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Stupid is as Stupid does

June 27 2012

I have some free time this morning and set about browsing through profiles, seeing who's new and who's changed their hairstyle and came across a profile that should never have turned up in my search. When I search I generally tick the "Looking for Me" box but when I read this one I thought "they'll be screaming about the million single guys messaging them". The profile said looking for man or woman but when reading through I see that in fact it's NOT a single woman, it's a couple and they're NOT looking for a man or woman they are looking for a woman only to poke large objects up the guys butt and do some video... A few profiles on a see another single female profile that is a couple, this one says looking for man, woman, ts, tv, couple and group but after a read they actually want a single woman. I flip through a few more and find a woman with a single woman profile who seems to have laid out what she's looking for quite well until I discover her profile states man, woman, couple and 18-50 and when you read the text she says anyone not between 30 & 45 do not message you'll be blocked.... Some people mustn't read their own profile. I had a beauty this week when I instant messaged a woman and we had a quick chat and went to messenger at her request. This woman seemed okay but lived in an area I think is the Bronx and she wants to meet that night at her home after sending me a stack of her pics I didn't ask for. I'd mentioned I was on a shared computer at work but inbound they came. When I said I was happy to meet but would prefer to meet somewhere near her that was a public place she had a brain snap. All of a sudden I was misrepresenting myself, totally vanilla and wasting her valuable time. The suburb is not dissimilar to Mt Druitt, now I'm no small guy and I can certainly take care of myself but what sort of fool would leave themselves open to being mugged or worse? Things that didn't smell right were that she was seperated but still lived with the ex and often played together.. I was 95% not going to go near there anyway by the time she had her brain snap, do people ever read the news about internet meetings going horribly wrong? There must be some mad stories out there so share them people, what is the most stupid thing you've seen on a profile or someone has asked you to do over the net?

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Paradisepair

13 years ago

The stupidest thing I think I've seen on a profile was a couple insisting on no obese women over size 12 - just assuming over 12= obese is pretty stupid - but in their pics she was at least a 16 & he had a big beer gut.

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RHP User

13 years ago

I can say I have never had anything like that happen. I guess the only thing I could say is that stupidty, is no barrier to entry.You will find the whole spectrum of people here.Just have to roll with the punches, engage big brain before small brain, and be aware that not everyones intentions are genuine, or well meaning.Cheers Felonius

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RHP User

13 years ago

Look at you Dirty, dodging bullets left right and centre

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RHP User

13 years ago

Just last night I was chatting online to a couple (who also lived out in an area which I think is the Bronx), who asked that I head over RIGHT NOW (at 1.30am) to their place, where they would leave the front door unlocked, I'd go into the bedroom, we'd have a threesome in the dark, not talk, and then I'd leave.My reasoning for the answer of NO:1. It was 1.30 am, I was in my pajamas with my hair everywhere, nail polish drying. I had to get up at 6.30 for work.2. All the photos they had on their profile (PG inclusive) were purely body shots, no faces.3. What sane single girl goes to the house of a couple they've never met before, and fucks in the dark?? Obviously one with no sense of self-preservation.When I asked for face profiles, I got a belligerent reply that I wouldn't need to see their face photos as we would all be in the dark anyway. Then when I turned them down, I got accused of not being spontaneous enough, that I was too 'vanilla' (just like you, DRS), and that I was actually a fake posing as a single girl.You've really just got to swerve around the strange ones on here...

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RHP User

13 years ago

Have refused to meet even for coffee, anywhere except my home....I suppose it must work sometimes..xHugs H

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RHP User

13 years ago

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RHP User

13 years ago

One of the first experiences I had on this site was when i replied to a couple. They sent me the initial message with the usual hello and pleasantries and brief explanation etc. I in turn replied thanking them for messaging me and saying hi and a brief intro about me and answering the few questions they asked etc. Shortly after I received a ranting, abusive, expletive filled message that is best summed up with "Why are you messaging us you desperate looser. What gives you the right to message such an attractive couple like us. You're ugly and we are sitting here laughing at your message". Needles to say i was slightly shocked. At the time after my initial shock wore off i became rather bemused. Its easy for people to hide behind a computer screen and inflate their ego and get their jollies however they see fit. I would seriously pay to see only half the rude, ignorant, aggressive people on this website actually say face to face what they type. I think it would be hilarious to see them turn into a shy blubbering stuttering mess. I’m of the opinion... if you’re going to type it, be sure you have the confidence to say it to the persons face before you type it. Just my thoughts

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RHP User

13 years ago

Apologies about the weird font in previous message... Not sure what happened.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'Paradisepair'The stupidest thing I think I've seen on a profile was a couple insisting on no obese women over size 12 - just assuming over 12= obese is pretty stupid - but in their pics she was at least a 16 & he had a big beer gut. It is definitely hypocritical but why send out for a bbw when you've got one at home? They obviously want something different to what they're used to. I don't really like their chances though. and Quoting 'City_Kitty' You've really just got to swerve around the strange ones on here...Where else are us strange ones going to hang out if not here?????

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RHP User

13 years ago

I was about to post on your 'Open letter to chatroom bullies' but, shit, didn't that get shot down quick!? What I was going to say is that I've never ventured into the chat rooms but your reported experiences doesn't offer any enticement. I think I'll steer clear. These forum pages are rough enough for me.

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RHP User

13 years ago

A guy I had been chatting with via here then through MSN and I decided to meet...spend the day together while his GF was out of town (I already knew he was in a relationship, he was upfront about that)...had it all lined up...date, location everything sorted...I then ventured into the forums for his particular state and find him there saying he has a willing woman for a GB on the same date and time as when we were to meet - ahhhhhh say what?? I dont recall agreeing to that. Definately takes all sorts Kisses Focus

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RHP User

13 years ago

You have to wonder what kind of man would arrange to meet you and then 'surprise' you with a gang bang. Sobering reminder about the importance of staying safe on here.

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RHP User

13 years ago

lil_bit He's lucky my flat mate of the time didnt go to his place of work (yes I knew that about him) and hit him. My flatmate was not impressed about it when I told him. Kisses Focus

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RHP User

13 years ago

Did you return an email asking them what a desperate "looser" is? That's one of the reasons I would never get involved with a man who is already in a relationship - no respect for women, you were lined up to be nothing more than a piece of meat. Glad you're instinct kicked in Focus!

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Hanna_ybbn

13 years ago

I was very new to Rhp at the time - it was maybe my 1st week?Anyway, there is a couple that emailed me. I politely refused.They then took to the forums to start harassing me.The username was sunshinecoast something or another.Downright pigs.I get up to 30 emails weekly from 'couple's' asking to MEET and PLAY.It's so nice to see they read my profile.I learned very early on to steer well clear of the pushy types thanks to chat. It never ceased to amaze me that although presenting as a 'couple' the man was the only one ever on cam!Funny that!I've rec'd an email this morning from a female profile - which then goes on to say they BOTH want to play with me - WTF???I'm not dumb - assumption on your part is a huge mistake.This is why I don't respond to all email - if you can't be fucked then neither can I - simpleHanna x

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'ApolloThirteen'Did you return an email asking them what a desperate "looser" is? That's one of the reasons I would never get involved with a man who is already in a relationship - no respect for women, you were lined up to be nothing more than a piece of meat. Glad you're instinct kicked in Focus! Gross over generalisation about attached men I feel Apollo. I understand that not all men are like the minority. Sadly however, its the minority that make a bad name for the rest. I have no issue meeting attached men (No thats not an invitation as clearly states on my profile Im not here to meet men at all) have had some wonderful times with attached men - he was just a wanker purely and simply. Had nothing to do with his being attached but solely to do with him as a person. Kisses Focus

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RHP User

13 years ago

Respect your opinion on that focus - Its no secret i think cheating men are low-lifes and think that women who go with a man they know is cheating are even lower. A cheating man doesn't respect the woman he's involved with, he has no respect for the relationship, and he sure as hell has no respect for the woman he's cheating with. I have very strong opinions on infidelity and make no apologies for them - but I appreciate the point you've made.

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RogueGeek

13 years ago

I'm worse I need a t-shirt that says, "I'm not rude, I just don't like people" :PMy main problem is that my humour doesn't translate, so I offend or amuse people when I intend the opposite... Quoting 'paradigmatic130b' I would seriously pay to see only half the rude, ignorant, aggressive people on this website actually say face to face what they type. I think it would be hilarious to see them turn into a shy blubbering stuttering mess. I’m of the opinion... if you’re going to type it, be sure you have the confidence to say it to the persons face before you type it. Just my thoughts

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