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Swingers are Normal People

October 17 2017

Swingers are normal people. It fascinates me the people we have meet during our 8 plus years we have been swingers and how normal and nice most of them are and from all walks of life. It also amazes me how naughty some of the ladies we have meet are, and in our age bracket a lot are grandmothers and what I would call fly under the radar, you look at them and think ( the lady next door ) and that butter would not melt in there mouth, but they are very naughty fun sexy ladies in there private life’s and like all sorts of combinations like GB, MMF , MFMF. I think with age inhabitations go out the door as life is to short. It is amazing you can be having sex with another lady while your wife is berried deep into another man next to you, and when you have all finished be having a conversation about work , the kids , or life in general and the next morning life is back to normal, other than reliving the fun you had the night before. I think our non swinger friends we know, that don’t have any idea about our alternative life stile are missing out. Love to hear others views .

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FeistyFatty

8 years ago

Why wouldn't swingers be "normal" and "nice". I'm more shocked at your surprise. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

We enjoy the private swinger and the regular world. Double sided coin with consenting adults during play. Then flip back the coin to the world of people trying to understand our world.

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RHP User

8 years ago

swingers are more normal, way more relaxed 😜 oops hang on I'm single 😎

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RHP User

8 years ago

But I think the status quo has a bit of a dislike of swingers as we upset the balance of power and what is considered to be a stereotypical relationship that they can market to

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RHP User

8 years ago

This is a question we ask ourselves quite a bit. It's mainly around our sex life though. Do other couples want sex as often as we do? Do our friends still shag each other stupid at every opportunity they get? Is their sex getting better and better each year? Do we want to know? Interesting topic...

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'meandher_1982' This is a question we ask ourselves quite a bit. It's mainly around our sex life though. Do other couples want sex as often as we do? Do our friends still shag each other stupid at every opportunity they get? Is their sex getting better and better each year? Do we want to know? I've always had a really high sex drive and generally only consider a relationship with someone who's similar Great pictures by the way :) Interesting topic...

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sahzpete

8 years ago

This life style suits us and has added some life and fun into our 40 years of marriage and as swingalingson said it is like you now have two sides to your life , and my comment that Swingers are normal relates times when I have slipped it into a general conversation with out telling of our life style, there general response is NO that's not normal and No way would I do that, ,,,, mainly the women, and I think that comes from there insecurity, that's what got me thinking, well we are normal people but we just like to have sex with other people, this does not take any thing away from our love or our marriage and has improved it.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Regardless of our sex life, how much time does it take up? 99% normal here. The 99% is spent working, sleeping, getting by etc. 1% is a sex/love life, that is, having sex with someone else's partner :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

that swingers are freaks or abnormal. A woman I work with, her and her husband were well known for their swinging exploits (they were well known because she would get drunk at social events and try to get people to go back to their house for ''some fun''). She/they were often the subject of jokes at work, along with ''eww, gross''-type conversations in the tea room. They no longer (I think) indulge in swinging, but not by choice. They effectively socially isolated themselves. People stopped inviting them to social events and flatly declined invites to theirs. It's a bit sad, as she is otherwise a top chick - she just can't help but get roaring drunk when she drinks, and can't control her desires when she gets drunk.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'meandher_1982' This is a question we ask ourselves quite a bit. It's mainly around our sex life though. Do other couples want sex as often as we do? Do our friends still shag each other stupid at every opportunity they get? Is their sex getting better and better each year? Do we want to know? It is an interesting question. A couple I knew years ago loved orgies and gang-bangs and indulged in them every opportunity they could. They started to notice though that their sex life at home was flagging, normal lovemaking just became boring - they were effectively only having great sex at parties, which was only a couple of times a year. They elected to step out of ''the scene'' and try to rebuild their sex life. I don't know how they did it, it would be a very hard thing to do. Like spending years eating gorgeous cakes then choosing to only eat rice crackers. Interesting topic...

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RHP User

8 years ago

Rice crackers.. you can make them more interesting by adding special seasoning salts and flavour enhancers.😉

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