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Private gallery etiquette

September 15 2018

Hi all, just curious to know how people feel about sharing their PG. We have quite a few public pics, so when the 1st or 2nd message is "can we see your PG" when all they have is one or 2 pics on their public profile and they haven't shared their pg yet, what message is that sending? We understand seeking mutual attraction before getting carried away with messages, but what is the appropriate etiquette in this situation? Like most couples we're often ghosted after the pg opening (perhaps because it's just our faces and nothing too titillating), but we've grown a thick skin. So long as both parties share the pg, then we really have no problem with the rejection and rudeness, just think it's inappropriate to ask when they can see more of us than we of them. Thoughts?

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RHP User

7 years ago

My rule is simple - those that are requesting must open theirs first. Simple.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Someone generally has to go first though i agree we have quite a few pics up and we get the same messages saying can we see your pg even though you cant see anyyhing of them lol

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RHP User

7 years ago

I agree OkeyDoke, the asker should show first. How annoying is that sweetnsensual! Seems to be the norm though. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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XBonnieClydeX

7 years ago

There are definitely a lot of pic collectors on RHP. However in saying that, we like to share face pics with others straight up. We like to know who we are talking to before entering into further conversation. We will share our raunchier pics if we like what we see of their face pics and want to take things further 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Generally, if we initiate contact we will include our PG access with it so you can see us clearly. Like wise, we Expect to see what you look like too early on. Again, if ask for ours, then etiquette would dictate that you open yours first. Seems to be just good manners.

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HotNightsGC

7 years ago

The initial message sender should open their pics with the message. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MissRedFox

7 years ago

After too many requesting to see it early I want to meet people so I put up enough pics to help someone determine attraction - face indication of body type If someone asks me to see my non existent of within a few messages I stop messaging them back - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Yes red it is annoying but it’s human nature and expect 90percent to either ghost you or not send theirs back. It doesn’t bother me so much anymore! We are excited about staying at Glenelg and the Adelaide Markets in a few weeks - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

When they say that they don’t have any face pics as they don’t feel comfortable sending theirs for whatever reason. We all have loved beyond this site and we all prefer discretion and to have normal lives cross paths with this would be awkward however requesting to see face pics and saying in the same sentence they don’t share theirs is a thanks but we’ll slow things down for me. The two galleries is also beneficial - save some of the pics for those as opposed to putting it all on display in the public gallery is my thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

If I'm asking for someone's PG I send ours with the question. If I see you have looked at our profile and not sent your PG in return (I do give 24hr) then I remove permission for you to see ours. I usually ask for pictures straight away if you don't have any public ones but have some in PG. If you have a few public will ask for them after a few messages and we think we are compatible. We received a message tonight saying love your profile and pictures I'll send my pg if you send me yours. I politely declined. Your asking me for mine you send yours first. Mrs B - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

You don't have actual face pics on display, so it could come down to a "I'll you mine, you show me yours"? Peachy, just guessing...

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RHP User

7 years ago

Its just the risk you take.My PG only has face pics. Its that way because if i load them up in a public gallery......well they are just outhere. I guess all you can do is just chat first, see if there's a connection etc. But i suppose where the rubber hits the road is if there's physical attraction as well before arranging a meet? Someone has to go first, otherwise the next three messages will be . No you go. No you first. But I'm shy. Ok rock paper scissors.Just send you PG, if nothing then pull back on the access.

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RHP User

7 years ago

Particularly single guys with very few pics of their own. We disregard them and move on as its easy to tell between genuine or not in this case. - Posted from rhpmobile

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