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Online perception
January 14 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
But here goes anyway! My answer... How hard can it be to judge people we have known for years? The people who commit the worst sins against us tend to be the one's closest.. Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hahahaha “Disregarding bitches and dickheads” Hahaha so who classifies them as bitches and dickheads?? An independent assessment panel ?? If so, who made them the distinguished bitches and dickhead specialists? Oh that’s...no one else does but us...cos we’re judgy cunts like that ;)
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Rlee552
7 years ago
Read the comment and thought spot on - who is this funny bugger. Moment of disconnect and shock when realised it was you. So used to the black and white looking back at us.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Snap_Dragon' I mean you're calling people bitches and dickheads in your post FFS, most likely based on a few words said or one thing done on the internet. That you can't see the irony there makes me judge you....hard. I, um, think you may be missing something LD. I think he meant his post to be inflammatory, and it seems to have worked.
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madotara69
7 years ago
The hard look you're giving...do you pout your lips.... hard ? An eye roll would fizzle down all that you've got going..... tho So sexy to wit Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Oh yeah you can. I've made oodles of judgements about you after reading your comment on the topic 'should misogyny be a hate crime'.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Rlee.... Bit of an old pic I must admit, but it’s a fave
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hard... 😂🤣😜😋
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RHP User
7 years ago
So sexy to wit.
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honkytonk
7 years ago
judging over a few words? judging in general. perhaps replace judging with obscured insight. for what its worth, i dont really know me, last thing i'd do is throw a judgement upon anyone else.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Of course you can, and you should, especially in this environment! If something feels off you should listen to your instincts, I’m not going to meet or even continue talking to someone if it doesn’t feel right just so that I can walk around saying I don’t judge people. Our judgement and instincts are there for a reason, use them!
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
To those who say they do not. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m with you on that Ms Foxy.
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RHP User
7 years ago
No body is a bitch or a dickhead until you give a reason for that! You know who you are!. And personally I don’t judge by someone not knowing how to charm me over the net, can’t just sit here and let them do all the work it’s a two way process to understand one another but there is plenty that do think that what they want will fall in there lap😒I say never! It takes working hard for something and experiencing failure. “ failure is not the opposite of success it’s part of it failure defeats losers and inspires winners”
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RHP User
7 years ago
So you've had a poor experience, maybe even a failure. Move on and knock on the next door.Bitching about it wont solve anything, learn from it, and do what you state above, inspire that inner winner in you. Just a tip:Stay away from, mums, Nurses and Teachers until you have an "A" game.These species of woman hold Master degrees, in what i can only call "Intuitive Engineering"........They'll smell BS a mile away
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RHP User
7 years ago
Since when do Grades measure intelligence
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RHP User
7 years ago
“Quoting peachy”The people who commit the worst sins against us tend to be the one's closest.. peachy lovely saying but some parts In a way I disagree . The answer to that depends on how and what circumstances you where raised in
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RHP User
7 years ago
So let me clarify.... You receive a message from a woman who you have no physical attraction to... But you give her a chance instead of saying thanks but no thanks for no other reason other than to stake a flag in the “I don’t judge anyone based upon a few words” legion because maybe she can change your mind??
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m not talking about rejection I’m talking about people think the first words said in a message need to blow there mind eg. some don’t want a simply hey how are you to start a conversation I don’t see why it can’t start this way in some minds
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bonefide
7 years ago
Very true mate, but thats makes meeting a smart lady so much more appealing. Intuitive Engineering"........They'll smell BS a mile away
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RHP User
7 years ago
I beg to differ about that.. A message that grabs someone’s attention can be 2 words... It can be more... No one is talking about sending a message that is the product of a professional writer....or is it going to be a Steven King novel!! But messages that just hi can be foreseeably boring as batshit as usually it goes something like this:- Boy: hi... Girl: hi... Boy: how are you? Girl: good and you? Boy: good....what are you up to? Girl: not much....you? Boy: same...just chillin... Girl: cool :) After a while people that have had these type of conversations on an ongoing occurrence will soon just ignore you as you’re already stepping on a road that many others have already stepped before... It shows no personality, no humour so why would it be appealing to you or anyone else??
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RHP User
7 years ago
Secondly.... Your frustration shouldn’t be directed toward the receiver not responding favourably, but it should be used to motivate a change of perspective... That being it’s an opportunity for growth, not to internalise it into negative territory that sees a bitter attitude toward those with whom you’re trying to appeal...
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'The_Antichrist' I beg to differ about that.. A message that grabs someone’s attention can be 2 words... It can be more... No one is talking about sending a message that is the product of a professional writer....or is it going to be a Steven King novel!! But messages that just hi can be foreseeably boring as batshit as usually it goes something like this:- Boy: hi... Girl: hi... Boy: how are you? Girl: good and you? Boy: good....what are you up to? Girl: not much....you? Boy: same...just chillin... Girl: cool :) After a while people that have had these type of conversations on an ongoing occurrence will soon just ignore you as you’re already stepping on a road that many others have already stepped before... It shows no personality, no humour so why would it be appealing to you or anyone else?? Had to many conversations like that. You usually know straight up hows it's going to turn out. Sometimes you play the game to see if it steps up but never does. I just move on. Sure l might miss out on a gem. Not everyone is a wordsmith but with the competition the guys have, plenty others have an A game.I dont label them as a dickhead or bitch. Yes love had women with the same convo skills as the one above. I just
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Dont judge me with by my phone skills.....lol As l was saying.....l just exit from the convo. Too much hard work trying to force a 2 way conversation and hard to imagine meeting over a drink. Think awkward pause...
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RHP User
7 years ago
Are just not wordsmiths..but in real life they may be quite different.A lot of how we communicate is non verbal anyway. But here ,unless your pics show a gorgeous you,you may struggle. But the truth is ,it's only when you actually meet someone that you know whether or not the chemistry is there. I have met doctors ,nurses,lawyers ,truck drivers ,a retired botanist..the list goes on. The doctor was a creep.the lawyer was very o.c.d,his description of his aversions not mine,the nurse was obsessed with snakes.the truck driver one of the wittiest people I know.and the botanist was just,well a bit strange..who knows what they thought of me. Hugs Q
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