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The G Spot

June 18 2010

Hiya all....Me knows u might think this is a dumb question but who has found their g spot, where is the g spot, what does the g spot feel like, Is the g spot big or little, is it a vein or piece of skin, what shuld one be feeling 4 coz obviously u cant look 4 it unless 1 can stick their head up their own fanny, can u reach it on ur own with a finger or toy? Who has squirted? Who has gushed? Is the gushing true in porno films or is it the women have just drunk lots of water & just pissed it out? What does female ejacul8 smell like or what color is it? How much ejacul8 comes out? How deep inside the fanny do u have 2 go 2 find it? So many questions about the gspot. A little help

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Waiting with lube in hand for all the gorey details. Don't leave a thing out ladies. :p hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hiya thanx 4 ur reply. Wat do u mean by top wall?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ok .. the gland that squirts (or is activated by pressure) et al.. is called Skenes' gland and it feels sort-of spongy/ bumpy ... like ummmm ... like when you get goose bumps when chilly .. in describing the top wall of a vagina .. if you were to lie on your back .. .. the top wall is where your pubic bone sits, back wall closest to your head , bottom wall closest to your backside ... think of it as a box .. no pun intended .. as to smell and amount it can vary heaps ..lots like Cytheria ?? not sure of the spelling but she holds a world record of about 5 metres !? how to squirt is different for all i'm sure .. practice .. lol from what ive been told and experienced if it feels like you want to pee yourself .. you may squirt if relaxed (so to speak) most often achieved after normal orgasm and you feeling overstimulated .. this is all my own experience and yours and others will vary .. keep trying its fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz @ SweetiePie... Oh! You must mean the sweet smell of love and sex crumbs.... hehe. HUgs Stalky

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    16 years ago

    Have experienced a few gushers now (Hello Mrs Sweetie hehe), as pointed out..liquid is clear & I would describe kinda oily or silky to touch (if that makes sense?) , definitely not urine as some skeptics say. Have never seen projectile squirts as shown in pornos and personally I'm myself skeptical of those...either girls relieving themselves or some gizmo full of liquid has been inserted and then squeezed ... same as these videos of massive cum squirts by guys..(close inspection can sometimes show these come from the underside of cocks..obviously a tube). As for girlie juice scent...some yes ..some no scent, but never bad...and from experience no real taste to speak of.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Ahhh the elusive g-spot, lol... Now I explain the following from my experience only... so please remember that. They do tend to be in various spots, but I have found that most have them just inside on the front wall about up to the 2nd knuckle of my middle finger in depth. When a woman is highly aroused the g-spot tends to swell, for most the g-spot could be describes as a rough piece of flesh with smooth surroundings of flesh on either side and I would say about 25 to 30mm in length from front to back. Now for the squirting... first time squirters can be taken back by the feeling that they are about to pee themselves, there is a good reason for this... the paraurethral gland (which is similar to the male prostate) starts to swell and fill with liquid when the woman is highly aroused, this is where the ejaculate comes from, and yes it used the same tube as your urine, if a woman is unable to actually ejaculate it backs up to the bladder and becomes a waste product. The sensation of wanting to go to the toilet will generally happen about 10 seconds before she is about to ejaculate (squirt), but it is definately not urine... it is clear and generally has a sweet honey like taste to it. Most women after "squirting" for the first time can usually repeat it within 30 seconds after... but it can be a physically draining experience. There can be anywhere from 1ml to 60ml of fluid and the propultion rate varies... It's been described as the ultimate of orgasms as the whole body goes into uncontrolable orgasm not just the local area :-) But I'm sure that those women out there who do "squirt" should be able to shed more light on the matter for you... as I am just a mere male, lol!! Hope that makes sense and helps :-) Tiger x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I try and play with my g spot quite a bit, but have never been able to make myself cum, have pressed down on my stomach and used two fingers, but wont happen :( any tips?? I can always cum playing with my own clit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'TamedTiger' Now for the squirting... first time squirters can be taken back by the feeling that they are about to pee themselves, there is a good reason for this... the paraurethral gland (which is similar to the male prostate) starts to swell and fill with liquid when the woman is highly aroused, this is where the ejaculate comes from, and yes it used the same tube as your urine, if a woman is unable to actually ejaculate it backs up to the bladder and becomes a waste product. The sensation of wanting to go to the toilet will generally happen about 10 seconds before she is about to ejaculate (squirt), but it is definately not urine... it is clear and generally has a sweet honey like taste to it. Most women after "squirting" for the first time can usually repeat it within 30 seconds after... but it can be a physically draining experience. There can be anywhere from 1ml to 60ml of fluid and the propultion rate varies... It's been described as the ultimate of orgasms as the whole body goes into uncontrolable orgasm not just the local area :-) But I'm sure that those women out there who do "squirt" should be able to shed more light on the matter for you... as I am just a mere male, lol!! Hope that makes sense and helps :-) Tiger x Hell yes to all of the above. I was always a gush kind of girl but not til recently have I found myself being able to do what some have described as projectile squirting. Trust me it does happen. One particular position works best for me, and not everyone can make me do this. I need to be seriously aroused and very relaxed and comfortable with the person involved. It can be a bit perturbing the feeling of wanting to urinate but knowing what this is and what is happening has made me more comfortable with the situation and I would have to agree an orgasm of this kind is definately more physically draining - well for me anyway Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Probably don't need an answer from a guy, lol... but, you will need to keep constant pressure on your g-spot, probably best to place the heel of your hand over your clit and drive your fingers in a up-down motion, this way you will be rubbing your clit as well as putting maximum pressure on your g-spot... but you will need to relax, try not to think about it and it'll happen :-) Takes practice, I've experienced and been told! Build yourself up before trying it, stimulate yourself with toys/partner first, get yourself close to breaking point several times, then your g-spot should be swollen and ready to be attacked, lol. HTH Tiger x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    As an intersexed woman, human biological sexual development is my thing!You know when a guy strikes just that perfect angle, and has you feeling like he's brushing past the back of your clit, from the inside? Grrr. There is debate and conjencture on the existance of the Gspot, and the ability for women to ejaculate ... but here's my beliefs based on biological development.Your Gspot is basically a small, slightly DIFFERENT feeling area inside you basically underneath your clit. Between your clit and your GS, there's a thing called a Urethal Sponge. Now, as we ALL (Male and Female) develop from basically the same genetic material, and ALL fetuses begin development in an identical fashion, the Urethal sponge in both genders affords us the ability to ejaculate.The thing about GSpot play, for women, is you must be relaxed and comfortable!Stimulation here makes you feel like you're going to pee ... and a common misnoma is that's because you're pushing up towards your bladder ... no no.Because a large percentage of women have not experienced the 'about to ejaculate' sensation, it's mistaken for needing to pee. The being confortable part is somehow letting go of the anxiety surrounding that potentially embarassing thought, and letting yourself relax through it.I suppose my thoughts on this topic have now turned to ejaculation, haven't they? Anyway, the Gspot is simply a collection of nerve endings linking our clitoris, urethal sponge and internal parts.Now, the interesting part of this debate is these components develop in the nerve collection of nerve endings on the underside of a guy's penis (just under the head), his urethal sponge that creates and distributes ejaculate, to carry sperm, and his prostate. This is why, if boys can get past their homophic notions of anal play and allow themselves to be comfortable with prostate massage, they will and do experience the most mind blowing orgasm of their little repressed lives. (sorry guys, I am a gay girl you know). This, for a man, is the closest thing he will experience to a female orgasm. And let me tell you from experience, the orgasm that boys experience when ejaculating normally is NOTHING like our orgasms ... Yay, one for the team!!!!As for how to go about stimulating and playing with your Gspot ... well, it's different for everybody, as is playing with a clitoris, so, practice, practice, practice! Then, add the hormonal influences of the different parts of your cycle, and my oh my you have once again struck a sexual development situation that an instruction manual cannot be written for.Honey, just play. Be relaxed. If you feel like you're going to pee, do it in the bathtub where you can let go of that feeling of a potentially embarassing situation. Then, when you're confortable, and experience the most mind blowing orgasm of your life, find someone like me who loves nothing more than having girls come in her mouth.Was I getting ready for work? I just totally lost my concentration ;)Thanks girls, and I humbly apologise for my opinionated natureMs LoveMe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Many women have difficulty finding their g-spot, because its size, dimension, and location vary from woman to woman. The majority of women will have the G-spot located between 11 and 1 o'clock a few inches inside the vagina. It's located along the inner wall of the vagina, about 2-3" in, towards the stomach. (The term 'spot' is misleading as it is an area, not some 'button'). Try some manual exploration, but do not search from cold. It's best to warm things up and search after at least one hard O. If your on your own, lie on your back on the floor with your knees bent and rest your feet on the bed in front of you. Insert your middle finger into your vagina and gently stroke the front wall behind the pubic bone, about two inches up. You should feel a patch of skin that has a different texture from the rest of your vaginal walls, slightly rough or "ruffled." Using a "comehither" motion, press into the center of this ruffled patch until you feel an area that is sensitive to pressure. That's your G-Spot, also known as your urethral sponge. On the other side of your vaginal wall are the sensitive Skene's glands, which is why you'll probably respond more to pressure than light stroking. The area is about the size of a pea, but can enlarge to the size of a walnut when stimulated. You should also know that many women feel like they need to urinate when this area is stimulated. This is due to the fact that, as it enlarges, it presses on the same nerves that signal a full bladder. Most women find, however, that as stimulation is continued, this feeling goes away and is replaced with pleasurable sensations. Word of advice. Ladies, go have a pee before you try it. That way you won't have to worry that your going to pee the bed because you know that your bladder is empty. The sensation is different but very subtle. It's a matter of experimentation. Don't worry, you'll know when you hit it. But remember, many women don't have much of a reaction to it. Some go crazy, and for some its uncomfortable no matter how you hit it. For the partner, to find her G spot, have her lie down, knees bent and feet flat on the floor or bed, with a pillow under her bum for comfort. Insert your fingers into her vagina towards her navel. This will be between 1.5 - 3" inches inside the vagina to find the exact spot. Press with the fingers against the front wall of the vagina. As it's surrounded by tissue and deep in the vaginal wall, you will need to apply a little pressure. When you finally hit the right spot, it will swell the same way a penis does. Slide your fingers from side to side. Have your partner tell you when you hit the right place and you she will know, as you will see the reaction when you hit it! Have a couple of thick towels close to hand as she may give off fluid or ejaculate. Some women find G-spot stimulation ideal for multiple Os and believe me, it can be two or three in a row! WORD OF WARNING: I'm being serious here. This can be VERY dehydrating. It IS possible to have 2 or 3 (or more) g-spot orgasms in one session and it IS possible to pass out from this dehydration! Make sure you have something cool to drink near by and have a rest. There's no hurry. Oh, in case your worried, the fluid is exactly the same as the guys but, obviously, has no sperm. G Spot Technique When you have found it move your fingers in even circles all around the inside of the vagina walls. It generally feels best for her if you keep consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the vaginal walls and use a steady rotational rhythm. Stop rotating your fingers and rest your fingertips on the ridged area of the G Spot. Then move the fingers in and out and do rotational movements to keep hitting the spot. Finding a rhythm is what you are looking for here; keep moving the fingers in and out and around constantly hitting the G Spot. You can give your partner even more pleasure by licking her clitoris and stimulating her G-Spot at the same time, to give her an amazing climax. Stimulating the G Spot to the level where it will ejaculate requires three components: 1.Time: Needs to be taken to work your partner up 2.Gentle attention: Listen to your partner and find out what gives her pleasure. 3.Tapping: Keep constantly tapping the G-spot while you are moving your fingers. Penis stimulation to hit the G Spot Penises curve and the ones that curve upwards are most likely to hit the G territory. However if your penis curves to the left or the right, all is not lost,There are options! If your penis curves to the left, right or to the south, you can position yourself in such a way that your penis hits the spot i.e you need to be in a position where your penis points north. For example, if your penis curves to the side. You lie horizontally, she lies vertically and you gain the same impact and will be able to hit her G Spot. If your penis curves downwards, place her on top of you but facing the other way (Doggie for a more accurate term) then move to hit the G spot. Other methods of stimulation There are a number of adult toys such as vibrators etc that are designed to hit and stimulate the G Spot and the huge variety out there means there is one for every women. There is a lot of mystique related to the spot but to find the G spot and give your partner pleasure is really all about communication. And one final surprise. I'm the He half of our relationship. :-)