RHP

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Speed dating

May 09 2018

I think we need to start up a swingers version of speed dating, where the couples have 5 minutes/1 drink with a guy, before moving onto the next one. Any interest, exchange numbers, or better yet, retire to the boudoir! Who's in !!..? Hahaha MnT - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    In PERTH every week for couples. You guys should head to Perth for a visit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Both Speed-dating and speed-networking are great fun!! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Back in my 20s there was a site called lavalife that used to have speed dating events! But I suppose now we have the meet and greets anyway 🤷‍♀️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    This would be a great idea! I would love to join in for this. Let’s do it! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    sounds like a great idea I would be definitely in - Posted from rhpmobile

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    8 years ago

    AKA..... Greedy Girls in Perth 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I once tried speed dating but it was a bit of a disaster!I was actually the only one on amphetamine.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yes!! Fantastic idea. I'm in! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I wasn't expecting such a response lol. It was just a thought I had. Maybe we really should organise something.. Any suggestions on where to start..? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    PMSL 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Done conventional speed dating quite a few times, obviously zip outcome. Count me in :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    8 years ago

    how about everyone has to be naked and its staged on a gorgeous deserted (except for film crews and medicos) island

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'twowithnolimits' how about everyone has to be naked and its staged on a gorgeous deserted (except for film crews and medicos) island Then how will people choose (or not choose) me for my amazing personality and not what is or isn't under my clothes? :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Your modesty country touch ! ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A good way to filter out the people you don't want without having to meet every one singularly - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’ve done speed networking and enjoyed it very much! Get over who you are in two minuets! I amassed quite a collection of business cards and email address and people touching base the very next day! Seems peeps want my investment far more than they want me! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I did speed dating for Valentine’s Day in Darwin a cpl of years back. Was a good laugh, no one I had any interest in but none the less, good experience. It’s a great idea M&T. Just need to sort something out. I’m sure it would be a success. I’m in! (Obviously) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FlirtParties

    FlirtParties

    8 years ago

    We organise social meets (not sex parties) and I think this speed dating concept would be great to get people mingling. How does the session run and what type of location works best? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    To help organise it..? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    😁🖒🖒 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If you help organise im.sure there wpuld be "fringe benefits" 😎hahahha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'HappyGoLucky70' A good way to filter out the people you don't want without having to meet every one singularly - Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'FlirtParties' We organise social meets (not sex parties) and I think this speed dating concept would be great to get people mingling. How does the session run and what type of location works best? - Posted from rhpmobile Actually, in speed dating you do meet everyone singularly. But that's the point. In most speed dating (men and women) let's say there are 10 men and 10 women. The women all have a table each, and stay there. The men rotate around the room, having 5 to 7 minutes of time at each table. In that time of conversation, you chat about whatever you think is appropriate. Every person has a match card and indicate on it after each "date", whether they would like to see that person again. If, at the end of the night, a female and male have mutually "matched" with each other (both have indicated they like the other person), then the organiser informs them of this and shares contact details. (Essentially a more in depth form of Tinder). I never managed a mutual match in my attempts but perhaps it might be different in this type of community :) Regardless, you also have mingling time in a middle break and afterwards. Speed dating with swingers could work but you have to work out whether it's couples meeting couples, men, women etc. It's easy when it's just 50/50 split of two types. Also, in regular speed dating, the men and women aren't necessarily interested in each other... When I did have a singles meet here, it ended up as a group circle discussion/chat with everyone introducing to everyone else a few things about themselves (among the regular mingling). So maybe something more tailor made to a widely mixed group, that enables interaction between all at least for a moment. There are also mingling games that do a similar thing.

  • SugarSugar69

    SugarSugar69

    8 years ago

    This is a great idea. I host meet and greets and the number 1 problem is the single males not showing up. It's actually a huge problem. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks Country touch 🖒 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' Back in my 20s there was a site called lavalife that used to have speed dating events! But I suppose now we have the meet and greets anyway 🤷‍♀️ - Posted from rhpmobile OMG Lionsdoll I remember Lavalife!! hahahaha On topic, I love this idea!! As a member of a couple playing solo, would be great to be able to get the initial meet part done quickly!! Keep us posted :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m Sam. 30. Electrical Engineer from SA ... I enjoy water sports, camping, fishing and partying... Looking for an open minded girl who is up for anything... - Posted from rhpmobile