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The Honest Approach

June 26 2011

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As People can tell by my username. I'm a virgin looking to get laid. I guess i want to know did i do the right thing by being upfront about it. There are many perfectly justifiable reasons as to why I haven't had sex yet. I feel like there is a social belief that guys should be experienced by their early twenties, or at least had sex once, and that anyone who hasn't, missed the boat so to speak. Now or should i just have left it out of my profile and not made a big deal out of it. or Could this help me find a willing partner. Are there any women that get turned on by this sort of thing.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i'd love to pop a virgins cherry! and teach him the wicked ways of the world..... hehehe xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    My guess is that you advertise partly because you're nervous about being inexperienced, so want to have an out in case you're no good in the sack. I wouldn't go that way myself - I'd be more inclined to get a couple of runs on the board (even if you pay for it) and then recast yourself as a hot young stud, as most guys your age on RHP probably do.I may be wrong, but it seems that there are plenty of women here who would suggest that the answer to the question "What's better than two 21 year old virgins?" would be "A 42 year old with experience". Men on the other hand might suggest that the only thing better than two 21 year old virgins would be two 21 year old virgin twins... or is it just me...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hmmmm I have to admit that there is definately appeal in being with a young virgin for me. I have this fantasy that I could "assist" in the learning department and therefore allow more pleasure for the other women after me. This all being said though, my shyness and potential nervousness at being in the situation may flaw the fanstasy for me. I think it is the willingness to learn and openness which might be encountered if I was with a virgin. And sometimes it just makes me feel like a dirty, old woman!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'd go for the twins Snowshoe. No worries.I dont know why... but when I think of male virgins.. I think of jizz.... precum... drizzling... drippping.... cocks twitching... that coy look of anticipation... the blushed face.... maybe a bit of a red neck flare... tightening ballsack...... extraordinary sensitivity.... Phew... it's hot in here I think.Hugsstalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i LOVE taking a boys virginity! Have done a grand total of.. er.. (has to stop and count) 8.. maybe 9 .. love love love it.. the look on their face when they get that first feel of a hot wet pussy tight around their cock.. the sound they make.. the "OMFG this is too good to be true".. Im gentle, usually the first time.. they cant stop them selves.. they go for it.. the second and third time around is much better, slower, sensual.. they take the time to appreciate it rather than losing them selves in the warm liquidness of their no longer virginity! sooo.. VB21 - Croydon Vic ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry.. i mean only a couple.. Im a good girl.. honestly!! XxX J

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'unexpectedme' Hmmmm I have to admit that there is definately appeal in being with a young virgin for me. I have this fantasy that I could "assist" in the learning department and therefore allow more pleasure for the other women after me. This all being said though, my shyness and potential nervousness at being in the situation may flaw the fanstasy for me. I think it is the willingness to learn and openness which might be encountered if I was with a virgin. so this is clearly a female fantasy, but will i come to regret this later, after the deed is done and every girl here will know how inexperienced i am? Also unexpectedme. the longer you wait the harder it will get for you not to feel creepy. because either you will have to find an older virgin or have to be ok with an ever increasing age gap.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I suspect even if you hadn't been honest that the lucky lady may have figured it out herself. ;) My advice is to practice putting on condoms quite a few times before the big event. If it makes you feel a bit better, I was almost 22.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sell it on ebay....it has been done before!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    lmfao.... there's a simple cure for inexperience which is so trite it needs no discussion. As for every woman knowing.... so what. There's plenty of nurturers out there that would jump at the chance to give you lessons on what she likes. In truth, it's all a life long experiment. No doubt there are women who respond well to similar stimulation but every root, even with the same person, is a new dawn... finding that one thing that gets her off right now is the challenge. Yesterday's trick just doesn't cut the mustard most of the time.. therefore .... have no game plan and just go with the flow of passion.Secret Men's business: Women are fucking fickle. All a guy can really do is work his thing to suit himself and maybe that's just what she needs... so just do what gets you off dude and say "next" if she don't like it.... it's up to her to get what she needs from you just as much as it is the other way around.HugsStalky Quoting 'virginboy21' so this is clearly a female fantasy, but will i come to regret this later, after the deed is done and every girl here will know how inexperienced i am? Also unexpectedme. the longer you wait the harder it will get for you not to feel creepy. because either you will have to find an older virgin or have to be ok with an ever increasing age gap.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting '2naughtygirlz' i LOVE taking a boys virginity! Have done a grand total of.. er.. (has to stop and count) 8.. maybe 9 .. love love love it.. the look on their face when they get that first feel of a hot wet pussy tight around their cock.. the sound they make.. the "OMFG this is too good to be true".. Im gentle, usually the first time.. they cant stop them selves.. they go for it.. the second and third time around is much better, slower, sensual.. they take the time to appreciate it rather than losing them selves in the warm liquidness of their no longer virginity! sooo.. VB21 - Croydon Vic ? 2naughtygirlz,I am hoping to get my cherry popped and luckily I am located in Melbourne too. Friendly, intelligent guy but never got around to it.How about you shoot me an email - mine is bossabcs gmail.com

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ......nice one VB21. To be honest I should have been smarter & tried this angle myself ages ago!! So your trying to get us to believe that you've held onto your virginity in this day and age for so long, and now you've just joined a website for a random hook-up for your first time???.............No offence VB21 but your profile & interests dont really mirror that of an in-experienced virgin??....Sorry, but i dont buy it personally. But props to you man, its certainly a smart way to get a womans attention & possibly some action out of it. Gotta respect you for that. To "2naughtygirlz".......if you ever head up to Sydney, let me know as you sound like your right up my alley (no pun intended) TW

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    lolz... No he's a virgin! Just look at those virgin eyes and those puppy dog forehead wrinkles... he hasn't even grown into his shckin yet... So cute! Who wouldn't fuck that!!HugsStalky Quoting 'trouserwowser' ......nice one VB21. To be honest I should have been smarter & tried this angle myself ages ago!! So your trying to get us to believe that you've held onto your virginity in this day and age for so long, and now you've just joined a website for a random hook-up for your first time???.............No offence VB21 but your profile & interests dont really mirror that of an in-experienced virgin??....Sorry, but i dont buy it personally. But props to you man, its certainly a smart way to get a womans attention & possibly some action out of it. Gotta respect you for that. To "2naughtygirlz".......if you ever head up to Sydney, let me know as you sound like your right up my alley (no pun intended) TW

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'supabs' Quoting '2naughtygirlz' i LOVE taking a boys virginity! Have done a grand total of.. er.. (has to stop and count) 8.. maybe 9 .. love love love it.. the look on their face when they get that first feel of a hot wet pussy tight around their cock.. the sound they make.. the "OMFG this is too good to be true".. Im gentle, usually the first time.. they cant stop them selves.. they go for it.. the second and third time around is much better, slower, sensual.. they take the time to appreciate it rather than losing them selves in the warm liquidness of their no longer virginity! sooo.. VB21 - Croydon Vic ? 2naughtygirlz, I am hoping to get my cherry popped and luckily I am located in Melbourne too. Friendly, intelligent guy but never got around to it. How about you shoot me an email - mine is bossabcs gmail.com Cant do email sorry hon, not until i get a more private account set up.. Feel free to send me a msg on here ;) In the mean time - pop up some pics, get stuck into the forum.. and i bet you will lose your cherry faster than it takes to tie the stems together with your tongue ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting '2naughtygirlz' Quoting 'supabs' Quoting '2naughtygirlz' i LOVE taking a boys virginity! Have done a grand total of.. er.. (has to stop and count) 8.. maybe 9 .. love love love it.. the look on their face when they get that first feel of a hot wet pussy tight around their cock.. the sound they make.. the "OMFG this is too good to be true".. Im gentle, usually the first time.. they cant stop them selves.. they go for it.. the second and third time around is much better, slower, sensual.. they take the time to appreciate it rather than losing them selves in the warm liquidness of their no longer virginity! sooo.. VB21 - Croydon Vic ? 2naughtygirlz, I am hoping to get my cherry popped and luckily I am located in Melbourne too. Friendly, intelligent guy but never got around to it. How about you shoot me an email - mine is bossabcs gmail.com Cant do email sorry hon, not until i get a more private account set up.. Feel free to send me a msg on here ;) In the mean time - pop up some pics, get stuck into the forum.. and i bet you will lose your cherry faster than it takes to tie the stems together with your tongue ;) I just signed up for an account RHP today all because I saw your post. I haven't got around to filling in my profile or paying for my account, so I can't send you a message yet. That's why I left my email.Can I just ask if you are married or single because in your profile it says 'one married MILF and one single sexy vixen'? The reason I ask is that I won't do it with someone who is married (no offense intended).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hell no, supabs, there is no way you get to lose your virginity with an FF couple. Uh-uh. That's not fair. I forbit it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Oh it's perfect. No really... I can see it now. What a way to go. :pHugsSt Quoting 'slippery_halo' Hell no, supabs, there is no way you get to lose your virginity with an FF couple. Uh-uh. That's not fair. I forbit it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Oh it's perfect. No really... I can see it now. What a way to go. :pHugsSt Yeah Stalky, it's one hell of a story for the grandkids. "Did I ever tell you..." YES, grandpa... Still doesn't make it fair. *pouting*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Slippery, I don't think it would be very satisfying for the ladies. I remember in the long distant past playing with virgin boys (ok I was a virgin too) but you just have to slightly touch their willies and it's all over red rover, and it is still usually in their pants. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Slippery, I don't think it would be very satisfying for the ladies. I remember in the long distant past playing with virgin boys (ok I was a virgin too) but you just have to slightly touch their willies and it's all over red rover, and it is still usually in their pants. xxMeeka Oh give the poor man some credit, he's probably got performance anxiety enough. Some women love corrupting innocent men. Even if they come quickly at least they're also corrupted quickly, right! And for anyone who cares, I did quite okay on my first time, thank you very much! I made the woman go on top, I last longer that way, and I had the densitising power of ALCOHOL at my disposal. (Besides, if they're an FF couple, they can amuse themselves while virginboy is lost in the afterglow with his eyes rolling in the back of his head...)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    To be honest i'm not worried about whether i will be good or not. I figure its mostly about expectations. If i do it with an experianced woman. she will have had better, but if she's expecting nothing, anything more is a bonus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Honesty is always the best policy.Sarah x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    No way is hew going to be snoozing Slippers. He'll be there manning up... lending a hand spreading her butt cheeks, a finger, fis, tongue.... whatever.. until he's ready to pop again if I was anything to do with this little exercise. there are no easy rides in this town even if you do pop your gun early.... These lessons should be taught i high school P.E> classes... I mean.. what's the world coming to when a guy can blow his load and have a little bex and a lie down!! that is soooo 1950's! It's out! His training starts today with this written lesson on lurve! :pHugsStalky Quoting 'slippery_halo' Quoting 'Meeka100'Slippery, I don't think it would be very satisfying for the ladies. I remember in the long distant past playing with virgin boys (ok I was a virgin too) but you just have to slightly touch their willies and it's all over red rover, and it is still usually in their pants. xxMeeka Oh give the poor man some credit, he's probably got performance anxiety enough. Some women love corrupting innocent men. Even if they come quickly at least they're also corrupted quickly, right! And for anyone who cares, I did quite okay on my first time, thank you very much! I made the woman go on top, I last longer that way, and I had the densitising power of ALCOHOL at my disposal. (Besides, if they're an FF couple, they can amuse themselves while virginboy is lost in the afterglow with his eyes rolling in the back of his head...)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Oh Honey, the lack of experience would be hard to miss - so definitley better to let people know. Personally though, I have never been with a virgin... Not that I haven't had the opportunity... but the whole virgin thing is kind of scary - and bound to be completely unsatisfying for the more experienced person. I always said, if I was still a virgin by the time I was 18, I would PAY someone to fuck me - just to get it over and done with... Thankfully it never came to that! LOL Good luck though... (MRS)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Honesty is definately the best measure.. Ive played and corrupted many a virgin.. i know what to expect, any woman would who was sensible.. i still enjoy it.. besides, surely everyone remembers their FIRST time ?? How awesome i have a whole heap of men who will remember me for their first time.. *grins wickedly* Slippery.. you should ask the boy down the road.. myself and another lady (not my naughty partner now) .. he was a 19 year old virgin.. mwahahah ! Although i did get in a couple of days before we had a 3-some :P but his first experience was 2 very frustrated and horny housewives haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Between someone who has had sex once, and someone who has never done it before. especially if they did it with someone equally inexperienced?Also hopefully i don't to sound crude or selfish but if the more experienced partner notices that its not great after being led on. Why does that matter. the virgin would have still had sex, and if the partner is experienced they will probably have been disappointed before by someone who misrepresented their prowess. but i think that's a whole other topicI understand its different for girls, as I've heard their first time can be extremely painful. but why would it matter to a guy.Also how many times is enough to be considered experienced?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I dont find it a turn on at all. Nothing against it of course, just not something on my list so to speak. I wouldn't set your expectations too high on yourself the first time, lol maybe concentrate on the 2nd 3rd and 4th times that first one could end up being a quick draw McGraw, or a non event in a completely different way . . As for how many times to be considered experienced? I dont think you can count it in those terms. Someone can go years without learning a damn thing along the way, and then you can find a young partner who has obviously been keen to learn everything possible to make his and her experience one of total pleasure. Listen to your body , listen to hers, thats the best way to get you on the right track good luck and may the condom be with you grasshopper Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    There is a Sydney Cougar cruise on the 9th of July that you could go too, it's listed in the events section. Bet you would be the bell of the cruise. : )xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Now you can take this for what it's worth...yeah yeah, another page in "Ripley's Believe It or Not." I have on this site forever trying to flog my viginity and guess what...I am still a virgin too. | Quoting '2naughtygirlz' I LOVE taking a boys virginity! Love love love it.. the look on their face when they get that first feel of a hot wet pussy tight around their cock.. the sound they make..| So if this happens to fly under the radar...I will do my best to put up a fuss and carry on like hot hog in cool mud. Wiggle and snort and show my eternal apprecation by helping you notch your gunbelt. There's not much of mine left other than some thread and a buckle...the leather beetles ate it. That's what happened to it...seriously, which explains why my pants keep falling down. | So, by definition what is a "virgin"...does that mean you have never done it with all of the hot chicks working as first class flight attendants whilst skydiving naked from a burning 747 on the way to Hungary? Okay...I qualify then and willing to try anything at least once. | ...call me?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Just sayin'... | Quoting 'D_G_T' Someone can go years without learning a damn thing along the way, and then you can find a young partner who has obviously been keen to learn everything possible to make his and her experience one of total pleasure. | ....uh-huh.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Is there a way I can reach you? I haven't got membership here yet as everyone else seems much older than me so I am still sussing the place out.You can send me an email to my address I posted above or message me here. Waiting to be corrupted... ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I like your comment!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'supabs'Is there a way I can reach you? I haven't got membership here yet as everyone else seems much older than me so I am still sussing the place out. You can send me an email to my address I posted above or message me here. Waiting to be corrupted... ;)I'm a year younger than you. I have membership and therefore I've already been "in contact" with said ladies. Pull out the debit card, man. There are so many single guys on the site that if you wait for women to contact you... you'll be waiting a while. Especially since you can only lose your virginity once. What will be your angle in the forum topics after that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Have you had many lays over the last year with women around our age?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'supabs'Have you had many lays over the last year with women around our age? Nope. Can send 'em messages in the vain hope though!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Maybe you two should band together and see how you go? Round up some girls around your age and in Slippery's case, corrupt the fuck outa them

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Bwahaha, DGT, you never fail to make me crack up. Even as I feel my cheeks blushing...