sweetgem

sweetgem

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One last dressing up

April 25 2016

Since we have done the threads on headstones description; what songs to play at funerals; and what would we like people to say about us after we passed, etc. I think it's time to share ideas of what clothes would you like to be dressed in for one last time 😜 I have this unexplainable love for stripes on clothing and have half a wardrobe full of stripey clothes 😛 Therefore, I would get an 80%-see through long dress with stripes pattern across my chest, and between my lower waist and at the top of my thighs, made in red colour before I pass and put it in my will that I must be dressed in that dress when I'm done on this earth. I also want my hair braid to one side (I'm sure my hair would be long enough by the time my time is up 😝) with only light makeup on. That way, I would still maintain my sweet, delicate and pretty looks with a touch of sexiness when I go to the other side of life, since I would be young again when I get there (isn't it our soul never age and go wrinkle?) 😋 What would you wish to dress in when your time are done? Would it be elegant, or sexy, or revealing, or traditional? 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    asbestos underpants

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I haven't really thought about it before. I have a very lovely Chinese style coat in black silky material with small coloured swirls that I am fond of. I have worn it to a couple of meet and greets and I think it's me Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My trademark outfit....little black dress. Some blingy earrings and red lipstick. But bugger paying thousands for a casket. Just shove me in a box made of toughened cardboard. Classy to the end :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' I'm getting cremated. Leave me naked, and donate my clothes to Vinnies. :-) I was born naked, I want to be "burried" cremated naked. but I would not want my clothes to be donated to Vinnies - I would want them to be given to a charity that actually gives them to those who need them, rather than re-selling them..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Something I'd never considered, ever. I want a natural burial - no casket or clothes required. Ideally I'd be thrown into a volcano - but I have a feeling no one will want to ferry a dead body in a helicopter over lava. So roll me naked into a hole, maybe throw in a few rose petals, couple of sprigs or rosemary or something, and bury me deep enough so the pigs don't get me. dust to dust

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    As mentioned above, we were born naked. But not necessarily in the form we identify so for me, buried as Annie. Full makeup and my favourite corset and stilettos Perhaps with a dildo up my arse......... Wonder if they would do that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' I'm getting cremated. Leave me naked, and donate my clothes to Vinnies. One hot looking piece of .... ash!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...just because I don't agree with ancestor worship on principle. The world is crowded enough without collecting the Dead too.But I thought this question was about what would I like my last apparel to be, so....for the last time, I'd like to dress in a snazzy, tailor fitted suit...minus the jacket, I quite like waist-coats...and maybe in a silver/grey tone? I'm fond of grey.A snappy necktie...probably silver or black and white...and polished, black leather shoes, of course. White gold cufflinks and an Omega Speedmaster watch with the blue face and dial. If it was good enough for the Apollo astronauts... From the neck up, I'll have 3 days of neatly trimmed stubble on my face and head and a pair of wire framed Ray-Bans.That'll do me..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    This thread really puts some real meaning into the phrase "all dressed up and no place to go"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Summersolstice' They stuff cotton and gauze up your bum after you die, I don't see why a dildo would be an issue? How about a buzzing vibrator, to really unsettle your visitors? FABULOUS... a remote control one... just as silence descends upon the well behaved crowd.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Me... My favorite burnt orange shirt and matching burnt orange tie (to be burnt)... Black suit... Long black, leather coat... Leave as I lived... then strike the match.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    naked all the way for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    and with an open casket

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' naked all the way for me ... and with an open casket I think a pre-mortem trial run in a casket built for2 could add a classic ''touch of kink'' all those boring-arse mourners just might not expect. Besides, I'd negotiate a two for one pricing if it happens contiguously. If not on the same day, you can keep my ... deposit!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Wanted to be buried in his best suit. His wishes were not met. A few months after the funeral my friend went to see a psychic lady. The first thing she got was "Oh,I have a man here and he is pretty angry because he wasnt wearing his best suit?"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' As mentioned above, we were born naked. But not necessarily in the form we identify so for me, buried as Annie. Full makeup and my favourite corset and stilettos Perhaps with a dildo up my arse......... Wonder if they would do that? ... if it was a cremation, when the ashes are being placed into the urn, there'll be chunks of colourful melted plastic. "What's that?" "That? Oh... must be the melted dildo that was up hers. Totally fucked up life, right till the end!" Way to go, Annie! With a BIG bang!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Cremated in my old favourite nightie and my comfy slippers. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Can't see the point is burning perfectly good clothes, so should go naked. However, would not want to scare or ruin the eyesight any viewers (if there were any). Perhaps naked and only a viewing window to see the head only, (with a timing device to open my eyes 5 seconds after opening).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd want to be toasted too. No clothes thanks, may as well go out in the same way I came in

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'd like to end up in whatever my favourite outfit is at the time.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I really don't care what they do with my remains or clothes once I'm done. Once you're dead, you're dead. Not like I'll be around to care.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well we all enter this world naked so guess it's fitting to leave it the same way but if I "had" to wear something it would have to be an Arsenal shirt! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    Thank you Koolgrey, this thread is indeed about what apparel would you like to be in for one last time, even though you had already gone 😊 But I get that some forumites prefer to be undressed (naked) after they had passed and I totally respect that because, it is their choice and will to do whatever they like to their own bodies and their decisions should be respected :) I still like to be dressed pretty, even after I passed, because that is what I like to do as I like to be presentable at all time 😛 It doesn't have to be a dress that is made from expensive material and by a famous tailor, etc. just a decently elegant dress that I could bring with me to the other world 😊 And whether or not there's still life in the after life, it is a whole new thread to be discussed another time 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    Thanks for sharing that story of your friend's. It caught my interest and I am not surprised to hear that 😊 Because I believe in the existence of spiritual and paranormal world! I have my late father with me at all time, according to the psychics, and every psychic medium that I have crossed path with have told me the same thing......they said they could smell smoking smoke around me quite strongly, and I was not near anyone smoking at the time they said that to me! And yes, my father was a regular smoker when he was alive! So, their words have scared me to death in the beginning 😝 But I'm used to hearing thing like that after a while and think it's not a bad thing to have my dad protecting me from the other world 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' naked all the way for me And make sure you get a casket you can spread your legs in!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'langton11' I'd want to be toasted too. No clothes thanks, may as well go out in the same way I came in If you're buried with your wife, do you think she'd noticed if I jumped in too? Cheeky to the end

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    notice I meant

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'lovman8' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' naked all the way for me And make sure you get a casket you can spread your legs in! omg do they make really wide ones with stirrups and a blindfold, shit like I'm gonna be able to see anyway

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' and with an open casket thats just sick! I could say something really funny here but I doubt it would get by the mods hahahahah fuck I should do it :D NNOOOOOOOoooooooooo ok

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... because I promised a mate ... in writing, no less. And, while it was more than 20 years after he'd 'passed' that I wrote a poem called "Black Angel" it finished with: So thanks Vince mate I’ll pay you back my guardian angel robed in black I’ll live my life for it’s full time and know your fate will not be mine. And when I pass from day to night to honour you I’ll dress in white. Nov '07

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    10 years ago

    When i was an apprentice I always had the idea I would make my own coffin out of some locally sourced Australian Redgum.Nothing fancy - just a nice oil finish.My views since then have changed and I feel it would be a waste of such a great resource.Give me a plain old cardboard coffin.Dress me in my favourite old jeans,T shirt and boots.Simple and easy. Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    maybe it would get by the mods :S hey Mick ya frightened shitouuta me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Fernando de Jesus Diaz Beato. He "attended" his own funeral dressed in his favourite clothes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My unicorn onesie!

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    Your comment reminds me of Chairman Mao, the past president of Mainland China, whose body is still kept preserved and in a glass coffin to date! He was the king of China in his time, so his wish was followed. As for your wish, I'm sure your family would follow through too if you left them enormously assets, and if it was legal to do so by our law system 😛 But there's no guaranty that your family would not move out of the family home soon 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    jokes aside about open caskets, the one thing they should always do, particularly with direct family, is TELL YOU when it's an open casket funeral Nothing worse than walking in and making your way up to the front, where immediate family sit, and seeing the deceased laying right there, can come as quite a shock, particularly if you've never seen a dead person before (like I hadn't at the time). What's with that? Do they just think everyone will be cool with it, not worth a mention?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'usrightnow' I hadn't even thought about my delayed funeral I_touch. . After being freeze dried, I'd be there, at the front, on the chair, electric blue shiny shirt, dark pants/jeans, killer boots, brilliant hair, cane, and looking back at the attending few. What a sight that would be. Shocking even after my death 😃.sweetgem, Mrs. urn likes the idea of her being able to move out and leave me and the cabinet behind, how rude!😃😃😃 this gave me a good laugh, the vision of you sitting in the chair as described, and Mrs urn plotting to leave you behind

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    At least you got to keep the house, if Mrs urn moved out, that is 😛 There is always a positive in a negative 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    10 years ago

    I_touch_myself2, in my culture, the casket is always remained open at funeral for people to visit the mortal remains for one last time. Hence, when my dad's time was done and came his funeral, I got shocked by suddenly seeing his lifeless face in a casket right next to me! What happened was, I walked into the funeral hall, went up to check and see if everything was setup in the right order, but didn't pay much attention to where I was standing and so when I turned and faced towards his coffin, I jumped and tears started flooding out of my eyes! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'sweetgem' I_touch_myself2, in my culture, the casket is always remained open at funeral for people to visit the mortal remains for one last time. Hence, when my dad's time was done and came his funeral, I got shocked by suddenly seeing his lifeless face in a casket right next to me! What happened was, I walked into the funeral hall, went up to check and see if everything was setup in the right order, but didn't pay much attention to where I was standing and so when I turned and faced towards his coffin, I jumped and tears started flooding out of my eyes! - Posted from rhpmobile That's so sad. You poor thing, it must have been such a shock and devastating to see him there like that