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"Taking one for the team"
February 06 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mrs waterbabes,speaking from a personal experience in this matter- but perhaps not the perspective you were after- i have been giving one to the team for the last 15 years. It fills me with a wonderful sense of fulfillment and yes actually, I am constantly pleasantly surprised (mostly that she is still there in the morning ) my wife doesn't seem any the worse for wear for it.(she is still gorgeous)so i guess all in all it cant be that bad. Hope this helps... R x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Taking one for the team is having sex with someone your not attracted to so that your partner can have sex with someone he/she is attracted to... not necessarily the same person you "have to" shag. In effect, you're sacrificing yourself so your partner can get some cheap jollies with someone else. Wouldn't you rather just shag your partner? I mean... doesn't it just lead to point scoring, which can ultimately tear a relationship apart? I suppose it works for some... but I don't think I will ever understand those couples where, for example, one partner plays with whoever they want while the other watches. I'd rather do that, than take one for the team. Sex is not a bartering tool so far as I'm concerned. J Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Horrible mistake, don't do it! I did it once and once only for my hubby....HUGE mistake...HUGE! And it's not fair on the person that you're not that keen on. They deserve some one who's really in lust with them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Agree with Chasing Chilli, Mrs Team has done that now a few times. Not for my benefit though, she has wanted to play with the other girl that she was willing to put up with the guy she wasn't really attracted to. Hasn't worked out well for her. I'm not fussed though, if she didn't like the guy and wasn't really into the girl and I was I'd be happy not to go there. Hence our profile name ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree 100% Lots of gorgeous well kept hot women in couples, and the guy is not so great , especially over 45 ! No way in hell I'd take one for the team , I got told I was rude recently at a party when I played with no one - i figure, tough shit, I ( and he) has to be into you to play, otherwise what's the point?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingChilli' I wonder how many bi women would take one for the team, ie for their own benefit, shagging an unattractive hubby so that she can do the stunning bi wife??? Ah yes, my thoughts exactly. I was wondering what I would do if we were approached by a couple with a drop dead gorgeous bi woman and an average guy......it would be mean to leave him out of the action and I couldn't take one for the team so I dont think I could go through with it. Interesting dilemma.
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RHP User
14 years ago
'take one for the team'? wont do it....theres no point, as that contradicts every reason we ever had to come here in the first place.... neither of us fantasises about having sex with anyone we find less than attractive...i mean...wtf?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Myself (male) has in the past, won't again. Yuck. I'm sure my lady has one or two she'd rather forget as well. I know there's been some disappointments in that department. So yes both have in the past, but no deal these days.
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RHP User
14 years ago
From a single mans point of view... I am genuinely attracted to older women, can't tell you why... Often when you meet a couple the lady will be drop dead gorgeous and well kept, however her partner has well and truly let himself go... I think men seem to focus on indulgence when they get older and it is all to easy to stop excercising... Women however there is almost an expectation placed on them by society to look after themselves.... Often males let go of themselves long before females as they focus on their work. Further to this once an active man stops working out.... His metabolic rate doesn't slow for up to 6 months after his sedentary life style has set in.... Hence the negative cycle begins! Women on the other hand, pay allot more attention to what they eat... End result gorgeous older women who is well kept, coupled with a overweight uglier man.... In closing never take one for the team... If you set that precedence it will become an expectation!
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RHP User
14 years ago
If you have to "take one for the team" then surely you aren't playing as a team are you?
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RHP User
14 years ago
we agreed right from the start...that we both have the power to 'veto' anyone the other suggested as a prospect...so far it works...if either of us is less than 100% happy....we dont move forward.....no good 'pretending' to be having a wonderful time..........is there?
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RHP User
14 years ago
The male has done that once or twice and after playing with the other wife for 5 minutes its back to our own partners...The lady here has also done one or two husbands she is not so keen on and the guys know and cant get hard or all over in a couple minutes.Its not fair on others as well as yourselves.We both have standards and both our standards must be met to play as a couple, just because this isa little harder to achieve we stay firm and only play as a couple with other couples. It really does not matter, when we meet a compatible couple its great otherwise....whats the hurry?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Once or twice I've macked on a hot girl in a club (adult club), started making out, then her random creepy man has appeared and apparently he has to join in too... cue a half-assed party pash from me, then a hasty retreat. Taking one for the team? I actually offered once to an ex because I didn't really care, but he didn't want me to bang anyone I wasn't totally attracted to.
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RHP User
14 years ago
"Sexual Favours". Some people just won't do them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know, Chilli, I have always admired your lateral thinking and there could just be something to this? | Quoting 'ChasingChilli' I wonder how many bi women would take one for the team, ie for their own benefit, shagging a guy so that she can do the other stunning bi-female?? | I know, that's not exactly what you said but I am a lateral think too...so I wonder if "a guy" who may just happen to know two gorgeous bi women of good character and certainly fine upstanding citizens on their own then arranged for everyone to meet? You can see this coming already...but I'll finish it anyway. | "So" ...he said with a wicked grin..."they really hit it off and in the course of the evening ended up both doing "the guy" just so they could get at each other, would "the guy" take one for the team?" | That thunderous noise you now hear is me laughing and saying "Hell yes I would...and be damn proud of it". | Oppps, excuse me...I meant to say "the guy" would most likely take two for the team. | Thinking both inside and outside of the box...sure, why not?
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