RHP drinks night

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  Freaky_Fun

  7 years ago

  I hosted a Meet and Greet in July for 120 people so it would depend on a few things as to how many people go. I haven't been to a Sydney event but Melbourne had similar numbers. I dont feel awkward attending events, parties or clubs as a single female but thats me. Just be confident. Or fake it til you make it. As for single men outnumbering anyone at a drinks night highly unlikely and has never happened at drink nights or meet and greets I've attended but then l don't blame them for not going. Some events are even organised by single men. I know right who would have thunk.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  That can happen anywhere, anytime.Take one of your friends and do it...........Go on, I dare you Once you've "jumped in" that awkwardness kinda disappears......May take two or three tries though

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  boobsandbusted

  7 years ago

  hardest bit is walking through the door ,after that tou will find many people just like yourself completely normal having a great night laughing and yapping with each other making new friends catching up with old ones ,as for single guys out numbering the lady’s and couples ,yeah nah,single guys just like to hit the interested button , fantasise and talk about it ,but only a handful ever turn up , if in doubt message the hosts of the night and tell them your a first time lady by herself ,i bet they will help out and introduce you to some friendly faces they know and help you feel at ease in a heartbeat mr b

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  We went to our first Meet and Greet in October. We were terrified for the first 30 seconds. Everyone there was friendly and respectful. There was no sex at the meet and greet, perhaps afterwards 😈💜

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  infusions

  7 years ago

  there are usually more single men than ladies who register for any event. But the truth is you may get 20% of those who register a would turn up.

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  3SM_Events

  7 years ago

  We are hosting a meet n greet on Saturday (17th). So far we have 120 ppl paid up and have only invited a single man after a single lady has paid to avoid a disparity in numbers. Shameless plug. Any perth ppl interested you still have 24 hours to get onboard lol

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  No arguement that the first is daunting no matter what gender you are when you walk in by yourself. But this community is so accepting, even more so than your vanilla ones. I have never experienced a moment of prejudice from anyone there at drink nights/meet greets and swingers clubs/parties. I may not be everyone's cup of tea but have never been made to feel that. Dont let your fears hold you back. There are lifetime friends to be made Good luck

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  AnnieWhichway

  7 years ago

  Maybe hubby busted her......

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  Curioustwo88

  7 years ago

  We’ve been to the Sydney ones a couple of times. The guests were mostly couples and a few single men. Pretty sure there were a few single ladies. We did find it a little awkward as people seemed to have their own clicks but each time we have chatted with other couples. The OSS “first timer” Monthly mingle they hold was a lot less awkward and the hosts were very good and connecting people and ensuring we were never alone. Hope that helps. Xx

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  My experiences..... women have outnumbered the men. But really, you shouldn’t worry snout numbers or demographics if you’re self confident and sociable

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I found out in 30seconds they all had heads and were human and very normal interesting people and no sex either. Well I kindah pulled one earlier cus I was nervous. The silly things you do when you are young before a party.And to think 25years later I was afraid to go HA!

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  SxcMissM

  7 years ago

  I have been to a few M and G nights as a single and i have found them fantastic, the hosts have a lot to do with that and what better way to get to know people with out having to worry about the pressure to play. I have met some wonderful people who i now call friends. Be brave be confident and go to a Meet and Greet

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  FredAndGinger2

  7 years ago

  Meet and Greet nights are the only way we meet people now. It's easy, it's fun and it's still a great night out regardless of who you meet or what happens after the event ;)

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