M44
The beard
February 12 2017
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DynamicCouple36
9 years ago
Is clean shaven, with regards facial hair - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Think you've answered why you're having this dilemma.... So I'd ask what is more important to you?? The compliments, your appearance, or how you feel?? When you nail that question....you'll see the path that you're asking us to show you.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
have a beard, then you have two mums... two beardless mums... WTF op??I have had a beard since I left school... sometimes I shave it down to a number one stubble.. MOSTLY it is full long and glorious.IF I miss out on a fck because some woman doesn't like it.. then too bad.. that is HER loss..I have been arrested, lost jobs, missed out on sex, denied access to places and generally judged poorly all my bearded life..but.. the beard stays.. fck everyone who has a problem with that....in fact.... I have a hairy arse too...and they can kiss that..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Every attempt to make themselves more generically appealing cost a person a little bit of their soul. Just go with whatever makes you feel like you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like the post-week beard look. So it is long enough to be quite soft. Any shorter and i find it irritates my face. But it isn't a must have, or anything.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...shave it. I get a ''5:00 stubble about 2:00 in the afternoon and fuck me dead if I'm shaving twice one day. PS...ladies don't forget your legs can sometimes use a garden whipper snipper!
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nattyocean
9 years ago
My boyfriend has a nice full beard and I love it and kick up a big fuss when he threatens to get rid of it 😠😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Cavey50 your rebeliouz. Like thatm im the same. Go against society. Some people just conform - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That rather than shave , I've had a beard for 46 years ( probably 45 1/2 as I have shaved it off occasionally) and I don't think its had any major affect on my sex life one way or another. Some women like and some don't and most are either attracted to me or repulsed by me for things other than the beard. Two advantages of having a beard...............1) even though I work mainly outside in the weather my facial skin under the beard is still relatively fresh and youthful2) after a good oral session the smell lingers delightfully keeping me smiling for longer
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am one of the women that love beards, not long, just nice and tidy. But i dont like just a mustache . Dont shave it off just to get a fuck, the right women will find you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I always find topics like this rather strange. Why? Well, I presume you grew a beard and kept it for the past year because YOU prefer it that way. So why does it matter what others want? Are you going to change your preferences just to accommodate the preferences of people you don't know? Come onnnnnnn. You've made a choice. Own it. 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I used to really loathe them and would always say that there was nothing quite like a smooth face (.. Between my thighs), but a beard recently came home with us after a Christmas camping trip and I must confess, I've grown rather fond of it and requested it not be shaved anytime soon. Some men have a face for them, others less so. At least for now, the beard can stay. Flirty x
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RHP User
9 years ago
hate facial hair. Big turn off for me, only have one guy I've let through with facial hair, and although I continue to see him, I still hate it, I'd prefer it gone. But if you're happy with it, like everyone else has said, it's your choice, not up to anyone to say whether you should keep it or not
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MissRedFox
9 years ago
Is a person confident enough to express themselves regardless of the opinions of others. I am disappointed that there's no pics of your achievement on your profile but while I was checking it our I noted you are looking for a young women so this old foxes opinion probably doesn't matter much anyway:) XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hubby has a glorious one, and I generally prefer a bit of facial hair on my others, but it's not a deal breaker - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
That is the question.... I always thought I would say clean shaven. Recently though I have been won over by men with soft short beards. It's part of their personality, their face, their look. The scent of me on their beard is quite intoxicating. I'm converted!! Who knew? Now I have more options!! Keep whatever makes you happy. In the end, you have to live with your face everyday in the mirror.... KH
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RHP User
9 years ago
To every situation. There's your side where you know how you feel about whether you like your facial hair or not, and then whether ladies find it a turn on or turn off on you. As far as the ladies - I'll admit I prefer a clean shaven face - only because I love kissing so much, and a passionate kissing session with a clean shaven man can still result in pash rash and deliciously swollen lips. Facial hair shortens the amount of time it takes for the slight burn to start and if it's prickly can be painful. But it's your body. It's important for us to style ourselves in how we feel most confident, comfortable and sexy. If I wear a dress I feel really self conscious in but think it's what men will like, then I'm not going to come across as sexy and fascinating to any man. The dress might catch their initial attention but that's it. If having a beard makes you the best version of yourself, then embrace it and wear it with pride. There are lots of women who find facial hair a turn on - on some guys I think it's hot!!!! It's the practical side for me. But for those of us who don't go wet for it, it still doesn't rule you out for quality women. They'll be attracted to you as an overall package facial hair or not. And usually won't let a beard deter them from someone they find more than just eye candy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
" the beard goes or I go" and you surrender. Your balls are in a jar on the mantle piece.
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
Thanks everyone. I honestly love my beard, makes me look a bit rough and it actually feels pretty good. Honestly if no one likes it I couldn't care less, I'm a big boy. One thing you have to learn is you can't make everyone happy. So far I have nothing but positive responses from women so I'm happy
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
Once it's been approved it will be up for a few hours, make your call on your opinion and let's have some fun with it.
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EarthQueen
9 years ago
Either/or it's all good as long as it's well maintained. From what I can see on your profile it suits you too. As others have said it's the complete package and confidence in yourself that's attractive. If you like it, that's all that matters and you will find a woman that feels the same. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't mind that week or so worth of stubble look, or even a goatee on a guy as long as it suits them, but not into full beards. As others have said though, it's your face so you do you.
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RHP User
9 years ago
All you need now is a $200 flanny and put some Coopers in your fridge.
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RHP User
9 years ago
have as little or as much hair as you like. Just be aware that some women's skin reacts badly to facial hair (really bad burn). OP...you have said yourself you look older with a beard which isnt too bad at your age, its even more aging as the man gets older, never understood that one.
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RHP User
9 years ago
OP, just do what you want re: keeping it or shaving it off...you can't please everyone, just try and please yourself ☺ I've had mine a few years now, wasn't sure how it would go with a bald head, but at least it makes me look less like a little kid lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Seen the pic, not for me, great body though 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love a beard, and yours is a good one... ;) Personally, I love a flannie too, but Coopers is so like 5 years ago 50z
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' have a beard, then you have two mums... two beardless mums... WTF op??I have had a beard since I left school... sometimes I shave it down to a number one stubble.. MOSTLY it is full long and glorious.IF I miss out on a fck because some woman doesn't like it.. then too bad.. that is HER loss..I have been arrested, lost jobs, missed out on sex, denied access to places and generally judged poorly all my bearded life..but.. the beard stays.. fck everyone who has a problem with that....in fact.... I have a hairy arse too...and they can kiss that.. I know I am very sleep deprived, but i have tears running down my face - too funny
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216' Personally, I love a flannie too, but Coopers is so like 5 years ago 50z I didn't like it 5, 10, 20, 30 yrs ago and I don't like it now, craft breweries are my scene and have been since um, the late 80's. But.... the hipsters seem to like it, rolling their bottles on the bar like they are soooooo in the know. Pftt Oh by the way people, Crownies and Coronas are pretenders, for pretenders .........just so you know. Wow, my inner bitch speaks today.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Betty7216'but Coopers is so like 5 years ago 50z After that comment, I'm not sure we can be friends any more..
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am just holding out for your ginger beer 😍 Besides, you know you love me 😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was just playing. Glad I could provide you with an opportunity to release your inner bitch, hope you feel better 😀 I personally love me a hipster, couldn't care less what brand of beer they drink - each to their own ;) *now wondering if beer tossers are outnumbering wine tossers 🤔
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RHP User
9 years ago
Didn't see the pics OP but from what I can see you I imagine you would wear a beard well. I'm a fan of a bearded man :) xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
It's a good thing I love you, because your lack of respect for Coopers is disturbing. #proudlybluecollarbeerdrinker 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you like it keep it, you're never going to be able to please everyone. I originally grew mine because my wife liked a beard, but I've grown to love it and couldn't imagine shaving it off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' It's a good thing I love you, because your lack of respect for Coopers is disturbing. #proudlybluecollarbeerdrinker 😉 It is very lucky for me
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RHP User
9 years ago
I love the clean-shaven look. I like the occasional stubble. But beards instantly douse my fire.
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RHP User
9 years ago
PurePeony is NEVER going to fuck you Caveman.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your hilarious I love it!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Like them clean and shaven - Posted from rhpmobile
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xtravtd80
9 years ago
Beards are so over rated and just make ya look like Ned Kelly wanna be's lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stuff what everyone else thinks, if you like the beard keep it. PS i fricken love beards - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm also probably not in your age category but beards look great on some men just as short hair looks great on some women. If its a look only thing, I love a little bit of a rugged look but mostly looks won't b the decider, who you are goes a lot further. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was blessed with luxurious beard for many years and never thought of changing. After the breakdown of my marriage I decided on a lifestyle makeover. I went to a barber, sat in the chair and let him do what he wanted. I now have a short, manicured beard that even ladies that weren't keen on beards find attractive. It takes some work, and I learnt use a cutthroat to achieve the look, but I haven't looked back. Maybe a similar compromise for yourself? Mr.G - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Some of these guys have a full on forest growing, it'd be like kissing a small marsupial 😀 That much facial hair is gross. Course, wiry, thick hair, hiding half the face, covering the mouth, explain how that is attractive. Blunt but given how hard it is for men to get replies from women here anyway, why add another reason to get rejected. I'm confused why men let themselves go. Too lazy to shave is the reason most grow a beard. Wonder what they'd think if we grew our body hair, all over, and grew a national forest, underarms, legs, pubic, full on bushy hairy all over, just because we like it 😉 my advice op would be to shave it off and win the chicks. I was trying to be nice in my other post, but it wasn't what I was really thinking. This is my honest opinion
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RHP User
9 years ago
It depends on the guy, some suit beards, some don't. I don't like long beards but a short manicured beard or stubble can be hot on the right guy. But generally I prefer clean shaven. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've had a beard longer than I haven't had one. I still get both compliments and complaints. But if they don't like it then it's their loss. I keep it relatively short and neat these days. But the responses have varied little. End of the day do what's right for you. No one is worth selling your soul for. NO ONE. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Was man born with a razor in his hand. No. The beard is the natural look so keep it tidy and everyone will grow to love it more.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Now that is as sexy as hell, I'm always lusting after Italian hairdressers who have that manicured but sexy look 😛
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RHP User
9 years ago
My moustache is so droopy it could be a beard with the centre shaved off. Good compromise. I can thin it out if I absolutely have to or turn it up at the ends and look like Sergeant Pepper! Admittedly some women may find the Zappata look intimidating. But hey...that's me. I would never force my views on anyone else. Some do - some don't.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mate if they don't like you with a beard then they will unlikely like you once you shave it off, so not only do you not get sex, but you have also shaved off your beard for nothing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Its entirely up to you mate? Why should you feel the need to satisfy someone else with your appearance? Its your body if you feel comfortable and love having a beard why get rid of it? Ive had my beard for just over 1 year now and i still love it, at times its gets annoying but i know if i got rid of it I'd hate myself for doing it. Its a personal choice mate, you do what you want - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I find women generally like clean shaven and why not they don't want rashes on there faces or sore thighs and pussy.Beards also unless washed before sex can cause infections as the hair carries whatever has been in contact ie food and drink.Young girls may like the stubble of younger men basically because they don't have a choice its the in thing nowadays it seems
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RHP User
9 years ago
Spot on Lady thanks for being brave and honest
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RHP User
9 years ago
Clean shaven or very short groomed facial hair. Beards are tickly and I find they ruin a perfectly nice-looking face - and I don't care what anyone says about them being 'tickly in the right places', wirey long hair scratching against my skin in any place is not a sensation I enjoy. Also, I call BS on the whole 'if they don't like you with a beard, they won't like you without it.' Particularly if we're talking about RHP experiences - we're judging based purely on physical appearances here so a beard can be a deal breaker. I went out with one guy a couple times (not from RHP) but his beard was a deal breaker for me. Then he shaved it off after I was in relationship. Terrible timing LOL totally woulda gone there if he was beardless. Just further on that ridiculous theory, would you like vagina so much if it was an unkempt overgrown forest? That would also be a deal breaker for me. Miss Little xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Though it does depend on the beard and the person. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
But its up to the individual. I think the young guys who grow these long beards look years older. I have friends with beards but I wouldnt have a lover with one.
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thesaintnsinner
9 years ago
Hubby has a nice beard...I love it! I def think it's more common these days and so long as you maintain it and wash it...it's sexy! I hate stubble...beards are soft and smooth. I think just keep it...it makes part of who u are. Some girls love it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
I had a drink with a lovely woman and she loved it, as per usual my conversations pretty much went dirty and she was excited to have the beard between her legs. Fun on Saturday and my fun run on Sunday
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RHP User
9 years ago
I shouldn't be shocked but I am.. Are we in high school? I'm not going to hook up with someone purely on looks. I must be the exception, I love hairy bodies on men and love 70s porn hairy women. Lol. I also love no hair and a smooth vjay jay! But all on a person who attracts me with chat and then the meeting. I also think a hairy mans face can be gentler on my skin than a clean shaved guy with quick growth. I get gravel rash always with a clean shaven stranger, but am I enjoying myself? Hell yes! I'm not thinking oh my, I need some aloe Vera, your hair is too spikey! Far out! If I'm thinking that, I shouldn't even be with that person as obviously there is no chemistry. Keep your beard if you like it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
From the canvassing of my lady friends, stubble is the go. However, anything maintained well has got approval. You can't please everyone...
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RHP User
9 years ago
The OP asked if we liked beards or not. I love hairy guys....but not on their face. Its personal preference. I take personality over looks but Im not fond of beards on guys or smoking. We all have deal breakers.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Absolutely!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'mroptimist' I find women generally like clean shaven and why not they don't want rashes on there faces or sore thighs and pussy.Beards also unless washed before sex can cause infections as the hair carries whatever has been in contact ie food and drink.Young girls may like the stubble of younger men basically because they don't have a choice its the in thing nowadays it seems Everything about this post makes my eyes roll. Please don't speak for, or make generalisations about women's likes/dislikes. The infection comment is simply ridiculous As for your next post, calling someone 'brave' for saying they don't like beards - wtf?? Like there was some danger involved in expressing a preference
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RHP User
9 years ago
...if you love your beard, then keep it and look for women who like bearded men or don't care either way.It's the thin end of the wedge here...if you compromise yourself for strangers over something you love, then what will you compromise about yourself next time?You don't NEED women and sex either. You always have your hand...worst case scenario.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not a lover of beards, tashes or whiskers, even my own! I now shave my face each day, and I think shaved pubes on men look ridiculous! If you're gunna shave your pubes, shave em bald as a badger, no stubble, and do the chest and everything else! Ladies, shave, wax or leave your mons natural, just not unkempt. Make sure you shower before you entertain me, and never, ever have a dirty arse, before you let a guy down there! M_D4
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RHP User
9 years ago
What do you guys think of those little "flavour saver " goatees between lower lip and chin ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Noooo. I thought it was called a 'clit tickler' and they get a no from me. I like a trimmed beard, but any other sort of manicuring of facial hair leaves me cold. Ohh, though I don't seem to mind when men do the hipster moustaches with the twirled edges/me runs and hides
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RHP User
9 years ago
If my playmate had a beard, I would take that as a cue that shaving legs, armpits and pussy is optional for me too ;-) Personal choice though - all these things are personal preferences. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I went most of my younger adult years shaven, the last few years I have kept it at a nice respectable length, not long. I made the choice after growing it out over a few Christmas holiday breaks, and people mentioned that it looked good on me, but I liked it which was the important part. I couldn't go back to clean shaven, I had a trimmer mishap a while back and it was the longest weeks of my life waiting for it to restore to its former glory. do what makes you happy! As many people will hate it as there are people who like it, so you have the last say! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
F**k shaving to get women! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Facial hair is great at tickling the clitoris..... well groomed beards are awesome for going down on a woman.....i've converted many a woman to a Bearded man. plus its kinky when she soaks your beard and has to kiss you after! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haaaaang on. You don't have a beard in your pictures. Pictures or it didn't happen 😉 Just on a side note, enjoyable viewing all the same lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
How the hell do you kiss passionately when the male has a full beard, doesn't it make your pussy sore. So girl do you also love hairy cocks and balls??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Kissing is not a problem apart from the odd loose hair, and it's not steel wool it is soft and does not hurt anyone anywhere. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I use to like clean shaven but a well looked after soft beard can be quite the turn on - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
I had my friend over and she loved it, went down on her for a while and she licked it, its soft and bouncy.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have facial hair at the moment. I like that it makes me look older and more mature, but it hate the feel of it in my face. I am definitely getting rid of it soon. I can always grow it again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Beards, facial hair, stubble, love it!! No to mustache they always look creepy. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Is impossible for me if a guy has a beard - I pass because it shreds my face. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Go the beard!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
On SBS website today: "Bearded men may be more attractive as long-term partners: Research". Which is an article about a paper published last year in the Journal of Evolutionary Biology, that finds : "…Our findings suggest that beardedness may be attractive when judging long-term relationships as a signal of intrasexual formidability and the potential to provide direct benefits to females." So, guess there are a few peeps in #TeamBeardy
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RHP User
9 years ago
Everything I've said about facial hair, ignore it. I saw this guy yesterday with facial hair and omfg 😛😜 so hot he took my breath away as I walked past 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
forgot to say that was a full beard. Hair/no hair, I would have jumped his bones 😜
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
Did she maintenance and buggered it up, its not all lost, just need to start again
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RHP User
9 years ago
Haha it will grow back 😉
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Dirtyandfriendly
9 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Haha it will grow back 😉 I should really leave it to the professionals
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RHP User
9 years ago
I prefer guys with facial hair. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
F - Absolutely love a beard! Feeling the roughness brush against my skin.... mmm yes! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I tend to get it at Midday. My only advice is to do what you you feel comfortable with.As you say OP, you've received mixed responses... from my own experience there are similar amounts of women that like a smooth face as there are that like some form of stubble/beard. Then there's the one's that say "I don't usually go for guys with a beard... but". Personality will shine through the heaviest of beards, and believe that whatever style you choose to rock... there will be someone (possibly many someone's) that'll appreciate it. I tend to redneck it up and chafe/rash terribly if I try shaving smooth on consecutive days... as a tactile person I also like the feel of my own stubble/beard... I'm open to keeping it to stubble or growing it long for a FWB/partner but I'll always rock some form of facial growth... besides, I don't think that I'm that unattractive and I'm willing to wait for someone who agrees with me/let my personality be the deciding factor. Cheers and beards Rusty
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