PROFILE FEED BACK

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  Is that it turns into a scenario where one makes changes purely so that people then read what you want them to see and believe. And what they want to see with regards profile wording, even if most of it is not really true. For example "safe sex if required " is a big No No , as it puts you in a risky category. And so now you will simply change it to " safe sexy always" to better your chances. Of course this does not change the fact that you generally don't practise safe sex. So profile advice is simply a means do alter & disguise the real you. Window dressing. We tend to not believe what we read in a profile anymore, due to all the changes ... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Is perfect because it's how you decided to present yourself. If you try and second guess what other people want you are doomed to fail.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I agree with much of what has been said already, helping you relax didn't do it for me either I mean it's kind of a given that sex, good sex, should ultimately make us feel very relaxed, by the time we're done at least, but it's your wording there, I'm put off by 'takers' and it does make you sound like that. Not saying you are of course, maybe tweak your wording. I also agree with DC about making changes just to appeal, but not being honest, so if safe sex isn't your choice or preference, then don't change it to that purely to make your profile more appealing, always keep it honest. And in a way, I agree in part with that50zguy, in that it is your own profile, and not for us to say whether it's right or wrong. The only thing I'd say is to keep improving or checking it, don't leave it dormant. So many guys start a profile and a year later, they still have the same wording and the same one or two pictures, and wonder why they don't get any interest. So update or at least check your profile regularly so it can evolve as you do

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  a big plus for me is that you clearly show yourself in your pictures, well done. It's one of my major gripes is not being able to see people properly. Having clear pictures, that are believable, which yours are, is a really good start

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  poor English there, poor grammar

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Pics... could be better. Use some not so forced / non-selfie pics. Am sure you have them in your facebook somewhere where you're having a laugh, wine up, with mates cropped out? Be happy, fun, natural... you. Text... 2.5 lines. That's it? Women are cerebral, even on a sex site... what you write in your profile and email will either turn them on mentally, which may lead to a meet up? Or you're done right there. Personally, I think you're done if you keep the profile as is. You're looking for somebody who can help you relax... Hmmm. That sounds a tad needy. A tad selfish. And a tad like the offering at the Chinese massage shop with the alleyway entrance... Spice it up, mate. Get creative! And good luck.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thanks everyone!!! I've taken as much as I can in!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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