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Sexual styles
March 12 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe talk about this to them before you have sex. A bit of communication about what you like and what you dont. And ask them as well. Nobody likes a 5 min non stop jackhammer. But communication during sex is important too. Ask them to slow it down. Or flip him onto his back and take control and ride him at your pace. Guys wont know unless you say something. And they will most likely appriciate you taking verbal control.
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RHP User
10 years ago
God, it doesn't matter how much we communicate with them, reality is the jewels/gems are hard to find. I was lucky for a while last year, had about 6 I regularly saw. However, I've struggled to find lovers of the same quality since and get equally frustrated after a bad encounter. God I could tell a story or two lol but I won't, understand where you're coming from though. I think it's time women stood up and said enough is enough, give us what we deserve. The slow tease, how fucking amazing is that, drives you crazy, takes arousal to crescendo level, but how often do I find a guy patient enough to do that? Hardly ever Still love the male species though, not slamming men, sorry guys, just get frustrated
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RHP User
10 years ago
from watching compilation porn....and not from their partner..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Communication is definitely the key. It's a good reason to take the time to talk about your likes and no go zones. Some things are fun to discover during play and some things need to be put out there beforehand, it's up to the individual to figure out which fits in which category. Going for it with minimal foreplay has its place too. For me, this is when there has been so much teasing while out for the day or out for dinner that you're taking each other's clothes off as you're getting in the door. Sexual deviate or animal? I guess everyone has their own preferences and the women they've been with may have wanted their style or may have just been nice and stroked their ego because they don't like being negative or criticising. Or could it be that they're just using the wording as an advertising tool?
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RHP User
10 years ago
a bit like your username ...jump on, hit the power band and hold on for dear life..try a change to - beige moped you make be pleasantly surprised that sometimes less is more and will get the pillion passenger safely home! kinda like those of us older guys
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RHP User
10 years ago
Male 'who cares' You get what you will put up with sadly, Like willow says you need to communicate, don't let em go till you are happy. Good luck xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yet to meet someone who sticks to their word of 'like lots of foreplay'...just get a 'just couldnt wait'...how many times do we have to say, gotta warm up the oven first, if they listened theyd realise how much more responsive wed be! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow, a green gsxr huh, Obviously not a traditionalist in every sense, if we are talking gsxrs and not two blues on white. Though when it comes to values g.g, it felt that regardless of gender there are souls out there that look only to be motivated for self and not others, rather than to be motivated for being the best for self, unto which others are then given to. So no, not all males are motivated toward being inconsiderate of their partner's needs and experience. For some take great pleasure in jointly exploring what their partner determines as feeling good. Looking to give in any instance and being mindful of the slightest cues, verbal or otherwise which can let a man know where and when she wants him. For only last year i heard a particular woman in interview challenge the outlook of "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" with Do unto others of which you feel they would like. So we can change our projection of what we want onto another by giving further thought and considerstion to what would please them most of ourselves. As Willow mentions, there should be clear indications in their dialogue as to how they are as an individual, its a mattaer of tuning your radar to further determine whether they really have your interests at heart or just motivated to get their needs gratified. Hope that helps. Regards, Nathan.
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RHP User
10 years ago
...and it sounds like young bucks. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sex machines - robots! Each to their own but not my thing at all! Those guys just need a fleshlight.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pre-historic days.....Whilst old "Ugg" the caveman was out hunting... he HAD to keep a close lookout for big hungry creatures that ATE cavemen..So.. here's "Ugg".. spots a "Ms cavegirl" .. he has no time to get involved in "Finesse .. He just did his job.. and got the fck out of there..AND.. mostly.. if he even heard a loud noise.. he would pull out and run..I am pleased to tell you all though...."THIS caveman.. has no natural predators, and can mostly swat husbands and boyfriends away without breaking stride" He therefore.. is an AWESOME being for unsatisfied women to "Borrow" for awhile.. to see how attentive males SHOULD be..The downside is.. "Going back to 'usual' is a bummer"
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RHP User
10 years ago
So just communicate what we want first or ask during sex? lol simple mathematics, delivered with great wisdom as always. Why didn't I think of that duh
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RHP User
10 years ago
Gold, absolute gold 😃
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SassyRascal
10 years ago
Im sure thats all guys know!! No wonder the wives don't want to go near them.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like me, I enjoy the build up and seeing and hearing moans of pleasure from a lady. Yes it is always best if the lady communicates what she feels like on that particular occasion. Shameless plug for us older guys. Cheers Paul.
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RHP User
10 years ago
shouldn't always need to be verbal...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
How many times must I tell you... You are not the Messiah hon. 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Foreplay begins for men at the first sight of a picture...... I do believe men are visual creatures after all. 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
OH!!!! *Crushed*
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RHP User
10 years ago
...then just be a naughty boy, Brian! An attentive naughty boy who takes time to please, naturally. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PL1963' Like me, I enjoy the build up and seeing and hearing moans of pleasure from a lady. Yes it is always best if the lady communicates what she feels like on that particular occasion. Shameless plug for us older guys. Cheers Paul. Paul you need to stop plugging yourself and start plugging us
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RHP User
10 years ago
I "like the way ya' thinkin' " I_Touch.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You don't like it, look around and make better choices.
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RHP User
10 years ago
For example only: I've tried to take control only to be flipped back over. I've tried asked them to slow down only to be told "it's ok I can last"! And even when I've said I would find slower much hotter they only slow for a nano second before the jackhammer begins again. No these are not the young guys either. In fact I find them far more skilled! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can't and won't make anyone I sleep with feel like their being constantly told what to do. I'll try of course, coerce and persuade but when it comes down to it I'm not going to make them feel bad! That's be horrid. These men were trying hard - too hard maybe but they wernt being selfish. I'm not a bitch. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
.. "That's me mate"
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' .. "That's me mate" you are a naughty boy
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RHP User
10 years ago
...after reading your Post, the first question that pops into my mind is "Why would you want a green GSXR..?" And by the look of it, I'm not the only bloke wondering( shocked...dare I say ) about that. What's wrong with classic blue and white? But back to your questions. Have you ever seen a male monkey having sex? Sexual animal. He's pumping away like that jackhammer...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing anywhere - I just get Blocked- Like Kurt Cobain & Dave Groll
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RHP User
10 years ago
To 50wetfigs your reply is neither helpful or constructive. Make better choices? How do you propose I do that? These are nice men I refer to - not selfish men.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No pounding for us at all.We focus on lots of foreplay, slow, using sexy language, baby oil ...lingering over each other. M (that's her) will climax within around 5-10 minutes of the foreplay heating up. It may be due to my slow stroking of her clitoris - a grinding, gasping orgasm. Often I will then go down on her, loving that sweet, sweet cum juice. My tongue inevitably leads to orgasm no.2 within another 5 or so minutes. I must have her now .. slide inside, grinding deep (not hard thrusting) .. M loves the deep, deep grinding and circular motions in each direction. Periodically I press my shaft hard against her G spot ... hold .. throb my cock hard and deliberately on her G spot - M's fav. I try to delay her and grind deep, throb slowly yet hard, for at least 10 minutes listening closely to her breathing so as not to let her cum just yet. M gives me a sign when she wants to let loose another orgasm .. No.3 with all this deep, passionate grinding is bigger, longer, more breath-taking than the last two climaxes. At that sign, we up the tempo, grind deeper and harder with my pelvic bone pressing hard on her engorged clit. Her gorgeous, wet lips clinch hard on my shaft as she screams! I must have M's aroused clit in my mouth. My tongue slowly and firmly figure 8's around her fully sensitised clit. She grinds in a clock-wise motion against my wanting mouth as my finger slides inside and firmly takes control of her G spot. M surrenders totally to my intruding, purposeful tongue - my opposing hand clinches her round firm arse - pulling her closer into my mouth as she cums again. Gasping for breath, dripping with her love juice, M knowingly smiles at me from her fully flushed face .. she turns onto her all fours as she grabs my hard, shiny shaft and guides me in close.... to part her fully ready lips. Fucking from behind, I firmly grasp at her left nipple as my other hand "owns" her right butt-check as we fuck faster and faster. I whisper in M's ear. After only a few minutes of spurring each other's body to full ecstasy, we climax together ... intense ... fully in time .... I feel every clinch of her pussy on my shaft, M feels every deep throb. We cum and cum together, I feel it right up through my chest, quivering with every last thrust. Just writing this, turns me on! (Damn, she's at the gym now!) On our walk this morning we discussed this Forum thread. M recalled the time in a Sydney hotel she climaxed 10 times in a Saturday morning 3 or 4 hour session. Anyway, just thought I would share our comments with this thread. My summary is, in my opinion, the more orgasm's M can have .... the more shattering is mine .... the happier we both are .... the closer and more intimate we are for the rest of the day. Our passionate sharing of our bodies drives our mental closeness.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does it feel after you've helped a woman to her orgasm with your tongue, then you slide inside her straight after. It feels amazing, she's so wet, still pulsating and you feel her pussy grip you. I like to make out with her (as long as she likes the way her pussy tastes) as I slowly grind inside her. As the kissing gets more frantic I start to go deeper as we start to passionately fuck. Believe me girls in situations like this us blokes try to hold out as long as we can, but it feels too good to stop sometimes, unless we're ass men and want to fuck you doggy style. Cheers, Natural - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is ANYONE disregards your sexual requests, and simply flips you over to continue as before..... you kick that morons arse to the kerb and never invite them back. EVER. Not only are they selfishly focussing on themselves and ignoring your enjoyment ...... but worse is that they are ignoring the privelige you have granted them in sharing your body. They are fundamentally disrespecting you. Tell them they can get fucked, just not with you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '50wetfigs' You don't like it, look around and make better choices. About on par with Hockey's 'if you want a house get a good paying job' comment.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' ...after reading your Post, the first question that pops into my mind is "Why would you want a green GSXR..?" And by the look of it, I'm not the only bloke wondering( shocked...dare I say ) about that. What's wrong with classic blue and white? But back to your questions. Have you ever seen a male monkey having sex? Sexual animal. He's pumping away like that jackhammer... Wanna come to the zoo?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'greengsxr' I can't and won't make anyone I sleep with feel like their being constantly told what to do. I'll try of course, coerce and persuade but when it comes down to it I'm not going to make them feel bad! That's be horrid. These men were trying hard - too hard maybe but they wernt being selfish. I'm not a bitch. without being a bitch. I know that women are conditioned to be 'nice' and keep the peace and not do anything that might upset someone, but it is perfectly acceptable for you to be very clear about what you want, and to assert your needs and desires in a polite manner. If a guy still has a problem with that then frankly he's a guy you're better off without.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Rule for men; don't whine it's unmanly, your obviously going about it the wrong way, make the necessary changes. Rule for women; Blame the men. Dragon lady you can add me to your ignore list to.
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RHP User
10 years ago
gold
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'd honestly believe u r correct I too do admit that I do this too as my wife wants the same old way and has lost her way a little and let herself go. I'm finding the sex boring hence me being o this site. Me myself I'd rather some breasts sucking pussy and clitoris licking atleast until she has had multiple orgasms the just teasing with the head of my penis and playing with the cliotris until she may orgasm again. And longer slower mort lustfull strikes are more viva rating for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
How old are these jackhammer guys? I know that as i have aged i have learnt that 'slow and steady win the race' so to speak. And as far as foreplay goes... the more time spent there the better it is for everyone involved. As has been said by many people before me on this thread, the key is perhaps communication. If that doesn't work, try some restraints... It's pretty hard to jackhammer anything when you on your back and tied to the bed. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What the hell stirry you've actually given a good response with no sarcasm, the world as we know it must be coming to an end - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
best be taking a screen shot then eh??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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lookintoplay_qld
10 years ago
we have found 90% of guys think its normal they have lost the sensual touch of fore play get the lady relaxed not treat her like a piece of meat we think its a single men think ever woman is after a gangbang ok that's our thoughts
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is a time for the jack hammer. But not all the time. As for foreplay. Bring that on. I'm all about the tease and the turn on. Then I'll go the jackhammer. To see that bored look on her face😉. Wait. Just kidding. I'm definitely about the pleasure
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am torn between saying such guys are "morons" and saying "how can you blame them". If you're not talking a little and communicating (before and during sex) then you can't expect the guy to read your mind. Lead a little with your words and your movements. He will catch on pretty quickly. I bet there are plenty of couples whose sex improved as they got to know each other better. The only way new partner is going to learn what you need and when, during a brief date, is with you leading him a little or a lot. Don't tar all men with the same brush. Sure that pesky Y-chromosome has a lot to answer for but I'm betting there are a lot of good guys out there who do care about their partner and would rather be good than a dud. It's not that tricky. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes some need a little education on anatomy. But mostly I haven't had to many problems. Giving a little direction on occasion doesn't hurt though. Some times a polite if you do it this way it works much better, doesn't hurt. You have to be able to speak up. We are all different and have different turn on points and things. All a learning process really. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
you are a 42 year old woman getting fucked by guys who think jackhammering you is the way to go, then you have to ask on the forum 'what`s going on?'` seriously lady get a life and find a good guy ,for fucks sake ...or if pushed I could say ,you get what you deserve ...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Communicate , and if all else fails buy a jack-rabbit. Works everytime - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are so right! Good communication is one key. But you need a lover that isn't selfish, someone that knows how to touch and someone that enjoys the chase lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I didn't read any sarcasm in that....better work on your delivery a bit more :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I need to open a school of sarcasm and wit lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Big difference between witty sarcasm and what you wrote. Wonder what you call that? Best leave it to the expert. Stirry owns it but dont tell him that, it might put him off his game.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm slipping and becoming normal :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sarcasm and orgasm are my two favourite 'asms
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can always have your phone handy. Download the speed meter app. If they are really going at it with no thought, ask if you can test their pace. Or check your Fitbit stats while they are going at it 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
From our own experiences when trying to find women that suit what we are looking for which is soft swing lots of kissing caressing oral sensual massage and such we found that pretty much every girl we talked to just said look i just want to get fucked hard by a big dick 😕 I spose you just don't find what you want no matter who you are lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What? Made no sense and insulting to the op. Interesting choice. I need more coffee 😯
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RHP User
10 years ago
lol I'm glad you didn't spell that wrong, cos chasm would be all kinds of unique :p Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What a great way to increase the step count (??!) 🙄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Isn't the jackhammer banned once we pass the age of 16? There's a time for it, agreed but foreplay and the tease is very much a huge part of sex for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
For those that are only focussed on one area of the body and on their own pleasure......(selfish) For the women - dildos, sex cushions, fuck machines. For the men - fleshlight- you can even get an attachment so you can mount it in the wall in the shower and pump hands free until your hearts content. And if they miss the warmth of another body - lie on a hot water bottle. Fucking is only a tiny portion of sexual encounters.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Almost every topic becomes a self promotion tool! OP I'd say it probably has more to do with who you are picking to shack up with [ insert self promotion here ]. Not all guys are self obsessed selfish lovers, I personally found the younger a ones to be such and decided to play with an older guy who'd gotton over himself and realized that the more you put in the more you get out. Now we are together and I've never been happier. Maybe go for a guy outside of what you normally go for a see if you get a change in attitude? You may surprise yourself. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
How's about you try going down a waterslide when it isn't wet. Then you'll understand why foreplay is so important 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's not hard to make a woman who is often shy about her body to really open up... A gentle touch here, a kiss there... When you make a woman melt in your mouth and shiver at your touch, that's when she's ready for more... You won't need lube, you won't need hard and fast sex to get it done with before she's lost interest... Keep it slow, make her feel every mm of penetration, get the angle right, make sure theirs pressure on the clit, and hold off until she's cum at least once... I guarantee you'll be back for seconds and thirds - Posted from rhpmobile
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seaadventure
10 years ago
the intensity of an orgasim after prolonged stimulation should be enough motivation for anyone - Posted from rhpmobile
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