Spooning

September 29 2023

On spooning/cuddling, for those that like it... Typical imagery involves the man being the big spoon (for MF couples), but I'm wondering, how many reverse this situation? And are others spoon-flexible? And who or what decides things for same sex couples (for example the shorter person might be more convenient being little spoon)? Also, how many can actually sleep this way, or do you spoon for relaxation/connection and then need some more space to actually sleep?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Do who is the big and the little in the dynamic. There’s usually an obvious one and this the big spoons the little. Talking personality versus size btw.

  • SugarSugar69

    SugarSugar69

    2 years ago

    I’ve found men like sleeping on my chest to keep playing with my boobs until we fall asleep ….

  • TheMinx

    TheMinx

    2 years ago

    Definitely spoon-flex I like to nibble on ear lubes run my fingers down their side over their ass pinch move to the front and to fondle and awaken the beast so he can flip me and feed me. I like being woken up little spoon too the feeling of morning glory on my ass lifting my top leg and arching my back so I can have him between my legs 🤤

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    2 years ago

    We have over a foot in height difference and one is double the weight of the other so the obvious spooning here is more like a cocoon, which is rather nice. But the reverse is also lovely and feels like I have a little koala backpack on and as I’m a hot sleeper it’s not too much cover for me but keeps her nice and warm. Then there’s the facing each other spoon where she can curl up into my big spoon. And of course the old saying always applies that a satisfying spoon leads to a satisfying fork.

  • Alex_Lover

    Alex_Lover

    2 years ago

    We have 2 modes. 1. Traditional spoon: I'm spooning Margo. It doesn't usually take much stroking of her sexy bum to get her interested in more. 2. I'm lying flat on my back, & she's lying on her side, head on my shoulder, my arm around her. This mode often results in her playing with my cock, as her hands just fall to that spot. It doesn't take long to get me interested then ;) We never purposely sleep that way for long, she's far too fidgety. But we do fall asleep in one of those positions now and then... for 10-20mins max. - Alex.

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    2 years ago

    Hubby and I spoon to sleep. I'm the little spoon 💕💕💕

  • Patrick2510

    Patrick2510

    2 years ago

    I prefer to hold and big spoon my lover regardless of gender so I know they're safe

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    2 years ago

    Can be big or little but I can't sleep like that. I need space to sleep. I like it more for relaxing and connection and for a little while after sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I am a lover of this position and am always the big spoon. So relaxing and intimate. We occasions fall asleep in that position, especially in winter when the temperature goes down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Man, better check your messages twice before posting, doesn't allow for corrections/edits 😄