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Sexual frequency
May 20 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
obviously single right now but with a partner, I'd be wanting sex multiple times a day. I can't explain what it feels like from the inside out but horny all the time, nerve endings awake and tingling, but I'd get off pleasuring him as well, many times a day, probably kill the poor guy lol But that's the way it is for me. I have noticed a kind of 'awakening' amongst our community, things have picked up, good news for all concerned. But yeah, I miss morning sex being single. If I can, I get guys around in the morning. Not always possible but FIFO and the ones who work unusual hours can quite often do daytime. That's my preference when it's possible
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll let those in relationships answer as this seems a question of "opportunity". As a single guy I could have sex every day but it's not the same statistically as its not with the same person. Interestingly though, I read a (masturbation) survey which mentioned frequency increases over winter.... seems the cooler weather encourages those stay-warm-at-home activities 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have,the more you want,the less you have the less you want Q
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RHP User
10 years ago
The more you have, the less you wank, the less you have the more you wank.
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RHP User
10 years ago
1) How many time a week do you think a couple should have sex? What is yours preference? "Should"? Nah - that's so individual. Some might want it a few times a day, some once a month, etc., - whatever works for them. My preference... From past experience *thinks back* of relationships when I am past that first lusty 18months is usually 2-3 times a week. 2) What is the healthy number of times in a week do you think a couple need to have intimacy in order to keep things sparkling in their relationship? As above - huge variation and too much individual difference. So I'd never suggest a global number for that. I do think intimacy, affection and attention needs to be there, even if full sexual intercourse isn't 3) I love morning sex the most and hope that I would get it every morning, when I'm ready to settle down for another serious relationship. Am I asking for too much from a partner? 😛 You go girl - I think finding someone with the similar libido is one of the things that really help maintain a good relationships. 4) For people whose partners are either a FIFO worker, or a professional on roster job such as, doctor, policeman, etc. how do you handle the constant times apart on ongoing basis please? 😊 Hard something similar in previous relationships - mismatched hours do make things difficult. *following others input*
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madotara69
10 years ago
We have an active sexual relationship and intimacy is the foundation, the want, the need, the feelings and drive for sex, whether it a quickie or and especially in the cooler months, Tara gets cold easily and yes she likes getting warm, I like it when she is warm and also like to help her with all those little things that ease her mind and create the opportunity, (warm, horny, toey, insatiable) as often we can and have sex*, make love* or straight out fuck*. *Three opportunities on any given day Too and as well, we have our monogamish days, often twice a week together Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
....and time along with opportunity, once a day or so (maybe every other day) would be fantastic as long as everything else in a relationship were tracking well. You can actually make love to someone with their clothes on! If all we are talking about here are randoms... who knows. I've never stopped long enough to count!
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RHP User
10 years ago
1. Firstly the wise Qefenta has it spot on, as always. I believe a healthy should be at least three, preferably four, or more times a week. And it should be because you both feel like enjoying eachother, not just to keep the numbers up! 2. Assuming that you are asking about intimacy which doesn't lead to sex (one thing often leads to another after all) such as a genuine kiss in the morning, cuddles in the kitchen, spending me together to talk about eachother and life, a playful punch as they walk past or whatever it may be, this should happen almost every day. 3. I don't think you're asking too much here, you have to be compatible after all. Morning sex is great but for us tends to be rushed due to needing to go to work, kids in the house etc. Depending on conflicting work start times it may also make it more difficult, but then if there's no kids around the weekends could be fun! 4. We both have singles profiles and meet others when we cannot have eachother due to work travel. Winter brings about nice cuddling all tucked up in bed, or on the couch, in front of the fire etc. Also longer sleep ins on the weekends ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well this will be my first winter in about 12 years after living in Darwin and i'm looking forward to the extra snuggling not so sure about the cold. For us normally 4-5 times a week but some weeks less, the distance gone varies sometimes 10-15mins others extended all subject to life factors. Morning sex is great and gets you pumped for the day or if the weekend gives us little reason to leave the bed. We think anywhere from 3 > is a healthy sexlife if in a relationship.
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RHP User
10 years ago
To maybe shed some light on the Fifo lifestyle I did it for 4 years, the weeks while I was away was like a massive build up and anticipation, almost like foreplay, and my first 2-3 days off roster in regards to sex were always mind blowing, with the wife wanting me to go out and have my way with other women then come home to her and re live the experience (crazy I know but it made for epic sex!). The Fifo life is over for us now thank goodness so I'm home permanent now, enjoying sex 4-5 times a week (which seems pretty normal considering our busy lifestyle) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
For your kind and informative opinions on couple's sexual/intimate frequency. I can always learn something insightful from you every time I have a question to ask xx Yes I did mean sex/intimacy among couples who are in a committed relationship, not a random hookup or the casual FWB type of arrangement. I am curious to know because, I am lacking of such experience in that area of a committed relationship due to a number of reasons, and had only dated and married to men from my own culture, conservative thinking put a big restrain on my sexual experience today! I am like a learning child wandering alone out in the wide wildness, always curious and always want to learn 😛 so thank you for sharing your experiences and/or knowledge in the relationship department 😙😙 - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
I'd like to think that I am the living evidence of that survey you have read 😛😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Perfectly said 😘 To add to my situation, my hubby is a shift worker! I love morning sex but it rarely happens because poor hubby has come home at some ungodly hour (may have only had a couple of hours sleep) or is still on shift :( When I'm with lovers, yep I'll make morning sex happen :) I could have sex anytime hubby or FWBs/lovers asked me to 😜 I'm highly charged and have tonnes of sexual energy! I could have sex daily, but I like an ongoing connection with my sex, so everything is dependent on either hubby or lovers/FWBs being available! I'm equally satisfied though with kissing and cuddling, that's just as nourishing for me :) For me though, intimacy is a continual process, it's that kiss, the touch, the text, the grope when no ones watching or are watching. I'm very tactile and expressive, I need to touch and tell people how I'm feeling, I want that intimate connection to happen in whatever way it can! Mary xx
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SexyDeviants
10 years ago
We both work rotating rosters, so for example next month we have 3 days off together in the whole month. So of course no matter what we will be having sex those 3 days. The rest of the time it may be a morning or and afternoon where we see each other... Or Mr D stays closer to work with family so I won't see him for days. There are times when Mr D comes home at 4am, and we are in a routine now where he'll wake me up, and I either decide if I want to fuck, or I I'm too tired I'll just give him a bj. And usually when I come home late he'll be up waiting to go down on me before bed. We are both intune with each others needs, which is great for a couple who don't see each other all that often. So I agree with Luke above, the time away from each other builds up this sexual tension, I just love, love, love it when Mr D has been away for a few days and he sends me Snapchats, I can always tell he wants to fuck me silly. It is such a turn on! We would have sex every day, sometimes twice a day, if our rosters meant we saw each other every day. But I would say we have it 5 to 6 times a week at the moment. When we are on holidays I'd say between 10 - 18 times a week. Ms D
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SexyDeviants
10 years ago
I think being on the same sexual wave length is soooooo important. Before this relationship we both had partners who weren't a match sexual to us. Which caused a lot of drama, if I was you OP, make sure you're compatible in the bedroom before you go falling in love with someone!
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