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"The Number"
August 05 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
ohhhh hun...never ever tell them its just plain rude if they ask....but if they tell me they have had 100, im outta there, way too many he doesnt need me too just do not answer that question, it has nothing at all to do with them as for where do i stand on your scale...il let you all guess that one...cause i aint tellin roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Because I'm selective my score would rate fairly average to what it could have been. I have friends who have a far higher strike rate because they dont mind to hit on anything that moves. Im not into getting a girl drunk and then counting that as a victory. nor do I sleep with a girl' just because she has a vagina.. I need a attraction and something to stimulate me mentally besides physically.. So I would have to say 'middle range'.. Mr JJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' I once had a guy who i was really keen on meeting up with insist that i tell him my "number". He was really obsessed with it and in the end i decided not to meet him. Never give a Leo and ultimatum....."tell me the number first and then we meet"...........nup, we just don't meet. Pity, i was really interested in him. If you need to know my number for a casual encounter i'm a little concerned. Mrs S xx only number I need for a casual meet is phone number :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Total_Recall' Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' I once had a guy who i was really keen on meeting up with insist that i tell him my "number". He was really obsessed with it and in the end i decided not to meet him. Never give a Leo and ultimatum....."tell me the number first and then we meet"...........nup, we just don't meet. Pity, i was really interested in him. If you need to know my number for a casual encounter i'm a little concerned. Mrs S xx only number I need for a casual meet is phone number :P well mine is 0447000000...as if hehehe roxxy
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Hmmm..it's interesting, cos some of you seemed to be turned off by a high number but how do you keep that number low if you are in this scene for years? A bit of a catch 22 there! It shouldn't matter how many so long as everyone is playing safe. 100, 200 or a 1000 safe play dates is better than just 1 unsafe play date!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't think it is anyones business who or how many people you have slept with...same as it's none of their business when your last time was! I was with a guy a couple of years ago (not from sites) and he decided to tell me after we had sex about how many girls he was with...had I known this before, I would not have slept with him...but in saying that I will admit even if he hadn't told me I would never have had sex with him again anyway...OMG he was shit...watched too much porn I reckon! When he told me about ALL the girls he gets...I remember I cocked my head to one side and said "Do any of them ever come back"? Straight over his head...I pissed myself laughing and had the great pleasure of telling him he was no good in bed...but you wouldn't believe the amount of times he texted me to see me again (and still does to this day) lol. So, really if you do meet a guy that says he has been with heaps and he isn't over 90 years old...then you have to ask yourself..."how shit in bed would this guy be"? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I don't think it is anyones business who or how many people you have slept with...same as it's none of their business when your last time was! I was with a guy a couple of years ago (not from sites) and he decided to tell me after we had sex about how many girls he was with...had I known this before, I would not have slept with him...but in saying that I will admit even if he hadn't told me I would never have had sex with him again anyway...OMG he was shit...watched too much porn I reckon! When he told me about ALL the girls he gets...I remember I cocked my head to one side and said "Do any of them ever come back"? Straight over his head...I pissed myself laughing and had the great pleasure of telling him he was no good in bed...but you wouldn't believe the amount of times he texted me to see me again (and still does to this day) lol. So, really if you do meet a guy that says he has been with heaps and he isn't over 90 years old...then you have to ask yourself..."how shit in bed would this guy be"? xFunlovingx Should I stop sending the text msgs?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Promiscuous people are promiscuous and that's all there is to it. I think some people get to a point of sexual maturity? where the "number" is totally irrelevant. Besides... what counts? Does a blow job count or does the number have to involve genitals penetrating ... what? Ok ... confusion reins. Let's face it, if you're say, in the gangbang scene you might be penetrated in one orafice or another say on a binge.. maybe 40 times in a weekend... so is that count as 40 or do we just ignore the blowjobs, mutual wanking and naked wrestling and concentrate on the truly penetrative intercourse? Do you have to cum to count it? Maybe we should have another category for sluts.... let's face it.. some of us probably lost count some time ago and the best record of a person's salubrious sexual activities are recorded against your "number" periodically down at the sex health clinic. Of course... that's what I heard. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
But apparently it does to some people. Personally the only thing that matters is that we are into each other!But if numbers are your game don't forget to apply the " Rule of three's".....Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
Never Ask......... Never tell...... That way you will never be disappointed.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I stopped counting years ago
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now... does a girl count a gang bang as 1 or does she count the number of people that are there??? hmmm As for me - numbers... I'm not interested in those kind of numbers... sure during discussion it may be something that comes up - but I'm not one to judge one way or the other.... hugs Wayne x
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RHP User
15 years ago
I wouldn't really care how many people our potential playmates have had, the only thing that I care about is that during their fun, they've been playing safely :)And whenever we've been asked, we always leave it very vague at just "a few" even though it's been well over that. Noone really needs to know exact figures but us :)Mrsf xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
5 women in total. 4 of them had multiple personalities. So that takes it up to mid range. Thank god I don't come of looking inexperienced Mr Handle
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andyrabbit
15 years ago
who counts ? Just remember the good times and laugh at the bad ones! Andy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Who counts... Exactly!!! I don't think I even know how many this year not because the number is high but I just don't care to count. Does practises make perfect?
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RHP User
15 years ago
So one would think that a fifty year old MAY theoretically have had more experience and more partners than a 20 something woman or then again, maybe not. The fifty year old may have been a virgin when she married and only recently split from hubby number one = one partner. Who really cares how many partners one or the other has had? It is really immaterial anyway as long as the attraction is there. I dont tell, it is no ones business but mine. And I dont ask either!
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RHP User
15 years ago
well .. perhaps with a body like that .... i wish i was
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'andyrabbit' who counts ? Just remember the good times and laugh at the bad ones! Andy i seem to be laughing a lot these days roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me the honest answer is "more than a few and less than enough"...and never really did bother to keep score. Well other than when it was "1" but I think that topic has been done to death. | I have a preference for women that would have a "low score" simply because they are more selective and most likely...more certain of what they want and if the equation comes out right, would then be much more likely to be a well suited companion. A bit of class over a piece of .... char grilled filet mignon has always suited, rare of course...and with a delightful companion at dinner. | The health issues are tantramount. Personally, I get checked between every woman I am with and proud to admit to that. I am in no hurry...bed hopping is fine for those that choose to do it, but I am just a bit of a clutz and might end up bouncing right on to the floor and breaking something vital! | Score ? Who cares. Quality of the experience makes a difference...and at all times a touch of class goes a long way!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think if he's counting and wanting too know yours, he is a little low on self confidence and he needs too know yours so not too over step his own sexual experience if he sleeps with you... or he really would like you too ask him how many he has slept with too boost his confidence as he thinks he is some super freak in bed and thinks that when he says his not so magic number you might go wow....when really he is probably quite rubbish bed...A number is only a number it means nothing more or less if he sleeps with 100 people or less than 10, its not really experience as some people would have fucked the same person 1000 times in a relationship
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' | I have a preference for women that would have a "low score" simply because they are more selective and most likely...more certain of what they want and if the equation comes out right, would then be much more likely to be a well suited companion. | Score ? Who cares. Quality of the experience makes a difference...and at all times a touch of class goes a long way! Now I am confused Midnight???? Did you just say 2 opposite things in the one post or am I a little fuzzy after a quiet night in alone? taby honey this is not a discussion you need to have with anyone - except maybe your Dr if required. Kisses Focus Off to check her bedpost the notches are there I'm sure of it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
wheres the fun in counting, I say just go for it...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi there I have a new boyfriend and he told me he is not on RHP but today his profile came up on the internet. He said he did not do it. He said that RHP had been placing profiles up that should not have been -they were old ones? Should I beleive this?
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RHP User
15 years ago
used ta roll a number before bed.help me sleep loike.does that count?????ahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
15 years ago
hmmmm to me it dont matter, the higher a womens number is the more likely i am to be next, rock on high numbers i say LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
... but if I am ever asked, the reply is always "why darling, you'll be my first..."
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wannabyummymummy
15 years ago
well as previously stated above, the only number that should count is my phone number!and i don't really think it is anyone's business except for mine (and my husbands') how many i have been with the important thing is that EVERY TIME is a safe time that is where the numbers count.Besides how does one count anyway? do you count ALL partners? just the guys? guys and girls? do you only count the one on one encounters? what about group situations?? aaahhhh the possibilities are endless.now for some numbers that DO count...................anyone got the winning lotto numbers for the week??
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RHP User
15 years ago
when you get to a certain age...and if your 20's was a wild decade...then you prolly wont remember half of all the peeps you slept with!Just be thankful you got thru it unscathed.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
there is some relevance to the question, i mean if they're still within the 1-5 number, its a pretty big thing and can really have an effect on someone if it goes badly.
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RHP User
15 years ago
The number means nothing and is not important. Quality does not come from quantity. Its much more important how enthusiatic and keen your partner is and how giving they are! It's all about attitude not experience
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RHP User
15 years ago
My number is 1...Does that say I'm a bad catch, or does it say that I have a lot of integrity? I've heard both.Each person has their own view. The lowness of my number is a bit circumstantial (long illness in teen years) but doesn't it also say something positive about me that I haven't slept around?Who knows.I'm a bit old fashioned. I consider sleeping with 4 people in a lifetime to be 'normal'. Of course... that doesn't mean I don't want to sleep with 100. *sigh*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'bikz_rider_20'wheres the fun in counting, I say just go for it... What they dont know , wont hurt them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Benji43'there is some relevance to the question, i mean if they're still within the 1-5 number, its a pretty big thing and can really have an effect on someone if it goes badly. Actually that is something I havent really considered.... I was struggling to know why it would be relevent to the person asking the question.. are you implying that people should ask so that they know whether to do a good job of it... or maybe .. so that you know... whether or not to approach the tender spots slow :p... My thoughts... take it slow at first anyway! It's true, an inexperienced lover ... some of the habit forming things we get up to during sex could be very confronting to someone who has little or no experience... so the question IS relevant! Kewl disucssion! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
im not sure these days how many people you have been with matters as long as you are always safe... having said that i do also agree with Zustiur that if a person is not experienced then the encounter may be seen differently from their point of veiw not to mention they may or may not have done more than standard intercouse and may not be ready for a more adventurous lover
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RHP User
15 years ago
I find this useful: "So are you wanting compare my maximum number at a time vs your maximum number? What year? Summer or off-season? On land, sea or air? Which continent? Gender? Vanilla or Hardcore? Or are you actually daring to ask my maximum total?" Usually sorts the men with manners from the boys seeking cheap thrills...or trying to impress me... I like men that aren't threatened nor that feel they need to know-that are interested in knowing me-good and bad. The ones that like me with questions-that also want to know.. How is it possible there are individuals out there that are this tiresome still breathing the same oxygen as us-continuing to ask this and other similarly inappropriate and personal questions? How is it we do tolerate them and practice self restraint-rather than ending them? *smirk* NymphetamineDrm
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mid to high....doesn't mean anything and couldn't care less either way
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