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PRESSURE ON PROFILES
December 14 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I actually say that I am a dud root and hoping to find someone that has the patience to help me improve my lackluster skills not only sexually but as a human being in general, my social skills are also quite appalling. The first step toward recovery is admitting your shortcomings.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Of over selling, under delivering. Happens everywhere, business, pleasure you name it. Unfortunately all too common. We should go back to under promise, over deliver. Alas... will never happen.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... the Pinocchio phenomena :-) KK
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RHP User
13 years ago
How are you supposed to scam a woman into bed if you don't lie about your prowess? And not just about my massive hard dick and my ability to smash all night like a Tour de France cyclist on EPO, but you gotta lie about EVERYTHING! So time to come clean. in addition to being a hung seductive squirtmaster, I've got three jokes from Bob Hope's biography and I just swap the nouns, verbs and adjectives, I bought a recipe book and now "I Can Cook", and my fascination with rope stems from the fact I'm cheap, and rope's an economical way to get a girl to stay the night. I'm so unfit, if I actually manage to go long enough to get a girl to climax, I pass out. Rope also stops me getting robbed by single mums when I pass out after sex.I'm a root scab. You can't be a good root scab without being a good liar.Unfortunately I'm also a terrible liar.Thank you Bob Hope.RA
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it may be both how horny they are whilst writing and the fact that for men on here they have to stand out to be noticed because of the huge male profile numbers. The thing is to me personally i will notice a profile which reads well, appears genuine and written with thought from your brain and not your penis. I don't know that there is added pressure on these men and their so called performance ability, rather said abilities may never had existed and they are just playing into what they think women want to hear.
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RHP User
13 years ago
People who talk it up are just kidding them self.Someone who writes on their profile "how good they are in bed" is a warning sign in itself.I think it shows how insecure someone is if they have to say that to get attention.You just have to listen to your head and not your horniness.Hope that made sense ....blah blah blah
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RHP User
13 years ago
They may be honestly relating their abilities as they are at home. It may be the added pressure and excitment of the playdate that diminishes their efforts at the time. The most exciting experience of my life as so intense, the cum was dribbling out of my old fella while I was licking a lass out. Then I became so nervous, I couldn't get hard again. That was a first for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...that a profile is just a bunch of words at the end of the day. Words like "chemistry" and "connection" are oft used a typical female profile - and fair enough, I hasten to add - but I don't believe that those two things can be ascertained from simply reading a profile. They come from common thoughts and attitudes, which, I feel, can only be determined through regular interactions.Most of us men are not writers, and the ability to express our personalities through words is greatly varied. Thus, we tend to write what we believe will stand out, what will attract the elusive female playmate.On a personal level, I'm very uncomfortable writing about myself, and it takes a while for my personality to show itself to what is essentially a complete stranger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Profiles are a funny thing... in RHP there is the helper which makes it easy for some... but then they all look the same.We have found (in our limited experience...lol) that the lack of actual performance vs written or even spoken is certainly not limited to men.... That is why we wont put into our Profile how good we are etc etc.. no point making claims that someone else may not agree with as sexual performance is very subjective... Its just like Profile Pics... depending on the angle the pic is taken from some people may not be happy with what they get in real life...lolFor us this is a massive learning curve.. hopefully our profile will evolve into one that entices the right woman to want to know more...lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've noticed that some guys write about what they would like to do rather than what they can do. Their intentions are good but somehow once they are in the bedroom reality never lives up to the fantasy.I've known guys that are useless at sex but will tell you what you want to hear in the hope of getting some action.Some guys play down their abilities on their profiles but when they get into the bedroom it is clear they are selling themselves short.It's hard to know who is who sometimes but at least the guys that use templates for their profiles made it easy for me to make up my mind. Template profile = avoid.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' ...that a profile is just a bunch of words at the end of the day. Words like "chemistry" and "connection" are oft used a typical female profile - and fair enough, I hasten to add - but I don't believe that those two things can be ascertained from simply reading a profile. They come from common thoughts and attitudes, which, I feel, can only be determined through regular interactions.Most of us men are not writers, and the ability to express our personalities through words is greatly varied. Thus, we tend to write what we believe will stand out, what will attract the elusive female playmate.On a personal level, I'm very uncomfortable writing about myself, and it takes a while for my personality to show itself to what is essentially a complete stranger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some profile names are enough to turn me off...I see it and straight away for me is a "Deal Breaker"..read no further.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think the other thing to consider is that many writers are listing what they have done in the past....at the right time, with the right person, in the right circumstances...... I'm sure we've all had a partner that just brought out the best in us? One who drew forth and used every skill you had, made you feel like a god in the bedroom?? Doesn't mean we perform like that everytime!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quite often, because it is someone new, in mind the feeling of being able to please is one thing, but also the other side of it is how much nerves come into play also. We are not going to be able to please 100% every time first time... but I guess, once we have become more relaxed/comfortable with each other in the bedroom etc, I'm sure it will all fall into place. Happy loving... don't stress. Some things are not meant to be rushed... :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
is our reality.Perhaps some people view themselves as red hot lovers 100% of the time.Another persons perception of them and their abilities may be at odds with that view. I have yet to see on any profiles''I am a really selfish and crap lover.My penis is really small and I hate to give oral.'''
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RHP User
13 years ago
Having read some of these claims of super duper sexual abilities always left me thinking ' these guys have now set themselves up for failure.. Doesnt matter how good or bad you might be' if theres no chemistry, you might as well go back and have another little tug like the one you were having when you wrote such crap..You are only a good lover when the person you just fucked tells you so... Not the other way around...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with both mischeviouslad and karynB. Firstly, there's the issue of the oversell. With the odds in favour of the ladies on sites like this men are initially compelled to be the best they can be in order to attract. But, what they don't get, is that all they have to do, is be themselves. But some women also suffer that same challenge. That brings us though to what Karynb has said. Given that, the connection is right, their head space is right, etc. their physical performance would be at it's best. But I think the question then becomes, is all of those things going to be present when we want them to be?? The other thing I think I should mention, is that whenever you DO have that amazing, mind blowing experience, people in general will use that to advertise what they've achieved in the sense of a reference. Problem with doing that is, everyone is different. What maybe a mind blowing experience for one person may just very well be too vanilla for others. Essentially making US only as good as our last experience.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's human nature to talk yourself up to get ahead of the competition, the biggest worm on the end of the hook attracts the most curious fish, it's that black and white.
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RHP User
13 years ago
So you've seen my profile then?? :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some people are genuinely full of shit, others put details from past pleasant encounters, others like myself see a profile as first contact. No point bullshitting. I'd rather be honest and just see what happens as we go.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I got this message today from a 26 year old "Just want to say I'm gifted in the penis area and unique with the way I use my tongue I make girls roll their eyes back to their head just letting you know this if your good and kind you might find out one day" and thats all it said.... what am i supposed to reply - bravo! well fucking done! im soooo proud???? obviously not in his profile but was a message spouting his sexual prowness - im assuming i was supposed to jump for joy that a young stud was interested enough in ME - this old bird - to cast his eye my way and let me know whats out that... ah and so young and supposedly virile and athletic!! A little less blowing ones own trumpet and more honest down to earth people would get everyone so much further....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' I got this message today from a 26 year old "Just want to say I'm gifted in the penis area and unique with the way I use my tongue I make girls roll their eyes back to their head just letting you know this if your good and kind you might find out one day" and thats all it said.... what am i supposed to reply - bravo! well fucking done! im soooo proud???? obviously not in his profile but was a message spouting his sexual prowness - im assuming i was supposed to jump for joy that a young stud was interested enough in ME - this old bird - to cast his eye my way and let me know whats out that... ah and so young and supposedly virile and athletic!! A little less blowing ones own trumpet and more honest down to earth people would get everyone so much further.... I laughed. And yes, you should!
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
No expectations = no disappointments
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RHP User
13 years ago
That if you don't blow you're own trumpet, don't expect anyone else to.... :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
As the skill of how to be a charming conversationalist can be learned from a few wiser adults one may encounter from the young age of an adolescent. However, many young men stray from this admirable path and instead into falling victim to society's conception of the ultimate alpha male. Surpassing other male's sexual performance not only the name of the game, but the only game that men know how to play. Male prowress is evident even on the sporting field as each male attempts to impress the athletic and attractive female onlooker with their own athletic abilities. I have both witnessed other females and have been the female in question in the above example of showing off on the sporting field, and have rarely I have I ever felt so objectified in my life. Like in an exam when one is assigned a number and not a name, the mere act of walking past a group of males playing football puts you on a platform of objectivity, where they admire your assets from afar but never does a male ask you questions that enquire about your uniqueness. Over the years, many males have warped the attention i willingly and happily gave them as an confidence- bolstering device, which ironically ended up giving me even more impetus to remain true to myself and to treat every men that I met with the love and respect that they deserve. Most women don't approach each new male encounter with the same open-heartedness, tenderness and sincerity, as say, their first- time (having sex), but by finding comfort in the baggage of the past, straped onto them like a backpack, in the end it is only the women that miss out on relationships that are right for them. Men are hard- wired to enjoy sex in almost any circumstances, and although most men care about pleasuring you as much as themselves- which is a credit to them- all men hate to hear your sob stories of how badly they under- acheived compared to your last sexual partner. I say sob story, because the disappointed look in their eyes when women express that the sex was anything from average to okay- remember men have difficultly with outwardly expressing emotion- well it looks to me like they want to cry. Another thing I believe rhp women should start doing to undermine the generalisation of rhp female/ male profile is to rewrite their 'what they are looking for' sections with more intelligence- and that doesn't mean using words that roll as smoothly off the tongue as ones that are rich in metaphors, analogies and alliteration, rather words that are more straightforward and sincere than this yardstick- 'when I know what I'm looking for, I'll let you know'. By the time you realise that you want a particular guy where the sparks simply fly, he would have already have passes you by. You will be forever wanting for who you can't have- although given that many women on this site face a similiar predicament, the expression 'wanting what you can't have' is better suited towards all. Lastly, I wish to send off this message with a compliment to all of the above members who have expressed their viewpoints with such aptitude that anyone who reads this forum can't but be indebted to you for your advice. You are all right in your own ways, but I hope that your viewpoints do not serve to stand in the way of opportunities for romance or friendship in your future. It is important to be honest with others in your dealings with them, and unless you admit to your shortcomings- sexually and character- wise- every other member of the opposite sex will only ever have an idealised Adonis version of yourself in their mind, and that's no basis in reality. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SassyMissM' I got this message today from a 26 year old "Just want to say I'm gifted in the penis area and unique with the way I use my tongue I make girls roll their eyes back to their head just letting you know this if your good and kind you might find out one day" and thats all it said.... what am i supposed to reply - bravo! well fucking done! im soooo proud???? obviously not in his profile but was a message spouting his sexual prowness - im assuming i was supposed to jump for joy that a young stud was interested enough in ME - this old bird - to cast his eye my way and let me know whats out that... ah and so young and supposedly virile and athletic!! A little less blowing ones own trumpet and more honest down to earth people would get everyone so much further.... HAHA Blow his TRUMPET so his eyes roll to the back of his head...maybe make his toes curl while your at it!!Oh the young ones have so much to learn...*rolling eyes back of head*
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love your way of thinking.....Amazing and such brilliant intelligence from 18yr old female - very impressive indeed.I think I just had my first orgasmic experience with a woman who blew my mind.....*oops did I say that aloud*
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's true, but only used by that small percentage of guys who's insecurities drive them to stretch the truth about themself. You do get found out in the end, so why not just be yourself and enjoy who you are, ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Firstly, I want to thank- you for reading my post, as I am sure 99 per cent of people would have skipped it in favour of shorter ones. You have surprised me with your own patience in this task lol. My writing is a form of escapism, in which my voice is heard by others and allows me to have a voice in this world, compared to face- to- face communication, in which my lack of adequate expression causes me to flounder. I can write a thousand well- structured sentences for to every badly- spoken sentence in a real life situation, but I feel that the meaning of my words is occasionally lost on people either way, and that's a price I alone have to pay. You are far more well- spoken than I am as you use your wit to humour people, thus enhancing the message of both forum and posts. I want to take my hat off to you for highlighting how disingenuous male profiles appear to be when they read like a list of sexual conquests. The charm factor in reading someone else's 'done' list is zero, it certainly deters me from wanting to be 'done' by the guy in question myself. Due to your natural intelligence and likeable sense of humour, I believe that you wield considerable influence over men of all ages, and this can be used to your advantage if you consider posting forums on other issues- and I hope that you do. I will be looking forward to hearing further opinions of yours on what other issues need correcting on this site- if not, then I hope that you at agree at the bare minimum that there are issues in need of correcting :) It means a lot to me that you would write back as it rests my doubts about whether I am like living on an island with my own seperate point of view :) I sincerely hope that many intelligent and sexy males approach you so that you may be appreciated for the wonderful person you know you are. Good luck and on this site :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
What pressure there is no pressure here. I say that my tongue is my best feature. And guess what it is, it stays soft for hours,it's always wet,it can fit into any hole. So there is no pressure here, I have never told any females that I can stay hard all night. So I'm like the John Farnham song,,,,, take the pressure down.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow....
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RHP User
13 years ago
thanks for that comment because people forgot sometimes that we are all different and need to know our futur partner or lover, that's why have a date before is important!Quoting 'karynb' I think the other thing to consider is that many writers are listing what they have done in the past....at the right time, with the right person, in the right circumstances...... I'm sure we've all had a partner that just brought out the best in us? One who drew forth and used every skill you had, made you feel like a god in the bedroom?? Doesn't mean we perform like that everytime!
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RHP User
13 years ago
though I find the post a little judgmental from my perspective. You say "most men' when in fact I don't find this at all. Besides and just perhaps they do think they are fabulous lovers however not to your expectations. I have met some guys who say they are good lovers and in fact they probably are for some woman though not for me. I have also met quite the opposite.At the end of the day it is all about connection and trust I feel. Sometimes I have a lover who I thought the sex would be awesome with only to be disappointing and I am sure men have felt the same about me. Sometimes we just don't perform as we would like and this can be due to many factors. As far as marketing oneself on here...... I think Coca Cola marketing is fantastic however I don't like coke. Though many of you do. My profile is a little different as it portrays what I like. It's not for everyone though it sifts out the 50 shades of grey learners xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' though I find the post a little judgmental from my perspective. You say "most men' when in fact I don't find this at all. Besides and just perhaps they do think they are fabulous lovers however not to your expectations. I have met some guys who say they are good lovers and in fact they probably are for some woman though not for me. I have also met quite the opposite.At the end of the day it is all about connection and trust I feel. Sometimes I have a lover who I thought the sex would be awesome with only to be disappointing and I am sure men have felt the same about me. Sometimes we just don't perform as we would like and this can be due to many factors. As far as marketing oneself on here...... I think Coca Cola marketing is fantastic however I don't like coke. Though many of you do. My profile is a little different as it portrays what I like. It's not for everyone though it sifts out the 50 shades of grey learners xxx Thank you for your feed back.....I do appreciate it.When I say "most men" I am referring to 'MOST' or majority of the "male" profiles I have read...I am more referring to writing of their profiles and the communication leading up to meeting.I too have meet some amazing men on here..and YES I do agree with you regarding the "connection" and "Trust".What I more am trying to point out is...People who set themselves up - "blow their trumpet" as others have put it..when it comes to sex don't perform or action to what they say...and they fail miserly..I guess what I am saying is "Why do that behaviour" and then put self in a position of embarrassment.Isn't it better to stay true to self and not put expectations or pressure to perform??and Yes I may not be every one's cup of tea, but I do make an effort by asking questions/seeking out what the other person likes and dislikes to please and pleasure to the best of my ability.I guess at the end of day it all boils down to "That special connection" in more ways than one..Just my thoughts..may be different to others.XXXPS - I too don't like coca cola..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' though I find the post a little judgmental from my perspective. You say "most men' when in fact I don't find this at all. Besides and just perhaps they do think they are fabulous lovers however not to your expectations. I have met some guys who say they are good lovers and in fact they probably are for some woman though not for me. I have also met quite the opposite.At the end of the day it is all about connection and trust I feel. Sometimes I have a lover who I thought the sex would be awesome with only to be disappointing and I am sure men have felt the same about me. Sometimes we just don't perform as we would like and this can be due to many factors. As far as marketing oneself on here...... I think Coca Cola marketing is fantastic however I don't like coke. Though many of you do. My profile is a little different as it portrays what I like. It's not for everyone though it sifts out the 50 shades of grey learners xxx Thank you for your feed back.....I do appreciate it.When I say "most men" I am referring to 'MOST' or majority of the "male" profiles I have read...I am more referring to writing of their profiles and the communication leading up to meeting.I too have meet some amazing men on here..and YES I do agree with you regarding the "connection" and "Trust".What I more am trying to point out is...People who set themselves up - "blow their trumpet" as others have put it..when it comes to sex don't perform or action to what they say...and they fail miserly..I guess what I am saying is "Why do that behaviour" and then put self in a position of embarrassment.Isn't it better to stay true to self and not put expectations or pressure to perform??and Yes I may not be every one's cup of tea, but I do make an effort by asking questions/seeking out what the other person likes and dislikes to please and pleasure to the best of my ability.I guess at the end of day it all boils down to "That special connection" in more ways than one..Just my thoughts..may be different to others.XXXPS - I too don't like coca cola..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' though I find the post a little judgmental from my perspective. You say "most men' when in fact I don't find this at all. Besides and just perhaps they do think they are fabulous lovers however not to your expectations. I have met some guys who say they are good lovers and in fact they probably are for some woman though not for me. I have also met quite the opposite.At the end of the day it is all about connection and trust I feel. Sometimes I have a lover who I thought the sex would be awesome with only to be disappointing and I am sure men have felt the same about me. Sometimes we just don't perform as we would like and this can be due to many factors. As far as marketing oneself on here...... I think Coca Cola marketing is fantastic however I don't like coke. Though many of you do. My profile is a little different as it portrays what I like. It's not for everyone though it sifts out the 50 shades of grey learners xxx Thank you for your feed back.....I do appreciate it.When I say "most men" I am referring to 'MOST' or majority of the "male" profiles I have read...I am more referring to writing of their profiles and the communication leading up to meeting.I too have meet some amazing men on here..and YES I do agree with you regarding the "connection" and "Trust".What I more am trying to point out is...People who set themselves up - "blow their trumpet" as others have put it..when it comes to sex don't perform or action to what they say...and they fail miserly..I guess what I am saying is "Why do that behaviour" and then put self in a position of embarrassment.Isn't it better to stay true to self and not put expectations or pressure to perform??and Yes I may not be every one's cup of tea, but I do make an effort by asking questions/seeking out what the other person likes and dislikes to please and pleasure to the best of my ability.I guess at the end of day it all boils down to "That special connection" in more ways than one..Just my thoughts..may be different to others.XXXPS - I too don't like coca cola..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' though I find the post a little judgmental from my perspective. You say "most men' when in fact I don't find this at all. Besides and just perhaps they do think they are fabulous lovers however not to your expectations. I have met some guys who say they are good lovers and in fact they probably are for some woman though not for me. I have also met quite the opposite.At the end of the day it is all about connection and trust I feel. Sometimes I have a lover who I thought the sex would be awesome with only to be disappointing and I am sure men have felt the same about me. Sometimes we just don't perform as we would like and this can be due to many factors. As far as marketing oneself on here...... I think Coca Cola marketing is fantastic however I don't like coke. Though many of you do. My profile is a little different as it portrays what I like. It's not for everyone though it sifts out the 50 shades of grey learners xxx PS- LOVE YOUR PROFILE...
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and yes I understand what you saying and it does happen. Though sometimes I believe I read to much into what they are saying and make an assumption. Me though.. I find myself a little on the hedonistic side when it comes to sexual encounters in more ways than one. I guess people behave in the way they do to make themselves feel good. They don't really care what the other person may think as it is all about them. It's called selfishness. xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Haha I don't think people would be able to sell themselves if they were completely honest.. 20 - 30% of men suffer from premature ejaculation but I can't imagine men putting that on their profile!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I have yet to see on any profiles''I am a really selfish and crap lover.My penis is really small and I hate to give oral.''' Freya....I have seen a profile that did say very similar....and guess what .... he wasn't lying....lol Nice guy, great sexy imagination, great conversationalist but when it came down to the business end he was right! SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I guess it depends what angle they are coming from ie just viewed a woman's profile which comes across that she is some sort of hyper sex queen the dude wouldn't exactly put down "I like to cuddle" in his message. But there is always going to be dudes that like to brag about it, or promote how good they apparently are. The one that shits me the most is reading a woman's profile and it states "I'm not judgemental" .... yes you are! You view a person's profile ... you judge them.period.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I just tell the truth on my profile. Simple. No lies and keep it real. Oh yeah I will lick a hott girls pussy ALL NITE if I have too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe all get hyped up then when comes to crunch well back in the pigeon hole maybe need to look at no expectations have couple drinks and relax an see what happens happens - Posted from rhpmobile
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beachgal20
13 years ago
I'm sick of reading some bullshit on male profiles and they sure as hell all dont bother to read mine- they just oggle at pics!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hotfit' Firstly, I want to thank- you for reading my post, as I am sure 99 per cent of people would have skipped it in favour of shorter ones. You have surprised me with your own patience in this task lol. My writing is a form of escapism, in which my voice is heard by others and allows me to have a voice in this world, compared to face- to- face communication, in which my lack of adequate expression causes me to flounder. I can write a thousand well- structured sentences for to every badly- spoken sentence in a real life situation, but I feel that the meaning of my words is occasionally lost on people either way, and that's a price I alone have to pay. You are far more well- spoken than I am as you use your wit to humour people, thus enhancing the message of both forum and posts. I want to take my hat off to you for highlighting how disingenuous male profiles appear to be when they read like a list of sexual conquests. The charm factor in reading someone else's 'done' list is zero, it certainly deters me from wanting to be 'done' by the guy in question myself. Due to your natural intelligence and likeable sense of humour, I believe that you wield considerable influence over men of all ages, and this can be used to your advantage if you consider posting forums on other issues- and I hope that you do. I will be looking forward to hearing further opinions of yours on what other issues need correcting on this site- if not, then I hope that you at agree at the bare minimum that there are issues in need of correcting :) It means a lot to me that you would write back as it rests my doubts about whether I am like living on an island with my own seperate point of view :) I sincerely hope that many intelligent and sexy males approach you so that you may be appreciated for the wonderful person you know you are. Good luck and on this site :) - Posted from rhpmobilenick wilde in boredom mode
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I view a profile, I always read to the end of it, check out all their stats and likes etc. Then if I like what I read I will send a message to that lady...Quoting 'beachgal20' I'm sick of reading some bullshit on male profiles and they sure as hell all dont bother to read mine- they just oggle at pics!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nope, I don't think so, not a man who cares about a woman and is sensitive to her needs. And I know I have been a disappointing fuck in the past, but for me, the sexual journey is a wonderful learning curve where each time I am better than the last time.So shoot down me in flames if you will, my inner-core is strong; my self-belief remains strong but do you know what the most important thing is?I always do what I say I will do...Quoting 'hotfit'"....Men are hard- wired to enjoy sex in almost any circumstances, and although most men care about pleasuring you as much as themselves- which is a credit to them- all men hate to hear your sob stories of how badly they under- acheived compared to your last sexual partner...."
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RHP User
13 years ago
Aren't you just a feisty little fucker?? :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I understand why, but cant say I understand why people actually do it ... Why oversell and under deliver ? I can't change much about me, or the way I am... Without significant incentives ;) My profile, is real, genuine and all me - funnily the people I do meet say I am funnier, cheekier, smarter and better looking in person than online.... Oh and auto spell on iPad mistakes cheekier for cheesier ;) lol Go figure... A
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RHP User
13 years ago
Should I rant ? Maybe not,Sure nice to be surprised by a nice guy turns into awesome lover but first you have to get a foot in the door and that's where an oversell always works better than an undersell.Of course if women where more proactive you could cherry pick, but you won't so you have to pick through what the tide brings in.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hotfit'Another thing I believe rhp women should start doing to undermine the generalisation of rhp female/ male profile is to rewrite their 'what they are looking for' sections with more intelligence- and that doesn't mean using words that roll as smoothly off the tongue as ones that are rich in metaphors, analogies and alliteration, rather words that are more straightforward and sincere than this yardstick- 'when I know what I'm looking for, I'll let you know'. By the time you realise that you want a particular guy where the sparks simply fly, he would have already have passes you by. You will be forever wanting for who you can't have- although given that many women on this site face a similiar predicament, the expression 'wanting what you can't have' is better suited towards all. Lastly, I wish to send off this message with a compliment to all of the above members who have expressed their viewpoints with such aptitude that anyone who reads this forum can't but be indebted to you for your advice. You are all right in your own ways, but I hope that your viewpoints do not serve to stand in the way of opportunities for romance or friendship in your future. It is important to be honest with others in your dealings with them, and unless you admit to your shortcomings- sexually and character- wise- every other member of the opposite sex will only ever have an idealised Adonis version of yourself in their mind, and that's no basis in reality. - Posted from rhpmobile Totally agree, the reason why there is so much rubbish on site's such as this one and others is because that people are not more specific. Dont let the auto-options, or your friend, or your sister put your profile together for you. DO IT YOURSELF .... AND BE MORE SPECIFIC Excellent advice put forward Hotfit... even if your profile does say 18yo.
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RHP User
13 years ago
my all tiime favourite thread,hilarious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow !! Just read what everyone had to Say !!? about talking yourself up !! in your profile !! Well I must say everyone's different !! And have there own way of doing things .. That's what makes us all individual !! Not saying it right or wrong who am I to judge !! Anyone !! Each to there own !! What ever works for them that can give them the conference To get what they desire !! And crave !!! I'm not saying its right !! For people to lie about what they can do !! When they really don't !! Don't think that's the way to go about it !! And would probably end up in disappointment for both party's !! All I can say is if I'm going to write about myself in a profile I would never say something that isn't true or that I couldn't do ...some times I read back what I've had wrote in my profile and spun myself out !! And hat to stop !! Why you might say !! Because its all true and I don't want you all to think that I'm full of it !! So I have to put a buffer on it !! And it's still not enuf some times . Bottom line is ... I'm so fucken addicted to sex and all the fucked up shit that comes with it ,.. Can't stop myself from making it even better then the last !! Always thinking of more hard core !! And spice it up even more I really fucken love it !! There is no end and you never know where or what you might think up next so go for it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
can I suggest add this skill to your profile..."I can breathe through my EARS all night long" Quoting 'ClintDogg' I just tell the truth on my profile. Simple. No lies and keep it real. Oh yeah I will lick a hott girls pussy ALL NITE if I have too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
can I suggest add this skill to your profile..."I can breathe through my EARS all night long" Quoting 'ClintDogg' I just tell the truth on my profile. Simple. No lies and keep it real. Oh yeah I will lick a hott girls pussy ALL NITE if I have too.
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Oh Dear I cant tell what people are like by reading their profiles; I can get a quick insight into their personality but until I chat or meet I don't really know what they are like. I guess the hard part about reading profiles is that it only states what they want to say. The eyes are the window to the soul. Once I have watched someone's body language and looked into their eyes. Then I can tell what sort of root they would be. I guess you miust be a super fox cause your profile says so. just kidding I have no Idea wether you are or not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Totally agree...Eyes are windows to someone's soul!! I guess by reading someone's profile it is just a statement to sell themselves...Action what they say is another!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have always thought I was ordinary in bed, I have never talked myself up, but I have met a couple of women lately who say that I am the best thing they have ever had in bed, although I have never been told I'm a dud, I thought I was for some reason, I'm sticking with these lovely ladies, you dont have to talk yourself up, just be honest about what it is that you are after.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'ClintDogg' I just tell the truth on my profile. Simple. No lies and keep it real. Oh yeah I will lick a hott girls pussy ALL NITE if I have too. I'll lick a hot girls pussy all night because I *want* to.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why say you have a 10" one when you can say the truth that it is small but cute
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RHP User
13 years ago
I make sure I read profiles, but of course, freely admit there's many a time when the main pic is appealing and I'm curious. I'm definitely visual, like most men, and I often wish I was able to meet a lady that would be happy for me to take glamour-boudoir-erotic-exhibitionistic-voyeuristic-tease-explicit pix of her - i am a keen photographer, but enough of buildings and flowers for god's sake!Regarding the reading of a profile, same goes for me. Please read my profile, I've spent a good deal of time writing it. The thing that upsets me the most is to be judged, without getting to know me, or ask questions first,or to have a discussion. We're all on these sites for a reason, we all have a story to tell, manners and politeness is really appreciated. Futher, I am sick to death of rude, ignorant, aggressive people, and ones that don't even bother with the courtesy of "thanks, but no thanks", etc when I have sent them a message.I think a lot of people forget about the basic pleasantries and manners when on these sites, that there are real human beings behind the profile pix and descriptions, that have history, hurts, feelings, desires, issues, problems with confidence and self-image, etc.Many are quick to judge by the look of a pic, or the words in a description, forgetting that it does take a lot of courage to put oneself "out there" on this site. Not everyone is gifted with technology, or have a good camera, or able to contort themselves to take a self-pic that tries to present themselves in a flattering, attractive, sexy, or "what you see is what you are getting" way ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hotfit'As the skill of how to be a charming conversationalist can be learned from a few wiser adults one may encounter from the young age of an adolescent. However, many young men stray from this admirable path and instead into falling victim to society's conception of the ultimate alpha male. Surpassing other male's sexual performance not only the name of the game, but the only game that men know how to play. Male prowress is evident even on the sporting field as each male attempts to impress the athletic and attractive female onlooker with their own athletic abilities. I have both witnessed other females and have been the female in question in the above example of showing off on the sporting field, and have rarely I have I ever felt so objectified in my life. Like in an exam when one is assigned a number and not a name, the mere act of walking past a group of males playing football puts you on a platform of objectivity, where they admire your assets from afar but never does a male ask you questions that enquire about your uniqueness. Over the years, many males have warped the attention i willingly and happily gave them as an confidence- bolstering device, which ironically ended up giving me even more impetus to remain true to myself and to treat every men that I met with the love and respect that they deserve. Most women don't approach each new male encounter with the same open-heartedness, tenderness and sincerity, as say, their first- time (having sex), but by finding comfort in the baggage of the past, straped onto them like a backpack, in the end it is only the women that miss out on relationships that are right for them. Men are hard- wired to enjoy sex in almost any circumstances, and although most men care about pleasuring you as much as themselves- which is a credit to them- all men hate to hear your sob stories of how badly they under- acheived compared to your last sexual partner. I say sob story, because the disappointed look in their eyes when women express that the sex was anything from average to okay- remember men have difficultly with outwardly expressing emotion- well it looks to me like they want to cry. Another thing I believe rhp women should start doing to undermine the generalisation of rhp female/ male profile is to rewrite their 'what they are looking for' sections with more intelligence- and that doesn't mean using words that roll as smoothly off the tongue as ones that are rich in metaphors, analogies and alliteration, rather words that are more straightforward and sincere than this yardstick- 'when I know what I'm looking for, I'll let you know'. By the time you realise that you want a particular guy where the sparks simply fly, he would have already have passes you by. You will be forever wanting for who you can't have- although given that many women on this site face a similiar predicament, the expression 'wanting what you can't have' is better suited towards all. Lastly, I wish to send off this message with a compliment to all of the above members who have expressed their viewpoints with such aptitude that anyone who reads this forum can't but be indebted to you for your advice. You are all right in your own ways, but I hope that your viewpoints do not serve to stand in the way of opportunities for romance or friendship in your future. It is important to be honest with others in your dealings with them, and unless you admit to your shortcomings- sexually and character- wise- every other member of the opposite sex will only ever have an idealised Adonis version of yourself in their mind, and that's no basis in reality. - Posted from rhpmobile I need to ask a favour of you. Please don't you EVER hold back on your thoughts on this forum. You make sure you turn your thoughts into words and have your opions be heard because honey, 18 years old and an intellect like that!!! I will be watching and you can bet your 18 year old back side I won't be the only one. You go girl. Secrets
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RHP User
13 years ago
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO for good SEX Regardless
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree about the profile names...a big turn off for me too
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your dick will look like a 4 inch weiner in the grand canyon if you want to to tit fuck me!
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Loved your humour "root scab" but I didn't find myself wanting to slash my wrists reading Hotfit's posts which are a million miles from Nick Wilde's boring suicide inducing monotone. I think she's charming and well written. Just as you and most everyone else on here is. AND I think your post had more truth to it than porky pies. Lol As for advertising, most campaigns are bound to make some less than honest statements simply to appeal to thier target audience. It only becomes a danger when you actually have to "walk the talk". I couldn't see the point in being truthful, what would people think if they really knew I was a cross-dressing little person with an 8" dick who whittles paddle pop sticks into fine works of art? Winky wink wink ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mr RandomAgent, you are a legend!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes have had the experience a couple of times Where they say their big into foreplay, THEN to my disappointment,zero, straight to wanting to slip it in, orIn profile says the women are bi,when it comes to the play,they dont do this,dont do that,Its all in the guys fantasy to have 2 women.Be truthful people,and keep your pics updated,so many of them are old,when you meet,its a shock k
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madotara69
13 years ago
Back in the day most of the guys were just being guys. Occasionally we would cross a fuckwit, who thought his shit didn't stink. They were the small few amongst the rest. So what I am suggesting is most of these, are normal everyday blokes.They think you ladies want to see them to what you are reading. We get a lot of guys trying to get our attention, so we have read plenty of much the same type of wishful confidence, pages of it.After having a look around in the rhp model, as Mr C so well put, there is as much confidence projected by a plethora of women, for wanting real men able to satisfies there every desire. It is certainly unusual to see so many woman expressing how much they want to fuck, and to how they want a fuck to be.It is this place, and it is awesome to be amongst all the excitement, the blokes are probably just trying to fit in.SuperFox, I am willing to bet on it, most blokes would love to know the right words for the ladies. while building the profile that'll make em famous.Maybe this forum will change a few blokes luck.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69'Maybe this forum will change a few blokes luck. Fingers crossed. XXXXXXX FOXY
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madotara69
13 years ago
There might be hundreds of men looking at you, still each one is walking his own track.Have you had a look in there, endless gorgeous women. There is a fair share with you ladies looking playful, in the no strings idea, and you're all beautiful. Getting an OK from you sorts could feel a little overwhelming, briefly of courseIf a man has to wear a sign around his neck, while looking around, there is the pick me, I'll be everything you want, and there is the snort to mark his stand for any rival competition.Red Dear have a matting season. It is called the roar. Stags with the most tines to there antlers, and wider distance between the points of the tines, are the healthiest and feared strongest.The royal red stag has twelve points to his antlers. He owns a ridge from the creek to the top of that mountain. He finds cover in high ground where a clear look down his ridge is close, then digs his wallow. He sprays scent and rolls around in it, forming a pond looking shape.As the testosterone builds, he starts rubbing his antlers to points, by thrashing tree trunks, runs his ridge and begins to roar. They sound a bit like a cow. The heins (female) are attracted to the strongest display of Roaring and thrashing antlers.It is not common that stags meet to fight, they out-roar the young bucks, entering the ridge, where the stag begins to gather his heins. He lets them feed on the grassy clearings down by the creek, over the day, then calls them to his wallow to service them over the night, and roars all night.The weaker sounding stag misses out for the heins and roams alone.If there is any performance issues, look to find him roar for you, can you ladies make a man roar?My last post was the young buck with a weaker roar Miss FireFox Except the part for luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
The best otion in life is just plain and simple. Tell the truth and you won't ned to cover things up and get caught out. Truth and honesty are really appealing to me in a partner regardless of involvement.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think most people talk themselves up to keep their own confidence up and i also believe that some people actually do believe they are that good because no one has ever told them the real truth. Be honest at the start and all things will be ok
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