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Sensual Lover?
June 10 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
It'll be interesting to hear what people have to say on this one - I'd have thought it would depend on the situation, but that people generally want a sensual and considerate lover that can also rip your clothes off and take you there and then - when the moment strikesxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
It'll be interesting to hear what people have to say on this one - I'd have thought it would depend on the situation, but that people generally want a sensual and considerate lover that can also rip your clothes off and take you there and then - when the moment strikesxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I want both. I hate the messages saying that they want to treat me like a princess. WTF... I am so not a princess type. Blah!xxMeeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
.... I believe pushed against the wall rough sex is sensual sex. Sex by its very nature is sensual,, except crap sex. Perhaps what most guys mean by this is the same as when they say "considerate" in that they are thinking more of your sensual pleasure than there own. So if I were a sensual and considerate lover I would be obligated in Meeka's case to slam her against the wall and fuck her hard, even though I would rather only push you hard against the wall and eat your pussy. As a considerate lover I have to make some sacrifices. Would I have to sacrifice my desires with you love2see ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Are these two ideas actually mutually exclusive? Isn't up against the wall passion part of the continuim of considerate love making? I know that sounds like a stupid agrument, but follow it through here. Too much of anything becomes dull and boring after a while. If slow and sensual lovemaking is all you ever get (or all you ever give), the shine starts to wear off. Being considerate would mean to me that your lover's pleasure is as important to you as your own. It does not mean everything is candle light and bubble bath romance. It means you want your partner to have a good time as much as you want to yourself. This would then have to include mixing things up, and avoiding stagnation. So, up against the wall passion would be part of the package (hehe package).
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RHP User
15 years ago
for a while, but then when I say "hey why don't you tie me up" he should be totally into that... And well practised in tying awesome knots in japanese silk ropes...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Slam me up against a wall and take me too roughly and I will bloody well fight back. I dont like it rough. Sorry. I like it gentle, sensual and considerate. Forget all that bullshit you see in pornos. Dont even think of slapping MY arse or pulling MY hair. No Sirreee! I see absolutely no benefit for either of us to be treated roughly. Take it slow, take it easy and build the tension all night long! I want a lover with a slow hand I want a man with an easy touch
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RHP User
15 years ago
Two words that can have a vastly different meaning...as noted above. Sensual can range from slow and exotic to very deeply sexual and erotic. The silk ropes are a very good example. | A butterfly can land on your skin when you are in the slow and exotic and may send a sensual caress running down your skin. | That same butterfly landing on your skin might send shock waves running through you if you are fully bound in an erotic macrame' and blindfolded with no sound except for the sizzling noise of scented candle burning in the room. | Considerate...is simply knowing when, where and how to make that butterfly land. | PS...it works both ways and is not always the responsibility of the male to understand the timing or always take the lead.
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RHP User
15 years ago
depends what mood i'm in sometimes i love slow and sensual, with lots of kissing and skin contact other times i love it rough and hard, slam me against the wall (or over the kitchen bench, against a tree hehe) and i love my neck being bitten depends also on the person i'm with
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SacralChakra'for a while, but then when I say "hey why don't you tie me up" he should be totally into that... And well practised in tying awesome knots in japanese silk ropes... Ok. Sounds great. Slow start. And when you're warmed up I'll pump up the volume. Ropes?I know a knot or two. But will you trust me?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think that a man should be considerate and I do like a bit of rough and tumble, would not like to be slammed up against a wall. If we were someplace and we wanted to fuck in an alley or behind some trees that would be fine but not treated like a piece of meat at the butchers. Maybe that's why I enjoy being with a woman as they hardly ever try to throw me against a wall or think they are gorillas.Laraxx
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magsluvsoral
15 years ago
sensual considerate lovers... Do women really want this or do they want through me up against the wall passion?? Well I want both, what a wonderful sexy combination. All over the place, couch, the kitchen (arg such memories mr deep), against the wall in the hall, his bed, his lap, his face. I have a man on occasion but sadly not enough who does it all for me and I want more of what he does so well. Great topic.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've known women who like both and women who only like one or the other. The important thing is being able to read what she wants and respond accordingly. I had wild-crazy-rough sex witha German girl who didn't speak English. She didn't need to tell me what she wanted with words, we just read each others needs. She followed my dominant tendancy and I pursued her submissive desires. Matt. PS: The best part was that in the morning she greated me in perfect English, albeit with a heavy accent! She was messing with my head!!! Smart Girl.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think each person has their own perspective of what is sensual what is rough, we all like different things in different ways. I think sensual is intense being involved with your partner with every emotion throughout the sex, So this could mean including rough sex, i think its all determined on the feelings and what the moment is calling for.
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RHP User
14 years ago
ahh both!! i love a bit of rough sex...soft sex...up against the wall sex...on the table,,floor ..bed...washing machine... sex can be sensous on the swing out the back or rough on the bed inside...like ur thinking never enough 69!!
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