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Superficial Reasons
July 06 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Women would be more inclined to share reasons like those that you gave, but maybe that's just because they're more communicative. Men have their own brand of superficiality - for example, men will stop dating a woman that they really like because their mates think she's too easy, not good looking enough, etc. I guess my answer is that I don't know.Most superficial reason for me? Her weight. I know it's unfair, but I'm just not drawn to larger women.
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RHP User
14 years ago
She is the most superficial sex. l No one with kids, no smokers no travelors no couples no groups no larger types no subbies No one older than me (her mother) No one wanting commitment Must have cut penis Must have large penis Must have minimum manscape. Must have sense of humour...not a normal sense of humour either must be twisted and a touch perverted. Minimum height 5'10" (Focus is not short and likes to wear heels) l Further more she is proud of it and I wish I had her sex life!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe'Men have their own brand of superficiality - for example, men will stop dating a woman that they really like because their mates think she's too easy,.......................Awwhh... now that explains everything
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RHP User
14 years ago
But Fiona that is a list of Focus's requirements, and that's fair enough. Isn't it ?xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Us girls would probably have to take the win for most superficial? As Snowshoe pointed out men do it too but just don't yap about it as much as us girls can and do. So I spose because ours is more 'heard of' we have to claim it. . We can be so picky about the little things and go on and on and on about them where as a man will just blurt out, "Nup, hairy pussy" or "Not into big girls" and be done with it. Where as we can be slightly on the petty side , and come up with things like, " OMG he just never trims his nostril hairs, they look like fly's legs hanging out of his nose" or " He always sprays his deodorant in his left armpit first, it's sooooo annoying" LOL he just had to go !!!! . I can't remember ever dumping anyone for something superficial, but I do have a couple of 'no go' zones before it gets to that stage........No men with mullets or long hair, just ewwwks me out sorry Fabio lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you are talking about in this venue only, Meeka...then by far and away the winner would be the ladies. All the standard reasons...you know the ones. | Take it offline and the game changes...the gathering of the boys at the watering hole can and does get very superficial and more so when we start comparing notes. One that will always get me is the "ultrafunky slick hip artsy" look in the way a woman dresses. Seriously...multicoloured hair, designer sunnies, three layers of unmatching tops, spandex pants and Converse sneakers? | Charlize, Gwyneth or Angelina if you are on this site you can wear what you like, I was only kidding... | ...and there are exceptions to every rule. | | Is it just me or is Ms Paltrow hotting up with age?
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RHP User
14 years ago
'Man hands""Are they or arnt they"..( they were real and spectacular lol)"The nose job""The Pie"....yada yada yada.. Boys/Men can be just as superficial..we girls/women just dont hear about is as much..Just stand with a group of your girlfriends and see who they chat up first..lol Im sure its not the sunny personality chikee.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'But Fiona that is a list of Focus's requirements, and that's fair enough. Isn't it ?xxMeekaYou did ask who was the more superficial...Focus is! and you did ask for superficial reasons...and they all are only superficial reasons.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I suppose you are right CM. See it all starts with the profile name. If I don't like their choice of profile name, well it is pretty hard to go on from there. To this day I have never reacted positively to the rudey profile names. For example:OnenightrootMrAverage (how is that working for ya?)Wanks-a-lotDuderootwants-a-slut12 inches (who coincidently loves anal - not with me you don't)HunglikeahorseFuckslikeahorseHungthickBeenawhileYou know what I mean....... surely the men do this as well? But maybe in the reverse, that is the ruder the name the keener they are? Beef~roll perhaps? lolxxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
but I disagree with your entire premise. I hate to sound like some tree hugger, but I disagree with the idea that one gender is any more superficial than the next. Neither has any right to be, and yet both have that potential. So, unfortunately, it lies in the individual, and is not something so sweeping as an entire gender. If it can be, then it is all of our fault, because it is merely learned behavior, and we should know better by now. I should mention I am a little drunk :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I guess then if we are keeping it to this venue, Meeka...some of the female names are interesting to say the least and sometimes, it's like visiting the RSPCA. Unfortunately, I am not all that fond of cats and well, if there is suggestion there that it might need training or worse yet I might cough up a fur ball...I usually take it for a miss. | The other dead give away of a woman on the prowl for a freebie or a good laugh is if the name has something to do with a Minx. You can bet she has an old Hillman sitting out back and wants you to work on it...or has just scrambled all the little shapes on her mega dodecahedron and will sit there in her lacy lingerie laughing at you saying "You can't touch this until the puzzle is solved". These are particularly cruel women...and even if she claims to be a "Hungarian Supernova" you will never solve the puzzle and end up going home wishing you had never met. | So there is a clue right there? I am never too quick to judge, swallow fur, fix a car or be tortured with something harder to solve than Rubik's cube...but if I read something clever or might find a bit out of the ordinary...then I am abnormally normal and avoid being superfluously superficial. | Pictures too...the more creative the better, and bless all of those fabulous women that put it all out there instead of flying the "V" for cleavage. Honest, that's almost like the female version of the dreaded "cock shot" in my book. You have put it all out there a few times Meeka, and check out Saturn65. I admire a woman with a great pair of eyes...especially once I quit drooling and notice she has those, too. | ...superficial, what was the question?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Snowshoe'Men have their own brand of superficiality - for example, men will stop dating a woman that they really like because their mates think she's too easy,.......................Awwhh... now that explains everything It's a variation on Freud's 'Madonna-Whore Complex'. After all, we men are complex and finely tuned mental and emotional critters...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah guys will go after attractive women, so less attractive women have less of a shot. You never see a hot guy with an unattractive girl but you do see hot women with unattractive guys. It seems girls give more time to the whole package of a guy. BUT I know a lot of girls who will write off a guy for the silliest reasons. Its like they don't want to meet someone and can't be bothered giving the guy a chance. Maybe they expect to meet a guy and have time stand still and their heart pound.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would have answered men before reading this but now not so sure!!! I guess both sexes can be just as superficial depending on the circumstance. I also hazard a guess that we can all see past the superficial if someone gets under our skin or lights a little fire in a place we didn't realize we had? I think I was a lot more superficial when I was younger but seem to see more beauty around me than I used to and have a much broader taste in these beautiful things.
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RHP User
14 years ago
....was good enough reason for me not to see that man again after a first date. l had arrived at his home dressed to impress. You know, stilletos and low cut top ect.Only to be greeted by a man in a bonds singlet, stubbie shorts (which l thought were deleted from the retail market in th 80"s for bad taste) and of course the great Australian footwear the thong. Eeeek.... I really should of ran but instead stayed for a few hours. .Profile names as Meeks said - some are just WTF .Hair Colour (Not a blonde Girl) .Looks (Pretty Boys are a no go zone for me) .Profession ( l know it's lame) .Height (l like my date to be taller by at lease 6in) .Penis - Handsome does it for me (those cock shots do come in handy) .Pubis Hairis - not into furballs .A quirky one is Blue eyes - don't even ask as l dont know either. Who is more superficial - my vote goes to us girls, but then again l know men are as well..... Maybe i'm out on this vote. Interesting.... Thinking about it though, perhaps men. Looking forward to their honest comments.... Nice Post Meeka xx Sins
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RHP User
14 years ago
I guess we all have reason as to why or why not but I would have to say as a guy the only reasons I hear from some of my mates as to why not is .... nah she’s not for me. And that could be any reason what so ever but we just don’t ask any further and get straight back to more important issues like SPORT
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RHP User
14 years ago
another views as a non negotiable... . The reasons stated by Fiona on my behalf are (to some extent) viewed as superficial by others.....I wouldnt say one gender is more superficial than an other but more that we each have our non negotiable traits that others wouldnt care about... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Sidd72' I should mention I am a little drunk :) And more than a little cute. KissesMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' I also hazard a guess that we can all see past the superficial if someone gets under our skin or lights a little fire in a place we didn't realize we had? You are so right. Yes when someone "does" it for us, well nothing is that bad. Funny though, how when for what ever reason that person doesn't do it for you anymore, you suddenly realise that they shit you to tears or they always have food stuck in their teeth and live in the wrong suburb,....... I guess is it true. Love is blind. Sorry this is a sex site. I meant to say, lust is blind :P xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'| Pictures too...the more creative the better, and bless all of those fabulous women that put it all out there instead of flying the "V" for cleavage. Honest, that's almost like the female version of the dreaded "cock shot" in my book. You have put it all out there a few times Meeka, .So what are you saying here CM? That the boob shots are as bad as the dreaded cock shots and should be banned from RHP? Ok I will take that under advisement no more ta~tas on display. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sometimes my fingers have a mind of their own and can get me in to trouble...not what I meant at all. | Quoting 'Meeka100'That the boob shots are as bad as the dreaded cock shots and should be banned from RHP? Ok I will take that under advisement no more ta~tas on display. Those tantalizing ta-ta's pics from you and all the other ladies are... | Marvelous Exciting Enticing Killer Amazing and 100 % appreciated when you grace us with them, both you and all the ladies. | It's those other "clevage only" shots, you know the kind...were all you get to see is the big "V" and that's about it. I just wished I had cornered the market on corsets on eBay before knowing about this place, that's all. | You know me... | ...I love your great big eyes. | | Just let my fingers do the walking...please, just once?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Sidd72' I should mention I am a little drunk :) And more than a little cute. KissesMeekaI am glad my drunkeness is cute to you, Meeka :) Did I mention I am coming to Sydney in a couple of weeks? Hahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think I'm superficial for judging people on their: . * profile usernames * crappy pictures * one-line messages . I'm always open-minded enough to be proven wrong though. . I think it's just as Focus says, we all have seeking criterias and some traits are non-negotaible. Everyone has a motivation for being here and I accept that if someone judges me on a superficial level, it's a good bet we won't be compatible anyway *shrug* . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe'Most superficial reason for me? Her weight. I know it's unfair, but I'm just not drawn to larger women. ur not alone..MrNA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sidd, no you didn't tell me you were coming to Sydney. Have you got any hot dates lined up? xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Sidd, no you didn't tell me you were coming to Sydney. Have you got any hot dates lined up? xx Meeka Not yet :) But I am certainly open to the possibility.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Sidd, no you didn't tell me you were coming to Sydney. Have you got any hot dates lined up? xx Meeka I think you were notified. I got a nice little "Sidd72 is travelling to your area & wants to meet you." note on my news feed the other day!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Quoting 'Meeka100' Sidd, no you didn't tell me you were coming to Sydney. Have you got any hot dates lined up? xx Meeka I think you were notified. I got a nice little "Sidd72 is travelling to your area & wants to meet you." note on my news feed the other day! I think that got sent out to everyone in NSW, and while I would love to meet everyone in the entire state, I am afriad that is highly improbable. It is nice to know you were paying attention though, Flirty! hahahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
... occasionally
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RHP User
14 years ago
So there was a girlie version of American Pie then too, huh Flirty? Just don't be putting on your little wooden shoes and trying to hold back the floods from breaking the dam...you know, getting caught out with your finger in the pie. You're Dutch...right?| ||Totally fuckin' hilarious still.....ha ha ha.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight'So there was a girlie version of American Pie then too, huh Flirty? Just don't be putting on your little wooden shoes and trying to hold back the floods from breaking the dam...you know, getting caught out with your finger in the pie. You're Dutch...right?| ||Totally fuckin' hilarious still.....ha ha ha. I'm not laughing. I'm feeling rather ... flat ... But in the spirit of keeping everyone else amused, I am prepared to publicly confess to having never seen any of the American Pie movies. Ever.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Want some apple pie, little girl? | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I am prepared to publicly confess to having never seen any of the American Pie movies. | The true meaning of that great song "Jearzus Bless Those Americans" lies within. | ...start in the middle and eat out. | | Hopeless...totally hopeless, but I love those blueberry boobies.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' Want some apple pie, little girl? | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I am prepared to publicly confess to having never seen any of the American Pie movies. | The true meaning of that great song "Jearzus Bless Those Americans" lies within. | ...start in the middle and eat out. | | Hopeless...totally hopeless, but I love those blueberry boobies. I'm all dosed up on free time with nobody's kitchen to step into ... On the upside, I think you've got your instant posting back *heavy sigh*
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well, other than it's just on 1:30 in the morning and I am taking a little break. |
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RHP User
14 years ago
i am fairly superficial... its a must that she has a heartbeet (otherwise they can be extremely cold). 2 feet? not necessary!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is it superficial of me to want a girl with a brain, a nice rack and a tight box? I really can't tell. Then again, some guys just seem to have it all...
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RHP User
14 years ago
in this modern world you would say men but really i doubt it is. there are more women than men and women are more wanted by men other women and couples so they have more choice and get away with not paying for many things so they can afford to be a bit more picky about whom they choose.The natural primal thing that studies have shown is that women find different types of men attractive at different points in time. generally during menstruation cycles. Natural instincts kick in around they ovulation period where they look for more strong types of men. muscular strong jaw line etc. And when they are in a more nurturing state they tend to go for the type of men that would offer a stable home. Glasses and non confronting etc. And primal instinct in men is to put his seed in as many females as possible to make sure he has a better chance of his offspring surviving in the wild. so i would say men dont really take the superficial things as far as women do and are less picky in general. Its in our basic DNA
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RHP User
14 years ago
imo it is neither sex that is more superficial. both genders are superficial, but some guys and some chicks aren't.aguys naturally are attracted to healthy looking chicks that have good gene's, girls are attracted to guys who can provide the best protection for both them and their offspring. sure there are exceptions but that is the way things usually are imo
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Is it superficial of me to want a girl with a brain, a nice rack and a tight box? In fact it's disgraceful, or some sort of evolutionary or legislative flaw, that all girls aren't blessed with these standard requirements. Like seatbelts and airbags in cars, I have no doubt they will eventually be standard equipment.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Is it superficial of me to want a girl with a brain, a nice rack and a tight box? In fact it's disgraceful, or some sort of evolutionary or legislative flaw, that all girls aren't blessed with these standard requirements. Like seatbelts and airbags in cars, I have no doubt they will eventually be standard equipment. My WRX has a good steering rack, airbags, seatbelts and good tight gearbox with a short shift lever for fast gear changes. It goes very, very fast around a racetrack.My car and I have a lot in common.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Loathe superficial The End! xxx
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Rockme2018
14 years ago
Women. In my experience. Nuf said. Claz.
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redhotozz
14 years ago
LOL..ffs, since when does someones eyesight make them a nurturing type.....I mean, I used to be an outrageous alpha male...but when I put on the glasses, I became a sensitive, articulate man. I'm going to try contacts, so I can be indecisive.Apart from the glasses thing, its kind of ok. Mrs Ozz prefers men with muscles, tall, etc, I like ladies with a smile and a sense of fun, and nice shoulders.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We are all superficial in one way or another. It's just part of who we are and what attracts us to that other person.I mean, we all have a check list, don't we?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Women...just by going from the some of the profiles that i've seen....everyone has they're likes and dislikes and i understand that..but i honestly think that some people are living in a fantasy world (guys too) with some of their requirements that they are looking for. Nobody in this world is perfect you can be drop gorgeous and be the biggest bitch in the world....the most handsome man on the planet and not be able to string two words together to make a sentence cause they're dumb as dog shit. Or be pleasantly surprised by the average guy/girl in the corner that everyone passes by and you don't have anything in common with and find out they are exactly what you want.(but your profiles don't match up so why give them the time of day). Something to think about isn't it even if this a sex site!!Most superficial reason i've been given ...she likes to wear high heels and i'd be too short for her....karma bite though...guy she went for though told her to piss off and started dating her sister.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Is it superficial of me to want a girl with a brain, a nice rack and a tight box? I really can't tell. Then again, some guys just seem to have it all... BINGO!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sidd not you too. Come back xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Where have I been.. just caught up with this post. I just read the first half of the posts and understand how everyone has thier wants and do not wants.. Im no different.. I guess its alot easier to find what we dont like in a person than what we do like. ? so the problem comes when the 'do'nt likes' outweigh the do likes... or vice versa, thats where we become superficial..Regardless' how many times do we see missmatched couples who just put up with each other. Maybe if they listened to their 'do not like list ' before their likes.. they might be alot happier... hindsight is so wonderfull ...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lol, if he's superfiscal, it'll always be superficial.. Joking
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RHP User
14 years ago
does that mean I'm deep instead?Woo HOOOkay there is maybe one - no girls with better moustaches than I could growAlthough sometimes I could make an exceptionI guess it varies by more than the differences between genders
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RHP User
14 years ago
This doesn't speak well of me, and generally I love the little flaws in a woman that make her unique, but in the spirit of full disclosure...... I was once seeing a woman who was beautiful, funny and mischievous (three invaluable traits) but had a particular trifecta I just couldn't get past, and I had to call it quits:She had comically large nipples, labia and big toes.Now, it's possible that any one, maybe even two of these overly generous traits wouldn't have made an impact, but there was something about the symmetricality of them, two by two by two - upper, mid and down below - that I just couldn't get my head around.But then again, is it possible for something to be both superficial, and overly protuberant?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0'... I was once seeing a woman who was beautiful, funny and mischievous (three invaluable traits) but had a particular trifecta I just couldn't get past, and I had to call it quits:She had comically large nipples, labia and big toes.Dude, you were dating a hobbit - what did you expect?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0' This doesn't speak well of me, and generally I love the little flaws in a woman that make her unique, but in the spirit of full disclosure...... I was once seeing a woman who was beautiful, funny and mischievous (three invaluable traits) but had a particular trifecta I just couldn't get past, and I had to call it quits:She had comically large nipples, labia and big toes.Now, it's possible that any one, maybe even two of these overly generous traits wouldn't have made an impact, but there was something about the symmetricality of them, two by two by two - upper, mid and down below - that I just couldn't get my head around.But then again, is it possible for something to be both superficial, and overly protuberant?Oh how superficial, I mean large nipples and labia - surely this is just more nice bits to have fun with??? I must admit that nice feet are a little fetish of mine so I too may have ran on the humungous toes hahaha
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RHP User
14 years ago
You'd think so, wouldn't you? Like king size mars bars...
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RHP User
14 years ago
You'd think so, wouldn't you? Like king size mars bars...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would have to answer with sadly ... It depends
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you chew with your mouth open or make that nasally noise with your nose when you breath thats where i draw the line in the sand...probally after we have had sex in said sand, but once and no more i say!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
we dont feel we are superficial....we are here to explore fantasy.......and as such our standards are high....theres no 'second best' or 'they'll do'.........so theres a range of things we wont entertain......we might not often find what we seek, but we certainly encounter what we dont like, with frightening regularity and frequency......... understanding what you dont like doesnt make you superficial...that just makes you cautious and particular. as we all have the right to be..........
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RHP User
14 years ago
its case by case, but in this world we are always being conditioned to want more and more, so it is no wonder people pick people apart ,everything about them instead of focusing on the good points,wanting an adonis or an aphrodite, instead of someone real. ask your parents or grandparents what it was for them ,it was ,they said it was their cheek, or their smile or the way they laughed.these days its" do they look like( insert your sexiest person here"), can they match a horse for size or have watermelons attached to their chest,or wear something that leaves no mystery ,the greatest part is the discovery. you just have to figure out what you will accept or not accept, i have caused a breakup over bad oral hygeiene , i don't think anyone wants to kiss someone forever that tastes like they have eaten crap all day long. but be reasonable, cause you never know, one day it it will be like , they're not that great,they had stuff stuck in their teeth , and before you know it you have missed out on a good thing, the discovery is the key , so be open and take your time
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