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Submissive guy

April 13 2011

I still have not met that woman who is keen to dominate me in the bedroom ,why is it so hard to find a woman who is keen for this .I have met a few sub girls on here and have enjoyed the time with them .Come on girls help

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ask Mistress T - she may know of some women who maybe able to help you. Or maybe you can donate your time to Mistress T for her training sessions. I believe their a some women on this forum wanting to learn the art of domination. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    iv just started exploring my dominate side and although i do love it...i find i dont have the poker face for it a dom with a giggle isnt very scary haha but i would like to try a bit more of it...so if your ever in Tassie give me a call and il practise on you all you like lol roxxy...the subbie, trying to be a dom

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Ask Mistress T - she may know of some women who maybe able to help you. Or maybe you can donate your time to Mistress T for her training sessions. I believe their a some women on this forum wanting to learn the art of domination. xxMeeka Mistress T is a safe bet for you in that regard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I commented and had so many men respond it was not funny. I would love to dominate a man in the bedroom. But like many others on here would not feel comfortable ....just yet.....Gonna spend some time with Mistress T first. I dont think that thiis is just something that I would like to leap in and have a go at without some guidelines first. Dont want to really hurt a guy as I am just too tender hearted for that......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee'. Dont want to really hurt a guy as I am just too tender hearted for that...... This is what stops me too.I'd never forgive myself if i fucked it up and did something they didn't actually want.xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well I have to say that a few of the women here have made me cry...does that count? | It's not easy coping with rejection.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'fionabee'. Dont want to really hurt a guy as I am just too tender hearted for that...... This is what stops me too. I'd never forgive myself if i fucked it up and did something they didn't actually want. xx Sarah thats why they have a safety word ladies...try it, start small and work your way up to MistressT roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I had a lover who asked me if I would dominate him. We discussed what was involved. The first time we made use of things I already had including a whip I had made for a fancy dress party. He made some restraints, I got some canes from the hardware store and the experimentation continued. I agree with Roxy, if you really want to try it, take it slow and negotiate the boundaries. You might need to keep re-negotiating. You might decide its not for you. I can't imagine doing it with just anyone. . . .but I might do it again. .WILDly wondering

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I would make a pretty shithouse sub I think...but that's just me. Each to their own but I would really "talk about it" before trying anything on...as it were. There was a thread a while back about the more primative approach to some of this... | Quoting 'HotSexyChilli'I've always been turned off by the thought of dominating a guy (girls, however, that's a whole different story hehehe... | I did just touch the surface when I wrote that little primer "Clit Control for Dummies" but if you would like...I could burn up a bit of available bandwidth here and write both the more detailed form and throw in the latest edition of "Knocking on the Backdoor for Dummies" if you like? | Never hurts ...to have a "little" knowledge. | | Short form...or should I go into depth?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thanks for all the recommendations,lovely people and especially to Mistress Roxxy who has learned her BDSM by correspondence very well! You rock lovely lady.I have been in contact with Samben and several other guys on RHP but unfortunately the cost of my services seems to have put them off.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    submissive guys leave me cold.......they turn me off sexually.......but then wishy washy people do to.....oh gord ...another fault ill have to work on...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'missbowpeek'submissive guys leave me cold.......they turn me off sexually.......but then wishy washy people do to..... oh gord ...another fault ill have to work on... I agree with you 100% MissB hun....nothing worse than a man that isn't a man in my eyes! My last fiance was very wishy washy and it got so bad that it got to the stage I didn't want sex with him anymore! Imagine how much of a turn off it is to roll over in bed at 2am and notice your partner is missing...only to find him in the corner of the lounge room crying because you worked with a guy you used to fuck for one day (I was a temp so moved around)...it is so sexually off putting. I felt like his mother and not his lover! Ewwwwww....huge turn off! < Off subject, how are you hun? Is the back getting better? Sassy told me that you ended up back in hospital midweek...I hope the spasms are subsiding and that you are up and about! xox xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i couldnt be with a man that was wussy...crying and sooking...hell nooooo if i had a man like that id never survive...id walk all over him in no time my little subbie boy isnt like that out of the bedroom but in the bedroom he likes to be told what to do and he loves all the things i love hehehe but he isnt that person out of the bedroom...if he was i couldnt do it roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TassieRose' i couldnt be with a man that was wussy...crying and sooking...hell nooooo if i had a man like that id never survive...id walk all over him in no time my little subbie boy isnt like that out of the bedroom but in the bedroom he likes to be told what to do and he loves all the things i love hehehe but he isnt that person out of the bedroom...if he was i couldnt do it roxxy Of course he is different out of the bedroom. He isn't covered in cling wrap....lol!!You make a good point about men who are submissive in the bedroom. For many that is the only place they are submissive.Have you gone out and bought the catering roll yet ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Quoting 'TassieRose' i couldnt be with a man that was wussy...crying and sooking...hell nooooo if i had a man like that id never survive...id walk all over him in no time my little subbie boy isnt like that out of the bedroom but in the bedroom he likes to be told what to do and he loves all the things i love hehehe but he isnt that person out of the bedroom...if he was i couldnt do it roxxy Of course he is different out of the bedroom. He isn't covered in cling wrap....lol!! You make a good point about men who are submissive in the bedroom. For many that is the only place they are submissive. Have you gone out and bought the catering roll yet ??? but he did look so damn cute covered in glad wrap hehehe he will be back soon for some more glad wrapping fun lol...so il be getting the catering roll very soon one example of what to me is a wussy man would be that fella that won australian idol last time, Altiynan Childs (if thats spelt right) he was always crying it was horrid to watch, i yelled at the telly a lot when he was on...him i could never be with....a man needs to be a man out of the bedroom, but in it, he can be what ever he wants roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I kinda accidentally happened across a boy who says he's a 'true sub' but I'm completely clueless when it comes to anything like that. He asked me to put a male chastity lock on him and I admit I thought it was kind of a hot idea that could be fun.Anybody try one? what happens if the area under lock becomes engorged?xx Sarah