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May 29 2014
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
That's just from my point of view. Some guys can be be really rough at times... *sighs* If he hurt me in that way and I did bleed from his hard thrusting, I would have to say something... If he does not show a little empathy/sympathy or understanding that he has hurt me, then he is not for me. His reaction and how he deals with it would say a lot to me - it would be a make or break. So what was the outcome with your friend? did she say something to him? Did he comfort her, did he freak out and not see her again or did he walk away?? Was he embarrassed/ashamed?? I think sometimes some men do get embarrassed/ashamed if they hurt a woman, that is why I believe they walk 1/2 the time and not see her again..... Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
i hate it when that happensand i feel bad as sex is to be enjoyed , not hurt ( unless you like it, and probably not internally ? )it happens a lot and not in weird or funny positions but even the good old regulars.I had a partner who i had to be very careful with as it happened easily .tried having her on top so that she could control it , but still happened , she said she had to be ready for me ? , so if she relaxed during sex and i went in i would hit the end or something else there ? ( im a guy , the internal workings of a female are mystery!!)and no not hung like donkey kong or anything like that
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hmm of course see her again!!!!an awkward angle doesnt mean the end of mind blowing bumping uglies
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sounds like the guy is being a dumbarse if this is his issue
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP, was this the first time they had sex together?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sounds like it shouldn't be an issue. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If that is something that would make you consider not seeing her again, do it. You are not worth her time anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
agree with lad and Elleyou dont want someone like that
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RHP User
12 years ago
it would help a bit if we knew a bit more information, as in what part of the situation did / might freak him out? Not that I can see that any part of it did / would warrant freaking out over. Stuff like that happens, it's no big deal. Is this something that actually happened to your friend? It's a bit frustrating with these sorts of topics that we often initially get only half the story. @ magicteabag - the 'end or something else' you hit would have been her cervix. The anatomy of female genitalia really isn't that mysterious, you can find very detailed descriptions and lots of pics of it via a quick internet search
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RHP User
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
This was like their 4th time I think she said. He hasn't said anything about it, and she hasn't text because she's embarrassed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There's one position that often leads to bleeding for me. One man became very upset about hurting me and was so sweet and kind about it. But another told me I was filthy and thats how diseases spread and threw my clothes at me. So my advice is...the important part is how you feel after it happens. It's important that you know how your body works and how you feel when different scenarios occur. A man who treats you poorly because your body responds unexpectedly is probably not so caring to your needs. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
On another thread,lots of men seem to know nothing about the physiology of a woman:-) we are just made of spice and all things nice:-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
nup dont know much , and make out we know less than we dobut we do know how to make you smile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' On another thread,lots of men seem to know nothing about the physiology of a woman:-) we are just made of spice and all things nice:-) :-) xx Q I thought we were made of warm, radiant love crystals
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RHP User
12 years ago
I must be doing something wrong... I've never made a woman bleed... :( Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of men don't know anything about how our bodies work, although in most cases it's because no one has taken the time to teach them. Or because they get to embarrassed when we try to explain things to them. I remember giving my oldest son a lecture one day when he said his gf was being a biatch when she had her period. I hope a little of what I told him sank in. I'm not saying that every man needs to do an in depth study but a little bit of compassion and understanding goes a long way. LD, maybe some of the fantasies can be better because they understand a few of the facts and know that we aren't Barbie dolls that can be bent into every and any position.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've stopped seeing a guy because of me bleeding.. I also found it really hard to talk to a guy again after I made him bleed ... Just through total embarrassment. :( Xxviolet
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RHP User
12 years ago
Do you think he thought it was a disease thing?? Who knows? Weird... Maybe it was something else that upset him? Maybe her reaction put him off? Maybe he was embarrassed? Men are strange creatures...
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PartyOrg
12 years ago
@ violet..... How did you make him bleed?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Also a lot of women dont want to believe that a guy could possibly knows about their physiology. How could he possible know when he isnt a female , even though us guys have Gfs , daughters, sisters..... For somethinew , wonder if his thoughts would be the same if the situation was reversed.... And if i meet Violet , i am staying away if you make a guy bleed!!!! lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PartyOrg' @ violet..... How did you make him bleed? Didn't you know if it can growl it can bite too?
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my over exuberant youth, I had on occasion "worn the skin off the end of it" when a bit of dryness occurred, and no lube was available, resulting in a fair bit of discomfort for both of us that lasted a few days... But actual bleeding ? N-E-V-E-R... Can someone please explain for me ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have done this a few times to a few girls in the heat of the moment. which is why i like to go gentle and slow for a while to see if the woman can handle next gears then speed it up a lil etc... it comes down to the guys bits and stamina I guess.. worst one was I took a girl up to a beach house and we were at it for 5 days and nights with hardly any sleep or breaks wow she was the most amazing girl stamina wise Iv ever meat.. she actually had skin pealing out of her vagina on the 4th day.. i got worried but she was like we may have to stop n i was cool with it then same night she wanted more.. what a legend she was :-) personally if a guy has a rock hard cock not just a hard one.. and can go for very long times when he wants without too many breaks round after round its just bound to happen.. I dont think too badly off it.. Id think most guys would be upset they hurt the person they were trying to share a great time with.. n wait till they heal i guess or could be just me
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think she means he caused a slight tear, as he has entered her again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unfortunately, I have done this. I felt embarrassed for myself and sorry I hurt her, but it certainly didn't make me not want to see her again. I have seen more blood playing football. HP, it is not about dryness. The tear happens when the head comes in from an awkward angle during vigorous sex so that rather than filling the void, it unexpectedly collides with the wall. The sudden force can rupture the wall, especially if it is near the join of the perineum which is a weak spot. On a side note, if you do get torn down there, you have to wait a while for things to heal before having sex, otherwise you open up the scar tissue. Speaking from experience of us both being too eager to give a red hot go.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But it was still blood drawn during sex and still REALLY embarrassing and I felt so bad about it I just didn't know what to say afterwards... Xxviolet
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RHP User
12 years ago
They have been together 4 times. They must have some sort of "togetherness". He might be a dumb male, or he may be a male that accepts that the female body works in mysterious ways. Either way, it didn't freak him, otherwise you would have told us so. You haven't told us whether they were Missionary, Behind, Vaginal, Anal. It seems like your female friend is the worried one. Maybe she should pick up the phone and ask him ? As to me, bleeding has never freaked me out. Menstrual Sex ? Grab a towel and have fun if you're both in the mood or do it in the shower. Oral Sex ? A day or two before scheduled cycle ? Things happen sometimes. Deal with it. During cycle ? That's why tampons and Beppys were invented.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sexyris25'the guy slides out and back in again on a wrong angle and causes her to bleed a little are we talking about the vagina?
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RHP User
12 years ago
The last woman I was with was a little rocket, she loved sex in any shape or form. She was on top one night having a blast I'm mean she was rocking it sliding it all the way out and back in again, man it was great until she missed and bang it felt lick she broke it folded it right in half oh the pain, I cried that night On another note my ex hated having sex she told me it always hurt I'm not a well hung guy just average. Some women, like men are bigger than others and some women are smaller and it hurts to have sex with an average guy (probably means the guy she was having an affair with was smaller than average)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It hasn't happened to me yet but I would be sympathetic and comforting rather than ditching her. Shouldn't it be the first reaction if you see someone being hurt?
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it was their first then I'd say he's definitely just a douche being a douche, however, if it's their fourth then I'll just assume he's scared by seeing blood maybe. Definitely going about it the wrong way but and it doesn't excuse his actions. Communication is the key!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What The Fuck ????? tell him Bunnings have rapid cement for about $8 a bag but perhaps he didn't want to see her and this is just his excuse Who Knows
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RHP User
12 years ago
Poor Girl I hope she wasn't too embarrassed
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RHP User
12 years ago
For clarifying, I didn't think that dryness was the subject of the discussion... It was just my only reference point. I guess I'll just have to learn to smash them pussys a bit harder... Obviously been treating em too gently... I remember talking to an older more experienced mate, just after my wife had our first child. The conversation was about the episiotomy that they did during birth, and my ignorant concerns about healing and sensation... Mainly for me ;) ... His advice, "mate, they should make truck tyres out of them (pussys) it doesn't matter how hard you try, you can't wear em out !" Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
He text, they've been talking. The blood hasn't been mentioned, but he wants to see her again! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
See her again for sure
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'somethinew' There's one position that often leads to bleeding for me. One man became very upset about hurting me and was so sweet and kind about it. But another told me I was filthy and thats how diseases spread and threw my clothes at me. So my advice is...the important part is how you feel after it happens. It's important that you know how your body works and how you feel when different scenarios occur. A man who treats you poorly because your body responds unexpectedly is probably not so caring to your needs. - Posted from rhpmobile here here
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RHP User
12 years ago
In the time I've been here I've bashed my forehead into my headboard during rough sex (leaving a massive mark), gotten my period right in the middle of a hotel romp and experienced everything unexpected and messy in between. An "are you ok?" is great, an "I'm too embarrassed to continue" absolutely not. I only fuck adults.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I only fuck adults. When I can find 'em
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RHP User
12 years ago
These things happen of course I would see her again it's just abit of blood not like ur going to die or anything lol some people would flip out but me I'd just brush it off and get back into being a pleasure machine lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
One night I was with a friend she was 18 and I was 21. Slowly having sex and something felt a little different to me. When I looked down she was bleeding every where and I felt so bad. She felt bad because it was all over me also but we both respected each other, stopped and talked about it together so it wasn't awkward. She wanted to keep going cause she felt bad wrecking the moment but all worked out well in the end and we stayed friends and still had together. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
that only women bleed but he may have been mistaken coz men sometimes are vulnerable too
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RHP User
12 years ago
said it twice, tho.
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RHP User
12 years ago
.. I really dislike watching mrs being boned and the stud slides out, mis aims upon re- entry, and winds up in the wrong hole- the hole in question is rarely, if ever, used for the purpose he has in mind... That can draw blood if he is hung, plus , I really don't enjoy being f****d in my ass.... End of thought
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fistly, SimpleNeeds2, great explanation for us simple males. VioletIncredible. You managed to reverse with your words what the picture of your gorgeous butt was doing to me! Lol... The teeth stay BEHIND the lips! I once had a lady friend who was a little buck-toothed, was like getting a BJ off the monster from Alien....(Oops, probably caused a whole lot more male performance anxiety with that crack!) Personally I have no problem if blood flows. One of my long-term GF's was more orgasimic during her period than at other times, but admittedly not a heavy flow either. And while I accept and enjoy that ample amounts of all sorts of fluid are part of the fun, oral play did stay above the waist at those times! My main tangental point for writing (since coming it at a different angle is the problem lol) is that some people are phobic about blood in any form and would never be comfortable with it happening for that reason alone. But most annoyingly there are a lot of cultures (both ethnic & Bogan!) that still promote that the natural female body is dirty, that time of month or not, and before the mysogyny chant starts, in some cultures their mothers are teaching them that as much as anybody is. Still a long way together before we live truly equal and enlightened sadly. Personally I have been comfortable when it has occurred and treated it as part of the naughtiness of the fun we were having. I've also had the ladies apologise for folding me over and checking if they had broken anything when their cowboy antics got a bit over animated and missed the mark too, again it was funny/exciting because it meant they were going off! (oh, and was also flattering that they felt it was that hard they could snap it!) So, keep on doin' it fun & messy folks, except Violet, definitely DON'T do whatever you were doing ever again lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would suggest that you should be able to discuss this. If either of you can't or won't talk about it, you shouldn't be together anyway. For a relationship to work you need to be able to talk. If not...say your goodbyes. I don't think the best sex you have is the first time anyway. Exciting yes......but when you get to know each other sex gets better and you can avoid those "angles " Sometimes things just happen in the excitement of the action.
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
I didn't know that could happen... I may have been doing it to one of my girlfriends for ages and she was probably just too meek to say anything... I thought she just had a weird cycle cos she was on the pill for years (doctor prescribed due to pretty bad anemia)... i mean it didn't happen every time, but since she was on constant birth control its not like i was counting days. Damn... I feel really bad now... Gonna be a bit paranoid about this from now on... As to leaving a girl because it happened... Erm... No... I could understand her leaving him because she doesn't want it to happen again, but even then, communication should come first. Now having said that, you girls can hurt us too. Someone mentioned folding it in half already... Its happened to me and unpleasant doesn't begin to describe the throbbing pain that ensues for some time... Not to mention what overexcited bouncing can do to a guys balls. there's a reason why very few men can sit with their legs crossed and its because nuts don't like pressure, especially sudden and jarring pressure. Wanna know what its like... try punching yourself in the breast repeatedly once a second... Now take that pain and imagine what it feels like concentrated into a tiny area, and due to the proximity and connectivity with the prostate makes you feel like you have an upset stomach as well... If you can imagine all that you're about halfway there... Why halfway?... because there's 2 of them and generally when they get squashed it happens to both... Finally i've heard stories about testicular torsion that can happen from intercourse too and this one is completely fubar because it often requires surgery to unwind...
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RHP User
12 years ago
This has happened to me a very times with a few different guys and they have all been absolute gentleman about it. Mostly they are apologetic because thinks it's all their fault. Naturally I was embarrassed but both of them handled it fine and didn't care at all. I think it might be a boast to some men's ego to make a girl bleed, as for me it's only happened with well hung guys ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SimpleNeeds2' Unfortunately, I have done this. I felt embarrassed for myself and sorry I hurt her, but it certainly didn't make me not want to see her again. I have seen more blood playing football. HP, it is not about dryness. The tear happens when the head comes in from an awkward angle during vigorous sex so that rather than filling the void, it unexpectedly collides with the wall. The sudden force can rupture the wall, especially if it is near the join of the perineum which is a weak spot. On a side note, if you do get torn down there, you have to wait a while for things to heal before having sex, otherwise you open up the scar tissue. Speaking from experience of us both being too eager to give a red hot go. I do hope you're not in the medical field as your understanding of the female anatomy is, with all due respect, atrocious. Unless your penis has a sharp studded helmet on it's head, it should not tear a well lubricated vaginal wall. It could however, happen with an unaroused and dry vagina.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will lick pussy for hours - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Am I the only person that will freely talk about sex with out being shy about it. Why is that so many women on here that don't like to talk about it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd see here again for sure, no biggie
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