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(Personal) Pros & Cons

July 31 2018

How often are we asked to describe ourselves to others (in real life and online life) and our heads are flooded with a list of cons but not so many pros..? Please God tell me it’s not only me that can list my downfalls gagged with a mouth full of marbles underwater lol 🙊😂 The aim of this is to list 1 con and 1 pro about yourself .. for all our faults we have some amazing attributes and I want us to focus on the attributes.. So.... Rule Nbr 1 The con must be listed first and then the pro (because I want the pro to be the thing that sticks in our mind about ourselves...) Rule Nbr 2 Do not dismiss, put down, belittle, demean or say anything derogatory to anyone’s con or pro - they aren’t yours to judge! Rule Nbr 3 If I think of anymore rules depending on responses in this thread then I reserve the right to add them at any time... Ok - I’ll go first ... seems fair lol Con. Pro. Shy Passionate - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    con , intimidated pro. understanding - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con self doubting Pro caring - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    Con: CynicalPro: Realistic

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I will stick with being real...and I can be wrapped up easily with...and no it’s not cling wrap either lol There is honestly nothing that people will see in me that they cannot ever find elsewhere.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Simply not replying would have been a viable option... no one is blowing anything up anyone’s arses - it’s simply meant to get us to look at our own pros and cons and maybe see we have more pros than we realise. You want to dampen something please go do it elsewhere. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You can post more than once.. lets try to get out pros to outweigh our cons - look at ourselves in a different light maybe Con Extremely self critical Pro Giving - Posted from rhpmobile

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    Con- Anxiety (in certain situations) Pro - Empathy Depends on how you see it though, they could be reversed and then become their opposite. Too much empathy not always good, little bit of anxiety not always bad 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    7 years ago

    Con: I'm needyPro: I'll do whatever I can for someone (within reason)if you ask KC72

  • Katkat

    Katkat

    7 years ago

    Con - impatient, indecisive at times, savage Pro - understanding, compassion, good intuition, multitasking - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Perfectionist Pro: Perfectionist

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con Own worst enemy ProDetermined(this should probably go with a Stubborn "con" but stubborn I feel can both be a con and a pro...)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con..... my level of awesomeness Pro.... see above 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    (Ditto for sense of humour) 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: judgemental Pro: working on not being judgemental Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Insecure at times Pro: Very Giving - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Cannot tolerate fools. I am a fool sporadically - an idiot, a complete fuckwit - hopefully no more than anybody else. Cannot stand those that make it a habit. This is actually a con as opposed to a pro, because in modern life it seems this is a negative personality trait. Pro: I surprise people - usually not due to foolishness. Usually. Sometimes, like when I set fire to my own hand, or was flipped out of the back of a ute, I surprise due to my foolishness. As an aside, LAL2, you are not human if you are not judgemental - at the very least to a small degree. The alterative to not being judgemental in any way is to be completely accepting, and there are numerous people throughout history who do not deserve acceptance. *** This excludes those that have set fire to their own hand, or been flipped out of the back of a ute ***.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That I did not set my hand on fire and get flipped out of the back of a ute at the same time - although I'm fairly sure that would have been Truly Awesome had it happened. Just think - Jackie Chan would have had nothing on me. "Does all his own stunts!"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    That that’s my con then ?? 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    we are told to hide our light under a bushel. Be humble, be modest. Don't be a braggart, a boaster. Don't blow your own trumpet. That's all well and good because nobody likes a figjam, but that doesn't mean we can't be honest about ourselves and what we are good at. Con: Procrastinator Pro: Intelligence - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousmrs

    curiousmrs

    7 years ago

    Con - very low tolerance of fools Pro - sense of humour MrsC - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    7 years ago

    Con: stubborn Pro: reflective I was going to say humour but I didn't know where it fit 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    and the same also con perfectionist pro perfectionist at times it’s great and at times it’s a pain in the ass ,admire people who can do close enough ,good enough ,but other times think meh put some effort in mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con extremely self critical Pro would give the shirt off my back for others - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    7 years ago

    Pro focussed Con attention sp - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Pro......2 peeps for the price of 1 Con......double trouble

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Doesn't live near you. Pro: Everything (else) you can possibly want. :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: impatience Pro: too trusting - Posted from rhpmobile

  • bonefide

    bonefide

    7 years ago

    Con - shy but moving forward Pro - fairdinkum mate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con - Attention Seeking Pro - Standing Out In A Crowd LOL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Sorry l only posted once lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    7 years ago

    con emotionally sensitive pro humorous - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tcm70

    tcm70

    7 years ago

    Con- Honest and trusting. Pro- Honest and trusting. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con I love threesomes with my man Pros I really love threesomes and foursomes with my man

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con... oldPro ... experienced

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con Sensitive Pro Strong (Physically and mentally not too far behind the physical strength) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con - FieryPro - Fiery

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con - Impatient Pro - Giver By a giver, I mean I love giving and can try do accommodate most requests. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Good surprise! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • 2pleasureONLYU

    2pleasureONLYU

    7 years ago

    looks nice and tasty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: struggle to accurately describe who I am or what I want in a concise and entertaining manner.Pro: can easily write 3 to 300 pages of fiction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Red, I might be getting a little deep here, haha. But instead of thinking that you have more con’s than pro’s consider that each Con will have an opposite Pro that it creates. Sometimes this also holds true for the pros as well. You say your first Con is shyness ..... this creates a pro in that shy people are usually not arrogant which is a pro. Mine: CON = I tend to be critical and judgemental of myself (but that also makes me humble). PRO = I always tend to put everyone else before myself (but this leads me to often being taken advantage of). Rob

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Con sexoholic Pro Honest - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con. Addictive personality Pro. Always fun at parties :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con- time poor Pro- Generous - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con- my absolutely shit at messaging people my more old school enter say to talk to people on the phone or meet them face to face and my age Pro- open minded and like to please the people my with at the time and my respectful - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Too Independant and Solitary Pro: Independant 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    con trustingpro trusting

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: argumentative Pro: exceptional ear for harmony - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Resent giving The Girlfriend Experience to men who want to be casual but are massive takers. Pro: Not seeking immediate attachments. Good for long-term FWB in Together Apart relationships that develop slowly.

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    7 years ago

    Con: old. Pro. Charismatic. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    7 years ago

    Con: Introverts and we can seem a bit standoffish Pro: We're both givers ;) We definitely need to work on our flirting game after being together for so long! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pro: call-out oxygen wasters to their face Con: renegade, set my own rules Lol 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pro -> funnyCon -> bastard

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pro :adaptable and empathetic Con: not much patience for others who can't adapt and empathise. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con- Too shy and introverted to ever post a comment on a public forum Pro- Exsellant Speling - Posted from rhpmobile

  • honkytonk

    honkytonk

    7 years ago

    pros - i love turtlescons - i love turtles

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: knowing Pro: knowing - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: avoids confrontation Pro: trustworthy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsBlissBombs

    MsBlissBombs

    7 years ago

    Con: i want a relationship - not many want that these days: fwb Pro: i give amazing bj's - no i don't have tickets on myself, have been told, numerous times. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pro - I'm a very generous friend. Once we become friends, I will always be there to help, listen or come to the rescue - if I am able. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ILikeItWet

    ILikeItWet

    7 years ago

    Con. Pro Pro. Con?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con : OCD Pro : Attention to detail - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pro Being damn sexy Con Not believing in my pros often enough! I feel I may have turned a corner and am damned determined to believe in myself! Bring on being sexy!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • SandeGiny

    SandeGiny

    7 years ago

    Con: I worry too much about things I cant control, feel guilty about things I am not guilty of and apologize for things that I need not apologize for. Pro: I am a fucking awesome singer and kick ass fronting my heavy rock band and belting out karaoke. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: insanely self critical Pro: insane social and relationship building skills - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: internalise everything Pro: honest - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: low tolerance of & judgemental towards incompetent people Pro: cheeky and caring - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con - believes too easily.. tries to see the good in too many people.. no matter how obvious it is that they’re lying.. results in lots of disappointment (for me) Pro - confident - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con or pro.......your choice "my words will either attract a strong mind or offend a weak one"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    You come up with some great post's...........Just saying

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con- loud mouthed Pro- cares a lot about those around me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: Highly demanding of myself Pro: very loyal and trustworthy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Morgan_Hedonist

    Morgan_Hedonist

    7 years ago

    Con: Stubborn - my friends sometimes call me The Goat 🤣 Pro: Decisiveness - in the military we had a saying; a 80% solution on time is better then a 100% solution to late. 16 years in the Army has embedded that trait in me 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I like your response pipsqueak - perfectionist as pro and con, I'll borrow that too xD - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pro empathetic - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con: hate confrontation Pro: very kind and a big heart do anything for anyone and very family orientated love them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Con tungsten tipped tongue :) Pro creative thinker