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Shorter guys

June 30 2012

Do woman find this a turn off?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Particularly midgets.I believe the cut off mark for midgets is 4'10". How tall are you?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    But just notinterested in guys shorter than me. I'm tall. I like to wear heels. I like a tall man!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Id like to think Im not that shallow but I am.....intellligence and brains do it for me absolutely but when it comes in a package of 5 ft 10 and beyond...well hon that rocks my world !!!!   I think its comes from the fact that Im so short myself and I hate it...when I with a man, I love all that he is tall and confident and will "protect" me...must be the sub in me...   Sorry :(

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsTri' Particularly midgets.I believe the cut off mark for midgets is 4'10". How tall are you? im 5'5

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Shorter men ... Say around 5'7" - 5'9" ... So often have fantastic bodies. Less torso length so more pronounced muscles, my god yum!!! But I prefer to be with taller men, 5'11" and up. Put simply, I'm not a small girl and I love my heels - taller men make me feel so much more feminine.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Used to be a fan of 6foot and above..but have found that 5'9s and above are rather alright too..any smaller and I'm going to tower over them in my gladiator heels...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love short men,Peter Dinklage is a babe,,,oh and I love tall men....um maybe I just love menx Hugs H

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    There's something about being in the arms of a man who is taller than you that I think every woman loves BUT some of the best sex I've (mrs PP) ever had has been with guys who were 5'5" & 5'7". I hope I don't sound derogatory but I think of these sexy shorter guys as pocket rockets. The whole package wrapped up in a more compact model.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Checks height - fail Checks body - fail Checks age - fail Checks wit and humour - meh maybe     lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Is a short arse... He often jokes that he chose me because I will breed the short arse out of his family. He's 5'6" and I am 5'11" and I still wear 3 inch heels when I want to. He says it puts my boobs right at face height and that's A-OK!Point of note, Tom Cruise is only an inch taller, and Paul Hewson (Bono) is only 5'9". Dave Franco, Jet Li, Josh Hutcherson... All under 5'8". SOME short men have Short Man Syndrome... they become arsehats to get noticed. Others just thrive, develop charisma and personality and all the other little tricks that make them so attractive. My ex husband was taller than me and he was (and still is) a useless dick. But we all have our "thing". My thing is overweight guys... I get that if it's valuable you want to put a porch over it, but it does nothing for me...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I need to take my socks off to count the number of times it has been cited as a/the reason. Or it could be because I need extremities to perform basic arithmetic.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love being a short woman, it totally opens up the dating field!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Mr Briz is 1 inch shorter than I am, and I still love my 6 inch heels. Quoting 'justswingingbi' Is a short arse... He often jokes that he chose me because I will breed the short arse out of his family. He's 5'6" and I am 5'11" and I still wear 3 inch heels when I want to. He says it puts my boobs right at face height and that's A-OK!Mr Briz is also shorter than myself - by about an inch - and I still love rocking out my enormous heels when we go out. He too likes it... not only the boob thing, but I think he enjoys others looking. It's definatley not about height - it's how you use the package. And yes, I agree with Paradisepair - the compact package works a treat

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love short men. Green Day's Billy Joe Armstrong is my ultimate fantasy man and my ex-husband is 5'6". I'm only 5'4" so anyone taller than that is fine with me. A word of warning though - almost every man I've met via the internet has overstated his height in his profile by about 2 inches. Because I'm short myself it hasn't been a problem for me but I can imagine medium to tall girls being quite disappointed when they meet a man who doesn't measure up to their published stats. Much better to be upfront right from the start.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm 5'3"/160cm. Someone once asked me if I was really only 5'3". I told them no, I'm actually 5'9", it's a deliberate lie to attract the ladies.   Sadly it can be a challenge to overcome and like I've mentioned on the forum before it's a catch-22 when the taller women are off limits and the shorter women go for the tall guys too. C'mon, throw us a bone!

  • playfulpirate

    playfulpirate

    13 years ago

    Is only short and everyone wants to fuck him. I'm only 5'7 and taller women are great fun tallest I've been with was 6'2 it was great

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I've never really thought about it - being tall most ladies are shorter than me, only the difference varies... Now I'm wondering what it'd be like to have a taller girl take advantage of me.... hmmm... 6' plus applicants considered, heels permitted ;-)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I agree with Apollo 13, its not a turn off, just not something I'm attracted to. At 5'10" it makes it just as limiting for tall girls as it does for short guys when 50% (if not more) of the population is immediately ruled out. I was once with a guy who was around 5'2", and whilst it wasn't anatomically impossible by any means, I just don't think it worked as well. But there are always going to be physical characteristics that are attractive to one person, and equally unattractive to another.Moral of the story....sometimes it is better to be average......unless you want to be able to see in a crowd.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    As long as they are my height,no worries. Know some sweethearts that are my height and a little more. I have to be honest and say, once I was so shallow that if a man was shorter then 5'9" I would tell them they were not my type. Yes a rude bitch. in saying that we all get rejection. :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Getting horizontal tends to be a great leveler of the playing field.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    If I get to know someone and like them it won't bother me at all, but when I'm out and about I admit to checking out any guy over 6'2" instinctively :)xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Thought everyone was roughly the same height lying down so why the bias toward tall guys ladies? Sheeesh.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    you stand out in a crowd of the mediocre and mundanex Hugs H

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Being 5'3'' myself, I only have eyes for men that are at least the same height... I like guys who are a bit under 6'0'', slightly more compact, while most who are above 6'0'' are a little more gangly and 'stretched' looking. Although men that are 6'0'' and above instinctively catch my attention and there is that 'I feel so tiny and feminine' aspect... But then there are some moments where things are anatomically impossible :(

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm 5'2" so just about everyone is taller than me :P - Ms Otori

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Handmaiden' Getting horizontal tends to be a great leveler of the playing field. ...and we can reach the upper and lower erogenous zones at the same time without having to bend into a pretzel ET xox

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am only into tall guys as sexual partners. Happy to have shorter guys as platonic mates, but just not attracted to them sexually, the bigger the guy the more interested I am - though it's certainly not the only consideration by a long shot, it is the first thing I need to be able to tick off my requirements. I love to wear heels, and while only 5'8" barefoot, my absolute favourite pair of heels sees me standing at 6'4". I was once dating a guy who stood just on 7 foot tall in his sneakers, it was awesome!I've been quoted the 'it doesn't matter when you are horizontal' line so many times on here by guys under my minimum requirement who want to ignore what I say I am seeking on my profile. Unfortunately it's a pointless statement in my case, as if a guy doesn't turn me on physically as well as mentally then it's not getting as far as horizontal regardless.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    well that is a clever way to find out what girls like a short man..   Well played Jnr   now run along

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    WowWow11 that's plain nasty. Are you jealous he has all these lovely women giving him attention? Tut tut! Being only a diminutive 5 ft 1inch lady myself it doesn't matter too much to me, but I must say if I am with a man who is 6 ft or more I feel like a child with him.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'AllWomanMelb'I am only into tall guys as sexual partners. Happy to have shorter guys as platonic mates, but just not attracted to them sexually, the bigger the guy the more interested I am - though it's certainly not the only consideration by a long shot, it is the first thing I need to be able to tick off my requirements. I love to wear heels, and while only 5'8" barefoot, my absolute favourite pair of heels sees me standing at 6'4". I was once dating a guy who stood just on 7 foot tall in his sneakers, it was awesome! I've been quoted the 'it doesn't matter when you are horizontal' line so many times on here by guys under my minimum requirement who want to ignore what I say I am seeking on my profile. Unfortunately it's a pointless statement in my case, as if a guy doesn't turn me on physically as well as mentally then it's not getting as far as horizontal regardless.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Well I'm glad I'm really tall 6'7", now just to find a tall woman :(

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    To the topic creator...   The best thing you can do is not come on here for opinions. All you're going to get is either self centred shallow opinions or opinions that will do little for your confidence. Women base 99% of attraction on looks. Be happy with who you are and find ways to gain confidence so you will project a positive attractiveness that women will catch onto.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I just can not feel feminine with a short man - I am 5'9 and have too many 6 inch heels is have to throw away :) I like my men 6 foot and above and burly :) its a visual thing for me :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You heard of platform sox...? lol

  • TomiPrice

    TomiPrice

    13 years ago

    I find that being 5'8 is a great height for table sex, kitchen bench sex, bathroom vanity sex, I just need to find a female instead of my closed hand to try it with!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Enigmaoflove' To the topic creator...   All you're going to get is either self centred shallow opinions or opinions that will do little for your confidence. Women base 99% of attraction on looks. Be happy with who you are and find ways to gain confidence so you will project a positive attractiveness that women will catch onto. Afraid to say...... wrong. Flat Out WRONG Yes, there is a visual element.... but Attraction is not a choice, and in accepting that truth, your comment doesnt stack up. And even your comment about being positive, and having women catch onto that.... contradicts you. I also find your comment somewhat paradoxical given that the first personality trait you list in your profile is 'non-judgemental' and then your "top 20" list, even if you called it a joke. DG I don't result to insults or personally attacking peoples profiles (like yourself) but i'll explain it anyway.   My opinions are based on my experiences and what women have told me so i don't need someone like you being degrading towards my profile. None of my opinions are abusing, directional or casted as scripture. I don't degrade or make people accept my views.   When i say 99% i'm using that as the majority (again based what women have talked about with me). There is no positive or negative about the issue it's based on reality. The majority of feedback i have received from women is that they would put physical looks over a guys personality. I'll even quote what a woman has said to me...."if i see a guy i don't say...oh my look at his personality. If a guy gets my attention it can only be because i find him physically attractive". I communicate with women because i like hearing what they have to say.   My comment to the author is in clear english....yes i was trying to leave a positive statement for this person (because my assumption of his topic.....only an assumption) was he feels lacking in the physical department. Leaving a simple comment to someone and mentioning to maybe concentrate on other areas like personality was a simple gesture. There is no right or wrong in that. To address your comment re "attraction is not a choice"....i'm laughing my arse off because clearly with height it is a choice...otherwise this topic wouldn't even be an issue and the old adage since the beginning of time....." i want someone TALL, dark and handsome" wouldn't exist lol. Again, not my authoritarian opinion (like yourself) just an observation based on womens comments, views, opinions both short and long term.   Yes my profile mentions 'non-judgmental'.....that is my simple breakdown....is it a crime, right or wrong or offensive to say that....again based on my experiences. My point was i would like to meet someone who is more relaxed about the physical and more interested in simplicity. Again, my top 20 list is meant to be comedy based on reality from this site. It isn't right or wrong, degrading or forced upon anyone as being negative or positive.   You may have sexuality issues and to be honest i don't really care because I think you need to spend more time looking at female profiles rather than males. You're entitled to have an opinion like anyone else as long as you address it in a respectful mature way. If you did i wouldn't have to write this.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Some people just need to accept the fact that their short and get over it, they're not saying its a turn off their just saying their not attracted to you. Im 5'11 and often get knocked by woman who are only interested in 6ft plus men its just tough luck.People come in all shapes and sizes, im sure there alot of guys who arent attracted to curvy/flat chested women, and then there are some men who are, its just the way things go.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    i agree, im 5' 7"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Im only 5'1"...but I like my guys to be around 5'10" - 6 foot tall. I like my men big. Ive been with a couple of shortish guys before but it just didnt really do IT for me....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Im 6'3. And think mrs deliciouscplbris is hot...wandering what she thought of mr sexnfun7777 after we met at pip

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The OP asked a very simple are women turned off my shorter men?   If you dont like his question and think it stupid or just get over it, why bother commenting??? It honestly does my head in the amount of negative, critical people on here. There are similar posts where women have asked if men like chubby women, if women like tattoos.... where is the difference??   Enigma i enjoyed your post as at least unlike others, you were positive.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm 5'2" so against me everyone is tall! I dont think height (or lack of) is a problem...as long as you have looks and personality and above all lots and lots of sex appeal!!!

  • realcouple4u

    realcouple4u

    13 years ago

    Being Tall with Long Legs , yep short men do nothing for me (neither do men with small dicks )

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Seems that there's a few women commenting on here that obviously take the mass of oversexed men's compliments in there inbox's to there heads . Another thing that concerns me is the amount of ridiculous grammar being used, I'm sure you don't take your thesaurus to the bar with you. Lighten up.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My rule is same height or taller than me. At 168cm I don't find that restricts me too much. I'm a sucker for a tall tall man but it is just a bonus really and many many attributes come before that on my list of 'would be good if....'

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Have no problem with short guys, as long as they have a good body and know how to use itHE HE HEMrs Two for

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm definitely on the short side, but have had very few people admit to knocking me back because of my height (to be honest, I can't actually recall anyone, but I'm sure there have been some), and if the subject of height does come up after we meet they appear genuinely surprised when I say what my height is. Maybe its the company I keep that distracts them (thank you Mrs SinS ) - or maybe it's because I have never considered it a disadvantage....or maybe it's because I make sure we're always sitting down when we first meet If someone does have an issue with it, I consider it to be their misfortune not mine. Plenty of fish in the sea!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    One of the most beautiful girls I've dated was the same height as me, 6'2", and she was very self-conscious about her height. People don't often notice my height because I tend to subconsciously slouch down to match eye contact with whoever I'm speaking to, so my casual stance is usually an inch or two shorter unless I'm consciously standing upright (and growing up in front of a computer has shaped my spine like a crescent moon...) Sometimes she would look a touch taller than me, and in heels she was an Amazonian goddess that towered over me! I loved it, but she felt like guys were put off by women taller than them, for the same reason I guess that some women are put off by guys shorter than them. It does happen I guess. Some guys like feeling like strong manly men, and some women like feeling dainty and small and feminine. For what it's worth though, as far as 'judging on looks' goes height doesn't really seem to be as important as all the other physical things we judge each other by. The effects are probably amplified on this site though, because there's a premium placed on looks, and many more guys for women to choose from so they can be pickier(unfortunate but not unreasonable). It's probably a little bit more of a disadvantage here than it is in 'real life', but then as you've seen from those that have responded, for every woman that cares there's one that doesn't. And someone saying "it's not my thing" in most cases is not the same as "never ever", it just means you've got to work a little harder (although the rare ones that list height requirements in their profile probably DO mean "never ever").Incidentally, being shorter has never seemed to hold back my male friends. A couple of them are amongst the funniest blokes I know, and always have scores of women hanging on to every word they say. The shorter guys tend to develop the funny bone, I guess to stop being picked on at school! So all you have to do is... be hilarious?I think the only time being a shorter guy is a problem for the most part is when it develops into short-man syndrome. Then you'll find the women will start running for the hills.PS. Don't become a Scientologist and start jumping on couches. It never ends well.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'justswingingbi'SOME short men have Short Man Syndrome... they become arsehats to get noticed. Others just thrive, develop charisma and personality and all the other little tricks that make them so attractive. Should have just quoted this!Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'If you're 'short'......and you ask a woman if short men are a turn off...... and that woman says yes....... How does that help you at all?!Well lots of women have said they love short guys, or it's not a factor either way. Probably an equal number than have said they don't. So that's encouraging, and shows a diversity of views?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I'm 5'7" and I've only really been called short within the last 10 years... before that I was considered average height. Whether it's true or not, it seems to me that, over time, girls in general are wanting taller and taller guys. Then again, it has only really been in the last 10 years that I've used online dating... so maybe it's just Internet girls? It's not surprising, considering that the ratio of men to women on the Internet is something like 10:1, so women have the opportunity to be more selective of their men.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I will list the things that the majority of men on here and in life wouldn't like about me that I have very little control over: stretch marks, height, body build, skin color, race, hair, deflated chest, small chest, feet, scar, cellulite. So the f what?! If you focus on who doesn't want you, you won't see those that do. Granted, I am a woman so the average guy will sleep with me because I have a vagina and am not totally heinous. In lieu of hoards of women knocking down your bean stalk to ride the other green giant, you have the opportunity to develop charm and sexual talents with the lilliputian lovers. These women who love their men teacup sized or simply don't give a shit, will come for seconds and thirds and more... They will teach you things that jack will never learn from his one night stands. I don't think anyone wants to see me post "guys: are you into breasts that look like deflated balloons?" or "would you sleep with/date/marry a black woman who isn't beyonce?". Anyone raised in the west knows the general rank/order for the vast majority of people, but even if 90% of women are not attracted to you, 10% are. Unless you're going for quantity, you're fine! (Answers to hypothetical question a. "No, but I'd still fuck you." b. "Definitely/maybe casually/yes, that one ethnically ambiguous model is black, isn't she?")

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Though pointless, I will say that I like men who are bigger and stronger than I am, and part of that is height, just as most men are attracted to women who are smaller than them, with a greater emphasis on weight perhaps. When your 6'4", 240 lb of muscle date says "you're tall/strong," it's an observation or possibly a compliment. When your 5'5" or 140 lb date makes the same comment out of nowhere, it's a very loaded observation. I'd encourage people not to state such things not only because tall people know that they're tall, but you may be highlighting or creating an issue.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    so many shallow women...sad. lucky men dont judge women who are too tall..

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Pot.... Kettle.... Black.... Hmmm Adventuretime, it's shallow of the taller ladies to not prefer shorter men? You're as shallow as anyone else coz you dont want beer guts or Large gals! D'Oh! What is it that makes a personal preference "shallow"? I prefer men I'm attracted to over men I find really un-attractive. I know ...... I'm a trail-blazer in the field huh? Damn me for being shallow!!!! How dare any of you to have a certain look, age, height, body type, hair color, personality, face shape, number of teeth you prefer. And to those people who say " NO SINGLE MEN" in your profiles - (we all know y'all wouldn't be saying "You're not what I'm/we're looking for" to Brad Pitt - its OK to admit it), FUCK YOU too!! To be so sexist must make you the most evil, shallow bastards of all!!!! I'm guessing the "you're all so shallow" crowd never turn ANYONE down? Just fuck any piece of meat that comes your way? When did personal preference make you shallow..... (come on puppies)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'chocolatebaby' Seems that there's a few women commenting on here that obviously take the mass of oversexed men's compliments in there inbox's to there heads . Another thing that concerns me is the amount of ridiculous grammar being used, I'm sure you don't take your thesaurus to the bar with you. Lighten up. I do! It's permanently lodged in my cranium! And synonymy isn't a grammatical concept. I agree with the first sentiment though. I'd probably be even pickier if I had a full inbox to wade through every day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    have preferences,mine is for smart,funny,kind men,and yes we all judge.xHugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My husband is shorter than me by a couple of inches and it doesn't bother either of us in any way. He also loves it when I wear heels (am over 6ft then) and I can tell you we get a lot of attention from it when we walk in to a room.   We have also had a playmate (5.5ft) and height was never a factor. He loved the fact that I was so much taller than him. He was known as our "pocket rocket".   So, each to their own - by the way, tall or short doesn't matter. To me it's the personality, sense of humour, intelligence and how special they make me feel at the given time.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    My profile states I prefer 'tallish' - that's 5' 7" and above. As I'm only a chubby little 5' 3" short arse myself, when I wear my heels I'm almost on a level with most of the guys I've met. A six footer is probably even too tall for my liking, especially as one of you lovely chaps said, around 5' 8" is the perfect height for 'table' sex. Mmm, yes please. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    mate im 6'5 and when i go out with the boys from work who r only around the 5'8 mark. most of the time im the one that gets to chat and flirt with the girls. so i think that the girls tend to draw to the hight. so far iv never had a girl tell me im to tall lolbut there is alays a first. it dose have its disadvantages as well be leave me lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...a guy at least 6ft tall , has a 10 ' dick, be built like a overbuffed adonis, drive a shiney new porshe, has a 40ft power boat moored outside his multi million dollar waterfront tripled teired pad and own a mining company worth millions....Ahhhgggg.. fair dinkum' cmon ladies' The average guy is what he is, short medium or tall... I'd put money on the fact the man you already have or have had does not quite fit any of the above. or maybe just one or two.. Nothing wrong with dreaming.. I would suggest not all you ladies are another Elle or Angela Jolie.. ? hmmm ?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Sooooo, given that every guy's profile here claims a dick 8 inches long... . While height is hard to gauge, apart from perphaps 'he's taller or shorter than me', I'm curious as to whether any ladies have gone to a meeting and found that their date had shrunk in the wash. Were you expecting a 5'10" date, but when you stood up to give him a peck on the cheek you found yourself wondering whether you'd accidentally popped on your 10" stripper heels and had to lean down or find him a stool to stand on?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Yes....... He was 6ft3'. If he was 6ft3 I'm a Nowegian Supermodel. I was wearing a 2.5 inch heel. Top of his head maybe came up to my eyes. At this stage i would have walked away, but figured i might as well make the pest buy a crazy expensive bottle of wine for my trouble. Oh yeah - jay_me : he didn't only have 1 shiny Porsche, he had 2!! Ooooh , so impressive! I had to be impressed because it was all he could talk about. His photo was also at least 10 years old... An absolute WOFTAM. At what point do you not think the other person won't click that you're not quite who you're making out to be?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    we like men to be men, and women to be women...so the guys are proportionately taller and heavier than the gals...Shels 5ft 6, she likes tall , not overweight men...makes her feel more 'feminine'...i'm 6ft...i like women to be shorter, and to weigh an appropriate amount less than i do...its not rocket science, or shallowness...its personal preference, something every adult here is able to make and have. we have both dated outside of our preferences...because we liked the person, but its never led to anything long term...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Jean - absolutely !! 6 foot apparently is about the same height as me and I'm 5'9 and a bit . Men lie about everything to get pussy , height, cock size , job, marital status , you name it........ I just assume everyone is 30% less awesome than they appear ;) So far only one has way surpassed that theory ( I'm sure that theory also goes for me too btw :)

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    13 years ago

    Even has their different preferences - that doesn't make you shallow. Some men don't like to feel 'emasculated' by dating a woman much taller than them. Some women, me included, like men that make me feel small, feminine and protected. I don't think there's anything wrong with having physical preferences. I'll admit that my eyes are naturally drawn towards tall men 6 foot plus but I don't find short men a turn-off. Thankfully, being 5"3 myself means that it doesn't take a lot of height for a man to be taller than me! Lucky me   Dida   xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    At 6'6 I can honestly say that in my 20's it made things a little difficult, You look 17-19 years of age, no shoulders, clothes look ridiculous on your wire thin frame.In fact I was self conscience of my height.But now days,I fucking love it!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'Jean - absolutely !! 6 foot apparently is about the same height as me and I'm 5'9 and a bit . Men lie about everything to get pussy , height, cock size , job, marital status , you name it........ I just assume everyone is 30% less awesome than they appear ;) So far only one has way surpassed that theory ( I'm sure that theory also goes for me too btw :) 30%??? Oh that would make me only moderately awesome!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    It's a fact , science indicates the height gene is taken from the women's side, you'll find majority of short men have shorter mothers...   Men need to be hunting taller women to get rid of the shortness if it bothers men.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lol , god some people are fuckwits. Simple question needs a simple answer. Only asked the question coz I was just curious. I love being 5'6

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'heeyyyy' Lol , god some people are fuckwits. Simple question needs a simple answer. Only asked the question coz I was just curious. I love being 5'6 Yep, it appears they sure are. But once you put a question out there it becomes property of the Hivemind, to stretch, poke, prod, violate, and generally have our way with. Or, you know, just to talk shit. 'Sall good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    been out tonight and was making out with a chick who was taller than me. she went off to 'find her mates' and came back with a guy who was alot taller. i was speechless, what do you say to that. she just said 'she felt more comfortable with him' and that was it. the whole thing had me feeling a little angry and derogatory towards myself (even though she was clearly a slut)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The hight genes don't come from your mother, the sex of the baby does. My mum was 5'4" and my Dad is 6'3 and I'm 6'7" so work that out :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...want to have to bend down to kiss him. So taller than me is ideal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The sex of the baby comes from the fathers genes - not the mother. All about X and Y chromosomes from the baby's daddy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Dont ask a question if you dont want a answer ??? duh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Males have one x and one y chromosome, females have two x chromosomes. As such mothers can only contribute an x chromosome, whereas the father will contribute either an x or a y, thus determining the baby's sex... Unless you can link me a scientific article that proves otherwise...AlsoIdentical twins are passed on by the father, fraternal are from the mother. Boys are always taller than their mothers (barring genetic deformity). This is a theory we are testing as we have two boys and they both have to hit 180cm to top me... (but that links in with my earlier comment about how Mr Justswinging wanted me to breed the short arse out of his family...)Dimples are hereditary...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I will concede the point on identical twins insofar as times may have changed since I had my twins (17 years ago, the current scientific thinking was daddy does identical twins)... My twins are fraternal, and hopefully NOT on here *pales at the thought*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When you shop online, what do you do? You put in size, shape, colour, model you want. If you think about size what is the average for women 12-14 so most women will order that size. We cannot shop for personality on RHP nor chemistry. That can only be determined by off-line interaction. If short man and tall man standing in a bar the first attraction is always visual. But its the guys that make the talk, and makes a woman smile and charms her that may end up seducing her Our profiles are a description of who we are and what we want. Its our perceptions and our own choices that impact on how we respond. I do have tall on my profile, but many a short guy has seduced me off-line by getting under my so called preference line. I am not attracted to red hair, but again a red headed guy talked me into the sack and fucked my brains out and every now and again over the years we catch up and do it all again. This is eBay or fuckbay so we put up the add and we choose what we want. But sometimes if we think outside the square we might get a nice surprise. And yes its a womans shoppers market here, so you poor boys will just have to try and look like italian shoes

  • LemonDance

    LemonDance

    13 years ago

    I love nice tall, big & strong man, but I've met lots of sex,y fun & fantastic short guys too. Nothing more dissapointing though, than when you come across a big, strong, tall man only to find he has a little bread roll hidden in his pants, so many short guys seem to come with a surprise package! :o)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Aren't we all same height in bed?   Not a turn off but tall guys turn me on more. I don't mind guy shorter than me if he has a good body and personality but not too much shorter. I am 5'8'' and love heels (at least 4in till 6in) so my limit is 5'7'' for guy. I never go out for date without wearing my heels.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Height doesn't bother me because I'm only a smidge under 5 ft and no I'm not a midget although I have been called a pocket rocket and also a walking head job but back to the question at hand I haven't even met anyone shorter unless they are under 10 so everyone is tall to me I think it shouldn't matter as long as your comfortable with each other And the guy can throw me around a bit in the bedroom jokes So don't take it to heart if you get a few knock backs we all get a knock back here and there Just stay positive there's a lucky lady out there waiting for you and as long as you show a little respect I'm sure she will Be worth the wait Chin up honey if all else fails I'm shorter than you and I don't judge I don't bite ( hard anyway )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well being a short guy is I suppose like being a larger girl .....now no disrespect to the ladies that are a larger size, I like all types of females. All I am saying is that your not going to get looked at as much as the chick who has the slimmer body and the same with short men. If we are standing at the bar with our mates that are taller, the taller bloke will get far more attention form females. I don't have a problem being a short ass and have been with much taller woman. Be honest some of the sexual positions were a bit of a challenge but we worked it out

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yep, I was guilty of over stating my height cause I found that 99% of females on line dating sites would not respond if I put stated my true height. Amazing how 1inch taller makes a big difference. I have been with taller females and it was great but I didn't feel comfortable going out with a girl that was much taller than me cause it looked funny so I do understand why most woman want taller men.. I never try to contact a female that is over 5'6 cause its a waste of time. At the end of the day its really about the attraction not just physically but how well you click with each other in and out of the cot. Quoting 'slippery_halo' I'm 5'3"/160cm. Someone once asked me if I was really only 5'3". I told them no, I'm actually 5'9", it's a deliberate lie to attract the ladies.   Sadly it can be a challenge to overcome and like I've mentioned on the forum before it's a catch-22 when the taller women are off limits and the shorter women go for the tall guys too. C'mon, throw us a bone!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm 6ft (I shrank by an inch over the last few yrs) and Fiend is 5ft 9.... and occasionally I still like to don my boots or heels which puts me anywhere between 6ft 2 to 6ft 5 lolPoor poor fiend.I have no issues with height, my ex was 5ft 2.. and boy did he know how to fuck and abs you could fry an egg on.Most of the fellas I've been with have been shorter than me, bar maybe 3 at the most who were taller.As long as ya spunky, have a great personality and don't bite my ankles, I don't care what height ya are lolMrs f xxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I was once ,dont like the idea of sharing my bed with man shorter than my self 5'7, but at the end i would preferred short man with big gun than big man with short Gun,lol !.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Interesting one !... done it once ( 2cm shorter than me ) a bit weird but he had good personality and very interesting person, indeed !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    There is an instant attraction to tall men that we women just can't seem to shake. That "cave man , protector " thing that has us visualizing them throwing us over their broad shoulders and taking us back to there rock dwelling. Regardless of how independent and secure we have "become" , tall is hard to resist. Being at Chest height is just perfect for tearing open a shirt , pressing lips to flesh, but as Handmaiden says "when your horizontal it's a great leveler" Minxy xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Say it all : "yeah! I can wear my heels without feeling self conscious of my height" Generally I don't think guys mind if their lady friend towers over them, but being tall I like the attraction and good vibes from women who appreciate and like/want taller-than-they-are partners Plus we get the age old statement :" u must b good at basketball because you are tall" lol Sexually we're pretty good too *wink* tall has many advantages too ;) td&h

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Is more important than height, to some it is an issue but it is the person within that matters. I am five foot and quite happy to be that way, I get ribbed about it but it is usually ones that have issues with height or maybe the need to put other people down

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    i dated a guy shorter than me it was awkward i felt like the man because i was the taller one i felt unfemanine and in bed well some possies were harder due to his shorter legs lol also i love high heels and dressed in sexc atire i was just a giant its deff not a turn of just something im not attracted to i like my men over 6ft the taller the better 6ft 5 love it i feel so skinny and small loland protected curled up in him ahhhhh

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    I'm very short, my husband is about 5 10, and that's a great height between us..... I do like taller men, but not too tall! But again it comes to the confidence that a person radiates.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm afraid....as i'm 5 11", i loooove tall men.   Anything under about 5 8" or so is a turn off for me, anything less and i just feel like a gargantuan!   I'm quite used to towering over many men as i love high heels, but a nice tall man with the broad shoulders to match....just makes me weak at the knees....