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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  You have a validation, so I assume you have had at least one hit. My hunch is its because you're in a committed relationship and even kinksters (though not all of us) like the idea of a potential relationship evolving. Though another factor is the ratio of men to women here always puts it in women's favour, and truth be told, there's a lot of incredibly hot guys here who are unattached. You've got tough competition.

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  usnow

  9 years ago

  Your married .While many ladies on here say they are ok with a no strings or casual arrangement , they always like to be able to change their minds and have what they like .They want the ability to have it both ways .

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Maybe a few more photos of you in more social scenes, thats something I need to do actually. I've been on here as a single gentleman for a month or so now and I've only had one meeting, be it a very good one :)Just remember that single men on here are in abundance so patience is essential and always be polite even in the face of rejection. I like to think of this whole process as an acting audition, it's a lot to do with being in the right place at the right time and you're going to face a lot of rejection before you get a hit.Remember that despite their obvious talant there was a guy who said no to a record deal with the Beatles :)

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  You have a validation, you have several friends so l don't see anything to justify an advertising thread.

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  VillainNVixen

  9 years ago

  Theres more to this than putting a profile up and seeing what bites. Hit some people up and you might get some interest back

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  That's a sure way to get you noticed. I should know 😜 Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  You say you're only available one weekend a month. A lot of women on here are looking for something more regular than that (whether they are or aren't looking for a relationship). Lack of availability, having to follow rules about what can and can't be done, etc. means attached men aren't an appealing prospect for many women. You're competing against a whole lot of single men on here, and even most of them struggle. You've got one validation so you're already doing better than many.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I don't discriminate regarding status, however, as Sharonski said, we are spoilt for choice. A married guy has to match or better the competition, usually better the others, to get a look in. Facial hair, varying lengths depending on the day? It looks scruffy and lazy, to me anyway, and my first thought with married guys is they've gotten lazy, let themselves go. Being married won't get a sympathy, you have to match up to the competition, blunt but true. I think you look better with a closer shave (like your picture in the car) or no facial hair. Tidy yourself up, get in shape, it's a tough playing field. Good luck 😃

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  sympathy fuck I meant and also didn't mean to suggest all married men let themselves go, just if I'm already thinking that way, the married status isn't going to help

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  the other thing is no body shots. Face pictures are great, but if I'm considering having sex with someone, I need to see and be attracted to the whole person. That on it's own, or combined with body type - average - in your stats, would be an instant no reply, because it looks like you don't want to show your body, through my eyes anyway

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  Freaky_Fun

  9 years ago

  Oh yeah and you're married unless your wife wishes to join in of course.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I will be sure to hit harder next time

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