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Studs or duds?

August 23 2011

Why do young males under 30 seem to assume that because I am over 40 I will instantly say yes to a sexual encounter? I am unmoved by a glowing, tanned six pack and am left cold by a set of well defined shoulders atop of arms with bulging biceps and triceps. Do I emit an aura of desperation? Or are these young, studley boys following some kind of trend in bedding a cougar? My profile is clear enough and I am sure they read it carefully (not). Anyone got any thoughts on this one? And how would you reply to a message from one of these guys?

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You know MistressT I really do feel it is a combination of factors...Firstly they do not read profiles...secondly they re of the opinion they are the exception to your rules. . I guess that there could be a person for whom you are will to make an exception so hope springs eternal for the youngsters. . How do you respond well I would simply say you do not match what I am looking for...When i get that response i always respect what has been said. Getting the response shows that you have taken the time to read their profile.   Mike

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Don't you know you are supposed to be eternally flattered Mistress? At the thought of a young hard body that unbeknownst to them are basically handing their precious balls right into the experienced hands of one who could do the most damage ? That thought alone makes me giggle in an evil tone Lead the lambs to slaughter, and send me a copy please

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You know I kind of feel sorry for those"set of well defined shoulders atop of arms with bulging biceps and triceps. set of well defined shoulders atop of arms with bulging biceps and triceps" guys.They tend to get a bum wrap in these forums as being "all that" with nothing between the ears and with little or no abilty to read.Not too sure why an over 40s woman "emits an aura of desperation" because she could possibly be attracted to these types either.What kinks your over 40s mind may not gel with mine ..Classic case of different stokes for different folks.I believe its all persons/age/body type/persuasions that have the inability to read a profile and what someone is after before hitting the "come and get me" message button...but damn if its gonna be any type that msg's give me the 6 pack ab toting dude over a "any other type" anyday!!An obviously "desperate aura" producing Mrs sat

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Damn I wish there was an edit function in this place...excuse my quote retype error..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Mrs. Sat I've actually got one of those ab toting ones, nice big arms n shoulders and a brain between his ears, bless him. I still think it's funny that some of them would msg Mistress T without reading her profile, I mean, aren't they scared?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ANYONE who messages the mistress is brave lol and in no way am I disrespecting her or her craft...I like watching that stuff from the safety of redtube...damn those girls in latex look sexy as!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think they're an unruly youthful rabble in need of a bit of stern discipline personally. :)HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Perhaps it has less to do with your supposed desperation and more to do with their supreme self confidence? Mummy always did say he could do anything he wanted if he set his mind to it. I'm afraid I see it less as an age thing and more as a survival skill thing. Lets face it, we're all looking for that elusive minority who reads the profile, understands the profile, vaguely matches the criteria and sends the witty, considered response. The rest, regardless of age sex or intelligence level are cannon fodder. How nice you are when you shoot them out of the water is your prerogetive. You never know, you might even be doing a few of them a favour if you're gentle. Survival skills can be learned.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I have been instructed to reel in some fresh muscle but most of the young studs are far too straight. Nice to play with them a little though, they are so easy to tease and surprisingly polite. I usually tell them that I am old enough to be their mother !! Hahaha

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    What I don't like about the young gorgeous boys is that I am expected to take the lead but I much prefer to give that control up. I want a man not a boy.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I would WAY prefer a man over 30 to any young guy out there.   I like a man who takes control, knows his way around my body, lasts for a LONG time, and loves being with me   I am not a fan of being the cougar, older women, or teacher.......and I don't find it flattering or enticing in anyway.   Give me the older guys anyday

  • Genius_Ironman

    Genius_Ironman

    14 years ago

    Not sure why you see any need to respond at all, then don't fit your criteria, probably didn't read your profile, and most likely sent the same message out to a dozen potentials as part of a "fishing expedition". Just tap the button marked "DELETE"

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Reading between the lines, he wants an older woman who 'knows what she's doing' cos he's still not sure if he's actually doing it right :Pxx Sarah

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    They just wanna be stud muffins when really they are babies in mens undies. Maybe they are secretly missing the smack on the arse thier Mumy's gave them and are looking for an older woman with an eye for a trip down nostalgia lane (ie a good spanking)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I'll give you a solid reason why younger guys are attracted to older women from someone who's come through this "young guy" phase of the early 20's.When I was 15 girls wanted to date 17/18 year oldsWhen I was 18 girls wanted to date 20/21 year oldsWhen I was 21 girls wanted to date 24/25 year oldsWhen I was 25 girls wanted to date 27/28 year oldsWhen I was 18 the girls who were 18 were all about head games and prick teasing, The older girls who had matured out of this were older then me and not interested in dating a younger man. Even now that I'm 27/28 the thought of dating these 20-25 year olds makes me cringe. They neither know what they want nor how to go about getting it. To be honest breasts and a vagine does terrible things to a girls personality and persona. They learn that a short skirt and high heals and a tube top can get them anything they want and they use it. I'm sure stereo typing girls 20-25 wont get me anywhere but I'm sorry I can only relate to my experiences. So now that I've discovered a site like this where liberating experiences and maturity(not specifically age) make incredible changes to women in general and it just so happens to be most frequent in the women 30-50 that this liberation of their libido comes from I find myself attracted in a way I've never been before.I find the caring and experienced touch incredible, The way older women know what they want, how to get there and have come to generally appreciate their sexuality and their body image is just an intoxicating combination.I'm not suggesting in the slightest that you should not be frustrated at unwanted attention despite your best attempts to discourage it but I know why it happens and I thought I should share that with you.I guess the problem also comes from a physialogical disposition men generally have to be driven visually by sexual images. Dont put a sexy and seductive photo on your profile that waves red flags to every bull in eye shot and then come here to protest your annoyance to the attention it generates. I love the photo's and the perves but you must realise we were given a penis and a brain and only enough blood to power one at a time and I can tell you know the brain gives up its blood for the penis anytime it see's sexy images.Take it or leave it this is just my experiences and oppinionTR

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Thanks DGT and Mrs Saturn. I think all subbie boys are brave and they have nothing to fear from me - unless they want to be scared.....(insert sinister giggle).Stalky I don't think these guys would know what hit 'em but I like your suggestion.Malmensa I have set a trap for the unwary in my profile. It's funny to watch them head straight to my profile after I have sent a message telling them I know they didn't read it. Perhaps it will make them take more notice in the future. And after the constant complaints of messages not replied to, I take the time to reply.Sarah I don't know about the bravado, I think it's more braggadocio but they certainly are a hopeful bunch.Total Recall you don't count. You have a brain between your ears. I am referring to guys that don't seem to take notice of anything but the pic and send out a message regardless. I am sure I would not get anywhere near as many messages if they took notice of who I am and what I do.Thanks to all who have taken the time to comment on my tongue in cheek post.xx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I absoloutly see what you mean hun, we are in the same boat with that control/boy/man stuff but it can be a fun thing to think that you're actually helping make this "young, fun and full of..." a better lover for the men/women who will come after you in his life? It's kind of fun to teach some-one how to do new things or do things better, no? I remember the best lovers of my life, forever burned in my brain; people who really taught me something apart from in out shake it all about blah blah blah...... One rather fancies being remembered with a whistful smirk years down the line. xxKitty Quoting 'Meeka100'What I don't like about the young gorgeous boys is that I am expected to take the lead but I much prefer to give that control up. I want a man not a boy.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...they're the bestest EVER!   And I would reply:   I am flattered by your offer however if you read my profile you'd realise that I am not sexually acttracted to penis but if that should change you'll be the first person I'd think of. I'm sorry, it's not you, it's me.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'bob26354' ...they're the bestest EVER!   And I would reply:   I am flattered by your offer however if you read my profile you'd realise that I am not sexually acttracted to penis but if that should change you'll be the first person I'd think of. I'm sorry, it's not you, it's me. Actually if they read my profile they would realise I am attracted to dominating men. It has nothing to do with penis attraction although they should have one if they want cock and ball torture.Of course I am sexually attracted to men and not their penises.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    This is not really related to you question posed but.. I am so very curious about what you do.. and one of your comments re penis and ball torture, spurred me to write you on here. How is it you became a Mistress (is the the correct term for what you do..Dom? something along those lines I know)? .. and my other big question..how do people fall to wanting to be hurt? I don't know if you know the answer to that question but.. it seriously has me curious. It is so outside what I perceive as 'normal' and yet, there seems to be a huge sub culture of it..hidden so close amongst us..secret lives that people have.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting Malmensa Why reply? Not sure why you see any need to respond at all, then don't fit your criteria, probably didn't read your profile, and most likely sent the same message out to a dozen potentials as part of a "fishing expedition". Just tap the button marked "DELETE".. Because if we women DON'T reply ... we are rubbished for being rude and ignorant of peoples messages .. stuck between a rock and a hard place ... .

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' Quoting 'D_G_T' Mrs. Sat I've actually got one of those ab toting ones, nice big arms n shoulders and a brain between his ears, bless him. I still think it's funny that some of them would msg Mistress T without reading her profile, I mean, aren't they scared?   SCARED...?? ....I think you meant to write s.a.c.r.e.d.... Your've only got ONE..? an attractive woman like you only has ONE...??.., what on earth are you doing..? ... ....   Every sexy, kinky, down n dirty, carnal, sensual, indulgent, all consuming things I can It just all happens to be with the one absolutely sexy freakin complete package

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    For some reason I now feel like Im watching a pissing contest of sorts....DGT WINS!!!!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'CrackUp' This is not really related to you question posed but.. I am so very curious about what you do.. and one of your comments re penis and ball torture, spurred me to write you on here. How is it you became a Mistress (is the the correct term for what you do..Dom? something along those lines I know)? .. and my other big question..how do people fall to wanting to be hurt? I don't know if you know the answer to that question but.. it seriously has me curious. It is so outside what I perceive as 'normal' and yet, there seems to be a huge sub culture of it..hidden so close amongst us..secret lives that people have. I became a Mistress when I decided to explore what had intrigued me for half a lifetime. I am also known as a Domme, Dom is the male equivalent. Why do people want to be hurt? It's not so much the pain they want it's more that they want to be dominated. I think it's one of those in-built things like hair loss or homosexuality or why some people like strawberry and others chocolate?Some people will tell you it has to do with a person's self esteem but I have been doing this long enough to know that is utter rubbish. There are as many reasons why as there are people who submit to it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'CrackUp' This is not really related to you question posed but.. I am so very curious about what you do.. and one of your comments re penis and ball torture, spurred me to write you on here. How is it you became a Mistress (is the the correct term for what you do..Dom? something along those lines I know)? .. and my other big question..how do people fall to wanting to be hurt? I don't know if you know the answer to that question but.. it seriously has me curious. It is so outside what I perceive as 'normal' and yet, there seems to be a huge sub culture of it..hidden so close amongst us..secret lives that people have. I became a Mistress when I decided to explore what had intrigued me for half a lifetime. I am also known as a Domme, Dom is the male equivalent. Why do people want to be hurt? It's not so much the pain they want it's more that they want to be dominated. I think it's one of those in-built things like hair loss or homosexuality or why some people like strawberry and others chocolate? Some people will tell you it has to do with a person's self esteem but I have been doing this long enough to know that is utter rubbish. There are as many reasons why as there are people who submit to it.   Most of the time it’s about the connection & sensualisation you develop with the person you are exploring with. Yes, being dominated is the icing on the cake..... so to speak. Really has nothing to do with self esteem, in my case anyway, others may have different views. It really comes down to what your boundaries are & how far you want to extend them. Hugs to you Mistress T xox

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Thank you..I learned something new today.. I didn't know the term domme (feminine). It's interesting what you say - you do imagine there is some deep psychological reason as to why someone would want to be dominated but, perhaps it is exactly as you have observed...it is just a preference thing - dictated more by the gene pool than any life

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    sorry about that Mistress T..hit the wrong button at the wrong time (hate that when it happens in a sexual moment lol). anyway...I was saying..rather than a life circumstance that has brought about a psychological change or predilection. How did you actually become one..if you don't mind me asking? I often wonder if I would have the 'persona' to do it.. Do you think dommes have certain predisposing things in their personality? I shouldn't be commandeering your forum topic like this..so..understand if you would rather not continue the conversation here.. I think you would be fascinating to have at a dinner party (I'm sure you often find yourself being sought out).

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    To answer your original question, I think that in order to get some attention you need to rock the boat a little and sometimes step over the line. The ratio of guys to girls in this place is unbalanced and so you might do anything you can do to draw attention to yourself, especially when you're thinking with the brain in your pants.I'll admit I've contacted a few women who wouldn't be interested in someone my age, but I've found their profile pretty hot or similar to my desires. I'll look over these women a few times and try to imagine if they'd like to meet me, and that their desired age range is not to far from me eg. 32y.o. women looking for guys 30-45 while I'm 25. The ratio of women I've contacted to those I cannot imagine wanting to talk to me is about 1:10 and so I've had to let go trying to talk to a lot of great women. Just like in real life I'm an average looking guy surrounded by a lot of dudes who look like they've just come down from Mt. Olympus to inspire the next wave of sculptors to make an an era of the Swole (coming soon to a gallery near you!) and so anyone who I think I can get along with and meet I'll try and contact just to make me stand out a little.On the flip side, I've had a few women who have contacted me when their profile would put me outside of their desired age range. It hasn't happened a lot, not nearly enough but it still reaffirms why I do what I do.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' Quoting 'D_G_T' Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' Quoting 'D_G_T' So you should change your profile from single to attached......??       Why? I'm not attached. I've just chosen to not play with others for a while, so that I can explore and concentrate on this for now. He is an RHP member, we're both adults and have obviously discussed it between ourselves what each of us wants and why we're here but most importantly Charles , we are realistic. wedding bells is just plain silly to even bring up, we're fucking for chrissake ! Why on earth would he be Scandinavianyou lost me there. You seem pretty interested to pin down exactly who he is (which is more than a little odd I might add) , and all the gory details of what sort of rel. we're in, so let me help you out there with some info......... We're fucking our brains out, some kinky, some vanilla, some I don't even have a word for. He's not Scandinavian, Irish, American, or French lolWill that satify your questions for now? or anymore suggestions on what I should do with my profile?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think the topic was dying a natural death anyway....As I said previously there are many reasons why a person submits his or here will to another. Some of which are - release from responsibility or thought, the endorphin rush that is produced by the infliction of pain, the satisfaction of pleasing someone, the sensuality of being in someone else's sexual control. I am sure their are some submissives out there who have deep seated psychological needs caused by circumstance but in my observation these guys are in the minority. I could go on but just wanted to give you a quick generalisation.Unless you are a sadist there are no predisposing factors to becoming a Mistress. It's strawberry and chocolate preferences and again as to whether you like being dominant, submissive or both. Someone that likes both roles is called a "switch". If you want to be good at dominating you need to have certain abilities like - getting into a subs head so that you know how to handle him and his needs, you need to be open to anything and everything as some people do the strangest things and you cannot judge them for it, you need a quick wit and a fast reaction time and you need to be willing to start at the bottom and work your way up so that you gain experience and knowlege. This will take years so be prepared to put in some hard work.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    a fascinating slice of life Mistress, and it's only something I've become interested in later in life. I guess when we mature we naturally look for more cerebral escapes or fascinations, even though this is a very physical fetish or kink. I'm actually surprised the more I learn about BDSM the less scary it seems, even on a hardcore level, because it truly is all centred around the mental/cerebral want or need before so much as a peg is introduced. Like I've read you say many a time, you always concentrate on getting into the clients' head first!! and it's so simple but true, the head decides what the body wants and needs. What a fascinating world to explore

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Endorphins One thing Mistress T neglected to mention; the addiction. She can give it up any time she likes...No really, any time...Honest... ;p

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Cos you're just so tasty Charles, I can barely hold myself back

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...the baby is not mine. | I didn't even know anybody was getting engaged let alone married. I guess that why I don't mind it when a woman spits it out...no babies, right? | | God damn that would be one ugly fuckin' love child no matter what mum looked like.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' many RHP er's read these forums and some have told me that you really must like me...     it's kinda like when your mum says you're cool.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Charles_Dickens' Quoting 'D_G_T' Cos you're just so tasty Charles, I can barely hold myself back yeah your so "tasty looking" too DGT - but i dont think we are talking about the same "tasties" here... yours would be werewolf type tasty..? then but again, many RHP er's read these forums and some have told me that you really must like me... regardless how much you say you don't like me... ....LOL.... but i ain't chasing my dream girl on here either..... don't worry - im not holding my breath for you DGT..... however....must be the best love / hate relationship story ever to be seen on RHP.... Have a nice weekend honey.... Charles xoxo     Oh my! What hairy palms you have Charles "Must be the best love/hate relationship ever to be seen on RHP" ........Yeah..I'm livin' the fucking the dream that's for sure Please feel free to hold your breath for me, that would really show me how much you care and then all those RHP'ers won't have to starve, after all they'll be feasting on their words . . But yeah like ya Mum says, you're cool , I dunno why the other kids won't play with you? . haha makes me want to go watch Bad boy Bubby again . . CM trust you to bring a lust child into it, poor bloody thing. Who says 2 wrongs can't make a right

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    That's some scary shit, Charles...

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    id just like to know which sort of women like me! im having a run of bad luck lately!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Steeletto' Endorphins One thing Mistress T neglected to mention; the addiction. She can give it up any time she likes...No really, any time...Honest... ;p For me there is no addiction. There are times when I need a break so I take time out. I know of several girls who have suffered burn out and walked away from BDSM. If I chose to I could walk away from it but while I am still enjoying myself I will continue to do what I do.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    This is way cool...there are two thread going here. One on the practices and principles of bondage....human psych 101. The in between it looks like somebody is having a lust child and it must be...naaaaa, nobody would muck up the gene pool and breed with it? Probably best to leave it on a mountain top for the aliens to take back...it's their fault you know. | Oh well....I guess if you put up enough profiles on here somebody is bound to think you're cool. I would like to know which one is mom? | ...this is like playing a Jimi Hendrix album backwards.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Don't forget to adjust your foil hat CM

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...but please don't reverse the charges, ET. | Oh well...hit on everything with less that four legs here. Time to boldly go where no man has gone before. | Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh no. Clones.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'Steeletto' Endorphins One thing Mistress T neglected to mention; the addiction. She can give it up any time she likes...No really, any time...Honest... ;p For me there is no addiction. There are times when I need a break so I take time out. I know of several girls who have suffered burn out and walked away from BDSM. If I chose to I could walk away from it but while I am still enjoying myself I will continue to do what I do. Let me try to cover to things, the orginal question and to reflect on the addiction statement. I enjoy sex more now, then I did as a 20 year old. Shagging what ever moved, thinking that an older woman would be great give her what she needs etc. Now, yes maybe not getting the quantity, but quality is way up there. So yes young guy, all I wanted to be is buffed and having an older woman to shag silly. Now I'm older, and I've been with two younger women that were, 12 and 16 years younger then me. Similar question are asked. Do you like my body, do you think I'm hot, am I good at it. So I draw a simlar lines, to the biceaps and sixpacks lines. Maybe our modern porn industry has a lot to answer for. When was the last time you watched porn and someone said I've got a crap. Or did you just fart. Well addiction. Who is not addicted to some kind of sex or drug or habbit. We shine such a dule light on the word addiction. If you are doing something that you enjoy and you are not destorying others lives, then do it. Fuck get stuck in. No one has time to hold back. Get in enjoy your self, nothing better then knowing you have delivered pleasure to someone else.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'kodakfamous11'id just like to know which sort of women like me! im having a run of bad luck lately! Apart from the fact that you say you're looking for mates Most of us forum girls are well and truly past the point of handing out sympathy roots, so you're going to have to use your imagintation, 'mate'

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    you won,t be dissapointed.....love your straight up profile..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    If thats what you think of the under 30 guys hate to think what you think of the under 30 girls... that we are all bimbos???

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    That's right. Tell it like it is. For instance, I think I knew more about sex at 18 than just about anyone 10 years older than me by reason that we're all a product of our environment, good or not so good. Also, where some people lack knowledge or experience, the might have insight, enthusiasm and a natural empathy that makes up for it in spades. These characteristics are not necessarily age dependent... Also, I think some people have personalities that are naturally flirty.. naturally uninhibited and naturally sexy. Other people have to work at it... and others grow into it. I do agree with Meeka's comment though it did not refer to age so much as a disposition.HugsStalky Quoting 'kate_08' If thats what you think of the under 30 guys hate to think what you think of the under 30 girls... that we are all bimbos???

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Bwahahahaahaha! me too!HugsStalky Quoting 'Steeletto' Endorphins One thing Mistress T neglected to mention; the addiction. She can give it up any time she likes...No really, any time...Honest... ;p

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'kate_08'If thats what you think of the under 30 guys hate to think what you think of the under 30 girls... that we are all bimbos??? Well thank god im 30 now and can evolve from this social stigma that has been portrayed with the old cliche "thinking with his lower head" Honestly 5 years ago i use to send the same message to every girl who i thought was worth a shot, and maybe mistress you should let it go to your head because even the most beautiful guys with bodies of greek gods do get dirty kinky horny and will literally DO anything that walks... you can take my word for it. You can set your profile settings to automatically block under 30s since its causing your life so much distress. Oh and maybe if you dont want guys just hitting you up for some meow meow maybe change your pics! just a bit of advice.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Why does it always come down to age? Its cliche coming from an under 30 single guy BUT we are not all that bad. Sometimes a little bit of a chat and some flirting goes a long way. As for bedroom performance, are there not an equal number of "older" guys who do not live upto expectations in the bedroom? I think Ernie Dingo said it best "You never, never know if you never, never go!"

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'easyoneye' You can set your profile settings to automatically block under 30s since its causing your life so much distress. Oh and maybe if you dont want guys just hitting you up for some meow meow maybe change your pics! just a bit of advice. Quoting 'Fly_boy1987'Why does it always come down to age? Its cliche coming from an under 30 single guy BUT we are not all that bad. Sometimes a little bit of a chat and some flirting goes a long way. As for bedroom performance, are there not an equal number of "older" guys who do not live upto expectations in the bedroom? I think Ernie Dingo said it best "You never, never know if you never, never go!"I was not talking about every guy under30 on this site, merely the ones that have been messaging me recently. They want to meet me for fun and good times and many of them mention how well hung they are.Actually I am occasionally contacted by young 20-somethings that read my profile and ask me intelligent questions. They are respectful and do not mention the size of their equipment.My pics are who I am and I see no reason to change them.There are the good, the bad and the ugly on this site and they come in all ages and sizes. I pass no judgement on anyone's bedroom ability but was merely echoing the comments I have found on past topics.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Why on earth does anyone , of any age send a message with the approach of "But I have a big cock" Is it taken for granted that us women of a certain age need a big cock? do you think we're all stretched out of friggin whack? Unless it says 'big cocks please' on our profile , all it is ......is bloody rude and presumptuous . For the record MT shouldnt change her pics for anyone, her profile is who she is, and telling her to hide them away is like asking her to apologise for them........pffft good luck with that one

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I was wondering, do any girls send messages like - I'm looking for a man for fun times only. I am fit, have a tight pussy and huge tits. Let's chat soon.Would she be a stud or a dud? More to the point, would she get any respect?I don't think the guys reckon we are stretched DGT, it's just that they think we will be tempted by their youth and/or their appendages and will jump at the chance because we are older and like younger/larger flesh. (Tries desperately to keep a straight face and not laugh but fails spectacularly).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    that some of these young guys still don't get it... ! if they think this way, they got no idea...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    we ask them if they read our profile (it says 35 plus) and politely say no thanks....after all, its been rumoured that some actually have feelings....and we dont want to crush the little 'flowerpots' spirits do we....lol