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Takes all sorts......
July 18 2015
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Seachange73
10 years ago
I;m with you. I do relate to what you are searching for and some of the experiences you are going thru. It definitely opened my eyes into another exciting world I would never have thought I would be part of over 18 months ago. I do still have a lot of learning to do and I go at my own pace but definitely open to ideas via reading posts in the forum, chatting to open minded friends I made here in RHP and enjoying actual meets with the gorgeous men here. We all have a right to be here, so for those who did say you don't belong here (saw that post btw), pfft!!! Unless we totally cross the boundaries of what RHP deem is unsuitable behaviour, we should enjoy and explore the full benefits and potential of the site.
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Hey gorgeous lady, great topic. We started this journey to explore a swinging lifestyle and what we discovered is some amazing people who I need and want in my life for a very long time. Through personal health circumstances, hubby was/is unable to play a lot of times so I ventured out on my own. Never one to be down, hubby said 'be my hotwife' and I'm absolutely loving the freedom this has given me. I am what just about every man is looking for here : NSA (I'm in a loving relationship, I just like lots of sex), hubby knows and loves my adventures, I can usually fuck at the drop of a hat (if we've established a connection) yet, I'm not having a good time on RHP and I'm seriously thinking of a very long hiatus from here. I need everyone to know I'm writing this on what I call 'a fuck free weekend' and not through lack of trying may I say. So not my usual chirpy and upbeat self today but at the moment I am disappointed with the difficulty I'm having finding a regular FWB. I'm hoping some very, very recent 'gems I've found' turn into this, but my experience so far has been frustrating. Yes I've met good men but very few who keep up with me sexually, who can kiss me to make 'my pussy growl' (quoting the term coined by my beautiful friend Kissk), who simply can communicate on some level after their dicks are dry! Harsh, yes! So before I'm crucified that ' attraction is blah blah .... And people have choices blah blah ....' I'm not everyone's cup of tea and I get that but I don't get how many guys here are just wasting time. I'd like to meet just a handful of the sexual deviants on here, the guys who can go for hours, the insatiable guys, etc. etc.! 😁 so for now, rant over! Felix the feeldoe is getting a work out tonight! Mwah, Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
What she said.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
because your comments destroy the unrealistic fantasy image that these people have in their heads that others exist just for their egotistical pleasure. They make for selfish lovers and belong in their own porno movie. At least some out themselves with their own comments and we can detour around them and continue a realistic journey of selfless and mutual pleasure for our playmates. You belong here Koko. Annie xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only the people who made the website and pay the hosting costs are able to say what it is this site for and how we are able to use it. Anyone else is just trying to be a manipulative jerk. There's been a few threads recently along the lines of how rude men can be and I think everyone should keep in mind that, although we are interacting through a computer, there are actual people on the other side of it. Manners and politeness cost nothing and spreading positivity benefits everyone. Men cop their fair share of rudeness too and mostly they don't want to talk about it lest they appear to be the dreaded desperate. I could tell some stories too. Peoples, don't abuse other people online, please. It's the height of cowardice, totally pointless and I am convinced its making things worse for all the good intended people on here. That said, the block button is there, complaining about it is pretty pointless too imo. Spread positivity and it will be reflected into your life. Personally, I do not plan on reviewing my membership in the near future as I am finding it much easier and more fun meeting women in real life. This is my opinion but it causes me wonder about the selection factors women are putting into effect with their RHP approach. So if you are having trouble meeting quality men on here perhaps can review your approach. If you are not, fair play and carry on.
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RHP User
10 years ago
In my opinion you aren't actually looking for NSA,what you are looking for is friendship,connection ..many people here are good at spin,their reality is not necessarily how they portray it...I think we all get a little jaded,meeting new people can be exhausting and disappointing ....You are an amazing woman Mary.and I suspect the glue for many people,I saw that in Melbourne much love xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I didn't see that comment but it always amazes me that people think like that .. I thought that there was only one criterion for being here,that you are an adult..we all have different interests and reasons for being on this site,that's what makes it diverse and interesting hugs xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
here here !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Thank you, your comment warmed my heart! You surmised it well, I am exhausted trying to make that connection 😔 l have missed you 😘 Mary xx
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I always appreciate your contributions. I have stringent screening processes! I'd like someone to tell me the fail way safe to weed out the liars, the cheats and time wasters etc. whether men or women. I have met many quality men and I would never disrespect them! I have also met my fair share of 'knobs' too! I'm frustrated by people (men and women) not being who they say they are or what they're looking for. I don't lie, I hate when others do. How do I protect myself against that? Most people who know me will tell you what you see is what you get! Mary xx
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
To tell you the truth, I had no idea what the hell I was doing or what I was looking for when I first joined, had never been on any kind of internet site before, I guessed I'm just lucky I picked the right one for me..... Now I'm here to meet like minded, interesting, fun, open minded people and have fun along the way, with the hope that I meet someone special to share it all with.....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can't force these things and to find someone who can make your pussy growl and to have an amazing connection on a personal as well as sexual level.... That just isn't easy to find. A good approach for me is to think I am just here to have some fun and meet great people... If someone extrodinary comes along that's just a bonus. Mind you I am a Hipocrite because I have up looking online years ago. Oops.. ^_^
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RHP User
10 years ago
By accident from another site through a friend. I'm on a journey of self discovery and rhp is just one step of that journey. I've been oh here a short time and have learned a lot , grown a lot and experienced some. My experiences have been varied , from the very nice to the very nasty , each carrying its own lesson. I've found most people on here open honest and non judgemental . I've seen things I've onmy ever read about and I've experienced things I never in my wildest dreams thought I would. I'm still on my journey and can not really pin down what I want , I am positive though when I do see it , it will be through clear , experienced and open eyes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The only way you can meet the good ones is to keep trying. Yes there will be knobs along the way, but just shrug them off and keep swimming! Good things come to those who are patient! I hear so many people saying they will "take a break" from RHP because they are jaded due to the behavior of people, but really, the only way they can bother you is if you let them. I just laugh and move on. Happiness is a choice people!
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madotara69
10 years ago
Seem to remember someone reaching out to Annie when she first came to the forums as a shy innocent sweet little dove. Reminds me of the Superman movie when he catches Louise Lane falling off the building You've got me but who has got you Read every word you write Kokoflamingo Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
We all have our place here whether it's (get ready for huge generalisations> (as a woman> to attract men, (as a man> to pay the bills... And that in a nutshell, IMO is the general premise behind 'sex' based businesses..Beyond that, we are all very different with our experiences of life. Sex has been a part of mine for pretty much as long as I can remember. .All that said, I have an idealistic vision of a site where we can adjust our preferences of our profile to suit our particular tastes. .That would be Peachy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you.....and likewise. Yours is truly a love story xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Full circle. Think back to what you were looking for when you first got on here.Yeah sex, but thats only the bandaide really.The lines get blurred along this journey.Sometimes we lay our hearts and emotions on our sleeve and we feel vulnerable, next minute we put the armour back on and shut out our emotional needs.We just focus on physical needs to be enough.The open and shut of our feelings is what wears us down, and makes a lot of us question what we actually are looking for.Because we keep moving that invisible line we wont step over. Is it really just a casual sexual journey we are on? Or is it finding who we are,defining ourselves? Different starting point, different journeys and different destinations for everyone, but there is a common thread that weaves through us all...hoping the perfect person comes along. Maybe our expectations on who is perfect for us is our lesson on what we should be in ourselves.Maybe Im just being too deep for a saturday night, but getting back to basics and stop trying to out run ourselves so we dont have to look from outside in,might be part of our experience. Rant over.
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madotara69
10 years ago
really call that a rant willowtree, poetry.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of course you are entitled to your differences. I am sorry if anything I said implied differently, I do know I come from a very different view point and that was part of what my post was supposed to explain. I can see it looks rather disjointed. Cheers, Peachy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't think you are being sensitive, it's a very fair point to make! As I said though, I just laugh and move on, getting angry or upset is not good for the soul!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its more frustration, but I know what you mean. I take inspiration from your positive outlook, my friend xxxx
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I know why I'm on RHP because of you gorgeous people and my very beautiful friends, who if I wasn't on this site, I wouldn't have ever met. You know who you are and I love you, lots!!!!!! 😍 I was frustrated yesterday and I let it affect my view (not normally me). I'll start by apologising to Koko, I didn't mean to derail your thread. I have met incredible people on here, and I'm excited about meeting you lovely lady. From day one on the forums, you have made me feel incredibly welcome! Uni, Freya and Meeka, all women I admire for so many different reasons. Mostly though for your compassion and understanding, which is delivered in so many ways but all so true to who you are and I love it. Stirry, just mwah 😘! Deepest purple, thank you, for taking the time! So my journey continues ....Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
No apology needed, or wanted, you simply said what was on your mind and hopefully managed to clear a couple of things up. It can be a bit frustrating at times on here, but the good stuff makes up for anything else. And like you, the best thing is the friendships that have been made on here. I think its amazing. Hope to see you in October. Enjoy the rest of your journey. Hugs xxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
How was the cheese and wine - He asked me too, though I declined and took the cock.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Seem to remember someone reaching out to Annie when she first came to the forums as a shy innocent sweet little dove. Speechless...................... Annie xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
...work in progress.....is what I've described my profile to a few people I've chatted to. Some of the above comments resonate with me. I'm still becoming used to being my own person after a long term relationship broke up and discovering who I really am again. Confusing?? Yep, for me as well as others. Bear with me folks as this site has me asking questions, and making comments, I never thought I would. I'm experiencing life on my own terms again.......potholes and all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Koko why have you contacted your Scottish friend lol!!x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Two nice guys using the same chat up line, all is not lost! Ill go for the cheese, wine and dancing first, though
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talldeck
10 years ago
I'd want to know what selection of cheese is on offer before I'd respond. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
They aren't little baby cheeses 😀xxKath
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beachgal20
10 years ago
Absolutely resounds with me!!!!! Let's send sister ship for moving forward.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a cheesy story for you...........
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