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October 01 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
ok.. no excuse for bad behaviour..BUT..you are on a public forum/relationship page.. with many times more males then females..males are opportunist hunters.. drunk or sober.they get home from the pub after being told to "Fuck off creep" and get onto their computer.. to try their luck there.without realizing OR caring that the same comments which got them rejected at the pub will NOT work online either.. I don't know how you are personally going to alter your profile or approach others on RHP to attract a better "Class" or prospective playmates.. but I do not think you are ever going to be able to avoid those who do not understand what they are. I looked at your profile..only two outstanding things (To me...)1) safe sex - "For all activities) I find this hard to believe.. EVER.. because all activities include hand jobs (Both sexes) Oral, kissing sucking and licking and a few other things we do unprotected.2) What am I looking for - "No idea" Well... deadbeat from the hotel is just going to reckon he fits your bill... All above stated with respect RedRouge, and I do hope you find some awesome playmates...
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
We all get those. But we get good messages too. So just block those that offend and move on. This place is great for hardening you up if you can survive the crap when you are not used to it. It also tunes up your bullshit radar but that's all trial and error until you get the right algorithms. Strap in and don't take all the shit on board that gets thrown at you. There are diamonds on this site. But as with everywhere, they are amongst the glass shards. Good luck
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
has put down in another fashion, there are a number of guys on site that do have appropriate manners, and on the other hand, well...... not always going to get winners. Many guys here are constantly being rejected one after the other and frustration and/ or poor manners will come to the fore. Will help you sort out the wheat from the chaff.... Tall
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
I rarely get messages like that, perhaps once a month. In the early days they would be more frequent, but once I removed the information in the sexual interest & fetish interest sections on my profile the crude messages stopped. Perhaps the information in there just fuels sexual fantasies for the one handed typing brigade. 🤣 I also agree that the "No idea" comment on your profile means anyone & everyone will contact you. I think you do know what you want, so let them know as well!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Miss rouge..... sadly there will always be the desperate and urgent types looking for somewhere to deposit their DNA. But the one advantage of those types sending you those dipshittery messages, is that they are doing you a favour. They are pre screening themselves long before you ever decide to meet them, or, get sexual with them. They're saving you time, effort and money by highlighting their unsuitability up front. Imagine how you'd feel if they made it through the message process to meeting, or further... sexual activity..... and you found out at that point that they were creepy, obsessive, desperate and flat out rejectable. So as sad and pathetic as it is that so many guys seem to think communicating in that way will actually be effective......They've helped you out DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for taking time to read and give advice. Redrouge - Posted from rhpmobile
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AKAHunk
8 years ago
guys are out there for sure. I think a lot of guys just get carried away with the idea that they'll score easily no matter what they say, just because it's more of a hookup site. Let them learn the hard way 😁 Just don't get discouraged in the meantime and leave entirely before you find a gentlemen (who still knows how to be ungentlemanly when required!) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I would rarely get a message as such, except when I first joined and also like Ms J, had that I was interested in most things in the fetish and sexual sections. Then I kinda figured, most people probably are being on here and if not, they are mre than likely willing to explore. In saying the above, there ARE some rude and insensitive cock wombles on here tho. Most I would say are sexually and emotionally immature, who more than likely look upon this site for a quick shag and I would bet they would more than likely, be the WORST shag on this lovely planet. Ignore the twat waffles or send a template message back to them then block.. Maybe I don't get those types of messages because of age. Over the hill now. The pasture is greener too..... 😁 Cavey..... wanna a root. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
8 years ago
Can't see anything wrong with your age ...... Maybe should look for some green pastures and ...... Tall
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have a theory... That such basic messages come from guys that are least likely to actually turn up even if you did organise something (not that you are likely to). Any supporting or contrary evidence to this? (I would view them as/like trolls, can say anything with the cover of anonymity, faceless and probably unwilling to actually show their face as such...)
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RHP User
8 years ago
And what kind of root would you like? Carrot, parsnip, beetroot, maybe a radish?
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' I have a theory... That such basic messages come from guys that are least likely to actually turn up even if you did organise something (not that you are likely to). Any supporting or contrary evidence to this? (I would view them as/like trolls, can say anything with the cover of anonymity, faceless and probably unwilling to actually show their face as such...) If for some unknown reason you gave them a chance, they would be too timid to turn up. There is psychology theory about it. In reality, they are more likely to live a subdued existence with a domineering wife. It's a form of vent to display the macho shit. Give the testosterone a run of the lead.I had one over the weekend. Although it stemmed from a flirt. You'd think I'd learn...... As soon as he had a message he let fly. Fastest block he's had. Arsewipe from ACT with a dick pic as profile........yeah, it was a slow Saturday night.....Water of this duck (Daffy)s back.
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Another who agrees with CT. I'd add that the message to see your pics is the first or second message, and their disappearing act is executed about 20 seconds after that. (Well they already had a hand on it, at least half mast as well 😎)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Carrots and radishes for me please. Although parsnips and beetroot are also delish when they're roasted
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Hawt1
8 years ago
Quoting 'ElkeM' Carrots and radishes for me please. Although parsnips and beetroot are also delish when they're roasted Ever tried Borsch? It is a russian beetroot soup served cold. I with my lesbian drinking buddy was in Melbourne and we found this Russian restaurant. I had often read of Borsch in novels from my favourite author Sven Hassel. It was nice to finally taste what he had written about so many times. I found it bland... but was totally surprised by cold soup lol Sorry OP nothing to do with the topic.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes this "....umm no I don't charge by hour and I am not a prostitute nor will skip along there. How bout safety etc." That's the little detail they skip over 😉 The ones that really irk me are the messages starting with a compliment over something I've said on the forum, that'll win me over 😉 then the offers to live with them rent free, offers to photograph me, all from visionless 60+ men lol Nice try 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
to the one who offered to smash various parts of me after reading my words you like topic. Three messages in a row 👌 Annie summed it up re ones you give a chance. Exactly my experience 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
I DO like "Straight to the point"
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RHP User
8 years ago
To OP I Have only joined a couple of months ago but I have found i get less of those types of messages on here than I did on Zoosk. I have been more open on here about what I am interested in and also stated that I wish to be treated like a lady. I have probably only had 4 crude messages out of the 300 or so i received. The ones I do get those types of messages from get my "advice" on how they should contact the next person. If they continue with the crude remarks they get blocked. I think you have already edited your profile with the advice given but you may want to be clearer about what you like or want. I'm not into anything too crazy can be interpreted according to the readers opinion on what that is. 2 years ago my experiences were fairly limited so my idea on that is different now to what it was then. Dont give up, there are some really great people on here.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Guys get sick of non replies also My standard first post is along the lines of "hello xxxxx love your profile and your pics are wow ❤, fun guy here who is insanely addicted to cunnalingus, happy to share pics if you are interested." If they reply then great, if notbthen...oh well 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No offence mate, I’m sure you mean well.... But ever thought about leaving any sex related talk to afterwards?? Cos honestly how do you know genuinely that you wanna engage in cunnilingus before you’ve ever really met/talked/hung out??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Maybe here and there. But they are few and far between haha. Usually the reply a message like 'hey wanna come over to my hotel room etc..' gets from me is... 'That's a no from me, you couldn't even be bothered to read my profile, I can only imagine what else you wouldn't be bothered to do. Doesn't seem like your interested in much other than getting your end wet. SNORE!' 😊
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just got this "Katie! How are you?" I'm actually swell thanks, but I'm not Katie. Just what I need, a psycho stalker who thinks I'm his wife or something 😕
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RHP User
8 years ago
unless someone is using my pictures, always possible
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ill always want to, i find all women attractive, if they find themselves attractive - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think men and women need to decide what they NEED versus WANT. If you think a bit deeper about it, respctful people will come out on one side ;) Best of luck everyone in finding what you need or want
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I seem to remember getting a message from a guy thinking I was Katie a year or so ago. Disturbing 😟
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RHP User
8 years ago
Seems there's a LOT of Ken's here looking for a Tour Guide Barbie!! 😂😂 It makes me laugh too much!! I'd prefer to take GI Joe on tour anyday! Much more personality 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
In this day and age of social media (or more commonly used as AntiSocial ) We as Adults should be making choices to dismiss those whom we rather not engage with and Not repost (or re-tweet) their lesser than appropriate words. Same goes here people! As a wise rabbit once said "if you can't say anything Nice, don't say anything at all!" .....and definitely don't repost it ! Saying Guys are all rude etc. says More about the caller than the caller 🤔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Never an excuse for speaking rudely to anyone. I wonder if half (or all) of the people who send messages like this actually talk this way in person. No thank you. Manners, sophistication and cheekily veiled innuendo win any day - It’s by far, more of a turn on! Agree with laugh_anytime completely - not worth a response at all - Posted from rhpmobile
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