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Red red lips

November 28 2010

Need your input on something - obviously my profile pics are of me done up to the nines before a big night out full makeup and lipstick on. But the reality is that I rarely wear red lipstick in an every day situation nor do I wear as much makeup. I did change my pic recently just briefly to one were I was laughing without any make up on - but promptly got a message from someone saying I needed lipstick ??? So that pic has gone back into the PG vault. So ladies and gents if I was to meet you would you would you be disappointed if I turned up with no lipstick on? A friend recently told me that she didn't even recognise me from my profile pic - although I was a bit surprised at that! I assure you that is 100% me. So is that false advertising? Have you ever been in a situation when you have met someone you originally met online and thought who the hell is that ?? Kisses, Meeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i kinda liked yer smile man Earl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks Earl - I do believe you have access to my PG so you can see me smile any time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It's no more more false advertising than it was when you went out on the night you were dressed up for. Makeup may change the details, but not the fundamentals.Met someone who looked different to their profile pic? Yes, to the point of being totally unrecognisable as the same person.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    but that's just me :)lilmiss x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In terms of make-up, my preference is for less. I much prefer a 'cleaner', more natural look. As to your question of meeting someone who looked different to their pictures: not as yet. I think it's a natural inclination to post pics of yourself that put you in your best light. However, on occasion a still photo will capture you in a way that makes you look slightly different. As long as you're not posting pictures of someone else and trying to represent that that is you, then I think you should put up whichever shots you like. As an aside, one of the first people I ever met in person through online was one whose face I had not seen. A body shot, chatting online and speaking on the phone had been our only interaction. Talk about shitting myself when I rocked up. But hey, we went out for four years so I guess all's well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Beautiful women are beautiful with or without makeup. To some extent makeup constitutes a disguise, and in extreme cases might even be called deception :-)I love natural women without any makeup at all; I'm all for being who you are - maybe that's just the country boy in me :-) 'Society' & the pretentious, fake, image-conscious culture in which we live has created this expectation where many women feel compelled to use makeup just to feel they look 'normal' - or at least 'like everybody else'. That said, well-done - but not overdone - makeup can often - usually - make a woman look more attractive than she might otherwise, but I still feel somehow that it's 'faking it'.Personally, I can take it or leave it, but in answer to your question of would I be disappointed if you/whomever showed up without lipstick - absolutely not; not at all.My $0.02 :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Funny how you form pictures of people just from emailing, texting and even from their forum posts. Yet the reality can some times be completely different! On RHP, other sites and even in work situations. I recently saw some photos of a famous lady forum contributor who I always pictured as a hot blonde (with a whip in her hand for some reason) turns out she is a hot brunette with sexy lips. xxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Funny how you form pictures of people just from emailing, texting and even from their forum posts. Yet the reality can some times be completely different! On RHP, other sites and even in work situations. I recently saw some photos of a famous lady forum contributor who I always pictured as a hot blonde (with a whip in her hand for some reason) turns out she is a hot brunette with sexy lips. xxx Meeka Happens all the time at work. You communicate with a person via email or over the phone for ages, and then you finally meet. I don't think anyone has looked how I imagined them. Did she still have the whip? :) I missed the natural pic, more's the pity.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Red lipstick is wonderful darling and I'm sure you would look just wonderful without it. Your a beautiful woman with nice features. Robbo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    NEVER leave the house without lipstick on!!! I prefer a natural make up look during the day so usually only skim some tinted gloss over my lips for that......BUT........if I am going out at night I ALWAYS wear red lipstick......it makes me feel more powerful and confident......and I also heard on the radio that a study has been done and found that men are more likely to look longer at a woman wearing red lipstick!!!

  • nasty_n_xtal

    nasty_n_xtal

    15 years ago

    meeka we think make up or no make up u've got a beautiful smile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Reminds me of this problem I had. I went to the doctor with a worrying red rash on my penis (giant penis... sorry - it's the trend atm, important to be specific). He applied some lotion to it and it went away... Two weeks later I'm back there again. Same problem, same cure. The third time I was embarrassed and thinking I am just wasting his time, so asked if I could just buy some of the lotion. He said "Sure - it's make-up remover." . Make-up looks good... but when it comes to getting down, dirty and naked - you want skin on skin... and lips on lips and nothing in the way. Attractive is attractive - with or without makeup. I mean if you only find your partner attractive with make-up on, what do you think of them the rest of the time?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lipstick on , Lipstick off...either way is good for me Meeka x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Meeka.....All choices are perfect....you have a stunning smile....with or without makeup....Plus....its all in a kiss.....MmmmmChill

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry, I didn't notice you were wearing lipstick I was still staring at your eyes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Why would you allow one persons opinion make you hide your pic of you with no makeup? I personally LOVED that pic, when I saw it, your smile made me smile! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    how did i miss the other shot...im sorry Meeka i love your red lips...they look hot to me and i love the pic where we can see your gorgeous face but put the other one back up..i wanna see too lol but then we dont always look like our pics...il let you in on a little secret, my main pic isnt me as for meeting someone that doesnt look like their pics...nope i think everyone iv met has pretty much looked like what i thought sometimes iv met someone and have been pleasantly surprised...but only because the pic wasnt a good one..bad llighting or whatever....so that to me has been an added bonus lol i reckon put up whatever pic your comfortable with roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    With or without you are still attractive. Ignore comments from the ignorant and just be yourself. But don't ever go blonde!! I went from dull brown to blonde and lost about 50 IQ points.

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    15 years ago

    I love red lipstick, it does catch the eye and makes the woman stand out in a crowd. In saying that, like you Meeka, I wouldn't ever wear it during the day as it's a bit much. But I do wear make-up whenever i'm in public. It is amazing how much of a difference it can make though, to the point where as some have said the woman can look completely different without it! I don't care though. It makes me feel more sexy and confident with it on, and why not improve your assets if you can by emphasising them. I think your profile picture with the red lipstick is gorgeous! Do whatever makes you feel happy and screw people who aren't happy with it, you can't please everyone and shouldn't be trying to please anyone but number one..yourself! Miss Didactic xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Have you ever been in a situation when you have met someone you originally met online and thought who the hell is that ?? People change all the time. For hairstyle or color to body shape. Most people probably don't update there gallery to reflect that. That's probably why people don't match there photos when you meet them.I assure you that is 100% me. So is that false advertising? I think you have answered your own question. If the pics are 100% you then it isn't false advertising. Make up has been used for centuries to enhance a woman's looks. So its obvious there would be a difference in appearance. Some people are naturally beautiful others need a little make up to appear more attractive. My advice is don't over do it or you will look pasty.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    From a few conversations I have had with pple on RHP and from speed dating (hated that :( ) Some men have met up with women who when they turn up are someone completely different just because they have used a photo which is 10 years old or one guy said that a women was using a picture of her daughter as her profile pic. Hehehehe...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    And thank you everyone for the very kind comments. Awww shucks xxxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Meeka you have the most gorgeous smile i love the red lips...but i love this one more hubba hubba roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Meeka, You look mighty fine as you are. Red is nice definitely, but do what you want. It's got though all these years and it get you through a few more yet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey Funlovin - don't worry I would never let a loser like that change my opinions. I put it back in the PG vault because I thought it would be too recognisable as me. Wanted a little discretion. So the pic is up for now but probably not for long. Why do you not have a pic anymore?? xxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The no makeup pic gets my appreciation Meeka.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hey Meeka, Ill dance naked in the moonlight with you, with or without make up sweetheart.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    haha, I get so used to the profile pics I honestly thought it was a new forumer in your no-lipstick pic, only just realised it wasn't red-lipstick meeka :)either one is good, though I do like the lippy one, all those colours and shadows n stuff. (time late, me dehydrated, need bed, vocabulary - gone *caveman voice*)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    By the way, I loved Jeano's sore penis joke.Makeup?... Some women never leave their homes without some makeup on their face.... but for a profile pic, there's nothing wrong about using a bit of self promotion. What's with Lipstick? .... It's well established fact that a wry smirk from a pair of shiny ruby red lips sends the sexy signal... at a subliminal level it's kind of saying "I'm healthy"... as opposed to dry cracked and palid lips which say I've got the black plague or sommat. Anyway, your "natural" photo also shows a pair of shiny red lips, good healthy teeth... and that smile... smiling people get dates! :pHugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have a good health coat and can run fast on four legs. WOOF. HEHEHEHEHHE xxxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My personal preference is for just a little make up to highlight. To much make up, over done hair SCREAMS high maintenance. You look great in all of your profile pic's, which means that you are a very skilled photographer, or just dam hot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Hey Funlovin - don't worry I would never let a loser like that change my opinions. I put it back in the PG vault because I thought it would be too recognisable as me. Wanted a little discretion. So the pic is up for now but probably not for long. Why do you not have a pic anymore?? xxx Meeka I am on strike ATM lol... xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh...... Have you ever tried to run your fingers through someone’s hair and found that it was being held in place by enough hairspray to hold back a small tsunami? Disentangling from such a mess and replacing removed pieces of scalp can kill the moment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    your beautiful Meeka, even with out the make up.You can devirginizeme me anytime :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hate to disillusion you all but you know if you take around 50 million photos at the right angle eventually one looks half decent. Then you use it as your profile pic and everyone thinks you really look like that. PMSL. As one kind gentleman described it to me - no you will not run away with your hands in the air screaming if you see my PG pics but I probably would not turn up to a meeting with you in a corset, false eye lashes and red red lipstick. Which is all the better to suck you with. Thanks JG for the support. Hehehehe.. xxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'I probably would not turn up to a meeting with you in a corset, false eye lashes and red red lipstick. Which is all the better to suck you with. so you're saying theres a chance that you WOULD ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    MEN - they never listen to you but somehow they always hear just what they want. !!! LOL. Very good pick up SydneyBoy ! I guess you deserve to be rewarded for that. What would you like as your prize?? xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm an optimist :)prizes... hmm... I think we discussed something that was both a prize AND educational... (and me again with the optimistic outlook) lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes I do remember such a conversation - one where I was going to improve my skill set wasn't it and you so kindly donated your time and services to the cause. I am always looking to update my CV. Will have to think about that one. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    SydneyBoy will you ever turn around?? How can I make a fully informed decision when I have only seen half of whats on offer..... Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lipstick is like the chrome on a car, it doesnt change the shape but it draws your attention to the highlights. With or without your a beautiful woman.I`d say the chrome is optional lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi! Meeka. I think the amount of makeup should match the kind of activity you are into at the time.. .Unless you're my age and told a young Guy you're 25 then Man one would need lots of Makeup ,lipstick He!he! now Red Lips as you know is supposed to attract Males, because it highlights that you're ready to mate, much the same as Monkeys have red butts ha!ha! that's why it's noticeable by Guys.Especially when you're wearing none. ...Lol Lu

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    To answer your question, no I would definitely not be disappointed if you turned up without lipstick!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Less is absolutely more in my opinion...Pete

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh christ when will people stop worrying what people think of you on here. For every one that calls you a fat cow there are a dozen more that love curves. We dress up, poke and preen to make ourselves feel good about ourselves, and yes to hook up with someone that we are attracted too. Mind you a smashing do and a sexy dress aint going to get very far if you dont take a bath or brush your teeth. For the record Meeka you look great made up or not.... and from all this banter looks like there are plenty of people that agree. xxxxxxxMR A

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What brand of lippy do u use Meeka? that red is stunning! Don't worry about peoples opinions just be yourself and ignore the negativity :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    wear lipstick if you want to, you look vavavoom! don't wear lipstick, you look vavavoom! I think abit of everything is fun.... including the way we look... variety - its always good to keep them guessing and to keep it fresh for yourself :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Hate to disillusion you all but you know if you take around 50 million photos at the right angle eventually one looks half decent. Then you use it as your profile pic and everyone thinks you really look like that. PMSL. As one kind gentleman described it to me - no you will not run away with your hands in the air screaming if you see my PG pics but I probably would not turn up to a meeting with you in a corset, false eye lashes and red red lipstick. Which is all the better to suck you with. Thanks JG for the support. Hehehehe.. xxx Meeka well Meeka, all I can say is that if people were expecting us to be exact replicas of our profile pics at all times, imagine the dissapoinment when I turn up in bonds rather than lacy french knickers..... hahahahahahaha! sorry guys, sometimes its just one of those no-lippy/bonds moments.... ;)