M54

Sorting shit from clay

July 25 2023

Hey I’m 51 and genuinely a decent bloke hard working respectful to people well mannered loyal honest etc etc but continually find that talking to women the first response is “oh yeah heard it all before “ then it’s just a uphill battle to get to know the person So I’m not sure how to approach it nowadays I’m obviously not going to be dishonest I understand how a woman can be like that through bad experiences but I think it’s a bit irrational and unfair to think all men are the same So is there anyone that thinks there is another approach or way to avoid the above mentioned comment Appreciate comments from both male and female Thanks

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Felicitous

2 years ago

Unfortunately Paul.. I hate to say it but you will never get to know someone who doesn't want to be known (by you) I actually am not aware of the male to female ratio... I heard recently it's not vastly different - however perhaps it's that females aren't 'hooking' up as often as males in addition to the disparity of numbers?! WHO knows!!? The fact of the matter remains. If your profile or message (whatever they use to distinguish and differentiate) doesn't appeal - they won't engage. What to do? Keep trying! Try different approaches. Read past forums on this topic 🤷🏻‍♀️ Widen your age range perhaps - closer to yours.. look at your competition. The women that you do like - what do their friends profiles look like? Are you actually a match to what you are seeking, conversationally, physically, mentally etc?!? Good luck. V

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MsSuperFoxy

2 years ago

You can say everything under the sun, you can write anything and everything to her, but at the end of the day, she decides not you. You can't convience any woman to do the things you want. She has be be appealed to something to continue further. It's a jungle out there. You're not alone. Women go through this too. Ms Foxy

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Sawadee

2 years ago

If you're finding this hard.. join the majority.. Its my belief most people ( both sexes) are here for the entertainment value and play the game without any real intention of linking up with anyone.. Not saying connections dont happen , they do , as we've had a few.. But you never know who's serious and who not and thats when it becomes a numbers game.. These days im one of those who come for the forums which occassionly attracts someone who has things in common... Makes me laugh when l read guys saying they have plenty of meet ups and women chasing them .. If thats the case ' what are they doing here ? The best advice usually comes from the rhp regulars that have been around for ages and are savy to how things work.. Good luck...

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tall60

2 years ago

Just a well intentioned comment from myself…a forums voyeur…if u headed your post…sorting wheat from chaff or something in similar vein…your persona would come across better. The current title is u appealing to most people….b

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RHP User

2 years ago

Stop being so nice.

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RHP User

2 years ago

Mate, drink 2 protien shakes a day, go to the gym and take steroids...the people on here pretty much only want models or unicorns man..they want studs or 10s..it suxs but jts the way it is unfortunately

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