Poly girls

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  I’ve just joined and learning my way around so unfortunately no help but I am reading this with interest as a bi-curious lady keen to meet a couple.

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  Rlee552

  5 years ago

  There are a lot of posts on RHP about couples struggling to find a bisexual female for sex. I suspect finding a unicorn for the purpose of forming a throuple will be even more difficult - at least through this site. Wish you the best of luck in your journey.

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  SpicyKale

  5 years ago

  Ok, reverse the question for a second... how does a poly women find you? We’re talking poly here, a committed relationship, not just a sexual fling. Read your profile back and contemplate if you’d contact your profile for a poly relationship? There are a couple of dating (non swinging) sites that have poly options, but it would probably be bad form to mention them on the pie’s forum. Google will help! Good luck 😊

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  They find you! You don't find them. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  SpicyKale , I was thinking the same thing ! Almost like a single man with a couples profile.

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  Mrs_Deep_Love

  5 years ago

  FB has Polyam groups in which you can introduce yourself and join a community. I recommend Sydney Polyamoury.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Give up on finding unicorns move your energy to finding a couple....then it will rain unicorns and you wont be able to find a suitable couple....true story🤔

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  CaliAsianHotwife

  5 years ago

  There’s no special place or conditions - you live with open honesty about what you want, and treat women as people rather than sex toys for your marriage. (Not saying that you are, but most couples do) Start by really stabilizing your own relationship and having strong honest communication practices. Become ok with your marriage potentially ending - you will have pressures on issues you have never faced. Jealousy and not enoughness is normal and expected - don’t make it wrong or try to fix it - learn to grow through it together as a throuple. You are going to give up a good part of your relationship to make room for a third - reality is very different from fantasy. Rue man is now dating two women, not one; the women are dating one man, and they are also dating each other. Your relationship is not the same structure or dynamic as a 1:1 monogamous relationship. It’s an entirely different beast. Get to know people as friends, fall in love with them as a person, and ensure they feel loved by both of you. Inspire them to want to create a triad with you rather than request / pressure it. It’s gotta make sense to everyone. Be really honest with yourselves - if you don’t see a future with them, you might have a sexual fling but you won’t build a sustainable triad. All the same natural human attractions apply to poly relationship - it only works when people fall in love / want to be with each other more than be driven by the relationship label / fantasy / idea. You will work harder than ever before. Wanting a triad vs wanting a sexual tryst are not the same thing. That’s like fantasying about having babies but not really wanting to be a parent. All this advice comes from a couple who met a bi woman, and created a romantic, sexual, and domestic throuple / triad with her.

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  2wildinnewy

  5 years ago

  Wow!

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