M44 F44
Review- Seeking feedback
October 26 2018
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Considering you've got 4 Validations, isn't that enough of a review? - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Hit send too soon lol Was going to finish by saying that your profile reads fine, pics are good too so I'm sure the change in number of contacts has nothing to do with your profile. Good luck guys x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your profile reads fine to me, you have some nice validations...I don't see a problem. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Validations? 🤣
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RHP User
7 years ago
Just in case you don't know, your pics are restricted and guests can't see them... The stuff in between the *** *** doesn't mean anything, I'd suggest deleting it. That's all I have to say that I think might help. Cheers, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
We can assure you every piece of feedback we get will definitely be heard. Afterall we wouldn't even be on this site if we weren't comfortable with some change. We can always go back if it doesn't work out. In reply; FFF & Mischievouslad- We have been very lucky to have met some beautiful people whom have been more than generous with their validation comments. As much as we love reliving an amazing moment (or moments) in time, we'd also like to "catch" a few more we haven't had the pleasure of meeting yet, so wondered where we might need to tweek our "billboard" to bring a few new moths to the flame. Peachy- Done. Other than the profile pics. Will get to work on that one. Question, what are the "specs" on a profile picture guests can see? How raunchy can they get before they're restricted? We'd prefer not to have our face pics in full view for privacy reasons. Tulip- Thanks for reviewing our profile for us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
To those heady days when you were having a blast of a time...what was different about your profile & pics when compared to now? It's fairly normal that your profile wording gets refined as your experiences grow, but is it all about sex now, compared to the earlier years? Same with pics; 2-3 years ago were they all naked shots in the public gallery, or not so in your face (actually, not in guests' faces – they cant see any of them)? Your profile is fine, its clear on what you seek, which I read as sex and partying. I'm not sure about this sentence- “We are also open to other party options with the right people, in the right scenarios.” Its probably my suspicious brain, but it seems to hint at partying with more than booze on board. I guess I am saying your 5 years of fun may now be working against you, particularly with those new to the scene. But you sound like a great couple who have embraced the lifestyle and are loving it! 😊
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RHP User
7 years ago
I wish I knew, but basically, minimal skin? You can check by looking at your main profile pic when you're signed out, or by having a guest profile that you can look at yourselves with for either of you as a single? No law against having more than one profile. Haha, or you could just ask me to have a look for you. I get ya about the face pics, it's a big reason for many people but that doesn't mean you can't be creative and stay within the guidelines so your pics aren't too hot. hehe Save the private gallery for face pics when you feel comfortable to offer. Wish I could see your pics. Cheers, Peachy
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
I get the drug background innuendo. There is no space for that shit here. Take it elsewhere. Big turnoff
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RHP User
7 years ago
Without any basis, maybe they have the same habits as yourself? Cheers, Peachy
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Tall74nHard9
7 years ago
Things have been slowing down quite a lot over recent times in the overall sense - so that possibly could be a factor.To my mind your profile is too long - almost like reading a novel. Not everyone wants to read a profile for a day to find out what's going on. Just my take. Tall
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Thinking about Jonesy and Annie's "Party/Drug" innuendo aspect of your profile, it may benefit from a tweak. Cairns as you know does have a known "Party and Play" element. If that's your thing though, by all means, leave it in. Also, I'm a member who actually gets a bit turned off by multiple validations. Personally for me, I dont like knowing everyone's sexual activities and with whom etc, and I dont like others knowing mine. Especially in Cairns, so so small up here lol. I only display one local validation, moreso for added verification of authenticity. I dont display any on my couple profile. To avoid the restrictive status of your pics, they're going to have to be vanilla. No privates lol. Face pics, normal clothed or semi clothed pics... That kinda thang😋 Good luck again guys x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
In reply; MsJonesy- definitely food for thought. Being "fresh meat" in the beginning definitely appears to do massive favours for appealing to others on the prowl. To be honest, majority of our communications and rendezvous over the years have been with slightly experienced couples like ourselves and newbies, which without a doubt creates a "steadiness" based on readiness which we can completely understand. We suppose we're curious if there are "phases" and have we now entered the next one where we are needing to adapt our criteria towards a new niche? We've been told we are a nice couple and make people feel very comfortable whether just communicating and sharing our experiences or providing an inlet into "play" and have never been aggressive in our approach, which is something we really want to maintain. Peachy- Thank you for your suggestions. All very constructive and valid. Sounds like a photo shoot of a tasteful yet seductive nature is in order and we'd happily seek your ongoing perusal and review. Ps. You're welcome to our "subtle" pics if you want to see them 😊 Annie- Thank goodness for freedom of speech and being entitled to your own opinion (whether based on facts or not)...what a great country we live in. In rebuttal, we both hold very professional employment, have a family to consider and in no way shape or form are we sitting here smoking meth or shooting herion into our veins. We do however enjoy the occasional puff on the magic dragon around a camp or beach fire or letting loose at a music festival with friends provided all other aspects of our lives are in order for the duration. But thanks for your judgement. One thing we will take on board is that it probably shouldn't be in our profile and instead left for discussion at another time. Tall- you're probably right. Our speel could more than likely be refined and condensed for a shorter read. All (most) very useful feedback, which is very much appreciated folks 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...I'm syndicated! Not too many people know just how much fun that can be. Plausible deniability disallows me from claiming to be fornicated!
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Its all in the wording so I'm glad that you are aware of how some may misconstrue the meanings. Having come into meets with people who are into the meth scene, it's no fun and quite scary and dangerous at the time. There are many profiles that use certain words to advertise their drug use. Some use those words by accident and are unaware what they are putting forward. Nothing wrong with a bit of weed, no worse than alcohol and have had some magic times with same. So apologies for the bluntness but my point was made and listened too.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I made my guess based on the Ask Me on Renegade's profile. Good that you pointed out what the words could mean. 🍑 Renegades, 😽
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RHP User
7 years ago
As we said earlier, we're absolutely seeking the feedback and all of it will be taken into consideration. We'll have to say it's a work in progress and hopefully will have it tailored to being a more attractive profile very soon. FFF- another solid point well worth consideration. Can validations be kept private or do they simply get deleted? We guess we've kept them as the people whom have generously provided them hold a special place with us and we wouldn't want to offend anyone by throwing it to the curb so to speak. We guess we could always send them a message and explain our position so there is a mutual understanding. Annie- We appreciate your input. We must admit you kind of feel that you made us out as though we were toothless, criminal junkies but your response based on thorough information was much appreciated, as well as your apology accepted. We have removed the specific piece of information from our profile and can see how it could have been misinterpreted 😊 Midnight- Not 100% sure this was your point but this was definitely not an advertising ploy. We're genuinely seeking feedback in order to create a better, more effective profile. As they say "if it aint broke, don't fix it" but we felt there were some "faults" that required rectifying for all round benefit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
I completely understand, we all love our validations and the memories that they stir of past steamy encounters with special friends. Friends of mine on another site, also doesnt display testimonials, screenshot them (before not accepting) and keep them in a file on their phone for reminiscing lol No you can't "hide" validations. You just delete them or don't accept when theyre sent is what Ive done. Ive always just explained my stance to others when they've offered a validation or sent a validation. No one gets offended when we all value our privacy and discretion. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
...not al all and not taken that way. Sometimes (as in nearly almost always) I like to play with words and did see a comment about validations which really are only the opinion of a singular person even if there's a couple or three of them in singularity. See...I just can't help it! The most important thing of course it be be descriptive of who you are and what you're looking for then low and behold, you will find it! The single ladies here could probably list every negative quality that they might have and still get hit on by every one of the men in the masses! Anyway be on your way and enjoy your quest as well as your journey. That what it's all about and the short words for that are having fun so the very best to you and yours in the future. CM ,,, who can say "verbose" in six different languages!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Great name by the way. Love it! You profile reads like it was written by intelligent, self confident people who know what they want. I can see no issue with any part of it. I think validations are great. (Usually) Proves you are real and not fake. Something Ive learned recently around here is that certain people love to pass judgement without knowing the full story. And my advice to you is ignore those people. They aren't worth the time ot takes to respond back to them. Be especially aware of a fellow called Antichrist. He loves to come into a thread and psychoanalyse you even its clear he doesnt know what the hell he is talking about. And apparently half the women on RHP are in love with him though I wuestion the valudation if that statistic. Simple advice: stay real and stay away from the fakes. Happy hunting! 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
In reply; CM- Lol. Not quite a Pty. Ltd. but maybe one day 😉 We took your advice and have edited our profile to reduce reading time. Hopefully it still reads well while painting our wish list and description clearly. Only time will tell 😊 AC- Thanks 😊 Big Rage Against the Machine fans and felt it was a suitable play on words from a favourite tune 🤘 We've been around long enough and read many if not all of the forums that come up, making us well aware of some of the behaviours that go on in here. To be quite honest, we were reluctant to even ask the question because of this but figured it was worth the risk for self development. We must say though, we're not in preference of bagging out other RHP'ers. Maybe yourself and Anti simply clash because you're both AC? If one of you were DC maybe you'd both get along and rock the stage. All jokes aside, we accept that everyone has a right to say what they want but still believe some things are better left unsaid 👍 FFF- We've reluctantly reduced our validations but definitely see your point and feel it's worth a go. Afterall we're still friends with them and happily advertise that fact but notveveryone needs to know who we've feasted on. In addition to that we've tweeked the pics to show no nips, beavers or roosters so we'll see if they pass the "too raunchy" test or not 🙈😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Well placed Love Hearts💗💗 and voila you have Guest Accessible pics hehe👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I love me a bit of RATM too. Especially the ones in the Matrix films...Wake Up and Calm like a Bomb. As for bagging people out, im generally pretty laid back dude and have no problems with the vast majority. But i loathe trolls. A lot of people say to ignore them which is actually good advice. But I just prefer to slay them. It can be equally effective. Thats just my way 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
In reply; FFF- Yay for unrestricted pics 😀 Probably the first time everyone and anyone has been able to view something from our galleries. We'll see how that goes 🤔 AC- Fair enough. It seems to have worked for the three billy goats gruff. We're not particularly fond of trolls either but responding to or "slaying" them tends to only feed their desire to continue and we can honestly think of many better ways to focus our efforts and energy. You seem nice enough so some friendly advice; It really is true that you'll catch more flies with honey rather than vinegar and remember someone (everyone) is always watching, only you can control what it is you put out for others to see, how they see it, is up to them 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'alteredcarbon71'Be especially aware of a fellow called Antichrist. He loves to come into a thread and psychoanalyse you even its clear he doesnt know what the hell he is talking about. And apparently half the women on RHP are in love with him though I wuestion the valudation if that statistic. Simple advice: I know, I know...you're doing the "so chilled I'm hot" thing however be aware that the profession of being an armchair "psychoanalcyst" really isn't all it's cracked up to be. That, like writing and/or publishing do require a modicum of education and an attention to a few minor details. Get to know people before you decide you've them catalogued less you risk potential embarrassment. Hopefully I'm not being opprobrious but can live with it if you find me to be mendacious. Happy hunting.
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RHP User
7 years ago
FFF- We've reluctantly reduced our validations but definitely see your point and feel it's worth a go. Afterall we're still friends with them and happily advertise that fact but notveveryone needs to know who we've feasted on. In addition to that we've tweeked the pics to show no nips, beavers or roosters so we'll see if they pass the "too raunchy" test or not 🙈😇 - Posted from rhpmobile And this is the problem with these forum posts asking people for feedback on their profiles - FFF thinks you have too many validations, she doesn't like too many, so you '("reluctantly'') change your profile to suit that opinion. Ask somebody else about validations and they would say the opposite (not many validations? Obviously not that popular etc). So-and-so doesn't like the cut of your trousers, you go off and buy new trousers - some people liked your old trousers, where did they go? It just goes on and on. Your profile once worked, seems to no longer - change it up/down/left/right/upside down. Tweak this, tweak that but do it your way.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can see how others would be too, but don’t let that put you off your game. As you say, stay real. Concentrate on your end game, not his 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If theres one only one thing worse tyan a troll on a forum board, its a grammar nazi. Because grammar nazis dont actually have any vaild arguments to bring to the table so they pic you up on your typos. Absolutely feeble tactics. But by all means have another go. I can do this all day bruv. 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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norteepair
7 years ago
Wow! You guys sound like perfectionists! But. Lovely at the same time. Just keep on what your doing! It’s awesome. I know my message is simple but sometimes simple is often true. Have fun in your journey! - Posted from rhpmobile
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norteepair
7 years ago
Wow! You guys sound like perfectionists! But. Lovely at the same time. Just keep on what your doing! It’s awesome. I know my message is simple but sometimes simple is often true. Have fun in your journey! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
We very much appreciate all of you who were willing to participate and provide some feedback for us. We've made a few changes and will stick with those for now and see how things go.... Have fun everyone 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I personally think removing validations is the dumbest suggestion ever. Want to remove a nice review someone gave you which also usually proves yoyre real? That just seems counter intuitive to this whole process.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi guys I absolutely love your profile, it screams that you are great hosts and if we weren't so geographically challenged we'd be friends...... but Does everyone get the Rage against the machine reference? If I didn't get it than, I'd think that you're just a vulgar boorish couple who didn't have the smarts or take the time or effort to come up with a good username.. swear words are soo common.The male hasn't listed his intimate details...I don't respond to anyone who misses this detail. Might as well be on POF napping on my salad... The male photo needs to be changed. You are in an awkward pose which is unattractive. I can see that you are a great looking man, show it off, ask your lady to take your pick. Never hurts to have a Smik pic as well. Go out to a hatted restaurant and take a photo before you leave. Good taste and style in dinner attire is very attractive...seductively so...There is a spelling mistake... receive is spelt wrong... Your spiel is a little full on, I'd be concerned that you would be far too experimental and would feel intimidated and probs highly nervous as to what I was getting into.... if I wasn't a complete sex head who loves her sleaze...I didn't get the drug reference though...I hope this helps... I feel that I'd better take my own advice... LOL... feel free to review mine... I'm always open to a new perspective..
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RHP User
7 years ago
I’m struggling with what the issue is...? as you are both obviously very attractive (from what I can see as a guest lol!) very comfortable in yourselves and your relationship and desires. Very openminded to doing and trying new experiences. Clearly and articulately state what it is you are, and aren’t looking for and seem very professional and courteous from your reply’s to the feedback received so far. So I don’t see the problem but perhaps maybe some people think it’s too good to be true as you tick like 90% of ever box for things people are looking for and potentially this might be intimidating? Or you’ve tapped out Cairns and need a holiday?! Lol 😁 like I said I see no problem. Hope things improve and impressed by your openness and demeanor to the feedback good and bad.
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