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Sexual Connection !
August 22 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think I know what you mean... but I think you do need to love each other for that don't you? Not necessarily being in love but you need to have love and caring for each other otherwise it is impossible to have the connection you are describe. Or am I thinking like a chick again? xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
And in the words of Boston - It's more than a feeling...it is all consuming... It has been a couple of years since I have felt that kind of connection...and damn I miss it...yes, Tamworthguy, I for one crave that magical connection...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am pretty sure that not everyone craves the feeling you have described....its pretty obvious by the manywham bam thank you mamm types on here (male and female)Also probably doesn't figure high on many couples lists either..But as a single woman, I do crave that something extra in a connection.I have been on the receiving end of many rude and insulting messages from guys who have actually read my profile(nice for a change)........for some reason they feel the need to tell me in no uncertain terms to "f#@k off grandma, this isnt the place for you"..I do find these comments quite amusing...also tells me a lot about the person who sent it.....they have absolutely no experience of an amazing mind blowing sensual time, they only care about themself and getting their cock wet..You dont have to be in love to "make love".....and its a wonderful connection if you are lucky enough to make one...or two...or three....
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RHP User
14 years ago
All humans crave that touch, that connection. It is part of what makes us human. Couples on here are not looking for that no. They already have it with each other. Yes there are the wham bang thankyou mam types as Ruby put it BUT....I dont think they are like that for life. Eventually we all need that connection...otherwise there really is no point is there?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have that connection with both my husband and my lover. It's amazing to have. I think like others have said, humans are designed to seek that kind of connection out; to yearn for it. It does make it a real challenge to keep your emotions under control when you have it with a lover who is not part of your relationship (in a poly sence). But it's possible, just requires greater care. xx Kitty
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RHP User
14 years ago
You got it Tam, This is what we find generally lacking in swinging. Sure sex is fun but without the connection we find it lacking. Now can a couple find this connection with a playmate or two? Seemingly impossible but the Pups are on a but of a high as we've had some fun with a couple where both of us really get that "making love" kind of feeling with them. It would feel like cheating but we're all on the same page and really enjoying the intensity of it.Hope you find that connection soon
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think that connection thing happens when you both give each other what you actually need at that point in time. Like great improvised jazz music.... (except with a skin flute)... stuff just seems to fall into place at precisely the right time... and minds meet in that place somewhere near oblivious euphoria, culminating in the irresistible urge to say "I love you" which of course passes when your pulse rate reduces.Anyway... answering the call... that's the magic about which you speak... in my opinion, it's a rare event.. so you must be prepared to say "Next".HUgsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
A while ago I met this guy who really wasn't the type of guy I normally go for but I felt that great connection with him sexually, physically and mentally. We have been living together for quite some time now and the connection is still strong and we still crave each other.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' "Couples on here are not looking for that no. They already have it with each other." What makes you say that Fiona? Why can't a couple be looking for a connection? Why can't you have a connection with more than one person? I feel a connection with women all the time, I don't sleep with them all (in fact none of them) but I can have a connection with a woman serving me in Coles. Yes, its fleeting and short lived but I know its there. Maybe I'm belittling the OPs question because it is so brief but surely the whole point about a connection is that its something you 'feel', an energy between two people in the moment. I don't have a connection with my partner when we're not together, I love her yes, but connected no. How can you be connected when you can't look into each other's eyes? I can look into a woman's eyes into the street, see and feel the attraction and connect. It doesn't have anything to do with love but a recognition and acknowledgement of the other person as a sexual being. And for that matter, I don't see why you can't connect during a wham bam either....
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RHP User
14 years ago
So what is the difference between great sex & making love ???
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I think I know what you mean... but I think you do need to love each other for that don't you? Not necessarily being in love but you need to have love and caring for each other otherwise it is impossible to have the connection you are describe. Or am I thinking like a chick again? xx Meeka Reply...Hmmmm Meeka thinking like a chick ...Go Figure !..Thanks for the reply Meeka.......No I don't think you have to to be in love, but you probably have to like the other person,And vise versa. It seems to me that some people are afraid to get intimate,or get lost in the moment, for whatever reasons probably only known to them.....it goes back to that connection thing again, nice when it happens ! Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'So what is the difference between great sex & making love ??? This makes a whole heap of difference. Takes great sex into the absolutely unbelievable realm.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hun, I guess everyones answer is different. Making love for me is with someone who knows EVERYTHING about you and still loves you, knows every corner of your heart and soul and mind and still chooses to give you everything he/she is, craves and devours every inch of your body and needs all of your heart, giving all of theirs in return. Someone who wants/craves/needs everything and offers everything in return. Loves to listen to your heart beating, listen to you breathe and delights in watching you sleep. When i found this with someone I was able to make love with them. For me, anything else is just a wild, crazy shag (also very good value) xx Kitty
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'caitsidhe' And in the words of Boston - It's more than a feeling...it is all consuming... It has been a couple of years since I have felt that kind of connection...and damn I miss it...yes, Tamworthguy, I for one crave that magical connection... Reply....Thanks for the reply......all consuming.....that's a good description....the connection comes around every now and then, You must have had it to miss it ?.....it's a pitty you can't offer to give it someone.....because it just seems to happen.......I hope it comes back to visit you sometime soon ! Love and peace tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum'I am pretty sure that not everyone craves the feeling you have described....its pretty obvious by the manywham bam thank you mamm types on here (male and female)Also probably doesn't figure high on many couples lists either..But as a single woman, I do crave that something extra in a connection.I have been on the receiving end of many rude and insulting messages from guys who have actually read my profile(nice for a change)........for some reason they feel the need to tell me in no uncertain terms to "f#@k off grandma, this isnt the place for you"..I do find these comments quite amusing...also tells me a lot about the person who sent it.....they have absolutely no experience of an amazing mind blowing sensual time, they only care about themself and getting their cock wet..You dont have to be in love to "make love".....and its a wonderful connection if you are lucky enough to make one...or two...or three.... Reply....Thanks for comment......Take nothing else than what your looking for Ruby ... of course !!!!!......but like you said, your probably not going to find it from some, self consumed arrogant dick head, that can't see past the length of their own cock.....we both have probably been arround enough to know...that passion and sensuality wins at the end of the day......or three
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'You got it Tam, This is what we find generally lacking in swinging. Sure sex is fun but without the connection we find it lacking. Now can a couple find this connection with a playmate or two? Seemingly impossible but the Pups are on a but of a high as we've had some fun with a couple where both of us really get that "making love" kind of feeling with them. It would feel like cheating but we're all on the same page and really enjoying the intensity of it.Hope you find that connection soon reply....Thanks pups......you being a swinger, would most certainyl know the difference between love, and making love......and i'm genuine in saying that i'm happy that you have found another couple to get intimate with, After all that's what it's all about enjoying the moment......I have actually found that connection a few times of recent, after a long period of hardly ever........It makes you apreciate how much better it is....... Love and peace tam.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I had a great sexual connection to two of my FWB - not on a personal or emotional level, but the sexual spark was great... o me it comes down to the attitude to sex, we were in the same frame of mind and enjoyed it immensely.As far as making love goes - it is what I do with my wife, it's not necessarily wild or long lasting sex but affirmation of ourconnection by the physical act... making love is devoted to my life partner, sex with her is not that great though :-(
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I think that connection thing happens when you both give each other what you actually need at that point in time. Like great improvised jazz music.... (except with a skin flute)... stuff just seems to fall into place at precisely the right time... and minds meet in that place somewhere near oblivious euphoria, culminating in the irresistible urge to say "I love you" which of course passes when your pulse rate reduces.Anyway... answering the call... that's the magic about which you speak... in my opinion, it's a rare event.. so you must be prepared to say "Next".HUgs Reply.....well said mate !.......in that usual , well thought out and classy stalky way........I'm pretty shure we are on the same page in most things........Ummnnn Next ! Tamy bloke
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'A while ago I met this guy who really wasn't the type of guy I normally go for but I felt that great connection with him sexually, physically and mentally. We have been living together for quite some time now and the connection is still strong and we still crave each other. Reply....Cool Mistress......like i said it's hard to pick !........it must be good if it's still there , even after you have shacked up and everything........keep up the good work ! Tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'So what is the difference between great sex & making love ??? Reply....Well making love can still be great sex.............I only said that being in love and making love can be seperated.....didn't I.....well if i didn't thats what i meant......i think lol..... But if you want me to define them in my view i will. Great sex would be more physical.....afterwoods.....you would say...." that was great " whist getting your breath back. Making love......well that's more spiritual, passionate, intimate, soulfull.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'KinkyKittyKat1' Hun, I guess everyones answer is different. Making love for me is with someone who knows EVERYTHING about you and still loves you, knows every corner of your heart and soul and mind and still chooses to give you everything he/she is, craves and devours every inch of your body and needs all of your heart, giving all of theirs in return. Someone who wants/craves/needs everything and offers everything in return. Loves to listen to your heart beating, listen to you breathe and delights in watching you sleep. When i found this with someone I was able to make love with them. For me, anything else is just a wild, crazy shag (also very good value) xx Kitty Welcome back!!! I see you haven't lost your touch either, you described the difference perfectly! . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank you darling for the welcome back. Missed your gorgeous pins MUCH! xx Kitty Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Quoting 'KinkyKittyKat1' Hun, I guess everyones answer is different. Making love for me is with someone who knows EVERYTHING about you and still loves you, knows every corner of your heart and soul and mind and still chooses to give you everything he/she is, craves and devours every inch of your body and needs all of your heart, giving all of theirs in return. Someone who wants/craves/needs everything and offers everything in return. Loves to listen to your heart beating, listen to you breathe and delights in watching you sleep. When i found this with someone I was able to make love with them. For me, anything else is just a wild, crazy shag (also very good value) xx Kitty Welcome back!!! I see you haven't lost your touch either, you described the difference perfectly! . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think you can have what i call a sexually spiritual connection with out being in luv..if that makes any senseit's when both have that same mental connection with the attraction...and u just click..it's like u know what pleases the person.as your more open and in tune with wild abandonment..as such cuz your not both judging..them for it therefore more relaxed.Wanting to take time having fun seducing them..i know i've lost the plot..lol .Once you had that sort of complete satisfaction.and both say time to move on..it's hard to find someone of same like mind and you do to crave it to some extent.And after all send and done..it's only sex for the sake of...so what has love got to do with it..Also..one has to be able to separate the two thoughts..and besides who doesn't what someone to desire only themat that moment in time..heymumma
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RHP User
14 years ago
Friendship is the foundation of love....and there can be as many levels and depths of friendship as there are love. You can make love to a friend or have an incredible all out sex fest with someone that you truly love...such as a partner or a spouse. Somewhere in there is where this elusive thing called "the connection" comes and regardless of it's form, I would agree that it's something we all crave somehow. | Quoting 'Meeka100'So what is the difference between great sex & making love ??? | If I had to put some very simple words around it...making love is the expression of emotion that you share physically and needs no explanation. Great sex is an exchange of physical sensations that you may rationalize emotionally...particularly if it is just satisfying a more temporal need. | Either can be what you make of them...and neither is wrong. The hard part is that we are all just human and no matter what we do the chi of balance between our wants, needs. thoughts, feelings and emotions will always be delicate. | I like that part too.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm pretty sure a person can be completely and totally and utterly in love with someone and not have sex with them... therefore making love doesn't even have to involve physical acts of sexual gratification.I think great sex requires connection and "making love" can also have that "connection", but sometimes, even when "making love" ... you just don't quite get there, that is, your sexual gratification needs can remain unsatisfied .. but you're still making love.... Maybe "making love" is pleasure of a different kind.... desirable, none the less, if that makes sense? I think we are complicated beings with multifaceted needs that aren't always met all of the time... but when they are.... and you melt into a slime of physical and mental euphoric oblivion... not a moment of stress or worry or self reflection... just euphoric oblivion... well, that's a sensation worth chasing... even if you never experience it with the person that you truly and deeply love... or even if there isnt anyone you think that you truly and deeply love. These two elements of "sex" are independent of one another. When you accept that, you accept the slut within. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'fionabee' This makes a whole heap of difference. Takes great sex into the absolutely unbelievable realm.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Oh yeah!
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RHP User
14 years ago
we have that 'connection' already with each other....for us its about 'knowing' without needing to ask....and 'trusting' without needing to tell.....what we share is something very special and has come about by really being very good friends, long before we ever dated, and long before we began that 'intimate' relationship we have with each other. we have an incredible exciting physical relationship, and can arouse each other with a look, a touch, or a word.......... being 'connected' in this way also allows us the freedom to explore some fun, with a very select few, at intervals that suit not only our lifestyle, but our moods and desires......the 'connection' isnt something we are able to establish with a playmate, as its only ever going to be 'play'....no more serious than any other 'game' we occupy ourselves with....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I think I know what you mean... but I think you do need to love each other for that don't you? Not necessarily being in love but you need to have love and caring for each other otherwise it is impossible to have the connection you are describe. Or am I thinking like a chick again? No, I think plenty of people think that way, male and female. That sort of connection is precisely why I prefer friends with benefits to the adventure (and hassles, and complication) of random hookups. (Randoms are fun, but for different reasons.) I think that "love each other" is too strong a term, but certainly affection and caring are necessary for the connection and in my mind, the investment is worth the effort.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Stalky that is a bit confusing, I understand what you mean by great sex although not sure what you are saying about making love? Are you saying that you make love with people you are in love with which doesn't necessarily mean a physical act of sex ?? But yes, great sex usually depends on your mood of the day. I think you can have great sex without a connection or should I say the meeting of the minds just depends on ..... Well sometimes just depends on how horny you on the day. IMO.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Snowshoe, why is loving each other a bit strong? Isn't affection & caring the same as love for a friend?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Chasing, had to reread your post but yea what your saying make sense to me. xx Meeka ( you are the IT guru how do I start new paragraphs with the iPhone4 ??? )
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RHP User
14 years ago
..but I feel that making love without a connection is about as useful as a bull with tit's.... I've been there a few times and came up with a empty feelings on each occassion .. I don't mean falling in love just to justify sex, but there has to be something more there then just sticking your dick inside someone just for the sake of it.. Sex of course is always better if there is a few simple everyday things like attraction, humour, or sometimes just animal lust from both parties..Ruby BlossomAnybody who felt the need to insult you with the 'fuck off grandma' comment doesnt deserve the time of day. Shows the type of person they are right away...Im sure if you bowed to their every wish and they got their easy lay they would say nothing, but if you choose to reject their advances , thats when their bruised ego kicks in and they lash out at you just so they can to save their own face.Only this week I was refered to as 'a old codger' just because the exchanges did not suit his liking. Trying to pull you down so they can lift themselves shows a very narrow minded person... The name didnt bother me' it was the motive of the caller than pee'd me off... FFS when do these people ever grow up ?
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RHP User
14 years ago
It takes about 4 very easy entries on the keyboard but if I show you here it will go blank. It does make a paragraph though.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I receive messages like that quite often, and unsolicited as well - I havent checked out their profile, no contact or winksfrom me, they just arrive in my messages box..I also receive many from the young guys who I have politely told 'thanks but no thanks...as my profile states I am only interested in guys closer to my age".Those are the ones that really make me laugh...its great they reveal their intent so quickly, they are just after a bonk with an "old lady" so they can brag about it, nothing to do with the woman concerned..Great sex is fabulous fun...as you said TimTam...passion and sensuality wins at the end of the day, moreso ifyou are fortunate enough to find the extra spark of magic and elusive connection.....absolute headspinning bliss
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mostly you find yourself saying "That was great" when zipping up your pants. :pHugs Stalky Quoting 'tamworthguy38'Great sex would be more physical.....afterwoods.....you would say...." that was great " whist getting your breath back. Making love......well that's more spiritual, passionate, intimate, soulfull.
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' All humans crave that touch, that connection. It is part of what makes us human.Tam....Part of which makes us Human, I like that description very much xo Couples on here are not looking for that no. They already have it with each other. Tam yes I'm shure some couples have it, but they may still be looking for it with other people ? Yes there are the wham bang thankyou mam types as Ruby put it BUT....I dont think they are like that for life. Eventually we all need that connection...otherwise there really is no point is there?........I think we all need love in different forms, love is pure and gives us purpose .....Love also hurts like fuck when you loose it......But I feel you should be able to make love, walk away from it and keep it as a wonderfull memory, not as something you have lost, or had taken from you. Thanks for your soulfull reply fiona.....Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Friendship is the foundation of love....and there can be as many levels and depths of friendship as there are love. You can make love to a friend or have an incredible all out sex fest with someone that you truly love...such as a partner or a spouse. Somewhere in there is where this elusive thing called "the connection" comes and regardless of it's form, I would agree that it's something we all crave somehow. | Quoting 'Meeka100'So what is the difference between great sex & making love ??? | If I had to put some very simple words around it...making love is the expression of emotion that you share physically and needs no explanation. Great sex is an exchange of physical sensations that you may rationalize emotionally...particularly if it is just satisfying a more temporal need. | Either can be what you make of them...and neither is wrong. The hard part is that we are all just human and no matter what we do the chi of balance between our wants, needs. thoughts, feelings and emotions will always be delicate. | I like that part too. CM you really do say what I think a lot of the time, you just say it far more eloquently than I ever can!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dammit, I deserve that connection. If it means wearing my heart on my sleeve..and being accused of being 'unsophisticated' or unworldy - I don't care. I love that dizzying feeling of giving yourself up completely to another human being. I would prefer to make love everytime...than just have 'sex'. Naive, dumb and innocent I may be .. but I cling to the highest heights and fall to the deepest of the depths and it feels great.
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'heymumma' I think you can have what i call a sexually spiritual connection with out being in luv..if that makes any senseit's when both have that same mental connection with the attraction...and u just click..it's like u know what pleases the person.as your more open and in tune with wild abandonment..as such cuz your not both judging..them for it therefore more relaxed.Wanting to take time having fun seducing them..i know i've lost the plot..lol .Once you had that sort of complete satisfaction.and both say time to move on..it's hard to find someone of same like mind and you do to crave it to some extent.And after all send and done..it's only sex for the sake of...so what has love got to do with it..Also..one has to be able to separate the two thoughts..and besides who doesn't what someone to desire only themat that moment in time..heymummaReply.....yes i think you get it exactly.......as stolen moment in time.....that you can take with you, as something realy nice........after all that memory can't realy be taken from you......so it's yours forever. xo Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
The hard part is keeping it simple... | Quoting 'puppy'CM you really do say what I think a lot of the time, you just say it far more eloquently than I ever can!!! ...and trying not to think about MrsP dancing in high heels just out of reach!
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RHP User
14 years ago
"That was great " the comment most commonly preceded by "great tits" & "my god your tight" :p
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'"That was great " the comment most commonly preceded by "great tits" & "my god your tight" :p ReplyYour such a tease Meeka......!.....but you forgot the "call me"......followed by the hand-phone signal !!!! lol
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp'Dammit, I deserve that connection. If it means wearing my heart on my sleeve..and being accused of being 'unsophisticated' or unworldy - I don't care. I love that dizzying feeling of giving yourself up completely to another human being. I would prefer to make love everytime...than just have 'sex'. Naive, dumb and innocent I may be .. but I cling to the highest heights and fall to the deepest of the depths and it feels great. reply....thanks for you deep thoughts !, how can wanting something special be, unsophisticated or unworldly ?..not Naive or dumb.....passionate you are !.........anyway it's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. Love and peace Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'KinkyKittyKat1' Hun, I guess everyones answer is different. Making love for me is with someone who knows EVERYTHING about you and still loves you, knows every corner of your heart and soul and mind and still chooses to give you everything he/she is, craves and devours every inch of your body and needs all of your heart, giving all of theirs in return. Someone who wants/craves/needs everything and offers everything in return. Loves to listen to your heart beating, listen to you breathe and delights in watching you sleep. When i found this with someone I was able to make love with them. For me, anything else is just a wild, crazy shag (also very good value) xx KittyCouldnt have said it better myself Kitty...
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RHP User
14 years ago
OH stalky....You just like a great mind blowing shag as u put it.any time, anywhere...hahahaQuoting ; meeka making love...is well more spiritual,passionate,intimate,soulfulYou can have the same thing...when your with a person who thinks the same as you..to me sex is sex no matter how it's sugar coated...To me making love is when they look into your eyes in that special non verbal way..and say how you make their world spin and other loving terms..and visa versa..When your entwined during and afterwards.Has said before i've had that a few times..but ended it..cuz they guy wanted more..and that isn't happening..and i though that it was only women who get clingy due emotions taking over..THAT is what most me say about us phffftnot this one...mummamumma
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RHP User
14 years ago
PS.....Peeps can be sexually compatible with out being in luv...and can be in-luv and not sexually compatible...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry meeka them boys..confused me...my mistake for saying that i quoted u heymumma is crawling back..need glasses
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Snowshoe, why is loving each other a bit strong? Isn't affection & caring the same as love for a friend? Love carries connotations that are open to misinterpretation, so I thought it best to steer clear. Besides, I don't love FWBs the same way that I've loved partners in the past - that kind of love wouldn't make me comfortable with non-exclusivity on either side. That doe-eyed bliss doesn't lend itself to sharing...
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Mostly you find yourself saying "That was great" when zipping up your pants. :pHugs StalkyReply......Do you slap them on the ass to , when you put your pants back on ? and check that your hair isn't to swooshy, or not swooshy enough in the mirror on the way out to ? Tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'GirlTuesday' I yearn for the special connection I had with someone special that was simple and comfortable, yet also intense and exciting. Sparks flew and blew up the fuse board, then we lay sated, wrapped in each others arms...I was free to be me :) Reply.....what a nice situation you described...Is the fuse board a metaphor ? if it wasn't.....what the hell were you doing ?.....lolTam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mike and Shel, I know what your are experiencing, treasure it, because if you lose it ....iMy partner and i had that connection, its almost beyond belief that two can connect at such a level of understanding. When its lost t leaves a hole that Iam unsure if it can be filled. Perhaps in a new way, Carpe Diem Quoting 'mikeandshel' we have that 'connection' already with each other....for us its about 'knowing' without needing to ask....and 'trusting' without needing to tell.....what we share is something very special and has come about by really being very good friends, long before we ever dated, and long before we began that 'intimate' relationship we have with each other. we have an incredible exciting physical relationship, and can arouse each other with a look, a touch, or a word.......... being 'connected' in this way also allows us the freedom to explore some fun, with a very select few, at intervals that suit not only our lifestyle, but our moods and desires......the 'connection' isnt something we are able to establish with a playmate, as its only ever going to be 'play'....no more serious than any other 'game' we occupy ourselves with.... Quoting 'mikeandshel'we have that 'connection' already with each other....for us its about 'knowing' without needing to ask....and 'trusting' without needing to tell.....what we share is something very special and has come about by really being very good friends, long before we ever dated, and long before we began that 'intimate' relationship we have with each other. we have an incredible exciting physical relationship, and can arouse each other with a look, a touch, or a word.......... being 'connected' in this way also allows us the freedom to explore some fun, with a very select few, at intervals that suit not only our lifestyle, but our moods and desires......the 'connection' isnt something we are able to establish with a playmate, as its only ever going to be 'play'....no more serious than any other 'game' we occupy ourselves with....
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RHP User
14 years ago
A few years back when I was on my spiritual-shag- a-lot journey and before I met my man, I kept a diary. In the diary I wrote: "Sex is available, but I want more. I want the CONNECTION" "How do I keep making the connection? By being open." . I am not sure what I meant by open (no, it's not legs open.....but then again maybe.....). I tend to think that letting go of control enabled me to be open....I was able to love my lovers for the time I was with them. I expected nothing in return. And as a result the connection was available to me. Quoting 'CrackUp'Dammit, I deserve that connection. If it means wearing my heart on my sleeve..and being accused of being 'unsophisticated' or unworldy - I don't care. I love that dizzying feeling of giving yourself up completely to another human being. I would prefer to make love everytime...than just have 'sex'. Naive, dumb and innocent I may be .. but I cling to the highest heights and fall to the deepest of the depths and it feels great. You are not naive or dumb ...innocent - I doubt that too ....lol... CrackUp, there is no shame in the desire to feel emotion. I am with you all the way...the world needs more CrackUps
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you're emotionally invested, genuinely attracted and connected to the person you're sleeping with, mere sex transcends to a new level.
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14 years ago
Heymumma, that is okay. By the way, I don't think I would ever say anything so mushy myself. And Tim Tam. I love sucking Tim tams they are so rich and thick & creamy in the centre. Yum yum. Call me LolxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy38' Quoting 'CrackUp'Dammit, I deserve that connection. If it means wearing my heart on my sleeve..and being accused of being 'unsophisticated' or unworldy - I don't care. I love that dizzying feeling of giving yourself up completely to another human being. I would prefer to make love everytime...than just have 'sex'. Naive, dumb and innocent I may be .. but I cling to the highest heights and fall to the deepest of the depths and it feels great. reply....thanks for you deep thoughts !, how can wanting something special be, unsophisticated or unworldly ?..not Naive or dumb.....passionate you are !.........anyway it's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. Love and peace TamI don't know Tam, just seems attitudes are much harder nowadays and to want 'special' is seen as 'lame' somehow. I have grown defensive of wanting that because I feel it is seen as overly 'romantic' or 'sentimental' or even worse, 'clingy' or 'needy'.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not many of these forums I feel the urge to participate, only because there are so many other experienced voices. I am quite the particular lady and choose not only my topics but the people I choose to share that sensual connection. Though at the moment for me the most amazing connection I have had the pleasure of experiencing is a man with whom I am yet to meet. We have conversed in the most intellectually and sensually stimulating conversations. I believe connection begins before the horizontal or whatever angle people choose. Only fairly recently joining this site, I haven't been able to get my head around the 'just sex' part. I do admire people who can just run with the flow and let themselves loose or be free. So far the very few I have had the pleasure of experiencing such a connection, have been incredible experiences. Each one has opened a door to another world that allows me to enjoy the journey to the next. I am enjoying the connections and friendships I am making. The previous connections and experiences I have made have given me the strength to take a leap and hopefully land on two feet, giving me the opportunity to follow a new pathway, with my most desirable and recent connection. Each experience has afforded me the trust to extend myself to the next. For me to offer the utmost of sensual pleasure others deserve, I need to feel comfortable. What I can say is without that connection, I don't feel comfortable.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Morticiaaa' A few years back when I was on my spiritual-shag- a-lot journey and before I met my man, I kept a diary. In the diary I wrote: "Sex is available, but I want more. I want the CONNECTION" "How do I keep making the connection? By being open." . I am not sure what I meant by open (no, it's not legs open.....but then again maybe.....). I tend to think that letting go of control enabled me to be open....I was able to love my lovers for the time I was with them. I expected nothing in return. And as a result the connection was available to me. Unconditional love. Thats how it should be. Not expecting anything back brings you the greatest rewards....
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'heymumma'PS.....Peeps can be sexually compatible with out being in luv...and can be in-luv and not sexually compatible... Reply......How true how true........and LOL.to your miss-quote....... xo Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
To answer the original question in my own special way- Of course we all look for and crave that connection, you know, the one that is better than all the others! That touches our soul in ways that cannot be described. Love is often used to describe the undescribable and is up for intepretation like many things, but in essence, this connection could easily be called love. It may not be forever love, or total love, it may be that you just LOVE to have sex with them and they satisfy that part of your desire and needs. Be honest with yourself, be honest with others and be honest on your profile and whatever these desires and needs are, they will come to you. This 'Special' connection being spoken about is rare, so really the only thing we should expect is that it will be damned hard to find! That honesty will attract it to you and you will soon discover that eureka moment that is the connection you seek. Whether it be sex, friendship, relationships or soul mates, it all works in the same way. Giving is recieving, hiding is deceiving... Oh Crackup, you deserve it just as much as most and knowing you well, this defensive posture can be the prevention to finding it. It turns your life upside down, so don't be hard on yourself knowing your position. Be needy, be lame, let their judgements cloud their vision. I know what I see; intellect, maturity, fun, open-mindedness, honesty and the like, nothing any man would turn down if they had their eyes open to it and want the same in return. As one who has been in a fringe minority of mindsets for sometime, I understand how the narrowmindedness of others can affect us and make us react against our better judgement. Be free of the shackles of opinion!
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'Morticiaaa' A few years back when I was on my spiritual-shag- a-lot journey and before I met my man, I kept a diary. In the diary I wrote: "Sex is available, but I want more. I want the CONNECTION" "How do I keep making the connection? By being open." reply Tam.....sorry about the late reply, i didn't realise the forum had gone to another page everybody....Anyway Morticiaaa, I think you might have cracked it.....you can't recieve something if the door is closed !!!! . I am not sure what I meant by open (no, it's not legs open.....but then again maybe.....). I tend to think that letting go of control enabled me to be open....I was able to love my lovers for the time I was with them. I expected nothing in return. And as a result the connection was available to me. Tam ....exactly.....Expectations can set you up for dissapointment......no expectations may take you take you to a nice place if your lucky.......thank you for your heartfilled thoughts...... xo Tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'cyclonicleo'If you're emotionally invested, genuinely attracted and connected to the person you're sleeping with, mere sex transcends to a new level. Reply....Nicely stated my friend......thanks for your comment ! Tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'And Tim Tam. I love sucking Tim tams they are so rich and thick & creamy in the centre. Yum yum. Call me LolxxMeeka...............Meeka ....your sooooo sexy !!!!! how could anyone resist you !!!!!......like even if you did have cum running down you leg, and so what if your legs didn't touch the ground when you sat on a chair, that would just add to the cuteness
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'CrackUp' Quoting 'tamworthguy38' Quoting 'CrackUp'Dammit, I deserve that connection. If it means wearing my heart on my sleeve..and being accused of being 'unsophisticated' or unworldy - I don't care. I love that dizzying feeling of giving yourself up completely to another human being. I would prefer to make love everytime...than just have 'sex'. Naive, dumb and innocent I may be .. but I cling to the highest heights and fall to the deepest of the depths and it feels great. reply....thanks for you deep thoughts !, how can wanting something special be, unsophisticated or unworldly ?..not Naive or dumb.....passionate you are !.........anyway it's better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all. Love and peace Tam I don't know Tam, just seems attitudes are much harder nowadays and to want 'special' is seen as 'lame' somehow. I have grown defensive of wanting that because I feel it is seen as overly 'romantic' or 'sentimental' or even worse, 'clingy' or 'needy' Reply......Tam....It's not realy what others may think that is important......It is what you !! the indivual wants and needs, that counts.....Take some love where you can get it......But when you let it go, keep the memory as somethig special......not as something you have lost......Love and logic mixed together.......!!!! Thanks again for sharing your thoughts ! your a special person ! Tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'GirlTuesday'They are mighty fine to look at too :) Tuesdays, are my favourite !!!!
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'Casper74' To answer the original question in my own special way- Of course we all look for and crave that connection, you know, the one that is better than all the others! That touches our soul in ways that cannot be described. Love is often used to describe the undescribable and is up for intepretation like many things, but in essence, this connection could easily be called love. It may not be forever love, or total love, it may be that you just LOVE to have sex with them and they satisfy that part of your desire and needs. Be honest with yourself, be honest with others and be honest on your profile and whatever these desires and needs are, they will come to you. This 'Special' connection being spoken about is rare, so really the only thing we should expect is that it will be damned hard to find! That honesty will attract it to you and you will soon discover that eureka moment that is the connection you seek. Whether it be sex, friendship, relationships or soul mates, it all works in the same way. Giving is recieving, hiding is deceiving... Oh Crackup, you deserve it just as much as most and knowing you well, this defensive posture can be the prevention to finding it. It turns your life upside down, so don't be hard on yourself knowing your position. Be needy, be lame, let their judgements cloud their vision. I know what I see; intellect, maturity, fun, open-mindedness, honesty and the like, nothing any man would turn down if they had their eyes open to it and want the same in return. As one who has been in a fringe minority of mindsets for sometime, I understand how the narrowmindedness of others can affect us and make us react against our better judgement. Be free of the shackles of opinion! Reply Tam.....casper, that is realy nice mate.....poetry !!! Love and peace Tam.
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'ExcitinglyGentle'Not many of these forums I feel the urge to participate, only because there are so many other experienced voices. I am quite the particular lady and choose not only my topics but the people I choose to share that sensual connection. Though at the moment for me the most amazing connection I have had the pleasure of experiencing is a man with whom I am yet to meet. We have conversed in the most intellectually and sensually stimulating conversations. Reply..Tam. thank you so much for participation in this forum, I realy hope your new connection works out for you, anything after that should be bonus for you !!I believe connection begins before the horizontal or whattever angle people choose. Only fairly recently joining this site, I haven't been able to get my head around the 'just sex' part. I do admire people who can just run with the flow and let themselves loose or be free. So far the very few I have had the pleasure of experiencing such a connection, have been incredible experiences. Each one has opened a door to another world that allows me to enjoy the journey to the next. I am enjoying the connections and friendships I am making. Tam......I believe you can have both a mental and sexual connection with someone,I feel I can have either with someone, without affecting the other one......but it still doesn't change the fact that some people need both .....for the chemistry to be right for them !The previous connections and experiences I have made have given me the strength to take a leap and hopefully land on two feet, giving me the opportunity to follow a new pathway, with my most desirable and recent connection. Each experience has afforded me the trust to extend myself to the next. For me to offer the utmost of sensual pleasure others deserve, I need to feel comfortable. What I can say is without that connection, I don't feel comfortable. Stick to your formula, and I'm sure you will be doing the right thing for you.....I know a connection means alot to me also ! love and peace Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy38' ...............Meeka ....your sooooo sexy !!!!! how could anyone resist you !!!!!......like even if you did have cum running down you leg, and so what if your legs didn't touch the ground when you sat on a chair, that would just add to the cuteness Well, Tim Tam who I want to suck, did I tell you boys that I can bend over and hold my ankles without bending my knees as well - obviously this is much more impressive when I am naked. That way you can watch the cum dribbling down my legs first hand... You are so dirty Tim Tam!!!!!!!! xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Correction... Iim sure nobody would be able to see... Tammy would have his grubby lil face in there quick as a flash.HugsStalky Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'tamworthguy38' ...............Meeka ....your sooooo sexy !!!!! how could anyone resist you !!!!!......like even if you did have cum running down you leg, and so what if your legs didn't touch the ground when you sat on a chair, that would just add to the cuteness Well, Tim Tam who I want to suck, did I tell you boys that I can bend over and hold my ankles without bending my knees as well - obviously this is much more impressive when I am naked. That way you can watch the cum dribbling down my legs first hand... You are so dirty Tim Tam!!!!!!!! xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
I will take your word for it Stalkers.... and if you can't see you will just have get right in there and push him out of the way wont you. xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just joined and catching up. If you are making love with that special someone, then you are on the way to having great sex.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I personally crave the connection, the intensity you feel for someone that enables you to give them your all when you are with them and treat them as though they are the only other person in the world....then you are still able to walk away when things are done. This is not love, love allows you to be with the person and know each others urges and desires with out a spoken word and to trust implicitly....I need the connection for swinging, it is very hard to come by , I guess thats probably why Im the fussiest swinger in WA...lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think I maybe a connection slut, I'll steal a connection wherever I can :) sometimes with a nice sales shop assistant I hold there gaze and smile, stirs in the loins, gives you both a warm fuzzy. If I am really enjoying a persons company I include touch and it makes you feel warm and close ( in a non sexual way). I have had sex with a friendship connection which can be 'fun' but more at the light level, lots of smiling and laughing, not slow and sensual, starring into each others soles or being blown to orgasm oblivion where your body has internal eartheakes as you grip your lover like your life depended on it. I have been lucky enough to have unplanned and planned hookups with friends, where we were lucky enough to have the planets aligned just right, so when the two of you meet in private. You are literally both on heat that instincts set the forces in motion,all communication is done staring into each others eyes as you take turns in devouring each other in an urgent, powerful even animal like way until both of you have cried out all you can endure and collapse exhausted, exhilerated and very contented. All of the above only happens if both/all involved catch the fleeting window, where the world fades into the background, they bare their vulnerability in their eyes, as do you. I can feel this connection randomly with anyone, i feel like some people are more open to it than others, some learn it after I suppose letting their guard down bit by bit until they bare their sole. My above ramblings I reckon fit into connection. When those beautiful moments are over, warm feelings exist, but it isn't 'being in love' In my short time on the planet I think love is possible some of the above (or even not), I think love is a higher energy of connection, it doesn't stop with those experiences like a connection and the hookups that go with it. Love can fill you with adrenalin so you don't need to eat or sleep at times. The strong heart renching, even painful feelings from deep within, that occur when you simply just think of them and picture their face. The irrational fear that they may die before you and how could you go on living... The expression of these feelings, again I believe just come and happen, and sometimes you get lucky enough to stare into another persons eyes and then your feeling plus there feeling makes the combined connection bigger than any other. No thought, I just try to feel in this area. For a talker and an extrovert I am surprised to find these blissful still moments where the fleeting window passes by.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A great topic sexy guy from Tamworth! I am on this site almost purely for this ..... the connection, intimacy, sharing a moment with people and I am so lucky that I have experienced this. And I'll be honest, it rocked my world. I'm not on this site for sex, I get plenty of sex at home with my husband, but I want and crave more ....... and that's why I'm on here. So occasionally I get odd comments on my profile "why are you on here when you don't want to have sex" ...... but there is so, so much more to a connection than sex. I'm not young and skinny and sexy, I'm 44, a very big woman, someone who struggles with body image and self esteem, but I know I am a sensual person, and that these needs I have are deep and intense and my desire to explore my sexuality and that of others is increasing all the time. It isn't easy, keeping it a secret (my husband is emphatically against the idea of exploring further than our current relationship) ..... but maybe it's that secret component that makes it all the more exciting? On here, the excitement of receiving a message from someone who piques your interest, the tentative communications, the beginnings of an attraction, the teasing and tantalising thought that you may meet. The nervous, incredible anticipation when you agree to meet. That first moment you catch each other's eye, that first smile, first touch. The nervous banter that you know you have to go through, if for nothing else but to give your heart time to stop racing and pounding, you start watching them, learning the way they talk, smile, maybe you start imagining what their lips will feel like when you trace you finger or tongue so softly around the edges, what their skin will feel like when you are able to caress it ..... so many emotions running through your body. And then that amazing moment, that first kiss, oh god I love kissing. I could kiss for hours and be in heaven! Tasting and teasing and exploring each other's mouths, that soft moan that is beyond our control, letting the other know this is turning you on so, so much. The unmistakable signs that your own body betrays you with, telling you that you are feeling this on every single level. Starting to explore their body with your hands, learning the angles or curves of their form, the different textures, kissing more deeply, just wanting that moment to go on and on and on. This is the connection you craved, the elusive "something" that has been missing. When you break that kiss, you grin cheekily at each other, biting your lip in anticipation of what may happen next. And then whatever else happens ....... well it only increases that connection. Parches your thirst as if you had been dying of thirst in a desert. And you feel so fulfilled and content and all that nervousness has disappeared, because there is truly a connection of sorts, an intimacy that has been shared. And then if you are really lucky, you get to experience that time of "coming down" off the high together. Lazily laying there, smiling, touching, talking softly. Not wanting to break that connection just yet, savouring those last few minutes together. So yes, for me the connection is what I crave. I know it isn't for everyone, and I definitely know that what I am looking for and desire is not what many want, nor am I personally what many want. It's a pretty big thing to meet with someone for a non sex sexy booty call! But for me, the experiences I have had in the small time I have been on here have been so amazing, and the connections I have felt have been exhilarating and I would relive those moments again in a heartbeat. So for those of you desiring a connection ......... I hope you find it! xxx
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'SAMNSCOTT'I personally crave the connection, the intensity you feel for someone that enables you to give them your all when you are with them and treat them as though they are the only other person in the world....then you are still able to walk away when things are done. This is not love, love allows you to be with the person and know each others urges and desires with out a spoken word and to trust implicitly....I need the connection for swinging, it is very hard to come by ,Reply Tam.....Thanks so much for your reply to this forum, yes that special connection , I think is what Truely passionate people crave for, It doesn't realy matter what you look like, or where your from.....when It's there, It's all that seems to matter....!! I guess thats probably why Im the fussiest swinger in WA...lol ....Tam.....Well i can't blame you going after what you want, there was one couple that replied to this forum that said they had recently found a nice connection with another couple, that they were enjoying verry much, maybee you could look them up....Matchmaker Tam.....lol........xo
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' I think I maybe a connection slut,Reply Tam....lol....do you mind if i steal that saying ?.. I'll steal a connection wherever I can :) sometimes with a nice sales shop assistant I hold there gaze and smile, stirs in the loins, gives you both a warm fuzzy. If I am really enjoying a persons company I include touch and it makes you feel warm and close ( in a non sexual way).Tam ...you have probably commented on something that no one else has, the non sexual connection.....Yes I have felt that with random people.....I had a female friend many years ago, that i had the strongest meantal connection with, exactly the same sense of humour, views....everything !.....we ended up having sex......and it just wasn't there.....And therefore, Fucked the frienship so to speak..!......But I truely mourne the loss of that friendship connection we had !! I have had sex with a friendship connection which can be 'fun' but more at the light level, lots of smiling and laughing, not slow and sensual, starring into each others soles or being blown to orgasm oblivion where your body has internal eartheakes as you grip your lover like your life depended on it. I have been lucky enough to have unplanned and planned hookups with friends, where we were lucky enough to have the planets aligned just right, so when the two of you meet in private. You are literally both on heat that instincts set the forces in motion,all communication is done staring into each others eyes as you take turns in devouring each other in an urgent, powerful even animal like way until both of you have cried out all you can endure and collapse exhausted, exhilerated and very contented. All of the above only happens if both/all involved catch the fleeting window, where the world fades into the background, they bare their vulnerability in their eyes, as do you.Tam..Wow yes that's it exactly,How wonderfully you wrote that !! I can feel this connection randomly with anyone, i feel like some people are more open to it than others, some learn it after I suppose letting their guard down bit by bit until they bare their sole. My above ramblings I reckon fit into connection. When those beautiful moments are over, warm feelings exist, but it isn't 'being in love' In my short time on the planet I think love is possible some of the above (or even not), I think love is a higher energy of connection, it doesn't stop with those experiences like a connection and the hookups that go with it. Love can fill you with adrenalin so you don't need to eat or sleep at times. The strong heart renching, even painful feelings from deep within, that occur when you simply just think of them and picture their face. The irrational fear that they may die before you and how could you go on living...Tam...yes thanks again for your wonderfull description of love, Actually you realy have mooved me with this post.That is exactly what love is to me !! The expression of these feelings, again I believe just come and happen, and sometimes you get lucky enough to stare into another persons eyes and then your feeling plus there feeling makes the combined connection bigger than any other. No thought, I just try to feel in this area. For a talker and an extrovert I am surprised to find these blissful still moments where the fleeting window passes by. Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. Love and peace Tam
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
Quoting 'MsRomantic' A great topic sexy guy from Tamworth!Reply Thanks..."gee ! Blush " I thought it was worth a post ! I am on this site almost purely for this ..... the connection, intimacy, sharing a moment with people and I am so lucky that I have experienced this. And I'll be honest, it rocked my world. I'm not on this site for sex, I get plenty of sex at home with my husband, but I want and crave more ....... and that's why I'm on here. So occasionally I get odd comments on my profile "why are you on here when you don't want to have sex" ...... but there is so, so much more to a connection than sex. I'm not young and skinny and sexy, I'm 44, a very big woman, someone who struggles with body image and self esteem, but I know I am a sensual person, and that these needs I have are deep and intense and my desire to explore my sexuality and that of others is increasing all the time. It isn't easy, keeping it a secret (my husband is emphatically against the idea of exploring further than our current relationship) ..... but maybe it's that secret component that makes it all the more exciting....Thanks so much for your thoughts, when i posted this topic, I didn't realy expect to get some of the deep heartfelt responses that i have had, it's so good to see them.....Anyway the reasons why people seek something else ! whatever that may be, are simply as complicated as the people seeking them !!, I see no reason why you shoudn't seek some sensuality, or exitement, if that's what you need !! On here, the excitement of receiving a message from someone who piques your interest, the tentative communications, the beginnings of an attraction, the teasing and tantalising thought that you may meet. The nervous, incredible anticipation when you agree to meet. That first moment you catch each other's eye, that first smile, first touch. The nervous banter that you know you have to go through, if for nothing else but to give your heart time to stop racing and pounding, you start watching them, learning the way they talk, smile, maybe you start imagining what their lips will feel like when you trace you finger or tongue so softly around the edges, what their skin will feel like when you are able to caress it ..... so many emotions running through your body. And then that amazing moment, that first kiss, oh god I love kissing. I could kiss for hours and be in heaven!Tam...Yes maybee it is like "Cheer " says " it's in the kiss "....Well i think you know it's special by the kiss !, that part has been in my profile for 5 years !!Tasting and teasing and exploring each other's mouths, that soft moan that is beyond our control, letting the other know this is turning you on so, so much. The unmistakable signs that your own body betrays you with, telling you that you are feeling this on every single level. Starting to explore their body with your hands, learning the angles or curves of their form, the different textures, kissing more deeply, just wanting that moment to go on and on and on. This is the connection you craved, the elusive "something" that has been missing. When you break that kiss, you grin cheekily at each other, biting your lip in anticipation of what may happen next. And then whatever else happens ....... well it only increases that connection. Parches your thirst as if you had been dying of thirst in a desert. And you feel so fulfilled and content and all that nervousness has disappeared, because there is truly a connection of sorts, an intimacy that has been shared. And then if you are really lucky, you get to experience that time of "coming down" off the high together. Lazily laying there, smiling, touching, talking softly. Not wanting to break that connection just yet, savouring those last few minutes together. So yes, for me the connection is what I crave. I know it isn't for everyone, and I definitely know that what I am looking for and desire is not what many want, nor am I personally what many want. It's a pretty big thing to meet with someone for a non sex sexy booty call! But for me, the experiences I have had in the small time I have been on here have been so amazing, and the connections I have felt have been exhilarating and I would relive those moments again in a heartbeat. So for those of you desiring a connection ......... I hope you find it! xxx. Thank you so much for your beautifull Post......from a beautifull person !! Love and peace Tam.
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