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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Not being the female of a couple, or even of the species, take this how you will, but my perspective is: Pics seem fine, they show both you and your partner, so someone can easily see if you are their physical type. They are nice and not sleazy or poor quality. Plus there are a couple of naughtier pics, but not too naughty, to whet the appetite. So all good there. The stats are complete, so I don't think anyone could complain about that. Description is good, it lays out your situation, what you are after and how you would go about it pretty well. I don't think anyone could be confused by that. About the only things I could think of were: - a strange mention of shopping. It is a bit jarring and confusing. Do you want this person to be a friend out of the bedroom too? - is your ideal partner going to play mostly with yourself, or do you want to (for example) watch her getting it on with your partner? Maybe spell out a bit more what you would be expecting/wanting from a prospective lady. - age range. You specify you are looking for a lady younger than yourself, which might limit your options. What if someone was a couple of years older? If you are not having much success with your profile as it is, I suspect it is simply because you are trying to find one of the ever-elusive unicorns? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  You are after the magical unicorn which are hard to find. If you think your profile captures the real you, then that's all you can do. Most unicorns find it easier to go to parties where they can chat and choose without lots of unsuccessful drink/coffee dates. Then when they really click with a couple, private meets can be arranged. Good luck

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  LissnJules

  8 years ago

  Obsidian Took last part of description out i think that comes from there generic ones that allot of people start with. Age is younger than me mainly because of my partners age him being so much younger. And i might consider adding more about expectations but in the past we have gone wth the flow and often let the third give their input on what they want. AnnieWhichway Thanks we have had several unicorns and they are a rare creature to find. Maybe a party might be next on the list as an option. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Can I ask guys, how do I give access to members of my private pics?

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  AnnieWhichway

  8 years ago

  When sending or replying to a message, access can be given by checking the box on top right hand side. Not sure about the app though, never use it

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  MsJonesy

  8 years ago

  The use of the word friendship in your byline, but the profile write up uses the dreaded fun word a couple of times. To me they are nearly the opposite ends of the spectrum in swinging land. So which is it that best describes what you seek? I agree with Obsidian; be more specific about how play might happen; is your ideal play equal opportunity participation, or ff with m joining in later, or you (liss) watching m play with the f? When I read a profile, I want to get some idea of what you like. Sure, go with the flow is great, but there must be some scenarios in your profile which capture my attention. Also.... what is in it for her - or for them if you are trying to appeal to couples as well as unicorns. If your profile reads like its only about your pleasure and fantasies it wont appeal to others at all (not saying yours does this, but worth having a think).

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  LissnJules

  8 years ago

  MsJonsey thanks so much i guess for us friendship has become part of this journey as we have become friends with lots of people we have met along the way and also ones we have played with. Our play had varied depending on the other person involved and what they are after. But i have added a little description. Nothing too specific. - Posted from rhpmobile

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