F54
"The Change"
November 06 2017
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bonefide
8 years ago
Woohoo fantastic young lady positive vibes mate
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RHP User
8 years ago
She’s 55 now, she’s now not having any periods after about 8 years of having them irregularly. We’ve not made out since about February where we made love twice in 24 hours, and that was first time since New Year. She says she feels “dead down there” I can kiss and caress her for an hour and a half, and nothing happens. I know the signs of her psyching herself up for it, and that puts me off, especially, when she then has to go for a wee, and the impetus is lost. We’re great mates, we work together and socialise together, so to all intents and purposes we are good, other than lovemaking. I think she should have begun “preparing for menopause” earlier, whatever that means, it’s probably nutrition and using supplements, and I think she left it’s bit long before seeking help. However, prevention is always like that, and we think we will recognise what is happening when it happens, however by then it’s too late! I hope some of this helps you! But how would a man know? I suppose I only know how it affects me! Why not discuss it more you may ask? Well, you just don’t want the arguments and being accused of picking on them. M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Get to your doctor for advice. Just because you go through menopause doesn't mean your sex life is over. You just need the right advice and supplements to correct hormone levels. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I started going through menopause at 38 and my periods stopped completely at 44. It’s th best thing that ever happened to me. My libido shot through the roof and I enjoy sex so much more. I also want sex a lot more, everyday if possible. I take no hormone replacement only a multi vitamin every day. My suggestion is go to your doctor and discuss things. Be guided by the advice the Dr gives you. All the best xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
wait until you get to my age and you still love sex but your equipment not really up to it and woman see you as a "dirty old man" who should be tossing balls around in a bowling club ughhhh.
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RHP User
8 years ago
https://jeanhailes.org.au - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Are you sure it’s the change affecting libido? Can be lots of things both emotional and physical? Mine fluctuates a lot. From beginning of year it was off the charts, to middle of year nothing, to now still not where I’d like it but getting better. Get yr hormones checked maybe and go from there? Be careful of HRT because of links to breast cancer. But hear you, wish sometimes there was a little magic pill. I guess at our age you may automatically go to thinking it’s the change, but libido often fluctuates for anyone at different times of your life. Also sometimes think it’s RHP affect. It’s like sugar. Sometimes you eat too much and then you need a break from it for a while. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Effects us men too.. It's hard when your head says one thing and your body another.. Trick is to think positive and keep doing what you've always done.. At your age I'd presume theres still plenty of sexual energy left .. So go out and burn some of it up. Jay..
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RHP User
8 years ago
everyone. Might go and get my levels checked to see where I'm at. Could be The RHP effect thanks Earthqueen. You can be on here to long I think and become desensitized because its all here at your fingertips. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
..how many men on this site have been through menopause... please tell us more about it :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
How very true.....I have, and am only going through it from the outside.....one of those shared journeys. Maybe we should start our own forum post on our experiences...... I'm hesitant as there may well be too many uninformed moans. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'curiousm50' How very true.....I have, and am only going through it from the outside.....one of those shared journeys. Maybe we should start our own forum post on our experiences...... I'm hesitant as there may well be too many uninformed moans. - Posted from rhpmobile Thats a great idea. Life not all about multiple, simultaneous, squirting orgasms and endless aptitiude for fucking (unfortunately ) Lets be real. Yeah, sometimes we don't feel like it, couldn't be stuffed sexting, meeting anyone, answering messages, don't cum, can't get it up, cum too quickly, have the sex drive of a snail ....etc etc etc . Lots of people won't talk about it though because I guess its a personal thing but also because its an expectation that you should be horny all the time and ready for action at a moments notice. 24/7
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RHP User
8 years ago
Eat lots of leafy, green vege's. No, wait, that's for men. Can't hurt, anyway..
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RHP User
8 years ago
I eat my fair share of leafy greens. Lots of energy to burn😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whilst not yet going through the change......I think!!! I'm actually more aware of me than ever. I went through years of not liking sex at all and through some wise decisions I'm more horny than ever. That said I have made a choice to be celibate until the right person comes along-I know wrong site!!!But having been through lack of interest and having many friends who have been through this I can assure you it passes. Some of my friends tried diet, for some it worked, for some it didn't. Some saw their GP and had medication some didn't need it. There is a diet that worked well for 3 friends, specifically designed for menopause. First port of call is your GP who will check hormone levels. These are correctable. From some of the forums on here it gets better with age, so class it as a bump in the road!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Play a massive part in your sex drive. I have highs and lows in my sex drive. Could also be over the empty sex and being used as a free sex chat line. The last statement is how i feel when my drive is low but hot as when it is high, if you know what i mean. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
and free sex chat line...think you've nailed it HGLucky. Think I need to take a break☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I started "the change" about two years ago. Fortunately my libido hasn't suffered during the process. However, there is definitely a mental issue at play here. If you can keep reminding yourself that it's the menopause making you think like that and that it's not "you", you can work around and through it. After some research, I have discovered that there is very little that helps with the menopause symptoms. HRT is only for those with serious severe symptoms, and the only natural "remedy" has serious side effects. Alternatively, your doctor can offer you mild anti-depressants (and I said a definite no thanks to that). I have found the best cure for the hormonal blues is positive thinking about missing out on the dreaded periods each month and seizing the benefits of freedom to play without worrying about the consequences.
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On_Safari
8 years ago
They may not go through it BUT they do have to wear their women while they’re going through it. Personally menopause scares the bejesus out of me!! 😳 and I’m suddenly wishing I’d had both my ovaries removed with my uterus at 35 because it’d be plain sailing for me by now....damn hindsight!!! 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
I got the news I had been dreading today after blood tests. I am definately post menopausal which means no more estrogen for me. I am having awful hot flushes, sweating, nausea, I'm teary for no reason. I even got a hot flush the other day right in the middle of a play with my womaniser, certainly took away from my orgasm. The only symptom I don't seem to be suffering from is loss of libido...well for now anyway. So op maybe need to look further if it is worrying you. Not saying it is not the start of menopause but it is not always a symptom of menopause either. All the best with finding 'you' again.
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a man I was hesitant about replying to this thread. I may well share some observations when time permits.
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bonefide
8 years ago
Positive vibes mate slowly slowly young lady work at it on your own terms, and don't forget friends can always help all u gotta do is ask.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Whether it's to do with Menopause or any other health issues and getting the best help to support ourselves and our wellbeing cannot be underestimated. Here in Melbourne there is the is Jean Hailes -For Womens Health-Jean HailesThere of course is the website with great support and information for Womens Health. A bit of info. About Us Who we areLast updated 01 December 2016Jean Hailes for Women's Health is a national not-for-profit organisation dedicated to improving the knowledge of women's health throughout the various stages of their lives, and to provide a trusted world-class health service for women.We combine research, clinical care and practical education for women and health professionals. Our key point of difference is the translation and dissemination of research and medical evidence into easy to understand health information delivered in multiple ways to suit our audiences.Our aim is to inspire confidence to create a healthier future for all women.Founded in 1992 in honour of an extraordinary medical practitioner, Dr Jean Hailes, Jean Hailes for Women's Health reflects the enduring legacy that she made to women's health. Jean had a far-sighted vision to improve the quality of women's lives and give them practical information based on the best available evidence. She is credited with being the pioneer of menopause management in Australia.I hope that is helpful info.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I remember watching an episode of the Oprah Winfrey show and there were suggestions/ideas for putting together a Menopause kit for when you are out and about. I think it might be nice to put together a little self care kit regardless. Some ideas A hand held fan. A small water filled spray bottle. A tissue with some drops of your favourite essential oil. Maybe some of you might like to share some ideas for the women that may read this thread. Something that again might be helpful for when you get night sweats or just when you are someone who gets very hot whilst sleeping is a cooling mat you put on the bed to lay on.I didn't know they even exited until one day I saw one at my local chemist.
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RHP User
8 years ago
meant....... existed
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RHP User
8 years ago
I luckily am the same as Jennifer102. My libido is through the roof atm. Maybe its my body going for broke before it all starts to wane. Partial hysterectomy at 38 now 46 and definitely starting to feel the signs of what of is to come. Check with your doctor always, there are heaps of things out there that can help. Maybe a break off here will help as our sate of mind can be a factor too. Good luck I hope you get your groove back
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RHP User
8 years ago
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