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Profile blocking - when and why?
September 20 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
but I have on another site for essentially the same reasons as you.I don't see the need for offensiveness - that can mean personal abuse, or simply a lewd message from someone far outside my personal criteria - and will block the profile immediately.I haven't yet had a situation of somebody not taking no for an answer yet - I think there has to be contact made for that to happen!
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RHP User
14 years ago
irresponsibility, I don't understand what is happening to you. The only reasons that anyone would block someone is for the reasons that you have stated which are very legitimate. The only thing that I can think of is that some of the people make friends with others on the site and I am sure that other members are mentioned in their discussions. Maybe the profiles that have blocked you are friends of someone that you have blocked. Just a thought.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Really, truly offensive opening mails. Example: "do ya wanna be a dirty sub"^note that my profile in NO WAY invited this comment...Repeat flirts/messages from penises (oh sorry) I mean guys with nothing but cockshots...Repeat flirts/messages from people *clearly* outside my preferred criteria.Repeat stupidity, basically
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luvsilver
14 years ago
We only block people who seem irresponsible BUT being serious-we only have a few on our blocked list and they are people that have continued to send inappropriate messages after we have told them we are not for them (or us for them) and don't get the hint.We also have 2 people on our blocked list that are very nice people but we know them through our everyday lives.They sent us a message not knowing who we were so we blocked them.We understand we are all here on the same site but would still prefer our secret dark side stays just that-secret. Mr Luvsilver.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have had contact with 8 of the 10 people on my blocked list .. 4 stood me up, four were rude and abusive in forum or PMs .. and two came out of continual viewing after I posted on the forums and a cohort of theirs attacked me on the post ..I have reported 3 of the 4 for their rude and abusive harassments .. But I have not blocked or found myself blocked by anyone with whom i have NOT had some form of contact .. and dont have an answer as to why people would do such a thing
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RHP User
14 years ago
Once or twice as well and it confused the hell out of me One kept repeatedly viewing my profile, had never sent so much as a flirt let alone a msg, yet I was blocked form viewing his???? I wondered if he perhaps had unchecked the feature 'Make my profile visible to others' or something like that. I thought it may have been my ex stalking me, and asked a fellow rhp'er if they'd mind just seeing if they could view it, they could....so I blocked the creepy turd right back.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
I think they have their visibility set to not show when they view a profile and as they cruise through profiles they automatically block those who they don't think fit what they are looking for. That way they wont get messages or flirts from them because their profile is not accessible by those they have blocked. ET xox
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'irresponsibility'I only block people who have been offensive towards me or not taken no for an answer. The proper way to use it I think. I had someone reply to my message with a question asking me to explain something about my profile and then block me so I could not answer... ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Someone has veiwed my profile and I have gone to look at thiers only to discover it blocked to me. WTF? I only block those that are rude or cannot take a simple no for an answer let alone a more explosive "FUCK OFF"
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RHP User
14 years ago
Pretty much the same as you, if we find someone offensive, or if they have blocked you. We wonder sometimes, if our profile could be set by us to be only viewable by people that match what you are looking for?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Haha.... Sheesh, I get maybe 30 profile views a month, and a flirt every second month (usually from an over50's male) it'd takes a pretty special (or popular!) male on here to lower their odds even further by blocking ladies. . I have noone on my blocked list, even the biggest f&%^wits on here are welcome (you know who you are). With the exception of people that harrass you, I don't see the point in blocking anyone, let alone someone you haven't even communicated with. Very odd.
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
After a few weeks, I just decided to block the whole damn lot an the only unblock the ones that would talk to me. Saves all the hassles and embarrassment of the pandering for sex....and cuts down on the time I spend answering emails from anyone that only wants to tease me. | That way, I have time for the forums.
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RHP User
14 years ago
....I had a guy add me to his hot list, zilch contact & his profile is blocked/locked .......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just laugh when I get blocked, its their loss not mine & like CM says cuts down on the messages recieved etc. Just this morning I was looking for another lady to come & play with a bi lady friend & myself. Did a search with the right boxes checked, had a couple of choices & messaged a lady along the lines of "hi hows it going.......... would you be interested in joining us etc & feel free to ask any questions you may have" (it was a bit more detailed but thats the gist of the message" I got a reply with "NOOOOOOOOOOOO & your a fool" to which i replied back suggesting she try a few swear words along with the petty insult to truely demonstrate a lack of inteligence. That was reason enough to block her. It does make me wonder how some people manage to get thru the day with their limited people skills, hell I have pot plants smarter than some people I have encountered on here. Cheers C
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' and cuts down on the time I spend answering emails from anyone that only wants to tease me. | Dont you like to be teased ? Not even a little?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I block when people are abusive, obviously haven't read my profile, send me the exact same message they sent last month (that I replied to!!) or send repeated flirts (usually after about the 10th time).Thinking of taking a leaf out of Midnight's book and blocking the lot of 'em!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' . I have noone on my blocked list, even the biggest f&%^wits on here are welcome (you know who you are). Did that make you feel better?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have been blocked a few times, which is all fine, there loss not mine. What I find strange though is if you send a flirt and if your not interested, justfkirt back saying not interestred. To those that have replied, thanks, I think we have all had a great time
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are people who keep flirting and messaging after a no thanks, I block them to save myself the trouble of clicking on their profile, seeing who it is and remembering "oooohhh, that guy, yeah I'm still not interested" then getting half a dozen flirts from them again when they see that I visited their profile. It's a time-saver and I like to think it cuts down on them getting their hopes up by seeing I've checked their profile again, cos it doesn't mean anything good, i just means I forgot I wasn't interested.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Monkey24' just flirt back saying not interested. You assume that people who look over this site with their *one little eye* actually read the reply flirt that says we're not interested? Aw you sweet naive thing LOLxx Sarah
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RHP User
14 years ago
Of course I'm fine with teasing and the more sensual the better, | Quoting 'fionabee' Dont you like to be teased ? Not even a little? I only get annoyed when they put MC Hammer on and start busting moves to "Can't Touch This". Then I hit block... | ...and annoy the hell out of them right back too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
if its obvious the person messaging us hasnt read our profile we block them...... if they are attached we block them.......if they are smokers we block them.........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Monkey24' I have been blocked a few times, which is all fine, there loss not mine. What I find strange though is if you send a flirt and if your not interested, justfkirt back saying not interestred. To those that have replied, thanks, I think we have all had a great time
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RHP User
14 years ago
yeah monkey we know that feeling as i say to hubby,if they dont like the look of us then dont fucking look at us simple.but what i find funny is most of them r friends n they take us off their friends list n then block us if u dont want to b friends then dont add us. do what i do im starting to block ppl n they dont like it.AS I SAY U PPL WILL NEVER KNOW WHAT RED NWETPUSSY R REALLY LIKE IN THE BEDROOM THATS UR LOSS NOT OURS.i dont give a shit if ppl block us. mawh.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yep, that's right, straight out... Weirdo's.. They're everywhere. Just block them right back or ignore them and think to yourself, thank the heavens I'm not like that.
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contemplating1
14 years ago
Having been here only "5 minutes" I haven't encountered blocking dramas either way. Thanks to the informative posts above I'm expanding my internal db.....Wonders never cease! (As long as I don't corruptmy internal db with too much red!) Have a gr8 w/e!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Unfortunatly there are ppl that do odd things on the site and one of them is that if they see that you have checked their profile it means you want to fuck them. This can lead to disappointment. I am very surprised about the amount of younger straight guys who check my own profile and then realise most of them have been checking Mrs 2' own profile and they were checking out her friends list or at lest her verifiers lol. One cpl blocked my profile and our cpls profile so I asked Mrs 2 if her profile ws blocked and she said no they seemed a nice cpl andthey wanted her alone to play with them, which she wasn't interested. In other words they were being sneaky and giving Mrs 2 the impression they were interested in both of us. We have since found out "he" in this other cpl is not very nice to playmates. So we now block them and remove them from hotlists etc etc
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RHP User
14 years ago
we block a few straight away...smokers, marrieds, short fat uglies.........and guys who send messages and invites etc and its obvious they've not read our profile, just saw pics and gone straight to the keyboard..........we block those that annoy or offend us, and those who wont take no for an answer.......we block many, but have yet to block a woman or a many couples............have yet to work that one out........lol
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