Reflections Reflecting on you're time here

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  Tall74nHard9

  9 years ago

  Been on site for many years now, and have got a fair bit to reflect upon. When I first joined up I was quite active in the chatrooms, which I miss deeply. The rooms were much different to today, and in my opinion, much better in many aspects. I have been checking out what has been going on there over the last few months again, and it is not just worth getting involved. I made plenty of good associations in those days, getting to know people from all over the country, and chatting well with them all. No chance these days. A number of the people in the forums were also friendlier too, but the interest has just been lost for me of late. I have been fortunate to have made a very good and close friend who has become a housemate, and we work in quite well with one another. There also have been a few others with whom I have exchanged messages with over the last few years, and they also have a warm place in my heart. But there have been some quite inane subjects that keep cropping up, many to do with 'needing' help with their profiles. Geez louise, where is your own intelligence ? Through discussions and forums I have also learned some other useful information with regards to human sexual behaviour and wishes / needs. Always a good place to see what tickles other's fancies. One thing that constantly irks me is the age discrimination practised. Once a person reaches a particular point in their life, they are determined by others of being beyond providing mutual satisfaction. Not so, and I have been personally been assured of such, but no one else will actually bother to find out for themselves. Ces't la vie ! At least there are some who will keep their eyes open, and therefore not miss out on what is available. Tall

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  The chat room I haven't been into. Do you think it's because of increased numbers/members. There must have been a lot less members back then, assuming a smaller more connected group in there? It's funny I couldn't remember how long I'd been online, thought it must have been over 3 years, but was doing some paperwork the other day, found the date I moved out to become single, moved in here, and I was a year out, so only about 2 1/2 years. My most profound memories are from my first encounters, first few months, on other sites, I was lucky enough to hit the jackpot with a swag of hot guys who satisfied me completely, there was barely a day I wasn't having sex, not bad for a single chick. I had a few I could hook up with quickly, it was amazing. I hit the ground running basically lol I have more to worry about now, my life has changed, hence my activity has slowed. Hang in there, you'll find someone who will appreciate you, when you do, it'll be worth the wait. One thing I found superior with this site was the formatting, it's very user friendly, the profile is well set up, pictures etc allows lots and enlarging etc. No I don't work for the site lol but all that and the forum, other sites seemed seedy and hard to use, least that's what I found 😃

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Off topic but I just got my heating to work Yeeeeeeeees I was about to ring in help 😉 😊

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  You can hear a pin drop in here. Not a problem. I'll leave you to it 👍

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Reflect on my time here as such. I'm glad I ended my own silent existence here and began contributing in the forums and making an effort to get out of my comfort zone. I credit that to being on RHP and learning about so many new, wild and wonderful things. Things I'd never heard of or imagined while in a restrictive controlled marriage. I sometimes reflect on the sameness of how many of my "dates" go or end up. I wonder if it's me or the type of man that attracts me. So I am trying to open myself to meeting people unlike my usual choices. That's kinda reflective, or is that introspective?! lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  bonefide

  8 years ago

  Only new to site but learning every day, yes u can adapt, and learn new tricks. Ready the profile enjoy the site make your own mind up. Yes don't we all have some type of change happening, like "tall and Hard" ref too keep a open mind be happy. Struth people it isn't hard to be nice a joke around with out getting tech or rude. Safe happy travels.

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