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Playmates

December 06 2009

My definition of a playmate is someone that catches up for regular funtime normally a couple times a week, although not always sexual.  You explore various sexual things together.  You are friends, normally a very good one.  You can see other people if you wish.  So more then a friends with benefits without the strings of being a girlfriend/boyfriend. I am sure others have their definition but that is mine and what I want.   During my time on here, I have only really found 2 playmates that were brilliant and fit the above.  I would have thought that playmates would appeal to quite a few guys considering that it can open other options to them, such as playing with couples for example where couples may not play with a single guy, and well there is that sort of guarantee of getting laid every week too lol . So why is it so hard to find a decent one?  Do guys not find playmates appealing?   Just asking, as me is very happy with mine at the moment      xx Miss Honey xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hugh Hefner made the term popular... but the only thing I have in common with him is a liking for pyjamas... when the weather is cold. Dear Missy you have described a utopian ideal which can exist for a finite period of time. Something always seems to skittle living that dream.... children, a job, marriage, weight gain, ageing or arthritis. If you're still living your golden period, then I say the very best of luck to you... as it does sound most blissful.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yes they are as rare as hens teeth.  Damn shame about that.  I think it is a very appealing choice actually, but each to their own.   xxMiss Honeyxx  <<

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The notion of 'Early' is an interesting one... it's a bit like is your glass half full or half empty? Have a tendency to work all hours and that often means a nap during the day and work all night, or very late getting to bed or in this mornings case... an early rise. Which then poses the question about the sweet Miss Honey's nocturnal activities? I somehow think you get to be a lot more lucky than I.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Miss Honey,   I've been looking all over but don't seem to be able to find a playmate. It seems to me either the girls are after a one-off encounter or looking for a boyfriend. Those that say they are looking for 'friends with benefits' don't seem to want what they say they want.   Unperturbed I keep looking. Unfortunately i'm in NSW otherwise i'd be happy to fill the role for you Miss Honey.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Playmates.... No that's fine. What's the question? I have some favourites. I'm not so sure about the twice a week thing.... that's more permanent than most guys are into. It's more of a relationship type of playmate. I bump into people I've shagged before and we shag again. That's a playmate. Random, not regular. See random, off the cuff, spur of the moment, coincidental, mutually convenient opportunity, out of the blue repeat lovers.... they're playmates. Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Too much control...finks it is the difference between married and singles there Gaz...some would be here more then that if I let em. Finks twice a week is quite reasonable.   xx Missy Honey xx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    that all this travelling backwards and forwards between wa and vic is killing me...fly in ta perth...drive ta see ya....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmdrive back ta perth....fly back ta melb....work a bit....fly back ta perth....drive ta see ya.....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmdrive back ta perth...fly back ta melb.....yanno wot i mean....i is feeling a wee bit tired...but BOY OH BOY...AM I LOVING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!...ya is soooooooooo hot.....giggles...hehejose....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well at least ya getting ya frequent something award points  ...not sure what ya can get when ya reach the level, will have to thinkies about that one hehehe.   Smacks Jose on his nakey bot bot.   xxMiss Honeyxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hmmmm is it wrong to have three or four playmates ??? then we are all happy...plenty of....attention and not too demanding for one guy to meet the twice a week schedule ??? but frankly miss honey...twice a week ??? me thinks is on a diet lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    This sex thing tends to be habit forming... Though what form of habit is another thing. Some women want more whilst others you would swear the damn thing had healed up and they were about to join a nunnery. On the other hand... the situation and occasion effects opportunities. Though it never ceases to surprise me when and where people have sex. It's nice when there are no constraints like other pressing chores to be done and one can go with the flow without ankle bitters of door knockers or incessant phone calls. In the ideal world it would be nice to feel consistently horny and in the mood with a partner similarly inclined. Having everything fall into place is another thing... starting with the availability of willing playmates.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Peeky, me would have it every day, for breaky, lunch and dinner if I could, but alas other committments some times takes over on both sides.  The two times a week is just a nice to have, some times it is more, some times it is less, thankfully not less that often.   Eunuch, as with anything starting up, it comes down to communication, and part of that is about the frequency. I will be upfront with prospective playmates on what I can give and see if they suit.  Saying all that it is lovely to have someone distract you occassionally, so I do make time where I can. <<< not to be mistaken for a booty call coz that it aint.   Sometimes those spontaneous ones are the best hehe.   xx Miss Honey xx