Playing the numbers

February 03 2020

My housemate is looking for a new partner and has gone on a few different sites. She hasn't even put a picture of herself and even any profile details other than her age. Within 2 hours she has had multiple friend requests, messages and matches. Roughly 50 in a matter of minutes when she showed me. So are men just playing the numbers now? With no information about her what so ever they are trying their luck in the Hope's of a reply? Is this a "gotta be in it to win it" mentality? It reminds me of Quagmire from Family guy where his tactic to score was asking every woman at a party until one says yes. No wonder it's a struggle 🤦‍♂️ - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    What do you mean they’re playing numbers now?? That’s how it’s been for years.... When I used to work security in pubs and clubs, the saying was “the establishment attracts the women....the men will follow the women.....” Mr dragon

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    ...it gives you a breakdown of who is online by gender and status.at any time there are usually seven times as many single men online as single women.Each day five new profiles are put on the front page in the Hot Girls section (also known as Fresh Meat) and those profiles will be seen by every single guy online, who will often shotgun off a message without reading the profile.if you click on those new profiles at least one will have already deleted her profile, perhaps overwhelmed and/or disgusted by the response. this issue is a regular topic on here, usually guys asking 'why won't women reply to my messages?'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    With soooooo many female profiles in here being f ake, the numbers game approach makes the game so much worse Its a strange game to play anyway It suggests that they have no standards, dont care about themselves or others much, and lack the ability to appeal to those people they find appealing And faced with that..... cutting through the noise snd lack of effort is easier 😎

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    6 years ago

    So you would have read any number of forums where this sort of exploding inbox was reported.Did you not believe those posts? This is the reality for the majority of women new to the site. Any dating/friends/fuck site really. And if you join multiple sites, it happens on each one... and quite often the same blokes on every site. But sometimes their story/profile changes, which can provide some light relief in the middle of the storm.