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Profile Advice Please

June 19 2021

I'm genuinely confused and perplexed by this place and ready to throw in the towel So I'm going to put us out there for some constructive feedback please. We are an attractive (as we've been told) couple with tasteful photos on our profile. Our profile is quite long, I will agree, but I think it explains quite articulately what we are looking for. We've had countless messages with other couples, we are always polite but inquisitive without being pushy, show our faces as soon as asked and generally appear to be 'doing all the right things' so why the hell cant we take it to the next level with anyone? We've even put myself out there as a potential unicorn! A recent ghosting has us really questioning our existence here affter receiving a message from a woman who appeared to be our perfect match. She initiated messages, replied to ours quickly, showed a lot of interest, appeared to be open and honest and was just gorgeous. The connection and chemistry was the strongest yet. We were just waiting for lockdown to end so we could meet. Then BANG, just like that the messages ceased. We didn't want to appear desperate but sent 2 messages, one inviting her to let us know if she wasn't feeling it anymore - no hard feelings and the second just asking her if she was okay. Messages were read but no response. The part I just dont understand is that she has viewed our profile several times!! WTF is with that? Now before anyone comments about her being fake, we are a mature couple and I've had a lot of experience on this and other sex websites over the years, I have a very keen gut instinct and can spot a fake a mile away. I am 99.9999% sure that this was not a fake profile. We'd really appreciate some constructive feedback about our profile and approach. Tell me what you would think, reading our profile, if we matched? Keep it nice please :)

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RHP User

5 years ago

Superb profile - almost as good as ours even! Well done. ...velvet skin, pussy like a peach..." Gotta love it! No profile advice whatsoever, only: "Patience, patience, patience." Good luck! You'll get there.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Unfortunately this behaviour is common place, you can appear to do al the right things and still fail.

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SpicyKale

5 years ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with your profile, classy pics, well written, wouldn’t change it. If you’re just chasing single women, there’s a stack of competition and she may have just changed her mind and gone with one of the other 80 messages she received yesterday! People change their minds, people can be arseholes online, people create fake single ladies profiles all the time. The pie is only one way of meeting people, get out to events too, and use this place as part of the way you find others. We find people from all sorts of other avenues other than here…. at a guess on average out of every twenty five we chat with, we might find two that we click with and play with one. Don’t settle out take one for the team, online is time consuming and hard, but there’s gems out there! Good luck!

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RHP User

5 years ago

Hubby looks less appealing, even from the vack. Maybe play by yourself. Just being honest. You did ask

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RHP User

5 years ago

Even from the 'back'

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teamaj2

5 years ago

I love your profile. It’s absolutely perfect . As for the disappointment of suddenly someone disappearing -it’s a common occurrence. As has been said , maybe a fake profile . Maybe they had a change of heart for any number of reasons . We of course have had this happen to us . Twice over lockdown . It definitely would’ve been preferable to get the - ‘ I’ve had a change of heart ‘ but they owe us no excuse . Silence says it all . In our case, perhaps the chat having gone on for so long lost momentum? For me ( the one that does the online chatting ) the silence can feel a bit uncomfortable after having shared intimate details . The sense of discomfort quickly evaporates . I do agree once again with Spicy . What you seek maybe easier to find at an event / party . Hoping that you stay positive and find whom you are seeking . Lets hope that all good things are worth the wait . Good luck . Ax

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ArtsyLusttty

5 years ago

Have you thought that she may think you guys are not her cup of tea...? 🤷🏽‍♀️

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blix_and_queen

5 years ago

Stunning profile not you but them. If you are up this way look us up.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Personally I like to see couples together in their profile pics. I just get the feeling that seperate selfies are just 2 fuck buddies teamed up to get a unicorn. As for ghosting, happens all the time online. Shes probably chatting with 10 couples and focussing on the one that appeals to her needs. She wont tell you that. Just leave you hanging in limbo,in case she gets ghosted and goes back to option 2 or 3 🤣 Online is pretty crap. Use the site for events.Go to venues, ,meet & greets. They work.

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Bi_Fem

5 years ago

What blix_and_queen said 🙂

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MsSuperFoxy

5 years ago

A nice happy profile pic of a couple, is appealing. It gives people a choice. Ms Foxy

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2EssesExploring

5 years ago

I read your profile first before reading your post and thought it was a great one. I don’t think you need to change a thing, your photos are nice and tasteful and your words articulate exactly who you are and what you’re looking for. I hope your matches are lucky enough to find you! Xxx

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RHP User

5 years ago

Really nice profile and you sound like a great couple. I have no real advice accept just keep being yourselves and the right people or person will come along. In the meantime enjoy each other, having that is a blessing in itself.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Bottom line, people are lazy and not genuinely on here to find people. The number of profiles using generic descriptions is a good indication of this. Don't be disheartened. You DON'T want to have sex with those people.

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RHP User

4 years ago

Hi your profile is fine. Good length. Good detail. Your pics are fine as well. Decent, genuine people are difficult to find on rhp, that's all. It's not you guys.

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