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Paying for a room
March 15 2018
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gazpacho
8 years ago
Well, for various reasons you can’t charge a fee for services rendered. Haha. If you’re the host, asking me to meet you in your hotel, where you are staying, I wouldn’t even think to offer. I would bring bubbly. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
When we host, we pay for the hotel.We stay the night and although the invitation is always there to sleep over for the guest, it has never been taken up - seems convenient and polite.R
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
On who is doing the inviting . For example if you invite a woman out to dinner, on a date, do you then ask her to pay her portion? If we had a hotel room in the city, and invited someone over to play, we would never dream of asking them. However, for example if two couples get chatting on here and decide to then all meet up in a hotel room, then yes, sharing the costs would be acceptable. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have been asked to meet a couple on Sat night in a CBD hotel and they have asked us to share the costwe dont mind but we arnt staying overnight but they areHow much do you offer or do you go halves?Very intruiged as we have never come across this
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
Of people booking a hotel room, going to all that trouble and expense, and then the other party does not show up. Have you met the other couple in real life yet ? Spoken with them on the phone? Are they asking you to pay upfront before meeting them, or are you to hand over the money when you actually meet in the room ? What if there is no attraction and therefore no play ? Do you then still pay towards a hotel room that they will be occupying for the night? Are you simply a means to subsidise their hotel room? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
If your booking and staying the night. You should pay. Also its good if your paying and things arent going well. You get to ask them to leave. . - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
8 years ago
And you aren't then in my book they should get the cost of the hotel - otherwise your paying to drop in and play with them? If you feel you should contribute I'd say less than half of the cost of the room or bring a bottle of wine XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
8 years ago
Well, I would understand if it was a regular thing, but first time up, My senses tell me to run like fuck. After they raid the bar, smash the mirror etc etc and they’re not who they say that they are.... and it’s your credit card held at the front desk. Hugs Gaz - Posted from rhpmobile
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aussian43
8 years ago
If you are only visiting for a few hours, I think it is a bit much to bear half the cost, but a $50 to help would be a good idea. If staying the whole night, sharing the cost would be the thing to do. With singles it is not as clear cut. I have paid for a room before, and it is rare the lady will offer to split. And of course if you do the gentlemanly thing the first time and refuse her money, she never offers again ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
8 years ago
How cheap are people these days?? Come on this is hilarious.... who cares who pays lol🤣😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Its not the cost its the do we offer or do we wait to see if they ask or do we say whats fair.Honestly just dont want to upset people
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RHP User
8 years ago
It sounds like your internal alarm bell might be starting to ping. I would trust that and think twice before going ahead with the meet. You are very new to this you state so..... If you don’t feel comfortable asking this question because you are worried about upsetting them.... how are you going to be able to ask the more intimate questions about your play? Best of luck to you :) Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
People get so narcy over moneywe are well off and can pay what ever needs being paid just want to know we are doing the right thing lolIts a fine line i guessWe wont play at outr place in the inner city but happy to get a motel but not sure if we could cope with a sleep over if you know what i mean and if we booked the room we would pay but its different with different peoplkeAgain having only met one couple we have no ideaMichelle
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
If you havent met them before, I wouldn't be too hasty in planning to pay anything. You may not be attracted to them when face to face, so money discussions probably best had in person. If you are not going to use the room at all, its totally their cost. And when you say meet them in a hotel room....are you really? Perhaps a drink at a nearby bar first? Who knows who is going to be in that room.... and then there's the pesky in person attraction thing to consider again 😈 In terms of dosh, I wouldnt pay more than one third of the cost of the room as they get the use of it before your meet and afterwards. Its their idea, they can pay the majority of the cost, if not all of it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If a woman is invited by a man than the man pays....if a couple invite a man for fun then the couple pay... if 2couples decide to play and get a motel then both should go halves if they intend to make a nite of it and stay altogether ..but if one couple decide to have a nite away and invite a couple man or lady to play then couple having the nite awayy should pay as then man woman or other couple can leave wben they want - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am happy to pay for a room, it's always been day use rooms for me.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I book a room.. always with a big spa.. and easy travel from CBD, or whichever venue I am attending.When I invite, it is me who pays... The invite to "Stay Over" is never mentioned by me to people I have not met..BUT, if things go ok, then the offer will be made.. but honestly... ?"A decent sex sess SHOULD last till dawn anyway..." Yeah?I Always have a late book-out too... that way, HOPEFULLY... I get to enjoy a spa by myself for a little while
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