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Red Light
August 09 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me its their mannerism if they talk like an absolute bogan it turns me right off! living at home is another (especially if they are very family orientated)..arrogance..no one likes an arrogant ass!! body odor ...and I hate awkwardness...bad dress sense haha I cud go on and on rlly...
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RHP User
15 years ago
The Red flag starts waving if the conversation just dosent flow for me..Or they want an arm wrestle , thats a put off, or she doesnt get my jokes ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
it has to be a cock...if you have a cock im just not interested atm but normally...if they cant laugh at my jokes they have a problem..cause im funny so they obviously dont have a sense of humour and...yeah if they are still living at home with mummy and...if they drive a ford...unless they are willing bend me over the bonet and fuck me hard and fast...yeah a girl has her fantasies and...drinking and drug taking and...if he is short and...if he never see's his kids and...if he has red hair and... maybe i should stop now...cant give those presious men complexes now can we roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
If the conversation immediately turns to material possesions of one sort or another...it leaves me flat. | Is that a real "xxx" watch? No, I buy cheap copies to impress the unintelligent. | I that really your "xxx'? No, I had my company name painted on the side when the real owner was sleeping! | Next on the list is tyring to carry on a conversation and getting one word answers...and sometimes "yes" is the wrong answer! I don't do boring! | Last on the list...I will leave room for the rest of you. When I first meet someone I like them to dress appropriately for the time and place. There is a huge difference between casuially sensual, formal sexy....and the one I dislike, clothes direct from "Hookers are Us". Save those for later...on the streets, I prefer not to be seen with an obvious streewalker. Besides...the good ones in that profession have enough class not to show it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love to talk - now who would have guessed? So if you cant engage my mind forget it... and....Am a big one for personal hygiene - sorry but some odours need to be removed and....Sometimes its just not there - you know when there is just no physical reaction and you think nahhh not worth my effort and....They have obviously lied on their profile - you can tell when a person is ALOT bigger than what they say and older too and....They think you are funny, expect you to laugh at all their jokes and lets be frank here they just arent Will probably come back with more Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
1. Meeting, and finding you've lied about your height (why do guys do that??) 2. Self-absorbed - not everything has to be about you 3. No job, and still living at home. Been there, done that, not going there again 4. That sense of desperation, and gratefulness that they've met me... I'm sure you girls know what I'm talking about. 5. Clothing.. ok, I'm no clothes horse, and I don't wear the latest fashions, but I do dress appropriately. Turning up for a first meet in dirty, ripped jeans and stained shirts etc just doesn't cut it. To me, it shows a lack of respect both for yourself and the person you are meeting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
There is nothing that turns the switch to "off" faster than a lack of self confidence. Especially if on either this site or through other more personal communications...you meet someone that is overly timid...acts as if you are a hitman and they are the mark! This has happened...I paid for the drinks, said enjoy yours...and departed. No thanks...if I want a wet mop I will borrow one from my housekeeper. | The last one (until I think of another) is sitting there listening to a seemingly endless monologue about ex's, past relationships and a host of other male sins. This is now...that was then. And please, if you happen to be seeing a therapist about insecurity or self esteem issues...let me know it advance. I usually have other plans for you that do not include personal councilling! | Personal yes...councilling, well maybe coaching?
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RHP User
15 years ago
* Seeing wedding rings in pics on hands of supposed single men (and them saying they are recent photos) * juggling my clients around to meet for coffee with someone who" just cant wait to meet you". they dont show up......contact you again in a few days to say' hey lets meet up, cant wait to meet you' ........no apology, because they have forgotten they couldnt wait to meet you a few days ago..... * men who still live in the same house as their ex.....but really hate her. * messages to me saying that seeing I am 52, I must be really desperate and in need of some hot cock * messages to me saying they only want to cuddle and kiss as they are impotent. (try rsvp!) there you go....just a sample of a few of the red flags for me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
oh i have another. the no stop complements. and when a guy calls me babe, hun, darling etc on first meet. and answer a phone at the table without warning (eg i am expecting a call that will cause me to die if i dont answer it)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am entirely turned off from the attention seekers and the needy, the 15 sms's sent between leaving home and getting to work just to check what Im doing etc.playing with their phone while I talk to them, like like like like like this time like where we were like just like you know
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RHP User
15 years ago
When they don't make eye contact with me at all whilst conversing. If they bite their nails The obvious...if they look nothing like their profile (hence why now I have to see them on cam before meeting) If they throw back drink after drink Seeing a tan line where they just took off their wedding ring Forgetting to take off their wedding ring And many more, but too tired to think Night all xox xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
they go on and on and on and on....about their ex, their kids, their car(some of my pet peeves) they stare at you all through the 'date' to finally say you remind me of my mother/ex/sister they dont show, call, nothing then expect to meet again in a couple of weeks when they contact you they expect me to do all the travel for any meet but cant come to me EVER Kisses Focus PS Mr Recall - I'll stop sending those texts then shall I?
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RHP User
15 years ago
* being asked on first meet if I think I'm going to want to fuck other men* the sour stench of stale alcohol seeping through pores, great first impression that.* being asked to take them home with me and make them my "boy" - I have enough trouble looking after myself, I do not want a leech!* getting upset if I keep plans I've made with friends instead of being at their beck and call.* arranging play meets via sms straight after we've just fucked.* turning up to a hotel room and finding towels covered in shit in the corner (just WTF?)Hahaha - never encountered any of this behaviour before RHP - no wonder these guys are picking up on the net.
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RHP User
15 years ago
* turning up to a hotel room and finding towels covered in shit in the corner (just WTF?) i really really want you to explain that one...but im too scared to hear the answer roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
but I've got nothing. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'TassieRose'and...yeah if they are still living at home with mummy and...drinking and drug taking and...if he has red hair and... maybe i should stop now...cant give those presious men complexes now can we roxxyand.... missing teeth and...look at me attitudeand... my wife doesnt understand meand...my wife doesnt like sexand...unwashedand... anti deodorantand ..oh poor me , im so hard done byand ..my ex is a c***and....a smile like a broken picket fenceand... lack of basic hygieneand.... people who do nothing but talk about chat !!! and .... smokers ( convert here)and..... women that are the above as welloh dear
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RHP User
15 years ago
1. When meeting couples I hate it when then spend ages talking about their kids 2. When couples ask why I don't have kids, and when I plan to have kids. 3. Single guys telling how great they are in bed Good topic
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'blonde7915'1. When meeting couples I hate it when then spend ages talking about their kids 2. When couples ask why I don't have kids, and when I plan to have kids. 3. Single guys telling how great they are in bed Good topic I'm with you on the above - sheesh we dont all have kids nor want them... plus: ...when they wont take no for an answer ...they keep looking at your chest and refuse to make eye contact - I am more than a set of boobs (I think) Kisses Focus
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Mr_Invisible
15 years ago
So now I know why I didn't get laid during that spell in 2000-01 when my mum had a nervous breakdown and I rented out my apartment and moved back to look after herI became undesirable because I was living at home with mumAnd here I thought I was being a sweet caring supportive son
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm not into all the rules... so I'm quite prepared to accept people as they are.... of course, this doesnt mean that I'm easy. I think there has to be some kind of connection.... that doesn't feel forced... yep... it's all about the vibe. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
When they light up a smoke, its see you later for me.... Over weight, un healthy, lazy, no motivation, no goals.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' PS Mr Recall - I'll stop sending those texts then shall I? pfft if you're sending texts you're sending em to the wrong Rob in your address despite my subtle attempts to arrange another date
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
thats me baby! apart from the smoking bit lolbut newho!!ppl who are egotistical is a big nono for me...brag all u like coz i really dont care. if i did id probably pay for the sex from a male prostitute who prob earns more and can actually perform in bed!i dont mind ppl living at home for that is now common for me newho!just hate those ppl who ask why r u single? r u asking me coz u want to be with me? then dont bother asking! let me think of reasons why..... "im overweight, unhealthy, lazy, no motivation and no goals" :Poh oh and those guys that just presume that i am willing to sleep with them and other ppl in one go....i am not a dream angel to make all ur wishes come true! (eg wanting 3somes just coz ive tried it) most ppl ask this question even before we have even slept together. am i really going to refer u to others if i havent slept with u? ahahaha. ok now im venting! SORRY!
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