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Sore hoo-haa

March 06 2018

I’m a little embarrassed to post this question, soo please be kind. 🤭 I recently had a wonderful, very intense, hot and steamy long long session(s) with a very sexy man whom I’m looking forward to spending more time with. However, as we know, these nights of pure pleasure can lead us to some pain. Ariana grande put it to us well, “ been there all night, been there all day and now baby got me walking side to side” 🙊 I could barely drive home lol So aside from the obvious like keeping hydrated and lots of lube, any tips or tricks you can suggest to avoid this 🤭 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Firstly, the things you mentioned, hydration etc very important. Add to that not being tired going into it, and being fit. Fitness is key, it allows flexibility/free movement, and the muscles are strong enough to handle sudden changes leaving you sore afterwards. Then again, lengthy full on sessions are a challenge for anyone. My longest and most intense was about 36 hours, not bad after just meeting for coffee 😉 then a brief break before meeting again the following afternoon, at which point I was feeling pretty sore and sorry for myself (had a sore bum lol)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    'without leaving you sore afterwards' I meant

  • RedHotCoast

    RedHotCoast

    8 years ago

    Practice makes perfect. You'll get used to it soon enough.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Make sure the facial stubble is under control and don't allow too many fingers to be inserted before you are thoroughly loose limbed. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But I’m meaning ummmm Ms Lady hoo haa 😈 Fitness, energy and stamina are definitely not an issue (for either of us) Practice certainly not an issue either. Stubble and being well... prepared not an issue either. Without delving too deep into details (yes pun intended 😜) more so the ummm cervix, tightness and cramping afterwards. Most sites have suggested too much of a good thing. Um duh 🙄 and to cut back. ☹️ noooo! So I’m hoping some insatiable woman, or perhaps men, might know what really works..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' Without delving too deep into details (yes pun intended 😜) more so the ummm cervix, tightness and cramping afterwards. even if you take all the right precautions, use lots of lube etc., you just really can't avoid that sort of soreness after intense sessions. Lube obviously helps with friction but if his cock is banging up against your cervix for up to an hour or more then it will cause some bruising. I've had times when I've been sore for up to 3 days afterwards and yeah it's a bit annoying, but I also think of it as being like the muscle soreness you get after exercise - it's pain that's for a good cause Of course, if the pain seems excessive, or doesn't get better after a few days, or you're having unusual bleeding then it would definitely be worth getting checked out to make sure everything is ok in there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If you're getting cramps then some heat therapy might help. Are they similar to period cramps or different?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    When I was a little kid and I got a scrape, my mum would kiss it better Sooooooooo....... 😙 👅 (That’s the upgrade package 😂) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    @ Brunette_Dragon Exactly my sentiments, a reminder for a few days how F* ing awesomeness and sooo worth it! No pain no gain right 😉 But in all seriousness, I think all that we’ve mentioned is all that can be done. There are no medical issues, just a bit too much fun and too much of a good thang in every way lol. Just wondering how to prevent or lessen the side effects 😁 Yes. Practically period like cramps, caused by the uterus contractions from so many orgasms (which is is a thing I’m aware of, very rare and lucky to receive 🙏🏻 sooo thanks, heat therapy is a good idea, I much prefer to avoid pain medication. 😝 I’m wondering whether a numbing lube towards the end could help? 🧐 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Ha ha loves it! 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Definitely one you want to sign up for another session by the sound of it 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Absolutely! Babysitter confirmed today 😈 (hence my “preparation”) 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    Definitely can cause it. So...... .....you could take some breaks and sensual massage etc which will keep the motors running but give the internals a rest ....indulge in less penetrative sex to lessen the bounce off the cervix (I said LESS folks, not none!) ....if it is hard and fast penetration all the time, then back off a bit! Teach you bodies to respond to different stimuli .... work out if there are particular positions where it causes more issues and avoid or minimise. And I am in the NO camp for using a numbing gell. Discomfort/Pain happens for a reason. Ignoring it, or dulling it out through lotions and potions is not a great idea. Ignore bruising and pain at your peril.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' I’m wondering whether a numbing lube towards the end could help? 🧐 I'd avoid a numbing lube. If anything using one could make you go even harder since you're not feeling it as much, then once the numbing wears off you'd be even more sore!

  • bonefide

    bonefide

    8 years ago

    You go girl,👍👋👌 As young MsJonesy said, less penetrative sex, teach you bodies to respond to different stimulation. Don't always have to put pedal to the metal. Massage or swim, shower together or have fun in a bath. Just work at turning it twisting it or just trying it, let your minds explore the edge. Just remember don't do it by the numbers, let your mind wonder together. All the time laughing, smiling and challenging each others minds and bodies, within reason.

  • gazpacho

    gazpacho

    8 years ago

    I’ve spoken to a woman who gets like that. She’s got her hand on it all day. Poor thing. Can’t get at it enough at times. A terrible situation, and sore and swollen as heck. Try smoking a joint? Hugs Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    . ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Mrs 300 can go for ever and you just don’t hear the words, please stop. So all we can suggest is keep practicing. Or try and tire him out first. How many tines can he come in a night before he’s done? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    @ MsJonesy - Thankyou very much , yes you’re absolutely right. In regards to numbing lube, I hadn’t thought of that. Good point. 😉 @ Brunette_Dragon - Thankyou, very good point. @ bonefide - Thankyou 🙊 well we avoided the showers together, we needed some time out 😝 but yes all of that was great, but unfortunately just couldn’t get enough and we’ll, one good turn led to another. @ Gaz, he he I know what you mean. Mmm a joint 🤔 might fall asleep though lol @ 300Orgasms - yeah, that’s me to a tea 🤫 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    new positions that don’t cause as much friction or banging on certain spots ,and don’t stay in one position too long mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks, we did all that 🙊 everything - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Is all i can say. Not had a good session for ages. No advice but just to say, "go girl". - Posted from rhpmobile

  • happy0450

    happy0450

    8 years ago

    Your’s is a sexy & inspirational post, and I genuinely feel for your tender girls bits.. However, equality and all, how’s “He”? I’m seeing this once robust guy now a mere shadow of his former self with a bruised pubic bone and that thin membrane under one’s tongue that gets sore after giving too much oral ?? A x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    @ HappyGoLucky70 - yeah 😇🙏🏻 certainly am. Lol he’s also wonderful company and a gentleman. So I’m very lucky indeed. @ happy0450 - well he certainly hasn’t complained at all. He he he and has arranged to see me again sooo 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Try positions where you are on top more so you have more control. Swap and change positions a bit. The others had great suggestions. Mix it up a little Definitely no numbing stuff. Ms M

  • tiffyos

    tiffyos

    8 years ago

    Why not use a timer, to help remind you to either change positions or take a pounding break. The local football club may have spare, might upset the neighbours though

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Lol use a timer! 😜 I like that! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You really have had a good time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I tend to have the same issues as get too carried away and will need a day or so to recover but learnt recently changing positions and pacing your momentum helps a lot, especially if you are having long sessions and a multiple-orgasm-kinda-person ;) slow down and build up with more teasing and it would more pleasurable an less ouching :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Well I nearly always stay wet. Massive squirter so I end up with a water bed lmfao. This mostly happens with hard fast fingering. The harder the better the wetter you get'er lolz. I do have lube also because I go a little dry from time to time since having a hysterectomy and Im very well hydrated all the time. And for a smoker Im very fit. Infact when the man is tired all I want is to keep going lol lol lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    actually a couple of times my clit when getting rubbed too much tends to go dry. I just say ffs will you spit on it its getting to tender lol