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"THE list"

September 30 2019

An ex fb had an extremely detailed list of all her sexual partners with name, number, (didn't always have either of these), a bit about the person, what they did together and even a rating etc. She said it was not only out of interest but a sexual health thing. Is this something that have considered or have? If so why? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • curiousgirl35

    curiousgirl35

    6 years ago

    And what was your rating? 😊

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    I have a list. Very similar to your friend's list. So do quite a few of my friends from here and other sites. I just thought it was the norm.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Mine's also a handy guide for who NOT to do and who to do again lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Never even considered it, though in retrospect it could be interesting for nostalgia. To be honest I’ve always considered it a bit crass, sorry.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    FFF dies your list have a subset for coffee/lunch pals 😂😂😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don’t have a list, I know people that do though. I would have thought if your meet was memorable enough to know you would go there again. You won’t need to have it documented. Unless of course the numbers are getting up there. No judgment there either. Most people that play regularly would have a few people on their shortlist ? I’m sure we all have a couple GO TO numbers on our phones

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Foily..... you know you're at the top of a very special list 😍....... I still need more chopstick lessons though 🤦‍♀️

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    Yikes! No. Guess I've never built the numbers to ever need it. I might be wrong but seems to me if you think sex can be rated with a number you're not getting how great it can be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Mostly because I'm a on a medication that fucks with short term memory. Keeping a diary is reminder that helps lock things in to my medium and long term memory. And it's not just for the people I've met, I also record details of people to avoid or who have crossed establish boundaries. I don't use a rating system though I do record details and whether I'd be into seeing them again or not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Haha.. you were doing ok. We need to go back. That Ramen was so good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I guess I was surprised by the detail about each encounter where, when, A tick a box on what happend e.g hj, bj, fi, size girth overall etc. I rated pretty well but I did learn a thing I never knew I did. She must have been all about lists because I can remember discussing a "yes, no maybe list" with her

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Never thought of that idea...but I was new to the game so I know my numbers clearly then. But now it gets a bit blurry. And I don’t think I would bother with the list, great ones stay in my head & become regular. Not so great ones, I can’t even remember 😁

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    It is not in my nature to do something bizzare like that. Ms Foxy

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Foily.... we're definetely going back there 🍜🍜

  • boxestotick

    boxestotick

    6 years ago

    We have a list of who we’ve played with since venturing into this game. It’s not a massive list, not for bragging rights but to remember who’s who.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    I know who was good and who wasn't ? After all ' its not a Olympic event ? Drop your ratings and live with your memories ...

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    It is not good if these lists get shown around. Like a name and shame or bed post post brag type of thing. Wonder where the OP is on the list, now an EX. Do these lists change over time? 🤔 Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I don’t have a list, never really needed one in my view...I don’t meet a whole lot of people for much else other than a coffee or at a meet and greet, so my need to have a list like this is really zero...I just exchange phone numbers of those with whom I wish to keep in contact with and the rest are let go.... I don’t really understand why people would need one unless they’re planning on having a high turnover of partners, assuming medical conditions that affect ones memory are not present.... Mr Dragon

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    Seeking_desires What did you learn that you never did? Curious.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I do keep a list but it's not that detailed.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    So what’s your list entail justjess99? And how does one strive for such list?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Night, I was described as being loud while receving oral haha. I had no idea I was vocal. I don't think it was a list that was shown around much but I couldn't get over the detail.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    6 years ago

    That's quite funny. I think for me there are some things better not known 😁

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I heard from my friend that i was more spiritual enlightenment, far too profound to be classified and restrained in a 2 dimensional order such as "a list". I'm constantly being thanked by my previous partners for gifting myself for the benefit of others, as I tell you humbly of this higher state of consciousness thru this last bastion of Truth, Divinity and Grace... The RHP Forum. And if u believe that, you'll believe anyone that has recieved favourable reviews from reputable tho unsighted lists. Seriously... youse are keeping lists? Is the "To Do List" Flirt really a list?? Can you use it more than once? I'm not getting any...clearly it's not working.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    This is the first time I've ever herd of anyone making a list of sexual partners. It's interesting, I wonder if people who do this do it with everything? Budget, Fitness, Sleep, Food.... But then again, unless you're shown it, does it really matter? The big question... Would it change your mind in regards to meeting/sleeping with the person at the end of the day?! I dare say not!!