful and believe us if we or anyone else is eyeing you of you can bet we will make the move.
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RHP User
7 years ago
People will look at you at nudist beaches, that to me is entirely normal behavior and certainly does not mean they are ''up for it''. Some people will full-on perve at you at a nudist beach - whilst flattering I find it also a bit lacking in style. It still, however, does not mean that those doing the perving are up for it. The couple may well have been admiring your hotness (hard to tell if that is the case by your profile pic) - I would treat that as complimentary and nothing more. I am sure if they were interested in you in any sexual way, they would be the one approaching you. I may be accused of hypocrisy by some on here, as I have expressed my approval of those that worship at the Temple Of The Dog at nudist beaches in forums past, but I have never taken any repeated looks or perving as some kind of invite and have certainly never approached couples based solely on them looking at me. Couples can strike up conversations - and I often wonder why people are often so stuffy and averse to having a yack at nudist beaches - but 99% of the time people are just being friendly. OP you haven't told us how your offer went over - were they accepting, or did they tell you to bugger off?
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hottjohn
7 years ago
Wow didn't expect all that I was just at beach being nude having a swim an not circling around others like crows No I don't ask the couple in any way so no result Was just asking others from previous expiences if anyone has been the saker or the asked Maybe I read this couple wrong but when a couple shift nearer a single guy an bothmore than review them selves I'm unsure Another is HOwmany while at nudist beach tease guys suppose question for ladies
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RHP User
7 years ago
Chatting to someone at a nude beach is fine. Having a guy come into your shelter tent ( we were having a picnic) and ask to play isnt. If you are being respectful and friendly then I dont see a problem. But to be honest, most guys think that couples going to the nudist beach must be looking for a third. Not so.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hot John I neither tease nor ask to be stalked You are quite creepy Again being nude is about enjoying the sun sand and surf Go to a strip club or a swingers party You are the reason many single girls can no longer go to a nudist beach. The last time I went with a girlfriend Does that mean two naked women are teasing you? Or is it simply two women enjoying the freedom of being naked in the sun. So frustrating to hear this type of talk
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your comments are almost like that woman deserved the wolf whistle for wearing that. I am honestly gobsmacked at your comments especially on international woman’s day
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hottjohn
7 years ago
Sorry you all take it that way I wasn't meaning to degrade anyone at all an sorry if you've taken it that way As I said I was at beach to have a swim an a little sun not one that creep around the dunes or kept shifting around I thought it was a simple question if I was at a bar an a couple kept looking me up an an smiled I'd probably move closer an engage chat so because we all nude at beach is it any different Am to the teasing as a guy I've had several couples both the male an female are teasing if you know what I mean an I'm not saying if two ladies are together they are looking for a threesome I'd more think they their to protect each other from the real pervs
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Hot John You wrote “ Another is HOwmany while at nudist beach tease guys suppose question for ladies“ The problem with that kind of thinking is that it can quickly result in an unpleasant situation. Like the rapist believing that the woman he raped “teased” him by the mere fact she was wearing a mini skirt ?? So if you are on a nude beach and a woman / couple look at you (the lone male) they are teasing you / interested in you ? Clearly you have no clue.
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hottjohn
7 years ago
Might has some clue if a couple looking at me an playing with each other descretly in my full view I'd thing the either teasing or putting a show on your call I'm not saying if they are nude an look at you it's a nude beach I'm sure everyone has a bit of a look around
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m quite often at the nude beach in summer, getting hit on is half The fun and I’ve had many a fun time there. U can normally tell from a distance if someone is not interested, I’ve been hit on a few Times and said no, and the person has walked away without causing grief..
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
No Hotjohn, just no dude
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hottjohn
7 years ago
Thanks Kelly finally someone sees from my side Can I ask do you ever tease any at beach
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
What is your definition of teasing, at a beach? Ms Foxy
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dianet
7 years ago
I enjoy a nude beach for freedom, but also in the right mood and situation I'll play if I'm there with a FWB. But we don't "tease" anyone, we will always initiate. If there is a guy/guys who are watching us, and we like them, my play partner would call them over with a wave or hand gesture, and it's good fun. If someone we didn't invite and didn't like, came closer and tried to get involved, we say, sorry mate no. So no teasing, just clear communication.
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hottjohn
7 years ago
Well foxy have had some ladies open legs facing me wide open an some even play with themselves so think that is teasing with some eye contact
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
That's ok. I would not call that "teasing" as such. If Meerkats can play up in the sand dunes, I'm sure women can play with their pink clams, if they want too. 😜 Ms Foxy
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hottjohn
7 years ago
Yes they can an have no problem with them doing so Is it something you ever do Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Good on you HotJohn. Not creepy at all. Were you in the bushes wanking, no. Did you go and sit 2 metres away, no. We’re you pushy, no. How on Earth can asking someone for a drink be compared with rape? Don’t let these forum regulars put you down. Keep on trying. I’ve met more than a hundred people on the beach that I’ve had awesome sex with. I’m no pest. I say hello and if they’re not interested you will know. I ask the trolls if it’s ok for a coulple to approach a couple. Btw, I get hit on by gays every time I go to the beach and never be rude or annoyed but if they follow me around and wank behind me then I tell them to go away.
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