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Swingers secret code.

March 05 2018

Ok. Im sure that this has been asked. Is there something people do that allow other swingers to identify them as swingers as well in a normal setting like a pub or party? Should we start something? Lol Ankle chain on the ladies?? Ring on a certain finger? Looking forward to your replies. 😉👍 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A big bright shirt that says... Look everyone I am a swinger, no need to ask I WILL tell ya! A hotwife ankle bracelet is always classy with "HF" on it. For those in the know it is a conversation piece. For them to confess and come out of the swinger shell if they wish....That is of course if the other person looks at the fine details and can see the "HF" letters.

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    8 years ago

    HF??? Hot Fuck? Not sure what this means. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    This topic has been done to death. Personally I find it much more fun to corrupt newbies. 😈

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    8 years ago

    The problem is, even if there was a secret code , sign or hand shake , it would not be long before the vanilla crowd found out about it. If that happens you may as well just wear a sign around your neck that says “ we are swingers “ . Half the fun, at a cocktail bar, is guessing who might be and who might not be .... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    HF=Hot Wife!

  • Mark_and_Lola

    Mark_and_Lola

    8 years ago

    We had a meet and greet the other week and used red heart balloons to identify us to guests, the manager asked us if we were a Swingers group or singles group lol, we confessed and they were very cool and bought us the first round of drinks, yeehaa! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just play on. Pretend it Neva has... Is there a code....WAT!!!

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    8 years ago

    Why do we need to be identified? Surely if you’re attending parties, on websites such as this one and going to swingers clubs you’re meeting like minded people frequently anyway? I’m not sure that I see the point of such a question. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Like i stated in my question Hotnightsperth, when we are just out at a pub or party. If it was a swingers club or party there is no need for " a sign". - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    8 years ago

    Chaos of course

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ...flashlight that shines a signal over Gotham City. How many times do I have to tell you... I really am Batman, too! ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    8 years ago

    Each to their own of course, but personally, we don’t mix our lifestyle with the ‘vanilla’ crowd. As Dynamic Couple stated, it wouldn’t take long for the vanilla crowds to figure out a swingers sign or signal. For us, it just complicates what should be a fun and easy going lifestyle. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    8 years ago

    We occasionally wear black rings out. Never seen another couple wearing them but it might catch on one day, lol. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Fair point Hotnights. But where live there is no scene. No clubs. Nothing. I guess thats more the reason im asking. Maybe for the swingers that are in the area to identify. ReyandJean thats exactly what im talking about too. Starting something like that. Its really hard to play where we live. Although the best night we have had ws with 2 random girls at a pub. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    playing the game without knowing sometimes ,but like on our recent cruise ,a sighn would be handy ,damn extra friendly touchy feely drunk couples who just confuse everything till the last hurdle 😂 and your like oops ,and it goes from friendly and cudderly to being like the anti christ ,lmao,damn we were sure they were on our wave length till mrs just laid it out there ,😳apparently not as they wished us goodnight and waved goodbye suddenly 🤪lmao mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    playing the game without knowing sometimes ,but like on our recent cruise ,a sighn would be handy ,damn extra friendly touchy feely drunk couples who just confuse everything till the last hurdle 😂 and your like oops ,and it goes from friendly and cudderly to being like the anti christ ,lmao,damn we were sure they were on our wave length till mrs just laid it out there ,😳apparently not as they wished us goodnight and waved goodbye suddenly 🤪lmao mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    EXACTLY what we are trying to avoid! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • allonshow

    allonshow

    8 years ago

    Whilst there may or may not be any secret codes, she often wears her SLUT anklet chain that in the right bar environment/lighting etc works a treat. We purchased it online and the block letters are approx 7mm high but in the right light and if she is seated with her legs crossed "Sharon Stone Basic Instinct" style its proved very effective meeting guys :)

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    8 years ago

    Black rings on right hand are a thing. Just not middle finger. Just ask Google. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ReyandJean

    ReyandJean

    8 years ago

    Boobs We feel for you. How could anyone refuse the gorgeous Mrs Boobs? It's probably no consolation that they are probably still using the experience with you as foreplay, lol. Big boat suddenly too small? Ha ha ha. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    i know right !! HANG ON. i’m not chopped liver either ,😡lol and one poor guy hit on her, she says ask my husband as a get out of jail card ,without telling me ,so he wanders over and tells me how beautiful she is and says she says i have to ask you ,if we can fool around and i’m like yeah sure if you have a good dick and can get it up have fun ,i will hold her legs in the air if you want ( possibly i’d had a couple of drinks ), well the look on his drunk face was priceless ,he runs off looking for her and mrs b is over in a minute saying wtf you were ment to tell him to go away , let’s say that boat got a little smaller then ,lol.our trips away 😱lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    8 years ago

    You two are bloody hilarious...love watching you in pick up mode at parties. It is either a trainwreck or we dont see you for hours 😆🤣

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    8 years ago

    ya know it ,lol either way we always laugh have fun ,and enjoy life even if we end up confuseing ourselves ,lmao - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    even if you just wore a you know those rubber bands that you get from places and events those wide ones only when you go out to a club or a pub would be good even for singles so you know to at least say hi to kaz xxxx

  • newlife66

    newlife66

    8 years ago

    Thats a good idea, doesn't even have to have any writing on it, just a colour signifying the scene.............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I like the idea of a black ring on the right hand. Inconspicuous to most. Sticks out like the third nut on a dog to the trained eye. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile