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March 04 2011

I have been on here for a little while and am looking for a dominant woman to have me for the night to make me do things for her and do as she says,in and out of the bed room.Not having much luck ,can anyone help??? James

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    lolz. You mean you want to get married?HugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' lolz. You mean you want to get married?HugsS so funny cause it's true........but not in the way your thinking Stalky. Sorry Samben but woozy guys do nothing for me. I like real men. (manly men...........mmmmmmmmm)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' lolz. You mean you want to get married?HugsS so funny cause it's true........but not in the way your thinking Stalky. Sorry Samben but woozy guys do nothing for me. I like real men. (manly men...........mmmmmmmmm)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' lolz. You mean you want to get married?HugsS so funny cause it's true........but not in the way your thinking Stalky. Sorry Samben but woozy guys do nothing for me. I like real men. (manly men...........mmmmmmmmm)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Have really nothing to do with being a woos. Just the same as submissive women have nothing to do with being weak. Mistress T could probably tell more than I but it has been my experience that men who like to be submissive in the bedroom are strong men-in-charge types in thier life and work. Submitting is a form of power in itself....relinquishing complete control to another gives a powerful rush l Ha ha ha ha, Very funny Stalky but I thought that the only bossing around the married women did in the bedroom as the definate word "NO" or may be the odd " Didn't we do that already this month?"

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Ha ha ha ha, Very funny Stalky but I thought that the only bossing around the married women did in the bedroom as the definate word "NO" or may be the odd " Didn't we do that already this month?"or "It's your birthday AGAIN? Already??!"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    That's not what I meant. I just dont like submissive guys in the bedroom or out (which is what he said). So he asked and I gave MY opinion. Everyone likes and does different things. So hopefully he will find someone here who can fulfill his desire. And maybe I will too :)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    hmmmm its generally harder to find a dominant woman - meaning there are more submissive men than dominant women - but they are definatley out there ;) I suggest you visit Sydney Hellfire and wear a nice collar and I am sure a Dom gal will snap a leash on you in no time J ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Have really nothing to do with being a woos. Just the same as submissive women have nothing to do with being weak. Mistress T could probably tell more than I but it has been my experience that men who like to be submissive in the bedroom are strong men-in-charge types in thier life and work. Submitting is a form of power in itself....relinquishing complete control to another gives a powerful rush l I would just like to agree here - the submissive men I have met have generally been very "manly men", and in very blokey/ sometimes powerful jobs etc.... generally to willingly submit to someone else, you have to have a very strong inner power yourself.Interestingly enough, many successful and powerful Dom's have spent time as Submissives ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thank you guys and gals for the posts so far,i am submissive in the bedroom but not in everyday life LOL.You guys are so funny,I dont take affence,so keep it up .James

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Don't go out wearing a collar though, that is a sign that you are already attached to a dominant person who has 'claimed you' as their own.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes, well. My 2 cents worth....Many submissive guys are in high powered careers and they are usually fairly high up the responsibility ladder. Their submission has less to do with sex but more with a release from that particular aspect of their lives. They relinquish control to the point where they no longer have to think or take responsibility for their actions. Many of these guys have extreme fetishes.Then there are the bedroom submissives. These guys are dominant in a relationship and sometimes in their career. In the bedroom they like to submit most of the time but can take a more dominant role occasionally. Many of these guys class themselves as a switch because they are both submissive and dominant. These guys usually have some kind of fetishI have met a couple of guys that did not have a single dominant aspect to their character but these guys are few and far between.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' Yes, well. My 2 cents worth....Then there are the bedroom submissives. These guys are dominant in a relationship and sometimes in their career. In the bedroom they like to submit most of the time but can take a more dominant role occasionally. Many of these guys class themselves as a switch because they are both submissive and dominant. These guys usually have some kind of fetish Its right down to the star sign... I mean being switch.... let's face it... I'm a 50/50 bet in every respect... men and women lovers, top and bottom roles, dominant and submissive.... and I rarely make up my mind whether I'm going to be submissive until the mood strikes me... I guess this leads to tremendous confusion for lovers who are strictly either one way or the other... but it's a small sacrifice to pay Missy... I mean, there's one thing I am not.... I'm not obedient. hehe... .submissive sometimes... but obedient.... only if it suits me. Being told what to do by an assertive woman is a hoot.. but you know... not all the time!Oh yeah... agree with Pete... don't wear the collar unless you're under instructions.HugsS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I really like this post and good on you Samben for putting what you like "out there"!! Gals can be a little harsh, perhaps a few gentle words although to the point could be used. Very much turns me on you like to be sub in the bedroom...Depending on my mood I am probably the more dom in the bedroom, call me old and bossy lol I think when a person expresses what they want or would like and a fantasy or not, perhaps want be that fulltime, so be it! Adore the freedom of these posts. xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I can't see you as a true submissive Stalky. You are waaayy too cheeky!!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Stalky as funny as ever!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'BBPete' Don't go out wearing a collar though, that is a sign that you are already attached to a dominant person who has 'claimed you' as their own. I have noticed some unnattached people wear collars at places like Hellfire....?

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'puppy'Stalky as funny as ever! Yes Stalky is funny. Submissive!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT' I can't see you as a true submissive Stalky. You are waaayy too cheeky!! Hey. I can be submissive.... In fact I spent a good part of this weekend on my knees... secret life of stalky ...1) if you know my weaknesses and your pits win me over .... and then I'll do everything you command of me! :pHugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    But unfortunately my pits are full of anti-perspirant deodorant.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'GirlTuesday' You mustPut the ironing away, shine my shoes, make the bed, remove cobwebs from? Feed me delicious morsels of foodOnce you have finished those tasks, I may decide to let you out of the bedroom, if you behave...I expect you to: Put the bin out, mow the lawns, clean the gutters, paint the gate OK