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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Taby, I don't find it too hard at all. I infact suffer the same problem with guys sending flirts with me. Sometimes, men just get tunnel vision and they only see what they want to see. And course when someone points out politely that they've been rejected, it damages their sensitive egos. I've leant just to hit the block botton. Hope that helps :)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We've had that which would explain our profile lol... Cheers... Mrs P'

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It probably doesn't help that you are one of the hottest girls on the planet. It does unusual things to the brain.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  It sucks, but the unfortunate truth is that alot of people, both male and female will just read into it what they want.For some, any reply is a good reply and a foot in the door. For others, your polite reply may be the only thing that ends up in their inbox all year! I think we all need to make each others lives easier by being clear about our needs / wants / desires / objections / lines in the sand etc etc etc. To give an example....Taby, i think your an incredibly attractive woman. You seem smart, together, up front, honest, and clear about your needs. You look gorgeous, fit, healthy, and passionate about life. If Hervey Bay and Sydney were somewhat closer, this message would be in your inbox, and not on a forum post. Hope all the eligible men take note of your post, they may just pull their socks up. Best of luck!!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  try a harsher denial... they may think that your niceness means you still are interested. it may sound stupid, but some people are only thinking with there little head on here ;)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  have we met before? i have lived in the bay, and worked with a taby on the island. Was that you? if so, drop me a line

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  The problem we're having is getting a reply at all! We send out flirts and then messages but nothing in return. To date we've only received a couple of "Thanks but no thanks" and we appreciate these just as much as the ones that are interested. Fair enough. A polite no is still a no but how are you supposed to interpret a no answer? We're not mind readers. It's just being polite.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Quoting 'customer69'Their brains can't function after they peek at your gorgeous self! I would have to agree on that point, rarely do I send flirts, and the messages i do send get very few replies, i 'm not one to send the usual crap about hey lets meet and have sex, prefer to at least get to know someone before hand Rich

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  If that's for Tabby, then we agree whole heartedly! :-)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Taby hun they look at you and think "No" means "OMG she sent me a wink OMG she said maybe (no) OMG she is the one OMG got to message her then she will be mine" etc etc etc

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  To be honest, I've always taken a no as a no and moved on. I've lost count though of the number of times I've been told to chase the girl. Girls say it, Married women say it, Relationship advice columnists say it ...how they're man didn't take no for an answer and asked for a date again and again ...I'm going to hire a large hall and pick 500 women at random and ask only that you come to a "generalised" (not after even fuzzy specifics ) dictionary about what words mean. If no means no then stop telling us no meant no till you caved and it said yes cause it leaves lovely girls like Taby getting replies she doesn't want from Guys who are following orders about being persistent. PS Not referring to the sex no... that's no in every language in the world including mine. Just referring to the "Your profile says you'd like to meet someone nice for coffee so I bought you a latte how about it? = No" answers

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I'm a bit late on this post but while i'm going to look very silly, I did not realise that the 'flirts' were actually message carriers. (Defensively, ego suffering) I hope this is more due to guests not being able to 'show' them and as such you tend to forget that it's something to explore even when you upgrade. Or maybe I'm just not paying attention to the details. Either way, thankfully, in finding this post I've learnt how it works and have returned those received (and can now appreciate the difference between interest and a friendly hello.) Is anyone else a little frustrated with the limited scope of responses though?

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