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Profile Explanation ??

November 01 2015

Ok so I'm quite new to this not always online ect but when I am I intend to come across hot girls/women profiles and quite a few says do not message me saying hi ? How are you ? Or how is your day ? Because if you do you will not get a reply ? I clearly do not understand this because how else are you suppose to spark a conversation ? Believe me I'm a young confident man who trains an works out I wouldn't have any problems with girls on nights out Ect ? Yes you can also right some random story to catch there attention or what ever but it's mind boggling this site you try to be nice and get to know some new people but yet it's not good enough 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Youre a great guy, and very genuine. Unfortunately its "single guy profile syndrome" There are so many women on here compared to men. Why dont you put a pic of your smiling face up there, pics are always a plus when we look at profiles? And come along to the next meet and greet, its the best way of meeting new people?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Those kind of messages can get pretty annoying. You cant have a "how are you?" conversation via message. God they can be bad enough in real life sometimes :)Its better if something non generic is added. Whether that is a comment about the profile, the person's location.......whatever. Ask some sort of question other than "how are you or how is your day/weekend".

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks for the reply ;) yes maybe I should hehe well it doesn't really bother me to be honest I just didn't understand but I always unlock my pics soon as I chat it's just for safety reason as I have had some weird ppl also contact me on this and so no one copy's my pics , iv had a fake profile set up with me befor to so , but thanks for the reply ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    the written is always different to the spoken.... Unlock your mindset and you won't be so confused :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm a very positive young man an always have a great mind set well so I think 😂😂 cheers for tip mate - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why people write 'ect' when they mean 'etc'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hahahah yes fair point kind of agree myself when you say it that way :) and for the ect haha Ye theses I phones on auto correct always have a mind of there own always use that excuse ha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...take a gamble, message those people who interest you, be sure of yourself and just chat as if it's your best buddy standing in front of you. That's small talk.But always be you...don't try to be someone your not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Confidence is king 👍 Cheers brov - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Fr33Spirits' Why people write 'ect' when they mean 'etc' who cares if people can spell or not, I'm getting so tired of people in this forum correcting others on their spelling, and for the record, I'm good at spelling, but I take offence for those highly intelligent and sexy people who get slammed for incorrect spelling. Do you ask someone if they can spell before you hook up with them? Just wondered

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hahahah that's very very true I seen lots of people who say must be able to spell , what the fuck had spelling got to do with a persons looks an personality , some times I just use text message words anyways for short an quicker texting - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When almost every guy in RHP sends messages which take one of three main forms...... people get bored/frustrated/annoyed..... and you get lost in the blah, the meh, and the same old same old. capice?!

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'Fr33Spirits' Why people write 'ect' when they mean 'etc' who cares if people can spell or not, I'm getting so tired of people in this forum correcting others on their spelling, and for the record, I'm good at spelling, but I take offence for those highly intelligent and sexy people who get slammed for incorrect spelling. Do you ask someone if they can spell before you hook up with them? Just wondered Sorry for diverting the topic but agree completely with you. But there is something that is even more amusing. Every now and then someone will post "No reply is rude" topic. I consider demanding a reply very rude. I do consider it can be rude for me not to reply but I don't judge others with my values. So even I will reply to others but if others don't reply I don't consider it rude and in fact I consider it very rude to complain about not getting answer. There is a big difference between saying hello in the street in 60~80s vs getting a online message from a stranger in 2015. For many silence is a valid way of replying. In many cultures silence is a valid reply. If you consider no reply is rude by all means feel free to reply to every message but when you don't receive reply don't use your values to judge it as rude.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    messaging at all ? It's only an invitation to disappointment, abuse, or the new fashion here "scorn the messenger" I think most of you would be better of just wanking.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Bitter much?

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    a few contact messages that are generic where they add the personal details to make it appear written just for you. They have been refined over the years, added to, altered for maximum strike rate. But my point being they are effective for grabbing attention and standing out from the crowd. They tend to make you reply just because they are different. But they need to be good otherwise you have the opposite effect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Wet_Paint' messaging at all ? It's only an invitation to disappointment, abuse, or the new fashion here "scorn the messenger" I think most of you would be better of just wanking. Is the colour of that wet paint called.... "JADED"? You're a cheery one.... maybe that has something to do with the experiences you're relaying. Misery may love company, but it rarely gets any. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm actually happy as, just reflecting back some of the miserable attitudes around here. See Venting.