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Sexually frustrated
April 03 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
Guess not - Posted from rhpmobile
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Cazz61
10 years ago
I'm not sure how you could get sexually frustrated from a site
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Now will it be buttered & salted ? 😇😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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horneycouplewa
10 years ago
For me (us) if we know we have a night free and can't get a couple to commit...YEP FRUSTRATING....thank goodness for single men
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RHP User
10 years ago
My view.... is you only become sexually frustrated from this site.... if you are sexually fixated upon this site. RHP is one part of your life. Not the SOLE part of your life.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Self diagnosis is risky. Especially with your recent foray into medical opinions ala Anal activity and STI's. But yeah i can see your self disgnosis has merit. Good thing that the first step in mental health treatment is acknowledgment of a problem. So i do applaud you in the self assessment. Wish you the best for your treatment. Well done.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What just happened here? *scratches head. The OP asked a question, and how does that justify a comment about narcissism? Did someone just CNP in the wrong thread?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Mental health has no boundaries. Its a cry for help by SS. Off topic is the least of his problems. The RHP community must support him in his cry for help. Im just wondering if his wife knows. ......
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think the site is just a means to an end. It's just a portal to be used for establishing contact, etc. But being registered on the site and opening up a profile does not guarantee sexual liaisons. I've learned to be content and relaxed about it. Besides, I do have a stringent "quality control" (LOL!) process in place to sieve up the fucked up people I do not wish to meet and compromise my safety. Nothing, or rather no one, has come close to the awesome situation I enjoyed with my long relationship too many years ago - sex 4-5 times a week or more. My fantasy has always been and still remains, sex as the last thing we do before falling asleep, and then the first thing we enjoy when we awaken the next morning. Sheer bliss! :D Am I getting that from anyone here? Nope. Am I getting all the sex I want? Nope. (Apologies... my sexual appetite can be insatiable. LOL!) Am I sexually frustrated? Nope. Less than before I joined the site. Because I didn't exactly impose expectations on anyone I've met here. I always yearn for more sex, but I enjoy what little there is for now. Besides, it's a double-edged sword that can work in your favour - if you do not get sexually satisfied with casual encounters / FWB's, then it will spur you on to be open to a real relationship outside this site! ;) FB / FWB's to me, are stop-gap measures that prevent me from going insane with unappeased lust. :P I suppose it's a better landscape for women on sites like RHP because of the skewed gender ratios. In this day and age though, men don't really have to suffer sexual frustrations though because there are always gentlemen clubs and brothels.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a shame I didn't see you at the meet last night, I was looking forward to meeting you. OP - More so from the naughty little chats I have with members behind the scenes. Building anticipation is fantastic foreplay 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
as someone who does deal with mental health issues, I'm finding these comments really offensive and distasteful. I see mental health joked about all the time on here and used as an insult, and I usually don't say anything, but this is something else. Not fucking impressed.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are you infering that the OP is a narcissist and has mental problems? Wow To answer the question, no I dont get sexually frustrated while using this site. But I have had moments of frustration with other users attitudes and expectations. But Im still here so it isnt that bad.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Fixed.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
social suicide, not sure where that came from but I'd say relax, the op just asked a question, and a good one as far as I'm concerned. It's a great topic. I do get frustrated, mostly through my own influence on that though, if that makes sense. Because of my heavy screening and quality control, for want of a better term, I go without more often than not these days, wasn't always the case. I don't blame the site though, I believe the site is well set up for us to steer our own destiny. Things are looking up for me though, few surprising developments. It ebbs and flows but as always, I do feel for the men on here, so much harder for them. Don't give up hope though. Last night, I randomly found someone outside my usual age criteria, hope he doesn't mind me mentioning it, but it made me realise how the ages can affect ruling people out of search results, woke me up a bit to that. I hit on him, he was very happy, so am I, haven't met him yet, but things like that can happen. People will come your way when you least expect it. Meanwhile, be happy with yourself, your life, and let this be an addition to that. Nothing to lose, everything to gain
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sweetgem
10 years ago
For half a minute about the mentioning of social_suicide's health issue until I read to the bottom of this thread, then I figured that the relevant comments must have been deleted by the Mods at someone's request. Anyways. To answer OP's question.......nope, I do not get sexually frustrated from this site at all! I mean, how? 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Men mostly get sexually frustrated on this site. Women mostly get sexually satisfied. That's just the way it is. Good luck.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Blink and you miss stuff in here......
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RHP User
10 years ago
You have posted a few times about the lack of attention you receive here. If its not working for you then think about why. I am sure you know that there are heaps of men here,far more than women. The competition is fierce. Who are you messaging and what are you saying that would make a woman want to respond to you.? As Mischievous Lad said go outside of this site .You might find who you are looking for in real life,people do. Expect nothing but hope for everything ..good luck xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
We got a break from the whiney I can't get any action threads so I guess this was expected sooner or later. But no we don't get frustrated from this site or we'd just leave.
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RHP User
10 years ago
From Social but as someone who has mental health issues I wonder if he possibly related sexual frustration with some MH issues. Libido gets extremely high when I go through an episodes (the high) the depressive kills libido. I learned to deal with sexual frustrations at a fairly early age going through many years of celibacy for different reasons. I am not sure whether he was just making a joke. I sometimes see a joke come up and think I wonder if that will offend anyone, I would not post jokes for that reason though I am not offended by any material and can tell an asshole of a joke as good as anyone.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'TisonlyI' From Social but as someone who has mental health issues I wonder if he possibly related sexual frustration with some MH issues. His comment had nothing to do with the OP's topic and was pure trolling.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'PurePeony' My fantasy has always been and still remains, sex as the last thing we do before falling asleep, and then the first thing we enjoy when we awaken the next morning. Sheer bliss! Am I getting all the sex I want? Nope. Awwwwwwww man... a gorgeous woman like you and still not satiated? I'll put my hand up to happily bring you a before bedtime snack and do have 'a few' ideas for breakfast in bed. Life can be so cruel. Back to the original question...a website is not a part of my sexual psyche' and therefore never plays any part of my own near-insatiable appetite. I don't get frustrated, I always get... even!
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Seachange73
10 years ago
so the previous posts on Suicide does not make sense and should have been omitted along with his post. Maybe the mods should do a proper job of cleaning up. Anyhoo No I do not get sexually frustrated on this site. yes I do get more attention and offers than I can handle so it may be a different case for the OP. However, I have cancelled a couple of meets on Friday and Saturday nights as I had to work on my presentation in prep for my meetings this week in Sydney. The fwbs I have cancelled on are just so sweet about it and rescheduling them this week when I get back from Sydney. One is making me dinner to pamper me, a good change. But that frustrates me, missing out on my sexy hot cubs as time is a premium for me. But because I have other more important priorities to focus on, work, business and kids, these priorities take over my life and I get a different sense of fulfilment and satisfaction in life. Sex is not the end all of me. But good sex is great so I look forward to meeting up with my fwbs this week.
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RHP User
10 years ago
This site is for the secuslly confident....not the insecure. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
* sexualy confident - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
you should eat something before you go grocery shopping so as to avoidbuying a shopping trolley full of crapmaybe the same should apply before logging in and we should all have a good wank ... just a wild thought what do you think
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freya70' You have posted a few times about the lack of attention you receive here. If its not working for you then think about why. I am sure you know that there are heaps of men here,far more than women. The competition is fierce. Who are you messaging and what are you saying that would make a woman want to respond to you.? As Mischievous Lad said go outside of this site .You might find who you are looking for in real life,people do. Expect nothing but hope for everything ..good luck xxFreya There are some of us here who have memories like elephants. I agree with Freya here, and without bringing up the past I remember several of your past forum topics. For want of a better word I didn't find them particularly gracious. RHP is just one way to meet people. My advice - Write a big list of all the things you enjoy doing...... then go join a club, do a night class, take up a second language and immerse yourself in the art of meeting other people. Your profile mentions that you are on the North Shore, one of the best places I found to meet people in that neck of the woods was through the Hash House Harriers if you are into running. Great social atmosphere. In the meantime, until you actually meet that someone special. Actually enjoy being by yourself and immerse yourself in the solitude. After all, until you can actually enjoy your own company - no one else will.
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